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How to Unlock the FUN, EASE and JOY of Dating:The Power of Dating with Purpose

by heartsdesireintl | May 26, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice

by Gladys Diaz

Are you dating just to date?

Or are you dating to meet your future husband?

Most of the ladies in our community are tired of wasting their time and are ready to meet their husband now!

And it’s possible! You can meet your husband THIS SUMMER!

How do I know? Because it happened to me!

One summer day I was stood up…

And that night I met my husband! If you would have told me that was going to happen – I would have said you were crazy!

But I went out to a reggae club and before I walked in, I set an intention that I was going to have fun…

And man, I did!

When people ask Ric what attracted him to me that night, he says it’s because I stood out because I was glowing and having so much fun.

Dating with Purpose

Now, in a world filled with swipe culture and fleeting encounters, dating with purpose is imperative to building meaningful connections.

It involves a conscious decision to embark on a journey of self-discovery and genuine exploration, seeking relationships that align with your values and long-term goals.

Dating with purpose emphasizes intentionality, personal growth, and the pursuit of connections that have the potential to flourish into fulfilling partnerships.

It’s about being intentional about your dating choices and focusing on quality over quantity.

Is it okay to go on lots of dates?

Of course!

But be willing to take the time to really get to know the men you’re dating so you can see beyond surface-level attractions.

When you date with purpose, you’re actively seeking relationships that align with your values, goals, and vision for the future.

Clarifying Your Values and Goals

In order to date with purpose, it’s crucial to gain clarity about your values and goals and what you want to experience inside the relationship of your dreams.

Take time to reflect on your personal values, what matters most to you, and what you’re looking for in a partner and relationship.

What do you want to feel when you’re together?
How do you want to feel when you’re apart?
What do you enjoy doing together?
Who are you when you’re in his presence?
Who is he?

This self-reflection will serve as a compass, guiding you towards relationships that have the potential for long-term fulfillment.

Embrace Personal Growth

Dating with purpose goes beyond the pursuit of finding a partner; it’s also about personal growth and self-improvement.

Dating is an opportunity to learn more about yourself, your preferences, and your boundaries. As you engage in meaningful connections, you’ll gain even more insights into your own desires and aspirations.

Every interaction and relationship can serve as a valuable learning experience, enabling you to grow and evolve as an Irresistible Woman.

Intentional Dating and Patience

Dating with purpose requires investing time and energy into building genuine connections.

It’s not about having a timeline, which can make you feel anxious and frustrated.

Remember that dating with purpose isn’t about rushing into a relationship but rather about allowing connections to unfold naturally and authentically.

It involves actively engaging in conversations, asking meaningful questions, and truly listening when you’re on dates. Have conversations that go beyond the superficial small-talk, and delve into values, interests, and long-term compatibility.

As you get to know men on a deeper level, you’re able to see if he’s a man who inspires you, challenges you intellectually, and supports your personal growth.

Practice vulnerability by expressing your desires, fears, and aspirations with potential partners. Allow yourself to be seen and understood, creating a foundation of trust and authenticity.

Navigating Setbacks and Rejections

Along the journey of dating with purpose, setbacks and rejections are inevitable, right?

Not every date and connection will be a perfect match, and that’s okay.

Embrace these challenges as opportunities for growth and refinement. See them as stepping stones towards finding your perfect match!

Remember, each experience teaches you something about yourself and what you truly desire in a relationship.

Now listen, there’s a lot of information out there about how to date, how not to date and how to find your husband!

And if you feel like you keep attracting men that aren’t aligned with what you’re looking for, men that only want to “hang out” or aren’t looking for a committed relationship…

Or if there’s anything that you’ve been bumping up against that’s taking you off of your purpose, confusing you, or having you self-sabotage your ability to easily attract the man that you want to marry – schedule a complimentary Love Breakthrough Session with one of our coaches.

On the call you’ll gain clarity, see what’s getting in your way and work through the setbacks so you can enjoy the journey of dating!

Our purpose and intention as your coaches is to provide you with coaching, training and support that will make the path to you attracting, meeting and marrying the man that you’re going to spend your life with easier, fun, and fulfilling!

