How to Re-Enter the Dating Scene Today!

How to Re-Enter the Dating Scene Today!

by Gladys Diaz 

Has it been a while since you’ve been in the dating scene? 

Have you recently come out of a relationship and are wanting to get back out there? 

Or maybe you’ve been single for a while, and aren’t sure how you could possibly start dating again.

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re not alone! This topic has been requested so many times from the women in our community and we listened! 

So, what is it exactly that has you resist stepping back out there?

FEAR. 

Fear of….

… allowing yourself to be seen again.

… opening yourself up to rejection.

,,, wasting your time with the wrong man (or men)

… looking silly because you don’t know how to date anymore.

… not trusting this new thing called “online dating”

And those are just to name a few!

The starting over phase can feel like too much, which is why many women stay in toxic or abusive relationships or stay single when they really desire to be in a relationship. 

We get it. Doing anything for the first time, or for the first time in a long time, can be scary and feel really hard! 

But you can step back out there, and we’re here to show you how.

The first thing you need to remember is to grant yourself some space and grace

If you’re just coming out of a relationship, there is healing and HeartWork that must occur before you’ll be ready to jump back into the dating game. 

It’s necessary, and it’s okay! 

That being said, this healing time doesn’t need to take 5, 10, or 15 years! 

Give yourself enough time to get clear on why the past relationship didn’t work and to do any healing inside yourself that is necessary to have dating work the next time around.

There are two things you need to get clear on before you’ll be ready to date again. 

  • What had the relationship not work? 

Did you jump in too soon without knowing the person well enough? 

Was there poor communication? 

Were there character flaws you didn’t notice (or didn’t want to see) soon enough? 

Were there personal fears or limiting beliefs that had you sabotage the relationship?

  • What Heartwork do you need to do? 

Do you have limiting beliefs about men? About online dating, or dating in general? 

Do you have limiting beliefs about yourself? Men? Relationships?

Are you recognizing any patterns with the dating experiences you’re having? 

If you’re experiencing the same thing over and over again, what is having you be attracted to that? 

 Be open to the possibility that your limiting beliefs and fears aren’t “the truth,” and that there’s another possible truth.

Be crystal-clear about what you want to experience in the relationship of your dreams.. 

And then learn the best way to get back out there with power, grace, ease, and FUN! 

The longer you wait, the harder it’s going to be. 

Do the inner work, and then start taking steps that will lead you in the right direction.

Learn how to set up an online profile that attracts the kind of man you want to share your life with.

Let your family, friends and co-workers know you’re ready to start dating again and that you’re open to meeting good, 100% available men. Look on Eventbrite or MeetUp for opportunities to meet people, and go to singles activities in your community.

There are so many ways to meet good men! 

Be courageous. 

Be open. 

Allow yourself to be seen and known. 

Learn the BEST steps to take  to attract the RIGHT man so that you can be alert and aware vs. scared and suspicious. 

Oh! And remember to have FUN!! 

If you’d like support in getting clear on the best, most effective ways to get back out there, or if you’re struggling to find the courage to date again, we’d love to speak with you! 

Book a call to talk to one of our coaches now!  They will support you in identifying the Heartwork you need to do and validating that you’re ready so you can attract the man who will love you forever, starting right now!

Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now!

How to Inspire a Man to Ask You On a Date!

How to Inspire a Man to Ask You On a Date!

by Gladys Diaz 

Do you ever feel like you’d like to “throw in the towel” when it comes to love?

We understand the heartache that comes when you feel like it’s getting too hard, when you’re wondering if this relationship thing is ever going to work for you

You feel this way because you haven’t gotten the results you want… YET. 

That’s where we come in! 

The work we do with women will support you to step into your confidence and tap into the power you already have so you can attract the relationship you want.

Once you have that, you will attract the right man who will honor and cherish you for the rest of your life!

So, how do you get a guy to ask you out on a date

It’s actually not about “getting” a man to do anything. 

It’s really about “inspiring” a man. 

It’s about being magnetic and inspiring so that he naturally wants to ask you out. 

In fact… He can’t resist wanting to be with you!

Here are some important tips for inspiring the date… 

1.  When you’re on the app, stay on there for a while while you transition to a date.

By doing this, you get the opportunity to see how often he contacts you, which lets you know how interested he is in getting to know you. You also get to know him. 

And, if the dating site is alerted about any “scamming” or fake profiles, you’ll get the alerts in your notifications.

2. Before accepting a date, have multiple phone conversations before you meet in person.

You want to show that you are a woman who values herself, her time, and who she spends it with. 

By sharing that you prefer to talk on the phone before meeting, you demonstrate this, as well as taking the opportunity to see if this is someone you want to spend your precious time going on a date with.

