What Your Negative Thoughts Really Mean (And How To Shift Them)

What Your Negative Thoughts Really Mean (And How To Shift Them)

by Gladys Diaz

Does it seem like you always attract men who are less than what you want in a partner?

Do you attract men who you feel are “out of your league” and then feel insecure and awkward when you’re around them?

Are you creating the experiences that you feel you deserve?

Do you know that you are worthy of the love you want? 

Here’s the thing – Everyone is worthy of love and prosperity. You are simply because you are. There’s nothing you have to do to earn it and there’s nothing you could do to “mess it up.”

The question is then – do you believe it?

If you’re not creating exactly what you want to experience in partners and relationships – consider that there’s a limiting belief that’s operating in the background.

There’s a fear that’s based on something you’ve done, been through or survived that had you begin to doubt your worth and create a belief that you aren’t good enough or that you don’t deserve the love that you want.

The kicker is that these fears usually don’t present themselves as “I’m not worthy” or “I don’t deserve what I want.

We talk to strong, determined, successful women all the time who are certain they don’t have a worthiness conversation going on because they can’t see it.

But as they work with us they see that it’s there and it’s sneaky.

It doesn’t sound like “I’m not worthy of being loved.

What it does sound like is:

    • I’m not pretty enough.” 
    • “I’m not skinny enough.”
    • A man will never choose me.” 
    • “No wonder he’s with her, she’s more outgoing and fun than me.”
    • “What’s my problem? How come I can’t find the love that I want?”
    • “That’s it! I’m going to take a break from dating.”
    • Here we go again this is why I’ll always be single.
    • What does it sound like for you? 

These thoughts are an indication that there’s a limiting belief in your blindspot that you don’t believe you deserve what you want in life and love.

They’re like the “check engine light” for your soul asking that you look a little deeper.

The energetic truth is that you’ll attract that which is a match for what you feel and believe you deserve.

So how do you shift into the courage to believe? 

You must stop being afraid to be afraid.

What do we mean by that?

Get curious!

Choose to look at the thoughts and behaviors that are standing in the way between you and the extraordinary love that you want.

Pay attention to the thoughts and feelings that you have.

If you feel angry – what are you mad at? 

If you feel fear – what are you afraid of?

If you feel sad – what hurt you?

Then ask yourself if it reminds you of something that happened in the past. 

What happened right before you had that thought? 

This is what we’ll be doing next week in the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

The game we’ll be playing is being brave enough to look at what’s in the way and doing the work to break through it!

We’ll be looking at the negative thoughts that have been haunting you for 5, 10, 20, 50 years of your life….

And breaking through them in 5 DAYS so you can begin to attract what is aligned with who you are and what you want so you can create the relationship of your dreams!

Join us for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

Worthiness is a decision you make. Deservingness is knowing that you can have it. 

Decide right now that you deserve everything that you want and then register for the challenge by clicking below.

>>>>>>> https://reallovebreakthrough.com/

Next week is going to be incredible! We can’t wait to see you there.

How to Break Free and Own Your Worth!

How to Break Free and Own Your Worth!

by Gladys Diaz

Do you keep attracting what you know in your heart you don’t  want – but you can’t seem to break through and create something different?

Is there something that always seems to pull you towards what is less than what you want and you know it?

If you answered yes to either of those questions, let us ask you this…

Do you know your own worth?

So many times we hear from women some form of the following statements:

If I was worth everything I think I want then I wouldn’t be single

If I was worth anything, I wouldn’t be divorced.”

I must not be worth it, because no one has chosen me.”

Have you ever had a similar thought?

 We’re here to tell you today that your worthiness is not tied to any of that.

It’s not tied to your relationship status, how much money you have in the bank, how much you get paid, what others say about you – or anything else!

Self-worth can’t come from anything outside of you. Self-worth starts on the inside and is a decision you make.

You choose to believe it and be it!

