by Gladys Diaz
There are so many women who believe they have to choose between having a successful business or a great relationship. They truly don’t believe it’s possible to have both.
Here’s the deal: If you believe you can’t have both, you’re living in a scarcity conversation, and you’re actually blocking the success you could be experiencing in BOTH!
So many of our clients are rocking it in their business as well as their love lives.
And we are too!
That’s why, we know that not only is it possible for you to have both – it actually makes all of it even better!
High-quality men want to support, be in contribution to, and pour into a high-quality woman.
Men want to support us.
I’ll never forget, years back, when I was crying, sitting in a restaurant with tears flowing down my face because I’d just been on the phone with my business coach.
I was feeling so defeated that I didn’t know what all of the tech terms meant or what all of this software I needed was, and didn’t know how I was ever going to be successful in my business when I felt so clueless about this aspect of running a business.
Ric saw the opportunity, and he literally learned how to create funnels, build websites and do all-things-tech related to our business, simply as a result of wanting to support me and my dream.
It’s okay if you don’t have a clue what any of those things mean either, what matters is that all these years later and I can’t even imagine where I, or Hearts Desire for that matter, would be without him.
The other reason why men love being with high-quality, successful, driven women is because it inspires them to be more.
I’ll also never forget the day when I heard Ric, my soft-spoken husband, stand on one of our stages at an event and say, “Seeing how committed Gladys is to her own transformation inspires me to become a better man.”
Definitely another tearful moment for me!
Until then I knew he admired the things I did, my career, and professional accomplishments.
But that day, he was talking about what he admired about ME and the woman I AM!
No award, degree, or certificate I’ve earned can hold a candle to that!
The most beautiful thing about creating a partnership with someone who loves and admires you AND your determination and commitment in the world is what you can create together.
It gives you the opportunity to lean on one another and lift each other up when you have days where you’re having a hard time seeing it in yourself.
Supportive partners see you, experience you and hear you in a way that you sometimes fail to see, and they share your life, your success, and all of the ordinary-extraordinary moments with you as you continue to strive for success in all areas of your life.
When you know that you’re a love-able woman, then you can attract someone who believes that, too.
When you’re honest and authentic about who you are, that’s when you’ll find the man who will love you completely.
When you trust yourself, love yourself, and know that you’re capable of creating an amazing relationship in your life, you WILL!
This is what I know was true for me and, it’s true for you too.