3. Keep talking to multiple men at a time, and take your time

We know this is hard. Women are hard-wired to want connection, to feel secure, and to want to know that he’s the one. But rushing at the beginning can cost you a lot of time, energy, and heartache in the long run.  And wasting the time you could be spending with the RIGHT man is not something you want to do.

Remain open to meeting and getting to know different men, and allow yourself the gift of allowing things to unfold naturally. 

4. The most important thing to remember is to not take things personally! 

Remember: He doesn’t know you, and men are not the enemy

If you find yourself not having fun or getting “triggered” easily, take a breath and ask yourself, “What am I actually upset  about?” or “What am I afraid of?

Once you do the Heartwork to overcome these fears and deepen the relationship with yourself, you’ll stop attracting men who are attracted to your past, fears, and limiting beliefs.. 

You’ll only attract men who are RIGHT  for you — men who want the same loving, committed relationship you want!

If you’d like an opportunity to do this Heartwork with us, one of the BEST things you can do is join us for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU  Challenge, which starts on Monday, June 21st! 

The BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge is for you if you’re ready to: 

💜 Remove the mask you hide behind that’s blocking you from attracting and having the love you want.

💜 Find your voice and say what you want and feel without being afraid

💜 Stop pretending and not honoring your boundaries

💜 Stop settling for less than you want and deserve in relationships

💜 Stop doubting your ability to attract the man and relationship of your dreams

💜 Let go of the anxiety you feel around dating and relationships and have fun BEing YOU!

💜 And sooooo much more!

The challenge is FREE to join, and it’s going to be a game-changer for you and your love life! 

It’s time for you to know that you CAN be authentically YOU and attract the man who will love & cherish you for being the Irresistible Woman you are!

Join us for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU challenge!

We’re in the middle of 2021! If you want to experience a New Year’s kiss with the love of your life in about 6 months, then NOW is the time to get your heart and life ready to receive it!

One of the #1 Fears in Dating Is…

One of the #1 Fears in Dating Is…

by Gladys Diaz 

One of the #1 fears women have is: “I’m  afraid I  will lose myself  in a relationship.” 

Can you relate? 

The thing is, in dating and relationships, you don’t really lose yourself. 

What happens is that you give away your power by straying away from your values.
You give in a little here and a little there, move a boundary further and further past the point that is true for you… and eventually… you simply disappear. 

If you’ve ever felt this way in a relationship, the question to ask yourself is: Which of my  values is  not being honored?

Discovering the answer to that question is the easy way to get back in alignment with yourself and what’s true for you. 

Knowing what your values are, and making sure that you’re living your life according to them, is the simplest way to date — and to live!

In dating, you’re not going to agree on everything. The problem comes in when differences create a conflict within yourself. 

Whether the misalignment is about religion, whether or not you want to wait to be intimate, family relationships, medical conditions, or something else; those things can be worked out – (1) If they are aligned with your values, and (2) if they also align with what your partner wants and values.

But you have to be clear about what your values are.

When these things come up you can handle them as a strong, mature woman instead of as a woman who’s afraid of losing something. 

When you show up as someone who knows who she is, what she wants, where she’s at, and what she’s looking for, then you’ll attract someone who is aligned with and and wants that kind of woman as a partner. 

Having values you live by is  not about having an insurmountable list of “standards” that a man must meet. That way of dating keeps you feeling “safe,” but it also keeps you alone.

Living a life and making choices that are aligned with what you truly value is about raising your standards for yourself. That’s what creates irresistibility. 

You must get crystal-clear on what you want and what your values and standards are in order to create a relationship and partnership that honors them.

When you’re not clear, your brain makes stuff up to make people, things, and situations “fit,”  and that’s when things get “complicated.”

When you’re crystal-clear, there’s no sorta/maybe when it comes to making choices for yourself, your life, and what you want in a relationship.Everything is either aligned with your values, or it’s not. 

It’s that simple. 

If you meet a man that’s not aligned with your values or you’re not aligned with his, trust that he’s not the right one. Honor yourself, admire him for being true to himself, and let it go. 

The more you practice being true to yourself, the easier it gets. 

The more confident you are about your own values, the easier it gets to live in it and create a life and love that reflects and embodies what your heart truly desires. 

When you date this way, you can create an amazing and incredible relationship with someone who is absolutely in love with you– The Real You. 

Sometimes, you may not even realize you’re not clear about what your values are or how to honor them,  so, if you’d like support with discovering what your values are and how you can live more authentically into them, book a call and speak with one of our coaches now.

It’s time for you to find true love!

Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now!

Here’s the Key to Being 100% Fulfilled in Dating!

