by Gladys Diaz
Are you having a hard time getting over a past relationship?
Have you done everything you know to do, and you still find yourself longing for someone that’s long gone?
When thinking about that past relationship, do you find yourself thinking…
…“But I still love him.”
…“I really thought he was the one.”
…“How will I know I’m choosing the right man next time, when I was wrong this time?”
We hear these things from women all the time, and if you’re in this position right now, we’re here to call you forward and say: It’s time to let it go!
If you’re still energetically connected to someone, whether you say you are or not, then it’s really difficult (if not impossible!) for someone new to come into your life.
And, even if you do meet someone who you’re compatible with, the chemistry’s there, and you have a great time with him, it will still feel like something is off.
It’s simply not possible to create something new and lasting if there is something in the space that you haven’t let go of.
If you’ve been “getting over someone” for 9 months, 2 years, 12 years, 40 years, it’s time to get curious about why feel as if you’re not able to move on.
What’s really keeping you stuck?
Sometimes it’s the person and the past relationship you feel you can’t let go of.
Sometimes it’s the idea of the past relationship that you’ve glorified in your mind that’s keeping you stuck.
But, more often than not, it’s the fear that you won’t be able to feel the same way you felt about that someone again, and you’re afraid to let go and even try.
Here’s the thing…
Think about when you were a little girl at recess, swinging on the monkey bars.
You couldn’t just hang on to one bar forever, right?
At some point, you had to have the courage to let go of one hand so that you could move forward.
And then you had to do the same thing with the other hand: Let go… and move forward.
It’s the same thing when it comes to moving forward from a past relationship.
You have to find the courage to let go of the past in order to move forward and create something new.
The work there is to do is to accept what actually happened in the past relationship and complete it so that you can be present in current experiences, move forward and be happy NOW!
You don’t have to let go of the love you had/have for that person. You can choose to love him forever, if you want to.
What you do need to let go of is the attachment to being with him and having him be a part of your life… even if that part is only in your head.
We believe there are people that come into our lives to teach us things or give us experiences that we need to have.
When you can accept that a past relationship was simply that, and you are able to release it and move forward, that’s when magic starts to occur.
Letting go and moving on from someone doesn’t have to take a year OR years!
When you make yourself the victim of someone else’s choices, it robs you of your power and you sacrifice:
- Having happiness now
- Experiencing the relationship of your dreams now
- Attracting the man that will love you fully and completely for the rest of your life
- And everything else your heart desires
When you stop allowing someone else to determine whether or not you get to have the relationship of your dreams, you take back your power and you begin to attract men who are right for you now.
If you’re ready to let go of your past and move forward into the love you dream about then let go of one hand and join us this weekend for the Extraordinary Love Intensive! This 3-day event starts TODAY at 12:00pm ET, and it’s exactly what you need to get unstuck right now.
At the event we’re going to take you through a specific exercise that will have you recognize what it is that you need to let go of and give you the exact steps that you’ve felt incapable of taking before.
We know you aren’t staying stuck on purpose, but without knowing these steps, you are playing trial and error with your heart, causing yourself unnecessary heartache, and we want you to get unstuck now!
You will leave the event with crystal-clear clarity on what you need to do so that you can start moving forward on the monkey bars of your love life and really start attracting the man and relationship of your dreams!!!