Because dating gets to be easy and fun!

And you absolutely CAN meet your husband this summer!

The Key to Transform Your Love Life: Overcoming Fear and Finding Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 20, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Romance, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Are you ready to break through your deepest fears when it comes to love?

Even if you’ve done “all the work” and your brain is saying:

“I’ve already dealt with it.”

“I’ve done all there is to do!”

“I’ve worked through my fears.”

– If you’re not in the relationship of your dreams yet, there’s still a hidden fear or limiting belief available for you to uncover!

That’s why it’s so important that you work with a strong mentor who can help you see the piece (your blindspot) you’re not seeing yet so you can have a real breakthrough!

The type of heart-changing experience that rises above and beyond what’s ordinary and creates an energetic shift that transforms you and the way you’re showing up in your life.

That’s powerful and it’s what we’ll be teaching you this weekend at the Detox Your Love Life Masterclass!!!

Since a breakthrough is an experience above and beyond the ordinary – it’s usually not something you can create for yourself. A real breakthrough requires the support of someone who can see what you can’t see AND support you in transforming it.

Creating a breakthrough in your life requires the assistance of a coach.

On top of having a coach, you must be:

1) Committed to having a breakthrough and declaring what you want.

2) Willing to move past what’s comfortable

3) Ready and excited to apply the coaching

Let’s dive deeper.

1) Committed to Having a Breakthrough and Declaring What You Want.

A declaration is not a list of things you don’t want or what you’re tired of creating.

A declaration is a powerful statement with crystal clarity of what you do want.

If you can’t articulate what you want, you’re not going to get it.

So what do you want?

What’s the ONE thing that if it was no longer in your way would accelerate your experience and have you create the relationship of your dreams?

Once you know that – that’s the first step to creating a breakthrough!

2) Willing to Move Past What’s Comfortable

Doing what you’ve always done will get you the same results you’ve always gotten. The relationship you’ve always dreamt of is outside your comfort zone!

You must prime your brain to stop the repetitive and sabotaging patterns that keep breaking your heart and are keeping you from reaching your goals in love.

In order to create the right relationship with the right man, you must take the right steps given to you by the right coach!

3) Be Ready and Excited to Apply the Coaching

Again, since a breakthrough is something above and beyond the ordinary, it’s going to take doing something above and beyond what you’ve always done.

The coaching you receive might not make perfect sense because it’s going to be something different. But if you’ll trust your coach and apply the coaching we give – you’ll have an extraordinary transformation!

You get to have a breakthrough so that you don’t keep doing the same patterns over and over forever and never create the results you want.

And the best news of all is that this weekend we’ve got the perfect opportunity for you at the Detox Your Love Life Masterclass!

Register for the FREE Masterclass NOW!

If you’re tired of not having the relationship of your dreams and can’t figure out what’s still in the way…

If you want to attract more love and are frustrated that you’re doing all the things and still not getting the results you want.

If you’ve been waiting a long time to start enjoying life with the RIGHT partner, but the clock keeps ticking and nothing is changing.

If you’re ready to have the loving, supportive, connected, safe love you desire – then you get to have a breakthrough NOW!

Join us Saturday (and be open and willing to receive) and we promise you’ll walk away with a breakthrough.

How long has it been since you’ve been in a safe, strong, beautiful, inspiring relationship?

How long have you been waiting to create the relationship of your dreams?

This really can be the moment everything changes for you.

Click HERE to register. We’ll see you there!

3 Steps to Stop Doubting Yourself and Attract the RIGHT Man NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 7, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever doubt yourself?

Do you ever question whether or not you’ve made the right decision about a career move, whether or not to keep dating someone you’ve grown to care about, or where to live?

What does it feel like to not be able to trust yourself to make the best decisions for your future?

One of the top things we hear from women, successful, driven, passionate women like you, is that they have a hard time trusting themselves.

And that lack of self-trust leaves them feeling disempowered and afraid.

When you can’t trust yourself life becomes a lot more scary than it actually is!

Whether you’re looking for a love that will take you around the world, bring you children and an expanded family or simply love and support in your already amazing life, we’re certain that you want your intuition to guide you to a good man who’ll be a good match for you and all of your hopes and dreams.

