by Gladys Diaz

What’s the key to true love?

Many women think it lies in finding the right person or having a perfected list of qualities you’re looking for in a partner. 

Some think it’s about where or how you meet the person,  while others think the key is in “divine timing.”

What we’ve found from working with women of every age, from many countries, and all backgrounds is that there is one thing that truly separates the women that create the loving, intimate, long term relationship they desire and those who don’t. 

 The key to creating true love with another person is creating true love within yourself first. 

 Now, we’re not talking about self-care, though we do encourage doing all the things that fill you up and nourish your soul.

 Self-love is deeper. 

 Self-love is about the relationship you have with yourself. 

 It’s the things you say about and to yourself.

It’s feeling comfortable with the most intimate parts of who you are. 

It’s the beliefs you hold about yourself. 

It’s the way you trust who you are and how you feel. 

It’s loving and accepting every part of you, even the parts of you you’re afraid others may not like. 

It’s bringing forgiveness and acceptance to your past. 

 True self-love creates confidence, trust and the ability to create the things you most deeply desire.  

 This is important whether you’re single, in a relationship, or in a relationship that isn’t everything you hoped it would be.

The relationship you have with yourself will be reflected in the relationships you create with other people.

We know that knowing exactly what to do and how to do it  brings incredible amounts of confidence,  joy, and empowerment, because the relationship you have with yourself is the ONE thing you have total control over. 

 Everything starts with you.

And that’s GREAT news!

 When I was in the midst of my own journey to self-love, everything in my life looked perfect on the outside.

I had the job, I had great kids, I traveled with my girlfriends, and I was dating a lot — though none of those dating experiences ever went very far. 

 Men would always tell me that I had an amazing life and was an amazing woman, but that they knew they just couldn’t give me what I wanted. 

 I felt so confused and wondered why –

If my life was so awesome, how could I still come home at night and feel so miserable and lonely and alone? 

 Once I did the HeartWork I realized that all I wanted was someone to validate that I was lovable, when what I really needed was to create that love inside myself first. 

 Recognizing that belief, uncovering where it came from, and creating something different within myself was such a transformative experience that it’s literally why we started doing the work that we do. 

 We want every single woman to create the love and relationship that she deserves and desires, and we want it for you RIGHT NOW! 

That’s why we put together this insane Black Friday bundle AND why we’re giving it to you early!

 Imagine breaking through the things that are blocking you from creating new love and creating the opening to call in the relationship of your dreams NOW.

 When women work with us they create new jobs, receive promotions, manifest new homes, and create the relationship of their dreams — all through the healing and transformation  that comes through doing this HeartWork. 

 If you’re ready to create a deeply loving, profound, and powerful relationship with yourself that will have you create the life and love you really want, then grab this limited-time Black Friday Bundle today!

Click here to claim your New Love Bundle! 

When you dive into all this bundle includes you’ll have everything you need to create everything your heart desires!

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever have a hard time deciding what to wear on a date, what to have for lunch or what to get a girlfriend for her birthday?

What about bigger decisions like whether or not to apply for that promotion, what car to buy, or how you invest your money?

For women who don’t trust themselves, any decision, big or small, takes the same level of emotional energy.

When you don’t trust yourself, you will exhaust yourself.

Does that sound familiar? 

How do you feel about making decisions for yourself (big or small)?

Do you feel like you often feel stuck, overthink, or 2nd guess your choices?

Life becomes so much easier when you can trust yourself to make the right decision for you!

Learning to trust yourself boils down to your relationship with yourself. Strengthening your relationship with yourself will result in an easier time making decisions – decisions that work for you!

So how do you do that??

The top two things you can do to strengthen your relationship with yourself are: 

1. Accept every part of yourself. 

Ask:

• Do you 100% accept yourself? 
• How fulfilled do you feel with your life? 
• What do you wish was different?

If there’s anything that you’re not 100% accepting about yourself – you get to do the HeartWork to accept it. You can’t trust someone who you don’t love – so you get to love yourself first!

1. Forgive Yourself.

Ask :

• Is there anything you need to forgive yourself for?
• Are you holding something from the past over your head? 
• Did a past decision not turn out the way you hoped it would that you need to let go of? 

In order to make the best decisions you must weigh the choices that are in front of you and then make the decision that you think and feel will be best for you.

The reason why you must accept and forgive yourself first is so that once you make the decision you can stand by it. You’ll be able to  trust that if things don’t turn out the way you wanted that you’ll make another decision in order to create the life that you want.

The next time you have a decision in front of you that’s weighing you down, ask yourself these questions:

• What’s really having me sit on this decision?
• What’s missing that’s causing me to not make a decision right now? 
• What is it costing me emotionally to stay in indecision? 
• What is it costing me physically? 
• What do I need to accept about myself? 
• What do I need to forgive myself for at this moment? 

When you’re not making choices, you’re always going to be missing a level of fulfillment in your life.

You’ll feel like you’re missing out, you’ll regret choices you make or you’ll never feel aligned with your values and vision you have for your life. 

