{"id":9857,"date":"2020-06-12T13:44:12","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T17:44:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/?p=9857"},"modified":"2021-02-22T19:28:13","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T00:28:13","slug":"how-to-be-someone-to-be-admired","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heartsdesireintl.com\/home\/how-to-be-someone-to-be-admired\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be Someone to Be Admired"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\">by Gladys Diaz\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Who\u2019s someone you <i>really <\/i>admire?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Someone you look up to? Someone who&#8217;s made a difference for you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Who would you\u00a0 like to be more like?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What characteristics do they have that you admire?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Do they show <i>integrity<\/i>? Are they <i>authentic<\/i> and <i>real<\/i>? <br \/> Maybe they have <i>high energy<\/i> that\u2019s contagious. <br \/> Are they <i>loving<\/i> and <i>generous<\/i>? <br \/> Are they <i>dignified<\/i> and show <i>grace<\/i> under fire?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Take Oprah, for example. There is just such an amazing way that she exemplifies grace under fire. She is compassionate while being rigorous. She is kind while being strong. She speaks up and takes a stand without being reactive. She is dignified.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Those are just a few of the things that we look up to in women.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">How about you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Oftentimes, we recognize things in others that we\u2019d like to develop more of in ourselves.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Whether you\u2019re in a relationship or dating, it\u2019s essential to be self-aware. To be able to recognize the places within yourself that are your opportunities for growth.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We say, \u201c<i>opportunities for growth,\u201d<\/i> because it\u2019s not that you\u2019re doing anything wrong or that you\u2019re trying to be something you\u2019re not. One of the biggest sources of stress in dating and relationships comes from being inauthentic or trying to be someone you\u2019re not.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">We say \u201copportunities for <i>growth<\/i>,\u201d because recognizing the areas in which you\u2019d like to develop are opportunities for higher levels of self-esteem, confidence and more desired experiences.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And all of those things are highly attractive, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s like that awesome quote by Sophia Bush says:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>\u201cYou are allowed to be <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>both <\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"><b>a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously.\u201d\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You can strive to develop yourself while also exercising self-love and grace and always striving to be your authentic best.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>So what are the <i>ways of being<\/i> you\u2019d like to embody ?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Here are some ideas from our community:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Confident<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Real<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Authentic<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Good Listener<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Forgiving<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Genuine<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Considerate<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Respectful<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Loving<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Physically Fit<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Graceful<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Honest<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Gentle<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Integrity<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">A finisher<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Committed<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Disciplined<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Focused<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Owning a State of Ease<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sense of Humor<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Smart<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Generous<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Grit<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Humble<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Solution Oriented<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">And those are just a start!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">What is it for you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Choose two ways of being that would make the biggest difference for you and for those around you that you can focus on embodying this week.\u00a0<\/b><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">And remember to <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\">make it<\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"> <\/span><b style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><i>fun<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">!<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">There is a natural human desire to grow. There\u2019s so much fulfillment and satisfaction that comes from recognizing your growth opportunities and doing something about them!<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">If you\u2019d like help recognizing what some of those opportunities are for you, book a Love Breakthrough Call. That\u2019s what we\u2019re here for!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">Sometimes, the thing holding us back is in our blind spot, and all it takes is someone to lovingly point it out, help us remove it and replace it with something else that makes all the difference.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\"><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/live.vcita.com\/site\/heartsdesireinternational\/online-scheduling?service=1c4bd3fa\" style=\"font-size: 17px;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now<\/b><\/a><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span style=\"font-size: 17px;\">We look forward to hearing the ways in which you\u2019re stretching yourself this week!<\/span><span class=\"s1\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><span class=\"s1\">YOU can be the woman you most admire when you BE the love you want to see!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><span class=\"s1\"><i><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Gladys Diaz\u00a0 Who\u2019s someone you really admire?\u00a0 Someone you look up to? Someone who&#8217;s made a difference for you? Who would you\u00a0 like to be more like?\u00a0 What characteristics do they have that you admire?\u00a0 Do they show integrity? Are they authentic and real? Maybe they have high energy that\u2019s contagious. 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