So what if you don’t trust yourself to find him?

What if you worry that your “picker” is broken or that you always choose the “wrong” men?

When you don’t trust yourself then what chooses for you isn’t you.

What chooses instead are your fears.

Your thoughts that you’re not good enough…

The fear of ending up alone forever…

Remembering all the “wrong” men you’ve attracted in the past and disbelief that anything will ever be any different.

Thinking you’ll be taken advantage of like you were before…

When these are the thoughts swirling around in your mind it’s debilitating and life and love feel scary as hell.

So how do you break through these fears and begin to trust you again?

Acceptance. First you get to accept yourself and everything about your past.

If you allow your past to determine your future you’ll always feel like you have something to prove, like there’s something to overcome, like you have to work to not become your mother or make the same mistakes you’ve already made.

Your past doesn’t have to define you, tell you who you are or let you know what you can expect of your future.
Forgiveness. Second, you get to forgive the version of you that chose the painful experiences of the past so you can heal and move forward.

You get to remove the emotional charge behind the memories so that they no longer have power to influence your present and future.
Clarity. After you’ve healed your past you can stand powerfully in who you are in the present. Then, and only then, can you be clear about what you want for your future.

Once you have crystal clarity around what it is that you want to experience in a relationship, you’ll be able to stand for the man and relationship you want instead of settling for whatever’s there.

It’s incredible what opens up when you’re able to accept and love yourself fully!

When you know what you want and can be yourself without reservation you feel happier and more comfortable with yourself because the real you is showing up!

Your intuition becomes stronger and you’re more and more able to make the decisions that are right for you quickly and without reservation or doubt.

And…

You’re able to attract the type of men that you WANT to be with and that want to be with the real you too!

If that’s something you want, then join us on Saturday for the Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass!

In this fun, interactive 3-hour workshop, you’ll:

Identify the barrier that have the fears and doubts show up instead of the right man
Gain Clarity about what you want in a relationship
Discover what men are looking for and what repels them
Manifest the life and love your heart desires for a LIFETIME

If that’s what you want – then click HERE to register for this free event!

Once you register, you’ll receive love notes throughout the rest of this week so you can receive support in love starting NOW and so you can come prepared on Saturday to meet the RIGHT man now!

We can’t wait to see you there!

The ONE Thing You Need to Know to Attract TRUE LOVE Into Your Life!

by heartsdesireintl | Feb 13, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever wonder whether or not extraordinary love is possible for you?

Do you fear you’ll never find someone who will see you, love you, hear you and want to share a life with you?

If you answered yes to either of those questions, you’re not alone and…

I know how you feel because I felt the exact same way for years.

After my husband cheated on me and we got divorced, putting myself out in the dating game again was not only hard and terrifying – it left me feeling doubtful and discouraged that I’d ever find someone who would love me again.

It wasn’t until I discovered the secret I’m going to share with you today that my love life, and whole life actually, were transformed.

This secret isn’t about doing something “more” or “better” than you’ve done in the past.

It points back to ONE fundamental thing and if you don’t know how to create this ONE thing, it will lead you to 5, 10, 20 more years of not creating the love and life that you want.

When I look back at who I was and what my life looked like BEFORE I learned this secret and who I became and how my life transformed AFTER, it’s like looking at 2 different lives!

What it all boiled down to was this…

Really being IN the experience of being in love with myself.

And not in a conceited, arrogant or entitled way.

And not in a weekly massages and pedicures kind of way either.

Loving myself at a deep, raw, true level so that when I looked in the mirror, I didn’t compare myself to my best friend or the actress on TV. I didn’t wish my thighs were smaller or that my teeth were straighter.

And when I looked myself in the eyes, I didn’t wish I was funnier, smarter or more successful.

I knew in my heart that I was enough, that I was love-able and that I would find someone else who felt the same.

And once I became whole in that way – only then was I able to create something extraordinary with someone else.

That’s the secret to creating real love and that’s why we’re hosting the Self-Love Secret Mission Challenge this week!