Here’s the Key to Being 100% Fulfilled in Dating!

by Gladys Diaz 

Do you know the difference between values and boundaries versus standards, rules and expectations? 

Are you allowing expectations and rules to determine who you date, or do you have a clear set of values and boundaries that you use to navigate the waters of dating?

If you’re not in the relationship of your dreams, then there’s a breakdown in your values and boundaries OR you’re operating from a  set of rules or standards.

So what’s the difference? 

Rules and expectations are all about him or them.

“Is he doing this?” or “Why isn’t he doing that?” 

When you have a lot of rules, you spend time looking for what he’s not doing or “should be” doing,  and usually always end up disappointed. 

“He doesn’t dress the way I wish he would.”

“He doesn’t make as much money as I want him to.”

“He doesn’t call me every morning.”  

You turn minor quirks into non-negotiable deal breakers and have a frustrating experience dating. 

On the other hand, values and boundaries are all about you

Values are the things that you must live by in order to feel good.
They’re your guiding principles, what matters to you the most. 

Having values is being 100% clear about what you do and don’t want to experience in life and then BEing that. 

Boundaries are associated with the values you hold and determine what you will and won’t do or accept in your experience with others.

Values and boundaries are inside yourself.
You’re either living in alignment with them, or you’re not.

It’s that simple.

And it makes making decisions in dating (and life!) easy!

When you’re operating from that space, it’s not about a checklist of criteria someone has to meet. 

It’s about making sure the experience you’re having is in alignment with your values.

What are your values?

 How can you know when you’re aligned and when you’re not? 

 When you’re not honoring yourself and your values and boundaries, you feel insecure, uncertain, unhappy and out of your power. 

 Even if you’re having fun in a dating experience that’s out of alignment, you won’t feel fulfilled. There will be a part of you that knows it’s not what you want.

 When you’re living and making decisions in alignment with your values, you simply feel good and confident.

You feel empowered and in control of your experience. 

You feel clarity and are fulfilled, no matter what the  circumstances are outside of you.

 If you’re unsure what your values are, look at your life.
When do you feel the most fulfilled and inspired?
What is it that makes you feel that way, and why? 

 The why will determine your values.

 If you’d like some support looking inside to uncover what matters most to you and how you can apply values and boundaries to create  more fulfillment in dating, book a Love Breakthrough Session now! 

 Click the link below and we’ll help you get clarity on what your values are and how to create boundaries that lead you to having  fun and fulfillment in dating as you move toward having the relationship of your dreams!

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NOW is the Time to Become Unleashed!

NOW is the Time to Become Unleashed!

by Gladys Diaz 

When you’re not getting the results you want, it’s easy to look outside yourself and think it’s because of something outside. 

When it comes to your love life, you may be doing everything you know how to do – and that’s actually the problem. 

You are only able to do the things you know to do. 

But what about the things you don’t know to do?

We know that when you’re doing everything you know to do and not getting the  results you want – it gets frustrating.

That frustration can turn into anger and cause you to want to give up, “take a break” or quit altogether.

You’re angry because you’re unfulfilled

You’re angry because there’s something in your life that you want and desire that’s not coming to fruition, and even if you make a little progress here and there, you’re still not free.

Are you allowing yourself to be in the shackles of your fears? 

The fears of what you think will or won’t happen? 

…about whether or not he’ll like you. 

…about getting hurt or trying again? 

Are you allowing yourself to stay burdened by the limiting beliefs that are holding you down? 

Are you allowing yourself to stay stuck under the patterns you don’t know how to break, or wondering why everyone can have this “except me”?

If you’re allowing any of those things to keep hold of you,  you’re not free. 

Which is why we’re here to tell you, it’s time to become unleashed

When you become unleashed you’re able to:  

  • have the confidence and clarity you need to create the results you desire NOW
  • dismantle and replace your dysfunctional patterns
  • unleash the power to create the extraordinary love your heart desires 

Becoming unleashed is about the energy you hold. Everything carries energy, which is why you manifest what you’re committed to! 

When you become unleashed, you have a magnetic energy that has you, not only attract what you want in love and life, but also keep it!

Becoming unleashed means being ready for what you want, and then being able to actually receive it. 

The fact of the matter is, if you’re not ready, you will miss it!

Even if the universe is sending you amazing men and incredible opportunities, they will slip right through your fingertips if you’re not ready. 

Here’s the deal: If you want to be married by this time next year, you’ve got to get focused on this now! 

You can have the happy, loving relationship you want, but how many more “laters” do you have? 

Why wait a few more months? Or years?

Why wait until you have everything figured out?

The work we do supports you in your inner work – your Heartwork – while also learning how to date effectively, how to communicate in a way that he will understand you, and how to break patterns that have you want to be the pursuer or put the breaks on when it comes to dating and relationships.

