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The Key to Love, Confidence and Empowerment!

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 1, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

What’s the key to true love?

Many women think it lies in finding the right person or having a perfected list of qualities you’re looking for in a partner.

Some think it’s about where or how you meet the person, while others think the key is in “divine timing.”

What we’ve found from working with women of every age, from many countries, and all backgrounds is that there is one thing that truly separates the women that create the loving, intimate, long term relationship they desire and those who don’t.

The key to creating true love with another person is creating true love within yourself first.

That’s why we created the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle! The course begins TODAY, so now is your LAST chance to claim this before it’s gone for good!

Click HERE for the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle!

Now, we’re not talking about self-care, though we do encourage doing all the things that fill you up and nourish your soul.

Self-love is deeper.

Self-love is about the relationship you have with yourself.

Real Self-Love is:

The things you say about and to yourself
Feeling comfortable with the most intimate parts of who you are
The beliefs you hold about yourself
The way you trust who you are and how you feel
Loving and accepting every part of you, even the parts of you you’re afraid others may not like
Bringing forgiveness and acceptance to your past.

True self-love creates confidence, trust and the ability to create the things you most deeply desire.

This is important whether you’re single, in a relationship, or in a relationship that isn’t everything you hoped it would be.

The relationship you have with yourself will be reflected in the relationships you create with other people.

We know that knowing exactly what to do and how to do it brings incredible amounts of confidence, joy, and empowerment, because the relationship you have with yourself is the ONE thing you have total control over.

Everything starts with you.

And that’s GREAT news!

When I was in the midst of my own journey to self-love, everything in my life looked perfect on the outside.

I had the job, I had great kids, I traveled with my girlfriends, and I was dating a lot — though none of those dating experiences ever went very far.

Men would always tell me that I had an amazing life and was an amazing woman, but that they knew they just couldn’t give me what I wanted.

I felt so confused and wondered why –

If my life was so awesome, how could I still come home at night and feel so miserable and lonely and alone?

Once I did the HeartWork I realized that all I wanted was someone to validate that I was lovable, when what I really needed was to create that love inside myself first.

Recognizing that belief, uncovering where it came from, and creating something different within myself was such a transformative experience that it’s literally why we started doing the work that we do.

We want every single woman to create the love and relationship that she deserves and desires, and we want it for you RIGHT NOW!

That’s why Gladys and I put together this insane Black Friday bundle AND why we extended the sale through TODAY (goes away FOR GOOD at midnight EST)!

Imagine breaking through the things that are blocking you from creating new love and creating the opening to call in the relationship of your dreams NOW.

When women work with us they create new jobs, receive promotions, manifest new homes, and create the relationship of their dreams — and you’re getting the opportunity to work with us for just $87!

If you’re ready to create a deeply loving, profound, and powerful relationship with yourself that will have you create the life and love you really want, then grab the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle before it goes away TODAY!

The Radiant YOU 21 Day program begins TODAY – so now is your last chance!

CLICK HERE TO JOIN US NOW!

When you dive into all this bundle includes you’ll have exactly what you need to create everything your heart desires!

Unlock Your Irresistible Potential: 3 Steps to Manifest Your Heart’s Desires Today!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 5, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

What were the goals you set in January?

Where did you want to be in your life?

We’ve entered the final three months of the year – Woah what?!

When you hear that… Do you feel confronted? Triggered? Excited? Ready?

Last weekend was our Irresistible Woman LIVE event and it was incredible. What a powerful week we spent with strong, empowered women with a desire to be irresistible!

Is that a desire you have?

If you answered yes, then how do you stop putting off the dreams that you have?

How do you not make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past?

How do you stop thinking about how much time you’ve wasted and move forward to create the life, including the relationship, of your dreams now?

Three Steps to Becoming the Irresistible Woman Who Can Create Everything Her Heart Desires NOW

1) Skills – Learn How to Rise Above Our Human Emotional Moments

You may or may not know that over the past month our mother has been in the hospital. There’s been moments when she seems to be doing better and moments when she doesn’t seem to know who we (her twin daughters) are – and it’s continuing to be a day-by-day process.

The experience has been exhausting, sad, and heartbreaking.

You better believe there’ve been moments when I’ve wished I could go crawl into a bed and not think about any of this anymore – because I’m human…

Just like you.

People have asked how Gladys and I have been able to continue running our business, taking care of our families and everything else on top of this ongoing struggle and the answer, in addition to our incredible partners, is our vision and mindset.