When you develop this type of love within yourself you:

💖 Have the courage to be who you really are

💖 Don’t have to spend days, months, years, (or even minutes!) recovering when someone makes you feel unloveable

💖 Communicate in a way that exemplifies true love and true power

💖 Speak your “truth” without having it look like your anger on a loud speaker.

💖Know at the ultimate level that you’re enough and be able to create an extraordinary relationship with another human being who knows and feels the same

Because until you develop this deep love within yourself, no one else’s love will make a difference.

Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day and we’re committed to YOU elevating what you’re doing in life and love so that you can have everything you dream of!

The Self-Love Secret Mission Challenge begins TONIGHT at 6pm EST and you get to be there!

This week can be the week that bridges the gap between where you are now and where you want to be because your love for yourself expands.

Here’s what ladies have said about the transformation this challenge created for them:

“My biggest takeaway from the Self-Love Secret Mission is that I am more than enough just as I am, and that I am my biggest champion! I now believe with all my heart that I will attract a high-quality man with whom I will create the relationship of my dreams! I highly recommend this challenge to anyone willing to love themselves like never before. You will truly fall in love with yourself!” -Cari

“Before I did The Self-Love Secret Mission, I felt stuck and like I needed change in my life and some direction. During the mission, I learned that self-love is a holistic act in that you feed your self with love, talk to yourself with love, eat food and think loving thoughts about yourself. I realized that I’ve been so negative about being in a relationship for years so now it’s just a process of noticing my self-talk, changing my limiting beliefs, and knowing I don’t have to do it all on my own. I seriously felt the best when I was doing this, and I totally want to get back into that energy again, where crazy magical things were happening!” -Anna

You get to experience extraordinary love from the INSIDE OUT!

When you learn to love yourself at this deep level, your confidence, compassion, trust, communication increase. And the list goes on – because it touches everything!

How You Could Be Kissing Your Man On New Years Eve!

by heartsdesireintl | Nov 7, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice

by Gladys Diaz

Do you like waiting for the things that you want?

If you’re like me – you don’t!

I don’t like waiting in lines. When I’m at a restaurant I want my food to come out fast…

And when I have a goal to create something that I really want – I do whatever it takes to make it happen now!

What about you?

What is a big goal you’ve had that you wish would just appear already!

I don’t know for sure, but since you’re reading this email I’m thinking that one of the desires of your heart is to be in the relationship of your dreams.

And not next year or 5 years from now…

You want it now!

Yes?

Here’s what I do know…

Sitting in complacency won’t work.

And complacency doesn’t always look like doing absolutely nothing.

Complacency could also look like:

Sitting and thinking about the goal
Planning out for the 10th time how you’re going to accomplish it
Processing why you haven’t created it yet
Talking to a friend about it.
Praying and waiting for God to make it happen.

Now, all of those things play a part in creating things that are important to you.

Thinking, planning, praying and support are all pieces to manifesting the things we want the most!

But nothing will actually be created without one thing…

ACTION!

Accomplishing goals takes ACTION.

And not just any action.

When it comes to dating, you may be doing all the things and still not be creating the results you want.

You’ve got to be taking the right actions!

What if in the next week, you could learn how to easily attract a really great man who also wants to be in a committed relationship with YOU?

What if, by December 31st, you could have met the man you’ll spend the rest of your life with?!

Miracles happen every single day so just think about how many miracles could happen in 8 weeks!

Yes – I’m ready to take action to create my miracle!

Our client Elena, met us during a challenge, came to an event and then 9 days later went on her first date with the man who’s now her husband. 9 months after the event she was married and they’re about to celebrate their one year anniversary this month!

Mary Beth came to an event last December and by December 31st had reconnected with someone she’d dated previously and now, less than a year later, she’s married too!

If your brain is saying, “That’s not possible for me” – ask yourself why?

Here’s the thing.

We’ve witnessed so many relationships be created following our events, we know it can happen for you too!

We’re on a mission to help 100 women be on the path to the relationships of their dreams by December 31st.

Will you be one of those women?

If you’re ready to stop putting off and waiting to be in the relationship of your dreams and want to get into action and create the love you dream of RIGHT NOW then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Event happening this weekend – November 12th-13th!

