by Gladys Diaz
Who’s someone you really admire?
Someone you look up to? Someone who’s made a difference for you?
Who would you like to be more like?
What characteristics do they have that you admire?
Do they show integrity? Are they authentic and real?
Maybe they have high energy that’s contagious.
Are they loving and generous?
Are they dignified and show grace under fire?
Take Oprah, for example. There is just such an amazing way that she exemplifies grace under fire. She is compassionate while being rigorous. She is kind while being strong. She speaks up and takes a stand without being reactive. She is dignified.
Those are just a few of the things that we look up to in women.
How about you?
Oftentimes, we recognize things in others that we’d like to develop more of in ourselves.
Whether you’re in a relationship or dating, it’s essential to be self-aware. To be able to recognize the places within yourself that are your opportunities for growth.
We say, “opportunities for growth,” because it’s not that you’re doing anything wrong or that you’re trying to be something you’re not. One of the biggest sources of stress in dating and relationships comes from being inauthentic or trying to be someone you’re not.
We say “opportunities for growth,” because recognizing the areas in which you’d like to develop are opportunities for higher levels of self-esteem, confidence and more desired experiences.
And all of those things are highly attractive, right?
It’s like that awesome quote by Sophia Bush says:
“You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously.”
You can strive to develop yourself while also exercising self-love and grace and always striving to be your authentic best.
So what are the ways of being you’d like to embody ?
Here are some ideas from our community:
Owning a State of Ease
Sense of Humor
And those are just a start!
What is it for you?
Choose two ways of being that would make the biggest difference for you and for those around you that you can focus on embodying this week.
And remember to make it fun!
There is a natural human desire to grow. There’s so much fulfillment and satisfaction that comes from recognizing your growth opportunities and doing something about them!
If you’d like help recognizing what some of those opportunities are for you, book a Love Breakthrough Call. That’s what we’re here for!
Sometimes, the thing holding us back is in our blind spot, and all it takes is someone to lovingly point it out, help us remove it and replace it with something else that makes all the difference.
We look forward to hearing the ways in which you’re stretching yourself this week!
YOU can be the woman you most admire when you BE the love you want to see!
Lots of love,
Gladys & Michelle
The Love Twins