by Gladys Diaz
Do you feel like you keep experiencing the same disappointing results in your love life?
Do you feel like you’re trying new things and doing all the :right things,” but the same sabotaging behaviors show up?
Does it seem like, no matter what you do, you just keep repeating the patterns and getting the same results?
First, you’re not alone.
We all have patterns, or habitual thoughts and behaviors, that hold us back from creating the results we want in our lives. These patterns are subconscious and they stem from fears and limiting beliefs that you don’t even realize are there!
The only way to stop these fears and beliefs from sabotaging your life and happiness is to break through and replace them so that they are no longer running the show.
And here’s what we want you to know: Repeating these patterns is not a reflection of how much you want to change them or whether you’re able to break through them.
You can have all the desire in the world for things to change in your love life, and if you’re not doing the internal Heart Work to truly through these barriers, nothing will change.
The hard truth is, if you’re still not experiencing the relationship of your dreams and creating the results you want in your love life, there’s still some Heart Work to be done.
There are still sabotaging thoughts and behaviors to get to the bottom of and break up. There are still wounds that need to be healed.
You get to do the full Heart Work so that you can create everything you dream of.
And if you’re in the place of thinking “Well, what about the years of therapy (or courses, workshops and retreats) I’ve already done” or “I’ve already done everything…” if you don’t have the results, there’s still a little work to do.
Consider that all of the work you’ve done already has led you to this place and moment you’re in right now, and that because of that work, you’re ready to bust through the final beliefs NOW! Consider that this is your time for real change.
The first step in breaking through these sabotaging patterns that are holding you back, is to be willing to look at what’s not working.
Ask yourself, “What might be having me do the same thing over and over again?”
Then recognize that it’s not anything outside of you!
I promise you that 99.99999% of the time, it’s not the app, or the man, or your ex, or your past., It’s something internal.
If you have these thoughts on repeat… “I can’t trust people” or “Everyone lets me down” (along with a thousand other possible thoughts!), those are the fears and beliefs that are running the show of your life and stopping you from experiencing the fun, joy, and love you really want.
After years of hearing those thoughts replaying incessantly over and over in your head, you stop realizing that you’re hearing them, and there comes a point where those thoughts become your “truth.” …And you relate to them as the truth.
They become what we call a “Love Barrier” which blocks your ability to give and receive love freely. These Love Barriers are usually blind spots that you can’t see for yourself.But when you receive the guidance and support you need to recognize and break them down, you are able to get past them and create a flow in your love life.
Once there’s flow, you’re able to CHOOSE who you want to trust, spend time with, and love because the limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns are no longer listening, speaking, or choosing for you..
So what about you?
Are you willing to recognize that what you’ve been doing simply isn’t working to bring you the happiness, love, and relationship you want, and that you could use some support in recognizing what your blind spots that are creating the patterns that are sabotaging your dreams?
We hoped you’d say Yes!” which is why we’re inviting you to join us at the Extraordinary Love Intensive on March 12-14th!
This 3-day event intensive is designed to have you break through those Love Barriers, transform your love life, and attract and create the extraordinary, loving relationship of your dreams!
You will come out of this immersive weekend experience having more clarity about who you are and the patterns that are holding you back.
You’ll do some of the deep and transformational Heartwork that’s necessary to break these patterns, and you’ll be so much closer to creating the relationship of your dreams.
The powerful thing about these events is that when you’re there with us LIVE, you remember the work that you do. These patterns can be broken up once and for all, because what you’re experiencing it LIVE at the event is that powerful.
Don’t wait. Don’t keep putting your happiness on hold. I probably don’t need to tell you that waiting is another self-sabotaging behavior pattern that you can break free from now!