Claim Your Spot Here!

This is THE event to put you on the path to be in the relationship of your dreams by the end of the year.

This isn’t an event where you just come and sit, learn and process.

At this powerful 2-Day Intensive, you’ll be doing the work so that you leave the weekend READY, with the plan and the support you need, to be on the way to the relationship of your dreams!

By this time next Monday, you’ll be ready to:

Date successfully
Attract a man who’s a match for your values and vision
Create the relationship of your dreams because you have crystal clarity around what you want
Use the skills you’ve learned to attract the relationship of your dreams
Plus more!

Don’t keep putting this dream on hold.

Don’t be the woman who says, “I wish I would have done this two years ago.”

You get to be a woman who knows this is possible for you and knows how to shorten the gap between where you are now and being IN the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Join us now!

The #1 Mistake Women Make When Communicating With Men and What To Do Instead!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 21, 2022 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Infidelity, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice

by Gladys Diaz

Do you understand men?

Or do you find yourself asking:

What the @*!# was he thinking?

Did he really just say that?

Why doesn’t he listen to me?

If you don’t feel seen, heard and understood when you’re communicating with your partner, and you’re wondering why you feel so disconnected, there’s a reason AND a solution!

AND this is not just for romantic relationships – this is important to remember in all of your relationships with men – fathers, brothers, and male colleagues at work.

First… It’s not personal. It’s biological!

Men aren’t just hairier, more muscular versions of women. (Surprise!)

There’s a reason why women can multi-task and men need to focus on one thing at a time.

There’s a reason why men jump in, interrupt and try to solve your problem before you’ve even shared what you wanted to say.

And there’s a reason why you get home from a date where you experienced so much fun and connection and then feel confused when he doesn’t ask you out again.

It’s not a matter of intelligence or not caring.

Men are actually wired differently.

And the differences in how they think, speak, and act can create major conflict and frustration in you and your relationship, as you feel like you can’t talk, communicate, or connect with each other.

The good news is that, even with all of these differences, it IS possible to feel completely seen, heard, understood and loved by your man (and for him to feel the same way).

This is why we created the Decoding Your Man Masterclass – which is happening Saturday, October 22nd at 12pm EST

If you haven’t registered yet, REGISTER HERE!

Our goal is for you to understand how the differences in our biology impact every level of our relationships, and how you can still feel empowered to have better communication, deeper connection, and real, lasting intimacy with the man you love.

It’s absolutely possible to share what you feel, think, and need in a way that leaves you BOTH feeling seen, heard, understood, and loved!

In this powerful masterclass, you’ll learn the Decoding Your Man Method and:

The #1 mistake women make when communicating with men, and what to do instead!
Discover the differences between the way men’s and women’s brains are wired and how that impacts communication and romance with the opposite sex
Learn the keys to avoiding arguments and misunderstandings so that you can create love and partnership in your relationship vs. working against each other
Unlock and master the secrets to knowing exactly what to say and do get the love and support you want from your partner
How to create a happy, loving, passionate relationship that lasts for a lifetime!
And so much more!

The reason why he says “I’m busy” when you try to ask him a question while he’s working is because men are wired to focus on one thing at a time.z

The reason why he jumps in and interrupts you when you’re simply wanting to be listened to is because he hears you’re in pain and wants to be your hero and solve your problem.

And the reason why you have an incredible date but then don’t see him again is because while you were thinking about and assessing the entire date in the moment (and don’t tell us you don’t do that, hehe) – he was 100% focused on making sure the date was fun and enjoyable for you and then thought out those things after.

Is your mind blown?

We’ll be explaining so many more questions like these on Saturday and you’ll smile each time you hear yourself saying, “Aha! That explains it!”

It’s not just about knowing the facts and understanding why men do what they do.

It’s also about knowing how to dance with them by having the skills and knowing how to communicate in a way that sets you both up to win.

If you want to learn how to communicate in a way so that you can be received and responded to in a healthy, supportive, loving and caring way, make sure to join us for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass by registering for FREE at the link below.

Register for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass!

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