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by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Have you ever experienced this? You go on a date and, from your perspective, you have a GREAT time! The conversation flowed easily, you had fun together, there weren\u2019t any awkward silences, and he even mentioned that he\u2019d love to see you again soon!<\/p>\n

And then\u2026<\/p>\n

You never hear from him again.\u00a0<\/p>\n

What is\u00a0that<\/em>\u00a0about, right?!\u00a0<\/p>\n

So many women get frustrated with this aspect of dating because it can be\u00a0so confusing<\/em>.<\/p>\n

When this type of thing happens to you over and over and over again, it\u2019s easy to make up stories about men in general, or about yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n

You think:\u00a0<\/p>\n

All men are flakes and dating is a waste of time.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

All men want is to sleep with me on the first date, and if I don\u2019t, then I\u2019ll never hear from him again.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019m too much for guys. They just don\u2019t get me.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

There must be something wrong with me because I never get asked out on a second date.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Sound familiar?\u00a0<\/p>\n

Here are some\u00a0DATING<\/strong>\u00a0SKILLS<\/strong>\u00a0that will help you to not just get asked out on a date with one man, but to be asked out on multiple dates with multiple men.\u00a0<\/p>\n

First, there are two things that are extremely important to remember when dating that will save you a lot of unnecessary heartache.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Remember that\u00a0you\u2019re not the only person he\u2019s going out with<\/strong>. He\u2019s most likely talking to other women besides you, going on multiple dates a week, and trying to keep everything straight, just like you are. This is NORMAL. It\u2019s how dating works. He\u2019s getting to know different women (you being one of them) to see who he wants to continue getting to know better and possibly\u00a0have a relationship with.<\/p>\n

So how do you handle this?\u00a0<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 You date more than one man at a time, too!<\/strong>\u00a0When you\u2019ve got multiple dates on your calendar and you\u2019re having conversations with more than one man at a time, it saves you from being so hyper-aware of what each of them are doing and helps you not get attached to someone too soon.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Want to stop picking up your phone anxiously every time it buzzes and feeling the constant disappointment that it\u2019s not him? Date this way. This is the game-changer. We promise you he\u2019s dating this way, so enjoy the dating experience more by doing this, too!<\/p>\n

The next best way to make yourself irresistible to a man and ensure that you get asked on that 2nd date is to be CONFIDENT.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you exude confidence, you don\u2019t pursue, you aren\u2019t overly complimentary, and you don\u2019t put pressure on a man to choose you. When you\u2019re confident, you don\u2019t give into the fears that he\u2019s not thinking about you or rationalize doing things (like texting him first, sending a funny meme or a great article) to get on his radar.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re confident, you wait to hear from him, giving yourself the gift of being pursued. You are PRESENT in the conversation when you\u2019re on the date, being in the moment and not in your head about what you should say and do. You show up as interested AND interesting because you know how to balance talking about yourself while also showing interest in him.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re confident, you smile, compliment him, and let him know that you\u2019re having a good time. You don\u2019t complain about him or about your life, you show positivity, lightness and fun.\u00a0This is what makes you irresistible to a man.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n

So, if you aren\u2019t currently feeling confident about yourself in dating how do you get there?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

BELIEVE IT AND BE IT.\u00a0<\/p>\n

BE confident.<\/strong>\u00a0Be present on the date and remind yourself that you\u2019re simply getting to know someone. Take the pressure off of yourself and him. Relax and have fun getting to know another human being.\u00a0<\/p>\n

And smile.<\/strong> \ud83d\ude42 Smiling transforms nervous energy to excited energy! So, if at any moment you aren\u2019t sure what to say or you feel things are getting awkward, just smile and take a sip of your water, and wait for him to make the next move.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Dating is meant to be fun! And who wouldn\u2019t want to go out on a second date with a woman who is confident, light, and fun?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019d like to learn even more dating skills, or you know someone who would,\u00a0join us for our 2-day event, \u201cExtraordinary Love NOW!\u201d, which is happening NEXT weekend \u2013 September 13th and 14th<\/sup>\u00a0\u2013 in Miami, FL.\u00a0<\/strong>We\u2019ll be teaching 2 FULL DAYS of deep, HeartWork<\/em> that WILL transform the way you feel about dating AND the RESULTS that you\u2019re currently experiencing.\u00a0 And, by the way, we\u2019re doing it\u00a0ABSOLUTELY FREE!<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n

Learn More Here<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Dating really can be fun! You just need to have the right skillset and know how to start BEING that Irresistible Woman that a man asks out again and again!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Not local and want a real shift in your experience of dating? Schedule time to speak with our team and get ready to have the love you want!<\/p>\n

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