The thing about having a worthiness conversation with yourself is that you’re probably not aware it’s the thing that’s holding you back in life and love.

And what’s more, is that if you don’t transform this – you will always be at the mercy of it.

If you don’t know, and we mean really know, that you’re worthy of peace, love, joy, success, abundance and so much more – nothing will ever be enough! 

Even if you have all the things in the world – an amazing relationship, a great career, all the money you could want – it won’t make a difference.

It will all sink out of the bottom of the cup if you don’t believe you deserve it. 

You get to break away from that.

You get to have everything you want (and more) because you know you are worthy of it!

But you have to know how to do it. You have to know how to undo the things that have happened in your past so you can shift what you believe.

And here’s something else. 

 Feeling unworthy isn’t the same as self-doubt.

We all doubt ourselves from time to time – that’s part of being human. The thing about self-doubt is you can have that feeling for a moment, but then you can motivate yourself to do the thing anyways. 

You can wonder if you’ll be good enough for the job, but you can motivate yourself to go to the interview anyways. 

 You can feel unsure about posting your dating profile online, but you can motivate yourself to do it anyway and see what happens.

When it comes to feeling unworthy – you can’t motivate yourself to be different.


You must do the HeartWork to transform your beliefs so you can attract and keep everything you want and deserve!

When you transform this you’ll no longer:

  • tolerate disrespect
  • settle for scraps when you know you could have the entire 5-course meal
  • stay in a relationship that’s not everything you want 
  • be blocked from all that you’re meant to be and have

     

When you know you’re worthy, just because you are, then you’ll attract and keep everything you want and deserve! You will bring men to you that will see your worth because you see it too.

And no one can take that away. 

 Join us for the Unleash Retreat coming up in just a couple of weeks, June 3rd-5th.

This retreat weekend is a very unique and experiential event, unlike anything else we do.

At the Unleash Retreat you’ll do activities that will have you break open your mind and heart to transform the things that are holding you back.

You will become UNLEASHED so you can stop wishing and reacting and start declaring and creating in your life.

You’ll find your voice and you’ll start using it.

You’ll distinguish the self-sabotaging patterns that you’ve created and break through them so you can become truly free! 

You’ll step out of the shadows once and for all because you’ll know your worth.

You’ll become unleashed!

Grab your ticket for the Unleash Retreat

You deserve this!

We can’t wait to see you there!

 

 

 

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The Do’s (and Don’ts) of Your Online Dating Profile!

The Do’s (and Don’ts) of Your Online Dating Profile!

by Gladys Diaz 

Are you feeling frustrated about your dating profile? 

Do you feel like you’re continually disappointed by the kind (or even lack thereof) of responses online?  

Do you ever feel yourself hesitate when going to open up (insert the online profile of your choice) because you’re afraid of what you’ll find? 

What if you could have a profile that’s brimming with opportunity that you can’t wait to open to see what you’ll find!

The truth is that the majority of people today are finding their partner online. 

So why not create a profile that will make it possible for you too!

The more telling your profile is about the kind of woman you are, the higher chance you have of attracting the relationship and experience of your dreams. 

So what should your profile focus on?

You, of course! Specifically, who you are and the relationship you want to have in a relationship. 

We’ve put together a “Do’s and Don’ts” list for creating an online dating profile that we know will have you attract the type of experience you’re wanting. These recommendations work across the board for all online dating sites. 

When it comes to your online dating profile DO: 

  • Begin with 3 words that describe who you are. 
    • How would your closest friends describe you?
    • What would they say being in a relationship with you is like? 
      • Example: “I’m a happy, intelligent, fun woman! (At least that’s what I’ve been told by my friends. 😉)
  • Create an experience with your profile without trying too hard.
    • Use emojis and playful language to show your personality. 
    • Be authentic.
  • Share some specific things you like to do.
    • If you like to travel, share places you’d like to visit with your future partner. 
    • If you have an adventurous spirit, share some past and future experiences you’ve had and would like to create.
    • If you like to read, share some books that are your favorite. 
  • Express what you would like to experience in a relationship. 
    • In my future marriage, I want to create joy, generosity and love every day of our lives.
    • If you’re looking for marriage – say it! Be bold and be clear about what you want.

