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by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n One of the pillars of what we teach <\/span>\u2013 <\/span>\u00a0something that\u2019s absolutely fundamental to creating the passionate, intimate, connected, loving relationship that you desire <\/span>\u2013 <\/span>is having a crystal-clear vision of what you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n And we mean <\/span>crystal<\/i><\/b>-clear. Not just kinda-sorta knowing what you want. Not just having a list of expectations of what your man must have. And not just having it written it down, but still not <\/span>really<\/span><\/i> believing that you can have it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We\u2019re talking about <\/span>being able to see it, feel it, taste it, smell it, AND believe that it will happen.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Without that level of clarity, you will settle for what you think you can get.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n We hear it from clients all the time,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cWhat if this is the best I can do?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cWhat if I let this one go and have to wait another 10 years?!\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cWhat if what I want is unrealistic?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cWhat if it\u2019s just not possible for me?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n I was talking with a client the other day who was telling me about the beautiful vision she has for love. It was a vision of fun and laughter and connection and joy. hen, in the middle of describing it to me, she stopped, and said, <\/span>\u201cI know, it sounds crazy. There\u2019s no way this is possible. It\u2019s too much\u201d<\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Was she asking for a man with 5 hands? No.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Was she asking for a man that owned 5 islands? No.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Was she asking for a man with 17 eyes. No.<\/span><\/p>\n Now, that is unrealistic (and a little absurd)!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n As we dug deeper, we discovered that a childhood (and lifetime) of feeling like there was never enough and that she was always asking for \u201ctoo \u201cwas the reason she had this limiting belief. She realized what it was costing her to continue holding onto the belief that what she wanted was too much and not possible for her, and she decided that it was time to break through it NOW!<\/span><\/p>\n Desiring to have a relationship that is full of fun and laughter and connection and wonderful sex \u2014 none of that is too much. Everything about that is possible, AND it\u2019s possible for <\/b>you<\/b>.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n Creating that vision and the reality of creating it comes from clarity.<\/span><\/p>\n Clarity asks the questions:<\/b><\/p>\n \u201cWhat do I want to experience in the relationship of my dreams?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cWhat am I going to bring to the relationship so that I can experience that?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cHow can I BE the love that I want to see?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Clarity is not about knowing what qualities you want your man to have. <\/span>It\u2019s about knowing what you want to experience in the relationship of your dreams, and then BEing those things.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n BEing the respect you want to experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n BEing the love you want to receive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n BEing the fun.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n BEing the passion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n And what does<\/span> BEing<\/span><\/i> look like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Taking action. But not just any kind of action.<\/span><\/p>\n It means taking the kind of action that is <\/span>aligned<\/span><\/i> with your vision.<\/span><\/p>\n Having all the faith and clarity in the world will get you absolutely nowhere without taking action.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n A vision without action is nothing but a wish. And wishing is not a real strategy for getting what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n Which is why we want to invite you to our 2020 Love Vision\u00a0 Workshop, happening in just a few days. We\u2019l lbe walking you through a deep process to help you actually physically experience the clarity you are seeking.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n But it won\u2019t stop there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You will walk away from the event, not just with a crystal-clear vision, but with a PLAN to carry it out. With the actual steps to make it a reality.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n