by Gladys Diaz
Did you know that vulnerability is your superpower?
Why?
Because vulnerability is the key to creating the loving, passionate, connected relationship you want.
So what does vulnerability look like?
Vulnerability is…
- Trusting yourself to know who to trust
- Sharing authentically and honestly, yet appropriately
- Being vulnerable and honest with yourself
- Having clarity with yourself and living in an alignment with your values and who you really are.
- The ability to be yourself without beating yourself up.
So what stops you from being vulnerable?
Fear.
If you aren’t being 100% vulnerable with others then there is a fear at play behind the scenes.
Fear of disappointment.
Fear of what others might think.
Fear that if you do _____ then ______ will (or wont’) happen.
Fear that if you say ________ then they will think _______.
Fear that if you show up as yourself, people won’t like or approve.
Do any of these fears show up for you?
If you’re afraid of being vulnerable, there is some pain you’re trying to avoid or something you’re trying to force/make happen.
These fears lead us to either pretend, hide, or resist.
They lead us to try to control how everyone around us thinks and feels.
They lead us to think that we must show up one way in order to get a certain reaction from people.
How exhausting!
What’s worse is that people can usually pick up on the inauthenticity.Most people are be able to feel the insecurity behind everything you’re trying to cover up, and, eventually, it will all come out.
Imagine going on a date with you and all of the things you’re trying to control…
It’s you, him, and a pile of fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs sitting across from each other.
Doesn’t sound very fun, right? Or very real.
So how do you overcome these fears and show up with vulnerability in order to create genuine connection?
You do the Heartwork to uncover and heal those fears.
You learn how to express yourself with intention so that your authentic and honest shares come out in a way where they can be received and respected.
You practice. The more you practice vulnerability, the more confident you will feel in simply being yourself.
Now, we know that it’s usually easier said than done. (If you knew how to do all of this, you’d probably already be doing it, right?)
Doing the HeartWork to tear down the walls of pretense and stepping into your authentic and Irresistible Essence takes knowing what to do, what not to do, and what to do differently.
That’s where we come in, and that’s why we’re inviting you to join us at the Extraordinary Love Intensive on March 12-14th! This 3-day event intensive is designed to have you break through your Love Barriers, transform your love life, and attract and create the extraordinary, loving relationship of your dreams!
You will come out of this incredible weekend having more clarity about who you are and the patterns that are holding you back. You’ll do some of the deep and transformational Heartwork that’s necessary to break these patterns and you’ll be so much closer to creating the relationship of your dreams. This is the work we usually only do with our clients, but we want to share it with YOU so that you can stop pretending and start BEing the authentic, vulnerable irresistible version of yourself that is going to have you attract an amazing man with whom you get to create Extraordinary Love!
Life doesn’t stop. Time is going to keep going by, no matter what choices you make.
Why not make a choice that’s going to lead to more joy, love, happiness and freedom in your life…And the kind of love you’ve always wanted?!
Claim Your Ticket Now!
Hurry! Before the 2-pay option goes away!
Vulnerability is the only way to create true love.
Let us guide you toward the life and love your heart desires!
