by Gladys Diaz
Let me ask you a couple of questions:
- How much connection and intimacy do you feel in your relationship?
- How effective is your communication?
Did you know that communication and intimacy are 100% linked in a relationship?
Communication is key! You can have all the love in the world, and if you don’t know how to communicate effectively, then the relationship simply will not work.
98% of the coaching we do is around communication.
Why? Because it’s one of the most important aspects of any relationship (and it begins when you’re dating!).
99% of divorces and break-ups happen because root issues in a relationship never get resolved because the couple doesn’t know how to communicate clearly, effectively, and in a way that BOTH partners feel heard and understood.
Let me paint the picture for you of how this happens. I’m sure you’re going to be able to relate.
Do you ever have the experience when you’re talking to your partner that you’re not even sure whether you’re having the same conversation?
I remember before Ric and I learned the tools we teach now — sometimes it would feel like we were so far from being on the same page that it was like we weren’t even in the same room!
We were both so committed to being right that we weren’t even listening to each other.
We would be talking about something completely innocent, like what bread we like to buy, and then I would say something, Ric would say something different, which made me feel like he didn’t hear or understand what I said.
So, I’d say it again, but louder this time, and he still wouldn’t understand, and, before we knew it, we were yelling at each other, saying things we didn’t mean, being disrespectful, and hurting each other.
And then we wouldn’t talk for two or three days.
Well, we would talk a little, but it would be what I like to call the “caveman’s grunt.” I would ask Ric a question and he would give me a one-syllable or one-word answer under his breath, to let me know that he didn’t want to talk to me. (Ugh!)
That’s how break-ups and divorce happen.
Arguments start over silly (or sometimes important) things, the communication breaks down, and soon you’re arguing about something completely unrelated.
Then the silent treatment begins, and the real problem never gets resolved.
So, do you want some real communication tools?
Do you want to stop getting frustrated with your spouse, getting angry and then reacting instead of responding thoughtfully and intentionally?
Do you want to know what to say so that when your spouse says, “What did you say?” instead of repeating the same words louder, you can respond in a way that will make you feel understood and heard (and loved)?
Do you want to know how to utilize your intention, tone and body language in your communication to increase love and intimacy?
These are just a few of the things you’ll learn inside our Black Friday Special, the New Year New Love Bundle!
We are passionate about supporting women to communicate effectively because we know personally the painful consequences poor communication can have on a relationship.
We want you to have all the tools that will have you communicate in a way that has you create the love, connection and intimacy you desire with your partner! .
Tip: This offer goes away TODAY, so act now.
Lots of love,
Gladys & Michelle
The Love Twins