by Gladys Diaz
What is the key to true love?
Many women think it lies in finding the right person or having a perfected list of qualities you’re looking for in a partner.
Some think it’s about where or how you meet the person, while others think the key is in “divine timing.”
What we’ve found from working with women of every age, from many countries, and all backgrounds is that there is one thing that truly separates the women that create the loving, intimate, long term relationship they desire and those that don’t.
The key to creating true love with another person is creating true love within yourself first.
Now, we’re not talking about self-care, though we do encourage doing all the things that fill you up and nourish your soul.
Self-love is deeper.
Self-love is about the relationship you have with yourself.
It’s the things you say about and to yourself.
It’s feeling comfortable with the most intimate parts of who you are.
It’s the beliefs you hold about yourself.
It’s the way you trust who you are and how you feel.
It’s loving and accepting every part of you, even the parts of you you’re afraid others may not like.
It’s bringing forgiveness and acceptance to your past.
True self-love creates confidence, trust and the ability to create the things you most deeply desire.
This is important whether you are single, in a relationship, or in a relationship that isn’t everything you hoped it would be, because the relationship you have with yourself will be reflected in the relationships you create with other people.
Do you have any resistance coming up around this?
Do you doubt that this could really be what’s missing from creating what you want in your life?
If so, you’re not the only one. It’s easier to point outside of yourself for why things aren’t working the way you’d like to in your life. It’s much harder to look inward and be responsible for what you’re experiencing and creating in your relationships and in your life.
And, if you don’t have the skills to know how to turn things around it can be a terrifying and frustrating place to be. We get that.
We also know that knowing exactly what to do and how to do it brings incredible amounts of confidence, joy, and empowerment, because the relationship you have with yourself is the ONE thing you have total control over.
Everything starts with you.
And that’s GREAT news!
When I was in the midst of my own self-love mission, everything in my life looked perfect on the outside. I had the job, I had great kids, I traveled with my girlfriends, and I was dating a lot — though none of those dating experiences ever went very far.
Men would always tell me that I had an amazing life and was an amazing woman, but that they knew they just couldn’t give me what I wanted.
I felt so confused and wondered why.If my life was so awesome, how could I still come home at night and feel so miserable and lonely and alone?
Once I did the HeartWork I realized that all I wanted was someone to validate that I was lovable, when what I really needed was to create that love inside myself first.
Recognizing that belief, uncovering where it came from, and creating something different within myself was such a transformative experience that it’s literally why we started doing the work that we do.
We want every single woman to create the love and relationship that she deserves and desires, and, like we’ve said, we know it starts with you.
That’s why we’d love to invite you to the Self-Love Secret Mission, a free 5-day challenge happening next week!
Imagine five days where you can break-though and create the type of love and relationship with yourself that you want to create with others.
Throughout the week, you will experience falling in love with yourself and start seeing the miracles that follow.
Out of this experience we’ve seen women obtain new jobs, receive promotions, manifest new homes, and create the relationship of their dreams — all through the healing and transformation that comes through doing this HeartWork.
If you’re ready to create a deeply loving, profound, and powerful relationship with yourself that will have you create the life and love you really want, then make sure you join us for the Self-Love Secret Mission!
When you dive into self-love and develop a deep and intimate relationship with yourself, you tap into and unleash your Irresistible Essence, which is the key to creating everything your heart desires!
We can’t wait to see you there!