by Gladys Diaz
“Why does dating have to be so hard?”
“Keeping a relationship happy is hard work.”
These are comments I hear almost every day from single women and those who are in relationships, alike. What happens when we consider something to be hard, difficult, or burdensome?
We resist it!
Dating successfully and having a happy, loving relationship that lasts for a lifetime does take some work. However, it doesn’t have to be “hard work,” and knowing the skills and habits that help make it easy certainly makes the work a lot more fun!
If you don’t see dating as something that is exciting and fun, it’s probably safe to assume that you’re doing whatever you can to avoid it. Perhaps you’re choosing to sit on your couch in PJs night after night, instead of going out with your friends, dating online, or attending a party or social event. You may be avoiding eye contact with or smiling at men so that you don’t even have to deal with having an actual conversation. Or maybe you’ve taken to finding everything that is wrong with any potential suitor so you don’t have to risk the dates turning into a committed relationship.
If you don’t see relationships as fun, then it’s possible that you’re avoiding being in one at all costs. Perhaps you’re finding yourself continuously attracting men who are unavailable. Maybe you’re choosing to stay in a long-term relationship that’s not filled with romance and fun, because you really don’t see that as being possible for you. It’s also possible that you’re choosing to stay in the relationship to avoid dating (see above!).
Whatever choices you’ve been making, if you don’t see dating and relationships as fun, chances are very high that you’re avoiding them, downplaying how much you really want to be in a great relationship, and cheating yourself out of some of the most wonderful experiences of your life!
Fun relationships begin with fun dates and keeping the fun alive is one of the things that helps make love last!
So, how exactly can you ensure that you’ll have more fun on your dates and continue to have fun with the guy you choose to be the one you’ll spend the rest of your life with?
Join Michelle and me for two fun-filled events this week that are sure to change your perspective on dating and relationships and turn that smirk into a full-fledged smile!
This Wednesday, at 8:00pm, tune into Own Your Power Radio Network and join Michelle’s husband, Arnie, and me, along with show hosts, Simone Kelly and German Dubois, for a FUN and informative interview on “How to Have Him Fall in Love and Stay in Love!”
If you’re single, you’ll:
- learn how and where to meet more quality men
- discover how make dating fun
- remove the fears and excuses that stop you from meeting the man who is absolutely perfect for you
If you’re in an exclusive or committed relationship, you’ll:
- receive guidance regarding your next move
- determine whether your settling
- discover what you can do improve it
The best part is that, if you have access to the Internet, you can listen from anywhere in the world!
Tune in on Wednesday, October 23rd, from 8:00-9:30pm ET
HIT RADIO Player: www.ownyourpowerlifestyle.
On your phone or tablet: www.live365.com/
The 28th
SINGLES’ LIFESTYLE EXPO
Sunday, October 27 beginning at 3:00 pm
at the Pavilion Grille, 301 Yamato Rd. Boca Raton, FL
For those of you who live in South Florida, join Michelle and me at the 28th Singles’ Lifestyle Expo this Sunday, October 27th, from 3-7pm!
We’ll be leading an interactive session where we’ll provide coaching, answer your questions, and give you practical tips for making your dating experience fulfilling and FUN!
GREAT NEWS!
You can attend this fantastic all-afternoon-and-evening session for only $5.00!
Simply text the word SINGLES and send it to 63975
Show the text you receive in response to the Registration personnel at the Expo and you’ll only pay $5.00 for the all-inclusive Expo admission!*
Spread the L-O-V-E by sharing this code with your friends!
SEE: Over 80 Exhibitors displaying products and services
specifically designed to enhance Single Living.
(3:00-6:00pm at the Trade Show)
ENJOY: Speed Dating – your chance to meet lots of new
singles while experiencing this growing and fun
phenomenon! (5:00-7:00pm)
ATTEND: Interesting, informative and entertaining seminars
about dating and relationships, including The Love
Twins, Gladys Diaz & Michelle Roza of Heart’s Desire
International:”Dating and Relationship
FUNdamentals!”
EXPERIENCE: One of South Florida’s biggest and best Singles’
Dance Parties where you’ll have the chance to meet
and mingle with hundreds of interesting,
contemporary singles. Exciting Music with live DJ
and your favorite music. (7:15-11:00pm)
PICK UP: Your free copy of the Show Directory that will feature
ads from singles’ groups and organizations, as well as
listings for all of the exhibiting companies.
For Exhibitor or Attendee Information: Contact Al Barry, Show Manager
albarry@bellsouth.net / (305) 448-7976
*Note: This offer does not supersede other advance sales already transacted – and expires Saturday 10/26/13 at 11:59 pm.
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