As you transform the relationship you have with yourself and practice making strong decisions, your confidence will grow.

Confidence breeds more confidence and that creates deeper levels of trust.

And that’s really all there is to it.

If you’d like support with seeing where you may need to accept or forgive yourself, book a Love Breakthrough Call!

On this call our coaches will ask you what your goals are, ask the right questions to uncover what is really getting in the way and then give you 2-3 next best steps to take so you can step out of confusion and into clarity and confidence! 

Click here to book a Love Breakthrough Call!  

by Gladys Diaz

Does it seem like you always attract men who are less than what you want in a partner?

Do you attract men who you feel are “out of your league” and then feel insecure and awkward when you’re around them?

Are you creating the experiences that you feel you deserve?

Do you know that you are worthy of the love you want? 

Here’s the thing – Everyone is worthy of love and prosperity. You are simply because you are. There’s nothing you have to do to earn it and there’s nothing you could do to “mess it up.”

The question is then – do you believe it?

If you’re not creating exactly what you want to experience in partners and relationships – consider that there’s a limiting belief that’s operating in the background.

There’s a fear that’s based on something you’ve done, been through or survived that had you begin to doubt your worth and create a belief that you aren’t good enough or that you don’t deserve the love that you want.

The kicker is that these fears usually don’t present themselves as “I’m not worthy” or “I don’t deserve what I want.”

We talk to strong, determined, successful women all the time who are certain they don’t have a worthiness conversation going on because they can’t see it.

But as they work with us they see that it’s there and it’s sneaky.

It doesn’t sound like “I’m not worthy of being loved.”

What it does sound like is:

• “I’m not pretty enough.” 
• “I’m not skinny enough.”
• A man will never choose me.” 
• “No wonder he’s with her, she’s more outgoing and fun than me.”
• “What’s my problem? How come I can’t find the love that I want?”
• “That’s it! I’m going to take a break from dating.”
• “Here we go again – this is why I’ll always be single.”
• What does it sound like for you? 

These thoughts are an indication that there’s a limiting belief in your blindspot that you don’t believe you deserve what you want in life and love.

They’re like the “check engine light” for your soul asking that you look a little deeper.

The energetic truth is that you’ll attract that which is a match for what you feel and believe you deserve.

So how do you shift into the courage to believe? 

You must stop being afraid to be afraid.

What do we mean by that?

Get curious!

Choose to look at the thoughts and behaviors that are standing in the way between you and the extraordinary love that you want.

Pay attention to the thoughts and feelings that you have.

If you feel angry – what are you mad at? 

If you feel fear – what are you afraid of?

If you feel sad – what hurt you?

Then ask yourself if it reminds you of something that happened in the past. 

What happened right before you had that thought? 

This is what we’ll be doing next week in the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

The game we’ll be playing is being brave enough to look at what’s in the way and doing the work to break through it!

We’ll be looking at the negative thoughts that have been haunting you for 5, 10, 20, 50 years of your life….

And breaking through them in 5 DAYS so you can begin to attract what is aligned with who you are and what you want so you can create the relationship of your dreams!

Join us for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

Worthiness is a decision you make. Deservingness is knowing that you can have it. 

Decide right now that you deserve everything that you want and then register for the challenge by clicking below.

>>>>>>> https://reallovebreakthrough.com/

Next week is going to be incredible! We can’t wait to see you there.

by Gladys Diaz

Do you keep attracting what you know in your heart you don’t  want – but you can’t seem to break through and create something different?

Is there something that always seems to pull you towards what is less than what you want and you know it?

If you answered yes to either of those questions, let us ask you this…

Do you know your own worth?

So many times we hear from women some form of the following statements:

“If I was worth everything I think I want then I wouldn’t be single”

“If I was worth anything, I wouldn’t be divorced.”

“I must not be worth it, because no one has chosen me.”

Have you ever had a similar thought?

 We’re here to tell you today that your worthiness is not tied to any of that.

It’s not tied to your relationship status, how much money you have in the bank, how much you get paid, what others say about you – or anything else!

Self-worth can’t come from anything outside of you. Self-worth starts on the inside and is a decision you make.

You choose to believe it and be it!

The thing about having a worthiness conversation with yourself is that you’re probably not aware it’s the thing that’s holding you back in life and love.

And what’s more, is that if you don’t transform this – you will always be at the mercy of it.

If you don’t know, and we mean really know, that you’re worthy of peace, love, joy, success, abundance and so much more – nothing will ever be enough! 

Even if you have all the things in the world – an amazing relationship, a great career, all the money you could want – it won’t make a difference.

It will all sink out of the bottom of the cup if you don’t believe you deserve it. 

You get to break away from that.

You get to have everything you want (and more) because you know you are worthy of it!

But you have to know how to do it. You have to know how to undo the things that have happened in your past so you can shift what you believe.

And here’s something else. 

 Feeling unworthy isn’t the same as self-doubt.

We all doubt ourselves from time to time – that’s part of being human. The thing about self-doubt is you can have that feeling for a moment, but then you can motivate yourself to do the thing anyways. 

