by Gladys Diaz

I have to say that I love Spring!

I’m back in the office today after a wonderful week off with my 3 guys for Spring Break.  As I’m sitting here, at my desk, there’s a group of birds outside my window serenading me, the grass and trees are a vibrant green, and I can see the beautiful buds about to bloom on the tree outside my office.

It feels as if everything is fresh and new! Sights and sounds in high-def and surround sound, all pointing to new beginnings!
So, I wonder… Is that how you’re feeling about your love life?

Are you feeling the excitement, hope and possibility of new love?

If you’re single, are you excited about the men you are speaking to right now (or are there any)?

If you’re in a relationship, are you feeling a new surge of love and connection with your partner?
Or are things feeling stagnant, boring, and dull in your love life?
Chances are high that if things aren’t feeling alive, vibrant, and new, it’s because you’re in some kind of rut.

Either you’re not attracting the kind of men you’re attracted to and excited by, or you’re not even putting yourself out there because you’re so afraid you’ll get more of the same results you’ve gotten in the past…

Or you’re in a relationship and you’re not igniting the romance and love that you once felt for your guy (Did you know this is something you can actually create on a daily basis?!?)

If your love life is still stuck in the dead of winter and you want to breathe new life into it, here’s a quick exercise you can do:

1. Think about one thing you’d like to change about your love life or relationship. What is the thing that would make the biggest difference for you right now?
2. What is the thing (it can be a thought, fear, or action) that keeps getting in the way of you having that in your love life or relationship? (Here’s a warning: If you just thought of something that someone else keeps doing – such as a man or your partner – it’s going to be very difficult for you to create that change. It’s best if you turn the mirror around and look to see what is the thing that you keep noticing that you keep doing or thinking that continues to get in your way.)
3. Think of one action step you can take this week to help you break that thought or behavior habit. This can be tricky because you may feel like you’ve “already tried that” or that if you knew what it was, you’d be doing it already. Kindly ask the little voice in your head to shush up for a minute or two and think about an action that you can take that either –a. you only tried once and then gave up, orb. you’ve been afraid to try because you’ve been afraid it wouldn’t work

If you need help with identifying your action step, just leave a comment below or send me an email (gladys@heartsdesireintl.com), and I’ll help you see which one step would help you begin to breathe new life into your love life!

I’d love to see your responses to the 3 questions, so just put them in the comment section of the blog below or send them to me in an email.

I promise you, it doesn’t have to be “hard” or take years to experience love, excitement, and romance in your love life. If you’re committed to turning things around, it can be easy and FUN!
Don’t allow fearful or self-doubting thoughts to convince you that there is nothing you can do to transform your love life. If you really want to see a change, do the exercise.  If you need help or support,  leave a comment below or send me an email and let me know.

You deserve this and it IS possible for you!