This is one of the reasons we do what we do.

So we can support other women and teach them how to live through all of the ups and downs of life with the emotional skills to rise above them.

2) Vision – Have the Courage to Believe and Declare You Can Have it NOW

Sometimes when we have a big goal we continue to feel like the little girl in the pool with floaties on. We hang on to what we have always done or known in the past and it gives us a false sense of safety or security.

But nothing extraordinary ever came from staying safe!

In order to create the big goals you have for your life you must declare it!

Admit what you want!

Be free to say it out loud so you will attract the life, adventure and love you desire!

Own what you want, believe you can have it, and declare it boldly through your words and actions!

3) Commitment – Do Whatever it Takes

The difference between wanting something and being committed is going all in and finding a way – no matter what.

Want to know the #1 thing that makes the biggest difference when you’re working towards any dream or goal, and striving to rise above your human moments?

Consistent guided support and coaching.

You don’t know what you don’t know, so having someone there who knows exactly how to create your heart’s desires telling you exactly what you need to do next makes all the difference in the world!

Having someone there when you hit a wall of disappointment, resistance or fear to pick you up and give you your very next best step – that’s what’s going to have you create the relationship of your dreams!

If you haven’t had a call with one of our Love Breakthrough Coaches yet – click here to schedule a call now!

Our coaches are there for this very purpose – to give you your next best step and support you in taking action towards the extraordinary love that you dream of! They know the HeartWork inside and out and they’re here so you can move forward!

Give yourself this gift and know that you’re on your way.

What’s your vision?

Who do you want to be known as?

What’s your love legacy?

We all get to rise above and we get to do it together.

Let us support you by clicking HERE to book a Love Breakthrough Call!

Alone to Adored: How Three Women Created Extraordinary Love and How YOU can TOO!

by heartsdesireintl | Aug 21, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, keeping the love alive, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Last week on Love Chat with The Love Twins, three successful, inspiring, beautiful women joined us to share a little about their journey to creating Extraordinary Love.

They shared how their participation in our coaching programs impacted their relationships, career, health, and finances!

All three of them have created the Relationship of their Dreams and between them they’ve:

Created clarity in their careers
Bought houses
Healed a tumor
Received raises and bonuses
Created additional friendships
Healed relationships with mothers and sisters
Are working on starting families and so much more!

If you missed it, you can watch the replay by clicking HERE!

Jenna had a belief that men couldn’t love. For years she’d continued the pattern of rushing into relationships, becoming invested before she even really knew the man, realized he wasn’t the one and then, heartbroken, spending time getting over and moving on from the toxic relationship.

Jada had a fear of being alone which led her to get physically intimate and attached to men too soon by not communicating her boundaries and then finding out he was married, not who he said he was and that once again, this was not it!

And Roslyn believed she wasn’t enough, which had her date unavailable men and twist herself into a pretzel to try to become whatever he wanted. This caused unnecessary drama in her life and created a spiral of continually dwindling her self-confidence.

Through the coaching they were open to and the HeartWork they did, they were able to breakthrough their sabotaging patterns and create the love they had always wanted!

They learned how to:

Not take things personally
Communicate boundaries in relationships
Find their voice
Live their values
Be authentic
Share effectively with men
Just to name a few!

The awesome thing is that these are all things we’ll be teaching this weekend in the Decoding Your Man Masterclass!

Jenna, Jada and Roslyn all shared that this particular masterclass was one of the things that made a big difference for them in their journey to extraordinary love.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this masterclass will expand your knowledge AND skills so you can communicate and understand the men in your life – and create the type of relationships you want!

If you want to experience more love, connection and intimacy then click HERE to register for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass happening this Saturday, August 26th!

This masterclass is worth over $500 and this Saturday, you have the opportunity to attend – on us!

Don’t miss it!

Swipe Right on Love: Dating Strategies for Busy Women

by heartsdesireintl | May 22, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Parenting, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Romance, Self-Love, Single Mother, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you struggle making time for your love life?

You may be a single mom and have a hard time finding a babysitter.

Maybe you travel a lot for work and find it hard to make time for dating or your partner.

Finding time for dating can feel challenging.

Juggling work commitments, household responsibilities, and parenting duties can make it seem that there’s little room for personal endeavors.

We get it.

Both Gladys and I are entrepreneurs running multiple businesses, wives, mothers, and dog-moms. We have clients, team members and family to take care of – on top of making time for our own work-outs, self-care and rest.