When it comes to your online dating profile DON’T: 

  • Only focus on what you like to do
    • This may put off the energy that you don’t know who you are or what you want.
  • Be sarcastic or condescending about men
    • This type of language is like a man repeller! 
  • List specific things you want in a man
    • Example: “I’m looking for a man who’s tall, likes to cook and doesn’t have kids.
  • Tell a man what to do
    • Telling him when you’d like him to text, call or ask you on a date, etc. 

Some of these may sound silly, but we promise you, we’ve seen it all! And with all the work we’ve done with women we simply know that the do’s work and the don’ts well, don’t.

Now when it comes to pictures…

Don’t: 

  • Wear Sunglasses
  • Have other people in the picture (even if they’re mostly cut out)
  • Include photos from 5 years ago
  • Show a lot of skin

Do:

  • Share pictures of who you are NOW 
    • Be courageous and confident and that energy will come pouring through 
  • Have your first picture be one of you facing forward
  • Smile with teeth showing
    • Smiling says, “I’m happy with my life and I’m available to date!” 
  • Wear red lipstick or a red blouse (studies have shown that men are extremely attracted to red)
  • Share pictures of you doing things you enjoy (ex: kayaking, hiking, yoga)
  • If other things are in the picture (ex: a place that you visited or you and your dog) make sure you’re the focus and what shines through in the photo
  • Look confident and comfortable.

The most important thing is to date in a way that has the experience be fun and exciting for you. The more you’re connected to who you are and what you want and are living your life accordingly, the more you’ll attract men that align! 

Well, there you have it! Everything you need to know to create a rocking online dating profile!
Later this year we’ll be doing our Online Dating Profile Workshop where we go even deeper and give personal feedback on your site and how to update it, but for now… 

Now go and take action! Don’t just read this or save it to your computer for later reference… go update your dating profile now!

Be in action creating what you want to have in your life and it will come to you!

Will You Create Your Heart’s Desire This Year?

Will You Create Your Heart’s Desire This Year?

by Gladys Diaz 

What’s your word for 2022? 

What will you create this year? 

How will this year be different from 2021 or 2020 or 2019? 

This time of year is so exciting because anything is possible! Each new year is like a brand new fresh chapter of life and you can create anything you want with it!

The thing is – there’s just one thing that will make this year different from other years. 

Intention. 

An intention is something you’re on fire about! It’s something you’re so passionate about you can’t wait to make it happen.

A powerful intention means the thought of not having it isn’t even an option, there’s no way you aren’t going to do whatever it takes to create it.  

If you didn’t have the love you wanted in 2021, then what will you create differently now? 

It’s not going to be figuring out what’s wrong with you that will have you create the desires of your heart. You are perfect just as you are! 

You may, however, have some behaviors you want to adjust or some patterns that aren’t working when it comes to creating the relationship of your dreams. 

That’s where intention comes in. 

Without setting the intention, you’ll continue to fall into those behaviors and patterns that don’t align with what you want to create. 

So the first step in creating the relationship of your dreams (or anything for that matter), is to set a powerful intention. 

What is it you desire more than anything – something that is so powerful that you’re pulled by the vision of it – you feel alive, fulfilled and free in it. 

Second, you must get crystal clear about it so that you can visualize it. 

Our clients who are creating the relationships of their dreams are seeing results because they can see and feel exactly what they want to experience in the relationship. They know who they are going to be for their partners and who their partners will be for them. 

What would having that type of clarity around your vision create for you? 

Having that clear of an intention makes all the difference. 

Third, you must be able to identify what’s blocking you. Not from a place of “something’s wrong with me” but from the place of “something’s not working here and I have the skills to uncover what it is.” 