Imagine what could be possible if you had the freedom to really be yourself?

Imagine what could open up for you if you stopped allowing your fear and doubt to win the game? 

Once you become unleashed, you’ll stop experiencing the frustration these dysfunctional experiences create, once and for all, and you’ll begin to experience the JOY that comes from creating and having everything you want and deserve. 

Imagine how amazing THAT will be!

If you are 100% ready and committed to breaking free from your past, unleashing your magnetic essence, and claiming the life and love you want, then you’re ready for a Love Breakthrough! 

Click the link below and we’ll help you create a step-by-step plan to get you on track to having the love you want NOW!

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Extraordinary Success AND Extraordinary Love!

Extraordinary Success AND Extraordinary Love!

4by Gladys Diaz 

There are many  women who believe they have to choose between having a successful business or a great relationship.  They truly don’t believe it’s possible to have both. 

What do you believe? 

Here’s the deal:  if you believe that you can’t have both, you are living in a scarcity conversation, and you’re actually blocking the success you could be experiencing in BOTH!

This week on Love Chat with the Love Twins, we featured some incredible women, colleagues and dear friends of ours, who are rocking it in their business as well as their love lives. Through these conversations, we really highlighted how not only is it possible for you to have both – but it actually makes all of it even better!

In one of the interviews, we got to hear from Amy Yamada’s partner, Ken, who shared his experience as a man being in partnership with such an incredible and successful woman! 

High-quality men want to support, be in contribution to, and pour into a high-quality woman. Ken shared how much more attracted he was to Amy knowing that she was an entrepreneur and motivational speaker. 

For her, at first, she felt uneasy sharing about her business with him for fear of being in here “masculine” energy. But when she decided to lean into being her authentic self, which includes being an entrepreneur , it allowed him to really see her, and it ended up being one of the things that most attracted him to her.

He said he simply wouldn’t have been attracted to her if she had not led with that. 

NOT the fact that she was a business woman, but that she was AUTHENTIC.

What more proof do you need, ladies?!

Men want to support us.

I’ll never forget, years back, when I was crying – sitting in a restaurant with tears flowing down my face  because I’d just been on off the phone with my business coach. I was feeling so defeated that I didn’t know what all of the tech terms meant or what all of this software I needed was, and didn’t know how I was ever going to be successful in my business. 

Ric saw the opportunity, and he literally learned how to create funnels, build websites and do all-things-tech related to our business, simply as a result of wanting to support me and my dream. All these years later and I can’t even imagine where I, or Hearts Desire International for that matter, would be without him. (And now he has a great business of his own doing this for other people, too!  Talk about a win-win!)

The other reason why men love being with high-quality, successful, driven women is because it inspires them to be more. 

I’ll also never forget the day when I heard Ric, my very soft-spoken husband, stand on one of our stages at an event and said, “Seeing how committed Gladys is to her own transformation inspires me to become a better man.” 

Definitely another tearful moment for me! 

Until then I knew he admired the things I did, my career, and professional accomplishments  But that day, he was talking about what he admired about ME and the woman I am!  No award,degree, or certificate can hold a candle to that!

The absolutely beautiful thing about creating a partnership with someone who loves and admires you for your determination and commitment in the world is what you can create together. 

It also gives you the opportunity to lean on one another and lift each other up when you have days where you’re having a hard time seeing it in yourself. 

Supportive partners see you, experience you and hear you in a way that you sometimes fail to see, and they can share your life, your success, and all of the ordinary-extraordinary moments with you as you continue to strive for success in  business and love. 

If you have a limiting belief that you need to choose between business and love then we have something very important to share with you. 

In just two weeks we’ll be hostingThe Irresistible Woman LIVE virtual live event,  and you won’t want to miss it!!

This 3-day, highly interactive, and transformational live virtual event for smart, successful women who want to stop wasting time and want to start having SUCCESS in love! 

This is one of the fastest and most effective ways to uncover what’s been getting in the way of you having the happy, loving, deeply connected relationship your heart desires!

The event is happening on October 23rd-25th, and we can’t wait to have you there! 

In fact, we’re so committed to having you there, that, for Birthday Week, we’re lowering the price of the ticket to just $47!!! (It’s our birthday, and will give you gifts if we want to!!!)


Click HERE to grab your ticket NOW!

When you know that you are a loveable woman, then you can attract someone who believes that, too. 

When you’re honest and authentic about who you are, business success and all, that’s when you’ll find the man who will love you completely. 

When you trust yourself, love yourself, and know that you’re capable of creating an amazing relationship in your life, you WILL!

Join us to discover this for yourself! 

This is what I know was true for me and, it is  true for you, too.