I remember when I was a single mom trying to make it all work and wondering if it was possible to have it all…

The thing to remember is that carving out time for romance is essential for self-care and building meaningful connections.

In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and mindset shifts to help busy professionals and single moms make time for dating in their demanding lives.

#1: Make Your Love Life and Dating a Top Priority in Your Life

The first thing you must do is make dating a top priority. Right up there with taking care of yourself.

If you don’t make your love life a priority then another summer goes by and you’re still alone. Another birthday comes and goes and you aren’t spending it with the one you love.

Let’s get rid of regret and start creating your dreams NOW!

Dating isn’t just another thing you have to do and until you start relating to it as self-care and not an item to be checked off your list – only then will you start enjoying it and start creating the results you want!

#2: Prioritize Self-Care

As a single mom and professional, it’s crucial to prioritize self-care. When you don’t, you slowly begin to resent the people in your life that need you and want to spend time with you.

This puts you in low energy and makes it impossible to attract the things you want into your life!

When you prioritize taking care of yourself, you boost your well-being AND enhance your ability to be present and engaged in dating.

Set aside dedicated time each day and week for activities that rejuvenate you, such as exercise, meditating, praying, reading, pursuing a hobby (or sitting and doing nothing if that’s what you want to do)!

By nurturing your own happiness, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the complexities of dating while managing your all of your other responsibilities.

#3: Create Opportunities in Your Schedule to Date and Spend Time With Your Partner

Sometimes you get to be creative when you have a lot of priorities and are short on time.

Remember how I said we get it? We do!

Sometimes spending time together looks like long walks, movies and going to bed together.

And sometimes we get to be creative!

If Arnie and I have a particularly full day, we’ll wake up 15 minutes early so we can sit on the porch and have our coffee together.

Gladys and Ric go to lunch together every single Friday, which they’ve been doing for years!

Why?

Because prioritizing our relationships is important to us and it’s imperative to keeping the love alive!

If you’re looking at opportunities to meet men as something you dread or as a time-waster – it’s time to shift your mindset and embrace meeting men as something that is fun and worth it!

#4: Create a Structure for Your Time and Manage Your Time Well

You’re precious, your time is precious and you get to manage it well.

Prioritize your tasks, set realistic deadlines, plan dating into your calendar and create a structured schedule.

Look for pockets of time in your routine where you can squeeze in a date or a brief phone call with a potential partner.

TIP: You don’t need to be juggling 15 dating apps and chatting with 100 men at a time – now that might feel overwhelming!

You need to be on three dating apps with a profile that will attract the men who are a match for you!

If you don’t have that or you need support with your mindset or time management – Schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with a Coach!

As a busy professional and/or single mom, making time for dating can feel like an uphill battle. However, by shifting your mindset and making it a priority, prioritizing self-care, creating creative opportunities to date, creating a structure for it and managing your time well, you can successfully integrate dating into your busy life.

Remember, finding love and nurturing relationships is a vital aspect of personal growth and happiness!

And you get to have it ALL!

How to BOOST Your Confidence to a Level TEN!

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 16, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Are you hard on yourself about things that have happened in the past?

Do you wonder why you keep attracting the wrong type of men into your life?

Do you wish you could stop making the same mistakes when it comes to relationships and love?

When the results you continue to experience in love and relationships are less than what you want – your confidence gets shaken.

And when you don’t do the work to get to the root of what has you continuing to create these experiences, there’s a chain of consequences that follow…

We call this chain the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle.

When something less than ideal happens and you say things to yourself like:

“How could I be so dumb?”

“When am I going to stop attracting liars?”

“When am I ever going to get it right?”

You create fears and love barriers which then has you create more of the same and your confidence and trust in yourself (and your ability to create the love you want) disintegrates.

Here’s what the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle looks like:

Event
You Make a Decision/Judgment About What Happened
Love Barrier (Fear) is Created
Dysfunctional Pattern is Created (Actions)
You Get Results that You Don’t Want
You Make Another Decision/Judgment About Yourself (Trust and Confidence is Eroded)
Another Limiting Belief (Fear) is Created

And the cycle repeats itself over and over!

Being in this cycle is what has you doubt yourself, not trust others, feel the need to “take a break” from dating and more.

So how do you shift this cycle and uplevel your confidence in yourself and others?

