by Gladys Diaz
How to Be a More “Datable Me”
On my previous blog post, I shared how you can become more datable – whether you are single or already married or in a relationship – by being present, open, and light-hearted. Today, I’m sharing 3 more ways you can make dating a more fun and fulfilling experience that can lead to having the loving relationship your heart truly desires.
1. Be gracious and grateful. No matter how confident a man may seem, it takes courage to go up to or call a woman and ask her out on a date, plan an experience that will make her consider going out with you again, and risk rejection by asking her out on another date. When a man takes you out on a date, you don’t “owe him” anything. However, it’s easy to think that we do, because he’s spending money on us. Rather than worry about what he may want in return (because, usually, any strings that are attached are attached by us, not them), just receive his time, attention, gifts and compliments with grace and gratitude. Thank him – not just at the end of the date, but any time during the date that you notice something that is pleasing to you. This sends him the message that he’s doing a good job, that you’re pleased, and that it’s probably safe to ask you out again!
2. Be yourself. Another thing that can make dating seem difficult and exhausting is the amount of time and energy we spend trying to impress the man we’re with. It’s almost as if we’re auditioning or interviewing for a job. So much energy is going into trying to get him to like us that we don’t give him a chance to see who we truly are. Just be your authentic self – that’s who you want him to fall in love with anyway, right?
3. Be willing to reach out for support. I don’t know why people feel weird about asking for help when it comes to dating and relationships. People are willing to go to read books, take courses, and speak to experts in the fields they’ve selected for their careers and businesses, but think there is something wrong about reaching out to someone who is knowledgeable in the area of dating to get support and learn the skills that will lead to having the life and love their hearts yearn for. Anything we consider a priority in life is worth investing time and money into. It all comes down to how great our desire is and how committed we are to making it a reality.
If you’d like to learn even more ways to become a more datable you and to begin experiencing the life and love your heart desires, you’ll want to join us for our Free Orientation Meeting about the “Attract and Marry the Man Who’s Right for You” 1-Day Workshop this Saturday, March 23rd, at PAX Miami. The event, as I mentioned is FREE, and you will be able to experience some of the exercises and conversations we’ll be doing during the 1-Day Workshop we’re having on April 6th. We’re also going to be offering an incredible discount to the people who attend the Orientation Meeting. To learn more and register for this FREE event, click here.
Dating is the access to meeting the man who will have the honor of loving you in return. It’s up to you to make that process as fun, fulfilling, and empowering as possible for YOU! Don’t delay your happiness one minute longer! Your life is a result of the choices you make! Choose to make being in a loving, intimate, happy relationship a priority NOW!
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Thanks Gladys for the great tips. Though they focus on dating most of the tips are so true for all our relationships in life. “Thank him – not just at the end of the date, but any time during the date that you notice something that is pleasing to you,” so true for any relationship and not just during a date!