You can wonder if you’ll be good enough for the job, but you can motivate yourself to go to the interview anyways. 

 You can feel unsure about posting your dating profile online, but you can motivate yourself to do it anyway and see what happens.

When it comes to feeling unworthy – you can’t motivate yourself to be different.

You must do the HeartWork to transform your beliefs so you can attract and keep everything you want and deserve!

When you transform this you’ll no longer:

• tolerate disrespect
• settle for scraps when you know you could have the entire 5-course meal
• stay in a relationship that’s not everything you want 
• be blocked from all that you’re meant to be and have

   

When you know you’re worthy, just because you are, then you’ll attract and keep everything you want and deserve! You will bring men to you that will see your worth because you see it too.

And no one can take that away. 

 Join us for the Unleash Retreat coming up in just a couple of weeks, June 3rd-5th.

This retreat weekend is a very unique and experiential event, unlike anything else we do.

At the Unleash Retreat you’ll do activities that will have you break open your mind and heart to transform the things that are holding you back.

You will become UNLEASHED so you can stop wishing and reacting and start declaring and creating in your life.

You’ll find your voice and you’ll start using it.

You’ll distinguish the self-sabotaging patterns that you’ve created and break through them so you can become truly free! 

You’ll step out of the shadows once and for all because you’ll know your worth.

You’ll become unleashed!

Grab your ticket for the Unleash Retreat

You deserve this!

We can’t wait to see you there!

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by Gladys Diaz 

Are you feeling frustrated about your dating profile? 

Do you feel like you’re continually disappointed by the kind (or even lack thereof) of responses online?  

Do you ever feel yourself hesitate when going to open up (insert the online profile of your choice) because you’re afraid of what you’ll find? 

What if you could have a profile that’s brimming with opportunity that you can’t wait to open to see what you’ll find!

The truth is that the majority of people today are finding their partner online. 

So why not create a profile that will make it possible for you too!

The more telling your profile is about the kind of woman you are, the higher chance you have of attracting the relationship and experience of your dreams. 

So what should your profile focus on?

You, of course! Specifically, who you are and the relationship you want to have in a relationship. 

We’ve put together a “Do’s and Don’ts” list for creating an online dating profile that we know will have you attract the type of experience you’re wanting. These recommendations work across the board for all online dating sites. 

When it comes to your online dating profile DO: 

• Begin with 3 words that describe who you are. 
• How would your closest friends describe you?
• What would they say being in a relationship with you is like? 
• Example: “I’m a happy, intelligent, fun woman! (At least that’s what I’ve been told by my friends. 😉)”
• Create an experience with your profile without trying too hard.
• Use emojis and playful language to show your personality. 
• Be authentic.
• Share some specific things you like to do.
• If you like to travel, share places you’d like to visit with your future partner. 
• If you have an adventurous spirit, share some past and future experiences you’ve had and would like to create.
• If you like to read, share some books that are your favorite. 
• Express what you would like to experience in a relationship. 
• “In my future marriage, I want to create joy, generosity and love every day of our lives.”
• If you’re looking for marriage – say it! Be bold and be clear about what you want.

When it comes to your online dating profile DON’T: 

• Only focus on what you like to do. 
• This may put off the energy that you don’t know who you are or what you want.
• Be sarcastic or condescending about men
• This type of language is like a man repeller! 
• List specific things you want in a man
• Example: “I’m looking for a man who’s tall, likes to cook and doesn’t have kids.”
• Tell a man what to do
• Telling him when you’d like him to text, call or ask you on a date, etc. 

Some of these may sound silly, but we promise you, we’ve seen it all! And with all the work we’ve done with women we simply know that the do’s work and the don’ts well, don’t.

Now when it comes to pictures…

Don’t: 

• Wear Sunglasses
• Have other people in the picture (even if they’re mostly cut out)
• Include photos from 5 years ago
• Show a lot of skin

Do:

• Share pictures of who you are NOW 
• Be courageous and confident and that energy will come pouring through 
• Have your first picture be one of you facing forward
• Smile with teeth showing
• Smiling says, “I’m happy with my life and I’m available to date!” 
• Wear red lipstick or a red blouse (studies have shown that men are extremely attracted to red)
• Share pictures of you doing things you enjoy (ex: kayaking, hiking, yoga)
• If other things are in the picture (ex: a place that you visited or you and your dog) make sure you’re the focus and what shines through in the photo
• Look confident and comfortable.

The most important thing is to date in a way that has the experience be fun and exciting for you. The more you’re connected to who you are and what you want and are living your life accordingly, the more you’ll attract men that align! 

Well, there you have it! Everything you need to know to create a rocking online dating profile!
Later this year we’ll be doing our Online Dating Profile Workshop where we go even deeper and give personal feedback on your site and how to update it, but for now… 

Now go and take action! Don’t just read this or save it to your computer for later reference… go update your dating profile now!

Be in action creating what you want to have in your life and it will come to you!