by Gladys Diaz
I wish I was better at communicating with my partner.
He never understands me!
I don’t dare say what I’m feeling because I don’t want to get into an argument.
I feel like I talk and he doesn’t even hear me!
These are just a few of the things we heard from women last weekend at Irresistible Woman LIVE and they’re the same things we hear from our clients when they first start working with us.
Communicating with men can seem difficult. We know it can feel like you’re speaking a completely different language that he doesn’t even care to try to understand.
It was a very hard part of my marriage for years. I would communicate things to Ric and I wouldn’t feel like he heard me.
So I would say it again – louder. I thought that would make him understand.
It didn’t work.
He would feel disrespected and I would feel like I was not being understood and before we knew it, we were two people yelling at each other – getting nowhere in the conversation.
It was a very painful dynamic of our relationship for many years…
…until we learned how to communicate effectively with one another in a way that would not only have the other person understand, but feel respected, loved and fully heard.
Communication is one of the biggest factors to whether or not you’ll have a successful relationship. Sharing your feelings and being able to express your needs is so important!
It’s how you create and build trust, intimacy, safety and love with those you are in relationship with.
When you learn how to communicate in a way where there’s no blaming, shaming, controlling and “making wrong” – it’s incredible what can be created!
This is exactly the type of communication we teach in our programs.
After working with us, our clients know exactly how to express their desires without being controlling, how to share what they prefer so they don’t end up feeling resentful and how to understand what the men in their lives are saying too!
If you’d like support with up-leveling your communication skills (because the things we teach don’t only apply to romantic relationships – but to every relationship in your life!) then book a love breakthrough call now!
Why would you want to wait to increase the understanding, intimacy and love in your relationship?
Why wouldn’t you want to be able to communicate your desires in dating starting now?