by Gladys Diaz
Do you ever feel insecure while dating?
Do you wonder things like…
“What if he doesn’t like me?”
“What if we don’t feel the same connection when we see each other that we felt on the phone?”
“What if the same insecurities that had me sabotage the last relationship come up this time?”
“Will I ever just be able to be myself and know that it’s enough?”
When you feel insecure your thoughts take you away from where would really make a difference for you to be – which is inside yourself.
The key to successful dating – and the eventual dream relationship is knowing what you want, feeling secure with who you are and choosing a partner that supports you in creating that relationship.
So – how can you feel secure while dating?
The #1 thing that has women feel insecure in dating is not dating correctly and thinking they are in a relationship before they actually are.
The most important thing to remember while you’re dating is this –
Dating IS NOT a relationship.
Dating involves getting to know different men so that you can have as many different experiences as possible while discovering what it is that you want to experience in a relationship.
If you start out expecting something to become a relationship then you get attached to the idea of the man too soon – before you actually know him. Those expectations cause you to feel insecure when he doesn’t reciprocate the attachment as quickly and usually leads to the man pulling away and the dating experience coming to an end.
On the other hand, if you’re dating many men at the same time and allowing yourself to really get to know them – you keep yourself from becoming too attached to anyone prematurely and allow yourself to be fully awake to see who is showing up for you, how you feel in the experience and what you want to develop further.
And trust us – when a man wants to be in a relationship, you will know it!
Good high, quality men who know what they want, don’t waste any time becoming exclusive and committed to the woman they want to be with.
Now – here’s the thing:
Even though dating correctly and remembering that there are plenty of good men out there is important –
– the most important thing you can do to make sure you feel secure in dating – is to increase your confidence in yourself and get crystal clear about what it is that you want to experience in life and in a relationship.
If you continue to attract men who don’t know what they want or aren’t aligned with what you’d like to experience in a relationship then you need to do the HeartWork to understand what is causing you to attract what you don’t want and how you can break through and create something different!
When you create clarity, you increase your level of security and can feel certain within yourself no matter what others do or what your outside circumstances are.
When you become connected to your authentic self and fully see the vulnerable beauty that you are – then men are attracted to that energy in you!
If you’re ready to have a breakthrough and become the confident, secure woman who’s ready for love then you need to join us on Saturday for Love Breakthrough LIVE!
On this FREE LIVE Love Breakthrough Coaching Call, we’ll be coaching YOU on how to identify your love barriers, break through them, and step into the love your heart truly desires.
After you register you’ll have the opportunity to apply to be coached live on the session –
And when you do, you’ll be coached on the call the same way we coach our clients, which will lead you to have incredible breakthroughs and create the love you want NOW!
We can’t wait for Saturday and hope we see your face there!
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