by Gladys Diaz
The way you do one thing is the way you do everything.
Think about that for a minute.
What small choices have you made today at work that are impacting your love life?
What are the reasons and excuses you use to put things off, not go after what you really want, and things that you tell yourself about your health, career, or finances to make yourself feel better about not having the loving, passionate lifelong relationship you really want?
There’s a “BIG TRAP” that way too many women fall into that actually sabotages them from having the highest levels of love, success and happiness that are available to them.
What’s “The BIG TRAP”?: It’s the “either/or” conversation.
It sounds something like:
I need to focus on my business/career right now.
I have to put my kids first.
I need to get my finances in order before I start dating.
I need to _____ (lose weight, finish school, start my business… you can fill in your own blank) before I can make my love life a priority.
What you’re really saying is:
I can either be a great mom OR have a thriving career.
I can either focus on losing weight OR dating.
I can either focus on school OR on building my relationship.
The fact is, NONE OF THAT IS TRUE!!
Anytime you are in an “Either/O” conversation, you are in a full-blown scarcity conversation and you’re letting your fears choose for you.
Whenever you’re thinking that you can’t have everything you desire, you’re actually stopping yourself from making your dreams come true. You’re not letting your commitment choose for you, heck, you’re not even letting your reality choose for you. You’re allowing your fear run you and your life.
What if YOU could choose what you want, instead?
What if you believed that YOU were powerful enough to create and have EVERYTHING you desire right NOW?
I know you think you’re choosing when you’ve convinced yourself that you’re simply being responsible or honorable, or that it’s what you should do when you’re choosing to put your dreams to the side.
But, honestly, who’s really telling you that?
The #1, most important, longest-lasting and most intimate relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself. And, just how is that relationship every going to be a loving, fulfilling one if you’re constantly telling yourself that you can’t have what you want?
Think about it this way:
Do you want to be with a partner that’s constantly telling you what you can and can’t do, that you shouldn’t go for what you really want, that what you want isn’t possible, , that it’s not the right time for you to make your dreams come true, and that you’re being “irresponsible” when you are simply following the desires of your heart
I don’t think so!
I doubt it!
So, if you don’t want to be with a partner who’s always telling you that, then it’s time to stop telling yourself that.
You can be responsible AND invest in your love life.
You can be responsible AND follow your dreams.
You can create a permanent state of abundance AND love AND success.
But you can’t do it alone.
Why are we such a stand for this, and why can we say this so confidently? Because we are living it!!
This isn’t hoping, wishing, “theory” or positive thinking.
This is OUR LIFE. And it’s the life of the thousands of women who we help create the lasting loving relationships AND the abundant, successful lives their hearts desires.
It’s sooooo important that you are selective about who you allow to whisper in your ear and tell you what is possible and how to create the life and love you want.
Let someone who’s got the mindset, the leadership, the skills AND the results that you want to be the one whispering (and, sometimes, yelling) in your ear.
Start living your life from a place of COMMITMENT to creating and living the life and love you want right now!
We know this kind of straight-forward truth isn’t for everyone.
Some people who started reading this email having gotten this far. They either closed the email, hit “reply” to tell us off, or are judging us in some way.
We. Don’t. Care.
Our commitment to women finally getting themselves out of this “Either/Or Trap” and creating the kind of loving relationships they have always dreamed of is BIGGER than our fear that you may be getting triggered because you don’t like what we’re saying.
But, if you’re the kind of woman who is willing to feel uncomfortable and do what it takes to break through whatever it is that has been standing in the way of you having the love you want, then we invite you to book a call with us.
See, the doors to our programs are closing. After that you’ll have to wait another year – a whole other year of not having the love, romance, passion, and happiness you deserve and say you want. You simply need to know what to stop doing and what to start doing differently so that you can create that relationship with ease and SPEED.
Our programs are by invitation-only. You can’t find out about them online.
It’s only by having a conversation with one of our team members that we can decide whether working with us is your next best step.
If it is, we’ll make an invitation and tell you about it. If it’s not, we’ll be honest and make some recommendations we feel will help you get the results you want.
So, if you’re still reading and you want to finally stop wasting time, energy, and hope on relationships that just don’t work, book a call and see if working with us a good fit. Tell your fears to shut up and tell your dreams that they’re worth it.
Because, remember how we said that how you do one thing is how you do everything?
If you’re not booking a call to see if we can support you with your relationship goals, then notice you are honoring your fears (and how this isn’t the only place in your life where they are running the show). It’s just that simple.
Where do you want to go? What’s getting in the way? Why are you having the same conversations over and over and nothing changes?
Be resourceful. Pull yourself forward. Honor yourself. Book a call.
This is your life. This is your dream. Fight for it!
Lots of love,
Gladys & Michelle
The Love Twins