by Gladys Diaz
Are you hard on yourself about things that have happened in the past?
Do you wonder why you keep attracting the wrong type of men into your life?
Do you wish you could stop making the same mistakes when it comes to relationships and love?
When the results you continue to experience in love and relationships are less than what you want – your confidence gets shaken.
And when you don’t do the work to get to the root of what has you continuing to create these experiences, there’s a chain of consequences that follow…
We call this chain the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle.
When something less than ideal happens and you say things to yourself like:
“How could I be so dumb?”
“When am I going to stop attracting liars?”
“When am I ever going to get it right?”
You create fears and love barriers which then has you create more of the same and your confidence and trust in yourself (and your ability to create the love you want) disintegrates.
Here’s what the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle looks like:
- Event
- You Make a Decision/Judgment About What Happened
- Love Barrier (Fear) is Created
- Dysfunctional Pattern is Created (Actions)
- You Get Results that You Don’t Want
- You Make Another Decision/Judgment About Yourself (Trust and Confidence is Eroded)
- Another Limiting Belief (Fear) is Created
And the cycle repeats itself over and over!
Being in this cycle is what has you doubt yourself, not trust others, feel the need to “take a break” from dating and more.
So how do you shift this cycle and uplevel your confidence in yourself and others?
In order to stop the dysfunctional dating cycle and begin to experience yourself as the type of woman who can create what she wants in life and love, you must do the HeartWork!
When you get the results you want – your confidence and trust in yourself goes up!
1. See It – Acknowledge what’s not working. Get to the root of what is having you continue to create the results you don’t want.
2. Shift It – Do the HeartWork and learn how to replace the broken pieces with the RIGHT one.
This isn’t about tips and tricks.
This is about healing the pieces of your past that created those limiting beliefs that aren’t allowing you to create what you really want.
3. Experience It – When you free yourself from the fears you hold, you allow yourself to create new thoughts and behaviors, which creates different results and a new healthy pattern unfolds!
When you transform the dysfunctional patterns you have in love – you transform YOU.
Would you like to create this shift for yourself?
GOOD NEWS!
We’re dedicating 3 days in February to teach you how to do exactly this!
At the Love Vision Intensive 3-Day Event, you’ll experience a new level of healing that will allow you to truly move forward in confidence and trust to create the results in love that you want!
If you want…
- 2023 to be the year you’re in the relationship of your dreams
- To know how to STOP the dysfunctional patterns
- Your confidence to soar as you experience incredible results.
Then you NEED to join us for the Love Vision Intensive!
If you want to be married next year – the next 3-6 months are critical.
Make a choice today to have 2023 be the year you create everything you’ve dreamed of!
