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\u00a0by Michelle Roza\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Are you holding on to the energy of a past relationship?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe it\u2019s a story of unrequited love.<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe you\u2019re angry that it didn\u2019t work out, or confused because you were so sure that it was right.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Maybe what\u2019s underneath the anger is the unrelenting sadness that you\u2019re alone and you\u2019re afraid that will never change.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Whatever the reason you\u2019re afraid to let go, it\u2019s the reason why you aren’t calling in the love that you want and desire.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n The fact of the matter is this–\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You can\u2019t cheat energy.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n You can\u2019t say one thing when you\u2019re really feeling something else and expect to attract what you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n In other words: You can\u2019t say you desire a loving, connected, committed relationship while at the same time continuing to spend time agonizing over a past lover and expect to call in the man and relationship of your dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n Your energy flows where your attention goes, so you\u2019ve got to get your energy clear first.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n You may be thinking, <\/span>What\u2019s the big deal? We\u2019re just friends.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n Well, think about this…<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019re looking for and meet an honest, respectable, monogamous man who’s interested in a long-term committed relationship, but you\u2019re still tied up emotionally with someone else, he\u2019ll be able to <\/span>feel <\/i>it.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Men are incredibly perceptive to energy, and he will feel that you aren\u2019t 100% available. If he\u2019s a good man, he’ll leave.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Think about it. You\u2019ve probably had that experience, too.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n You were interested in a guy, but for some reason you couldn\u2019t quite understand, you felt like there was someone or something else vying for his attention.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n It just doesn\u2019t work. (<\/span>Energy is everything!)<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n When you\u2019re leaving placeholders in your life, the energy doesn\u2019t lie.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n So how do you learn to let go — for real?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I remember back when I was on a break from dating my husband Arnie. I was so sure that he was the man for me, but he didn\u2019t quite feel the same way. For a while after we broke up, I was still holding on. I was so confused as to how I could feel<\/span> this sure<\/i> about someone and he not feel the same way.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I started dating other men, but when one of them straight up said to me he could feel that I wasn\u2019t over Arnie, I knew something had to shift.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I became aware of how I was ruminating on why <\/i>it didn\u2019t work out. <\/span>I was stuck in what \u201cshould have been,\u201d and wasn\u2019t accepting what was.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I realized that in order for me to create what I really wanted – <\/span>to not just love someone, but be \u201cin love\u201d with someone that loved me dearly in return <\/b>– I needed to let go.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I realized that I could still feel love and send love to one person while being present with someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n Just like I love both of my sisters, both of my children, and many, many friends,\u00a0 I could continue to love Arnie, while at the same time releasing the attachment to him and give my love to someone else.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n So what about you<\/i>?\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n Are you leaving the door open for someone that keeps coming back but you know it\u2019s never going to last?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Are you so afraid of the feeling of being alone that you have yourself convinced that you\u2019re in a relationship that doesn\u2019t – and maybe never did – exist?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Are you well past the mourning period of a relationship (because that part of a relationship ending <\/span>is <\/i>necessary) but you\u2019re keeping yourself stuck because you\u2019re not accepting that it\u2019s over?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n If any of this sounds familiar, we\u2019ve got you!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n These patterns are so deeply tied to your confidence, self-worth and what you think you can have and deserve, which is why it\u2019s such an important thing to address within yourself!\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Plus, this is usually happening on such a <\/span>subconscious <\/i>level that it requires learning how to become aware of it so you can learn how to shift it.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And that\u2019s where we come in.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019d like to talk about how we can support you to get underneath the pattern of staying stuck and attached to something or someone\u00a0 that is no longer serving you, please book a call with us.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t until my coach at the time pointed out to me how I was staying stuck and what was actually possible for me that things changed and I created the life and love that I have today!\u00a0<\/p>\n