by Gladys Diaz
Are you making your love life a priority?
Here we are at the beginning of a new year and, we’re willing to bet that you’ve listed your love life as one of your top priorities for 2021.
Now, what are you actually doing about it?
What actions are you taking to make sure that you start creating the love you want now?
The truth is that if you aren’t seeing the results you want to see in your love life, then your commitment is actually somewhere else.
Even if you’ve got a vision board created, you’ve set some goals, and your vision statement is written out; if you’re not taking committed action on this goal, it’s not going to happen.
And we get it. When you’re a highly driven woman, you have goals and you’re used to hitting them, it can be frustrating and tiring when you’re not seeing success in your love life.
So what do you usually do?
You focus on something else. Something you think you have more control over and feel more confident in.
Or you pretend that you don’t want to be in a relationship, that it’s not important to you, or that you’re 100% okay being single.
But here’s the thing…
There’s never going to be a better time to get committed to your love life.
If you’re waiting until that big project is complete, until you finish school, until your kids grow up, until you lose the weight,until you’re 100% healthy and have everything figured out…
it’s never going to happen.
One of the saddest things for us to hear from women who say they’ve been waiting 15, 20, 48 years to create the love they want. They never thought they’d be waiting that long, and can’t believe how much time has passed.
We want you to have the relationship of your dreams NOW!
We know that creating an extraordinary love and life requires making it a priority!
So how do you do that?
How do you make creating the love you want a priority in your already full, busy, and beautiful life?
- Distinguish what’s most important to you.
What are the top five priorities in your life? Community? Friends? Family? Work? Home? Yoga? Health? Is your love life one of those top 5?
- Ask yourself why those things matter to you.
Getting clear on why something is important to you, helps motivate you to put the time and energy into creating what you want to see.
Ask yourself why creating an incredible relationship is important to – and why is that important to you – and why is that important?
Keep going deep with yourself and getting to the heart of what you really want and why you really want it is critical to making sure you realize your goals!
- Decide what actions you will commit to taking to move the needle forward.
What actions will you take daily, weekly and monthly to create progress in your love life? Aligning your actions with your priorities is the key to creating what you desire.
Once you have these things laid out – you should start feeling more aligned with yourself and your goals. You’ll start to see shifts in what you’re creating and what you’re attracting into your life.
If you’re still having a hard time – get curious about what’s getting in the way?
What’s in the gap between being clear with yourself about what you want?
If you’d like support with getting clear on what you really want, what’s stopping you from having that, and you want guidance in determining the actions that will help you most in creating the relationship of your dreams, then we want to talk to you!
Book a Love Breakthrough session with one of our coaches. They can’t wait to talk to you and help you start to put your priorities in order and begin creating the life and love your heart desires!.