In order to stop the dysfunctional dating cycle and begin to experience yourself as the type of woman who can create what she wants in life and love, you must do the HeartWork!

When you get the results you want – your confidence and trust in yourself goes up!

1. See It – Acknowledge what’s not working. Get to the root of what is having you continue to create the results you don’t want.

2. Shift It – Do the HeartWork and learn how to replace the broken pieces with the RIGHT one.

This isn’t about tips and tricks.

This is about healing the pieces of your past that created those limiting beliefs that aren’t allowing you to create what you really want.

3. Experience It – When you free yourself from the fears you hold, you allow yourself to create new thoughts and behaviors, which creates different results and a new healthy pattern unfolds!

When you transform the dysfunctional patterns you have in love – you transform YOU.

Would you like to create this shift for yourself?

GOOD NEWS!

We’re dedicating 3 days in February to teach you how to do exactly this!

At the Love Vision Intensive 3-Day Event, you’ll experience a new level of healing that will allow you to truly move forward in confidence and trust to create the results in love that you want!

If you want…

2023 to be the year you’re in the relationship of your dreams
To know how to STOP the dysfunctional patterns
Your confidence to soar as you experience incredible results.

Then you NEED to join us for the Love Vision Intensive!

Yes – Claim my seat now!

If you want to be married next year – the next 3-6 months are critical.

Make a choice today to have 2023 be the year you create everything you’ve dreamed of!

How to Create Success in EVERY Area of Life, Including Love!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 28, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you feel like you’re successful at just about everything in your life – except one thing?

When it comes to your career, you’re moving up and progressing phenomenally…

Your relationships with your children are flourishing…

You have beautiful friendships with girlfriends who you love spending time with…

But when it comes to creating the relationship of your dreams with a man you adore – it’s just not happening.

Before I met Arnie, I remember experiencing this in my own life.

I felt like I had so much going right for me and I was really enjoying the life I had created, but I still always felt like something was missing because I wasn’t being successful at love.

And for a while I convinced myself that I didn’t really want a relationship. That maybe it simply wasn’t in the cards for me and that I could be perfectly happy alone.

I also had a fear.

For my whole life I had always needed a man. I did an exercise at one point where I realized that I’d always had a boyfriend since the time I was 6 years old! That was a lot of years to feel like I NEEDED a man in order to be happy.

And I’d allowed that fear to convince me that I didn’t need a man – and I didn’t even want one.

But that wasn’t my truth.

Everything changed when I got really honest with myself –

And realized how resigned I’d become to some of the things I really did want –

Which included being in an extraordinary relationship with an incredible man!

I realized that it’s possible to live an incredible and successful life as a single woman AND desire and be actively engaged in creating the love and relationship you truly want.

Let me tell you how:

1) Lean Into Your Desire To Have It –

You can’t create what you don’t declare that you want. A woman who knows she’s worthy will not deny herself of what she truly wants. Be honest with yourself and decide that you get to have everything that you want – especially when it comes to love!

2) Be Intentional With Dating –

Let people in your life know that you’re available
Stop talking negatively about men to yourself (you know the thoughts in your head that come up) and with your girlfriends. (And if you notice your friends talking negatively about men around you, let them know that you’d prefer not to have those conversations anymore.)
Make sure you’re having out with people who are aligned with your vision and support you in creating that.
Create an online profile that really showcases you and who you are as a woman.
Focus on what you want to experience in the relationship of your dreams.

3) Take a Whole-hearted Approach.

Make sure your heart, spirit and soul are all available to welcome in this relationship you desire. If your heart and spirit are shut down in any way to what you’re saying you want – you won’t be able to create it.

If there’s anything in the way of you being able to full-heartedly believe you can have what you want – do the HeartWork to have the breakthrough!

There’s two months left of this year and it’s going to go by in a snap.

If you want to be the woman who feels confident being single, trusts herself to see what’s really in front of her and make the decisions that are best for her, and desires to be in the relationship of her dreams then you want to join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Event happening November 12th-13th!

This is THE event to put you on the path to be in the relationship of your dreams by the end of the year.

Grab Your Ticket Here!

You get to experience the love you have always wanted NOW by learning the skills that will have you attract the relationship of your dreams.

Don’t keep putting this dream on hold. Don’t be the woman who says, “I wish I would have done this two (or 10) years ago.”

You get to be a woman who knows this is possible for you and knows how to shorten the gap between where you are now and being IN the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Join us now!

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