by Gladys Diaz
Few things can be more detrimental to relationships than dysfunctional patterns. Repeating the same painful experiences over and over again can be exhausting and can make you believe that perhaps there’s nothing you can do to change the results you keep producing!
Learning how to end dysfunctional patterns is one of the first things Michelle and I teach women because, until you address the underlying issues, thoughts, actions, and behaviors that have harmed your relationships in the past, you will continue to repeat them, no matter who your partner is!
So, ask yourself these questions:
Do you keep attracting the same type of man?
Do you keep having the same argument with your partner?
Do you keep having the same outcome, no matter who you are dating?
Do you keep experiencing heartache after heartache and wondering why the same thing keeps happening to you
In today’s video, I teach you the first step in “short-circuiting” a dysfunctional relationship pattern so that you can begin to experience fun, peace and LOVE in your relationships!
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This is just the first step in learning how break a dysfunctional behavior pattern once and for all. If you want to discuss your next steps, click below to schedule time to talk with me!
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- Tell me what dysfunctional pattern you’d like to break in the comment box.
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Hi Gladys, thank you for your insights, I’m really enjoying your video’s. I wanted to ask you a question, if that’s OK? By the way I live in Ireland and I reckon we have a whole different kind of man species over here. Anyways my story is I have a close friendship with a guy, we’ve been seeing each other for a few months every year for the past few years but it always ends the same, I end it with him as I always ended up feeling neglected or not included in his life, he doesn’t ‘get it’ he figures there is nothing to change in his behavior no matter how badly behaved he is. As for me I’ve been working on my abandonment issues and the neglect and not being included stuff. . . . (I know that’s really my own stuff).but again it always ends the same. I just bale out because I end up feeling hurt, he doesn’t apologize and I feel like there is nowhere left to go. (Maybe I should re-act differntly but I find this is the problem I don’t know how) The problem is when we’re not together, it seems like then he really wants me, he’s always ringing and we chat on the phone for hours every day, but this time I decided I wanted to break that pattern and I’ve not been taking his calls now for a couple of months. I’d love you’re advice as I’m pulled between is it my fault for always ending it? should I behave differently? could I be trained differently or is this just really about not allowing someone to treat me badly.
Many Thanks
Mel
Hi, Mel. Thank you for the compliments regarding the videos! 🙂
I can hear that you have been on-again-off-again with this “friend,” but it’s not clear to me about whether or not you are actually “in a relationship.” There is a big difference between friendship and being in a relationship. If it is just a friendship, then I wonder whether you are reacting to him the same way that you would with a girlfriend, or are there different expectations because he is a guy. I do hear that there are expectations that are not being met and that you’re not sure about how to change the way you react and respond to him. I’d love to schedule time to speak with you so that we can talk about some of the ways that you begin to express how you feel and what you’d prefer, so that you don’t always feel like you need to “bail” and end a friendship that it sounds like you want in your life. Feel free to click on the “Contact” button at the bottom of this page to set up a time to talk! I look forward to hearing from you! ~ Gladys