Every woman was created to be the best version of herself. 

Our work will support you in doing the Heartwork and developing the skills to rise above the limiting beliefs and behavioral patterns that don’t work so that you can create the relationship that you desire and deserve. 

That’s why we’re hosting an Extraordinary Love Group VIP Day on March 19, 2022 and we want you there! We’re telling you about it now – because we’re having a new years special and this is the last week before the price will go up!

The Extraordinary Love Group VIP Day is a 5-hour immersive and intimate coaching and training experience where you will break through fears and limiting beliefs that have been keeping you stuck for years.

The breaking news is that it doesn’t matter if you didn’t create the love you wanted in 2021, 2019 or 1999! You can create it now! 

Let’s make 2022 the year that you step into the vision you have for love!

Say yes to creating your powerful intention this year and book a Love Breakthrough Session HERE. 

Are You Ready to be Irresistible?

Are You Ready to be Irresistible?

by Gladys Diaz 

It’s hard to believe that it’s been a week since the Irresistible Woman LIVE event began, and we’re still feeling the high!

Were you there with us? 

If you were, are you still feeling it?
What were your biggest takeaways? 

If you weren’t, please whitelist our email address so that you’ll know when to join us next time (Yes! There’s something new on the horizon, and you want to make sure you find out about it!!) 

Here’s what ladies are saying about the event:

“So so much, so many nuggets and so much valuable information. I got freed up and my backpack of boulders came off!”

“The energy was so powerful!”

“The mirror exercise was transforming.” 

“I’m still on a high from the fantabulous event!”

“My whole life was hard from everything, and now it doesn’t have to be that way. My whole life can be easy!! These things were huge for me, and will change my life forever.”

We seriously had such a blast with the incredible, successful, powerful women who showed up to be with us live!

We had women there from all over the world! Women from Jamaica and Israel and Australia, just to name a few, showed up to uplevel the experience they’re having in their love life so that it can match the success they have in the rest of their lives.

So many women have fears around being alone, fears about commitment, feel like they’re not able to trust. 

Other women feel like they aren’t able to communicate well with their partners, that all discussions end up as arguments or that they simply want to feel more excited about their long-term relationship. 

Can you relate? 

We dove deep into these topics, and so many more! 

Women really got to see that there’s a gap between the woman they want to be and the experience they want to have in a loving relationship and the woman they’re currently showing up as in relationships.  And that knowledge is power

The ladies who attended the event really got that they can have everything they desire!

We supported women in seeing the power of context and how, as they move their Love Barriers out of the way, they can clearly see the Irresistible Woman that’s already inside of them!

Women said:

“I became aware that I was focusing on what I didn’t want, instead of the experience I do want.”

“…all of your uplifting words – setting boundaries, being worthy and being strong enough to know I’m not going to settle for a toxic relationship and how to be graceful about it. To know I am a gift.” 

“I feel more confident and like I have hope again!”

Oh, how we want that for every single woman, including you, NAME.

This was such an incredible event and such an honor to stand with the women who attended. 

We pulled it off despite the challenges, and that’s what happens when you stay committed to your vision, you have the skills to work through the challenging times, and that gives you the confidence to know that you CAN create everything that you desire. 

We have another invitation for you. 

Whether you were with us at the event or not, we want to open up our Coaching Corner to you. This is your opportunity to ask for what you want, to show up for yourself and take a step towards hope and confidence. Have the courage to schedule an appointment with a coach and then show up powerfully to let them guide you.  

Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now

If you don’t take the first step now, then no one can take the next step with you. You are strong and confident and courageous and irresistible!  

Let’s make your dreams come true together!

It’s EASY for You to Have the Love of Your Dreams!

It’s EASY for You to Have the Love of Your Dreams!

by Gladys Diaz

 We’re living in a very uncertain world right now, and because of that dating has changed and may look completely different to you.

Have you felt that?

