by Gladys Diaz
In this age of technological wonders, finding love and companionship is just a click away!
Online dating is one of the most effective ways to date because studies show that more couples are meeting online than any other way!
If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate the virtual world and maximize your chances of success, you’re in the right place. Join us as we uncover the secrets to success in the realm of online dating and how to unlock the key to creating the Extraordinary Love you’re looking for!
We’re committed to taking the struggle and the suffering out of dating so let’s set you up to win online!
Where to Begin:
One of the top things we hear from women when it comes to online dating is that they’re on 5, 10, sometimes even 15 different dating apps.
This is a recipe for getting frustrated and burnt out from wasting your time swiping!
We recommend you get on two, maximum three dating apps, create an Irresistible Profile (keep reading for more on that) and see which one gets the best response.
Right now in our community, we’re finding that ladies are having the best results on Match, and we’re also seeing great feedback about Hinge and Tinder.
When you’re considering what apps would work best for you, check reviews (not the reviews on the app but on third party sites) and see what’s working!
Crafting an Irresistible Profile:
Your online dating profile is your digital calling card, the gateway to making a lasting impression. To stand out from the crowd, it’s crucial to create a profile that showcases your authentic self.
Remember, the key is to be genuine and highlight your unique qualities – not just what you like to do.
It feels more vulnerable to share who you are as a woman – but this is what will attract the type of men you want!
It also helps to share exactly what you’re looking for.
Not a laundry list of what you’re looking for in a man (this is a sure-fire way to send men running!) but a paragraph on how you want to feel inside the relationship of your dreams. Also, if you’re wanting to create a committed relationship that leads to marriage – say so!
For example, you could write something like: “I want to be in a committed relationship where we laugh til our sides hurt, talk about everything important and also nothing at all and that when we look in each other’s eyes we know there’s no one else in the world for us. I want to create a committed relationship that leads to a life-long marriage.”
Now that’s a different type of profile.
And that’s what will have the type of men you’re looking for be attracted to you on the apps!
You don’t need to be snappy and snazzy. Be creative, add a splash of humor, and let your personality shine through!
🌟 BONUS HACK: Change your profile up often. Add different pictures and change things up in your writing now and then. Doing this moves you up in the system and adjusts the algorithm so you have more success finding men who are a match.
Captivating Conversation Starters:
Congratulations, you’ve matched with someone intriguing! Now it’s time to spark a conversation that keeps the momentum going.
Engage in thoughtful and personalized messages that demonstrate your interest in the other person.
Acknowledge what the man said, ask open-ended questions that invite him to share his thoughts and experiences. A little curiosity can go a long way in establishing a connection.
If you’re a woman who has a hard time staying in her feminine energy, remember to allow the men to pursue and let them initiate conversation. You get to feel what it’s like to be desired and pursued!
Having a Successful Mindset:
Online dating is fun and exciting filled with endless possibilities and it has to come from a mindset of being ready to receive!
If you’re still angry at your ex, still hung up on the last guy that stopped responding or have a belief that all men online are scammers – you will not attract the experience you want.
On the other hand, when you’re excited about the process and believe you will find what you’re looking for – you will!
We’ve seen it time and time again with clients and in our community – there are so many incredible men online!
Embrace the journey with an open mind and a positive outlook and don’t be discouraged by setbacks or rejections along the way. Each encounter is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
Keep exploring, keep learning, and most importantly, keep believing that your perfect match is just around the corner.
Conclusion:
When it comes to online dating, success is all about knowing how. You’ve got to have different skills when you’re dating online than when you’re dating in person. That’s just the truth.
By creating an irresistible profile, sparking engaging conversations, and embracing the journey with a positive mindset, you’re on the path to finding love and companionship.
If you’re ready to create the Relationship of Your Dreams this summer and would love support breaking through any limiting beliefs that are holding you back and know exactly how to create success in love now – join us June 12th-16th for the Summer of Love Challenge!
Over the course of 5 days we’ll give you exactly that – HOW to create success in love NOW!
Yes! Sign me up for the Summer of Love Challenge!
Remember, each connection holds the potential for something beautiful, and the online world is brimming with opportunities.
Happy swiping!