When we’re faced with a lot of uncertainty, it’s common for fear to come up, for us to pull back, to reevaluate our circumstances, and to try to control everything around us. 

This is a normal human response, and is why dating (and many other things in your life) may have felt (and continue to feel) so strange right now.

If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, or anything else in your life, we want you to know that you don’t have to feel that way. You can rise up and create exactly the life you want to create. 

This week on our LoveChat with the Love Twins, we had a conversation with one of our past clients, Denise, who went from hopeless to “I do.” Her story is so powerful we wanted to share it with you!

Denise came to us a couple of years ago when her life was feeling like a struggle!

She was a single mom, working long hours as a hair stylist, and coming home to a house that she’d been sharing with a man who had broken up with her over a year prior! Not the ideal situation, right?!

A year and a half prior to that, she’d been happily dating this man, thought he was the one, and bought a house with him. After just a few short months of living together, he broke up with her completely out the blue and she was devastated

She felt like she’d lost herself, because she’d given herself and her values away. She was in a really dark place and didn’t know who she was anymore.  

After reading an email from us, she responded and poured her heart out to us. We remember those emails so well! 

After a conversation where we listened to her, supported her, and then stood for her to see past her limiting beliefs, she decided to invest in herself and hire us to coach her. 

But here’s the thing she pointed out and that we want to highlight. 

At first she was mad. She didn’t like that we’d pointed out her limiting belief.

We didn’t make her wrong for it, but we helped her to see what she couldn’t see. As she shared this on Tuesday, we both got emotional because the truth is, and what she came to see later was, that we believed in her more than she did.

We stood for her so that she could have the life she wanted. 

And, here’s what happened… 

The very next day after investing in a program she didn’t think she could afford, the house that had been on the market for over a year SOLD! 

The very next day!

A couple of months later, she found her dream home, in the same neighborhood she’d lived in before, and was able to send her daughter to the school she’d dreamed of.

She asked for a raise at work, started working less hours, and just a couple of months later,  she met Dustin, her now-husband! 

All of this happened within just a few months of joining our program! 

Why did these things happen for her? 

Because Denise dismantled the limiting belief that kept her from truly believing that she could have the love and the life she’d always dreamed of.

She got clear on what she wanted, and had become open to receiving it.

She had come to know deeply that she deserved and could create anything that she wanted. 

And then she did! 

When she was reflecting on this she said, “I didn’t realize it was that easy!” 

The beautiful thing is that it is

She got clear on what she wanted and then took committed action to create it. 

It is that easy. 

Denise said, “It may seem counterintuitive to invest in yourself first, but when you do, the ROI is so much bigger!” 

She is living proof that taking a risk on yourself and seeing that you’re worth it matters.

Not only did she create all of that in just the few short months after she started working with us, but every year since, she has grown, her love has grown, and her bank account has, too! 

So what do you want? 

Are you going to stop wasting time and claim what you deserve?

Are you going to choose you

If you’re ready to get clear about what you want and learn the steps to easily create the life and relationship of your dreams, then join us for The Irresistible Woman Live! This 3-day, immersive, , and transformational live virtual event is perfect for the smart, successful woman who wants to stop wasting her time, struggling in love and relationships, and wants to create the love and happiness she’s always wanted  in the relationship of her dreams! 

And to help make it even easier for you to say “YES!” to yourself and your relationship dreams, we’re doing something special (and a little crazy!)!

We celebrated our 50th birthday this week, and, to celebrate it with YOU,  we’re gifting YOU a ticket to the Irresistible Woman LIVE for only $50! (regularly $497!)

So, click on the link below, grab your special Birthday Ticket, and join us  on October 23rd-25th

Click HERE to grab your ticket and start creating the relationship of your dreams NOW!

It really can be that easy! 

We want nothing more than for you to have everything you desire, because, when your dreams come true, ours do too! 

So, what do you say? Are you in?

Grab your special Birthday ticket Now!