by Gladys Diaz
True or False?
Men are intimidated and turned off by strong and successful women.
It is a myth and limiting belief that men are intimidated by strong women.
The truth that we have discovered through working with hundreds of women is that you can be a strong, powerful and successful woman and create the loving, connected passionate relationship that you desire.
The key is creating an interdependent relationship and developing the Irresistible Essences in yourself that are attractive to a man.
A man admires and appreciates confidence and happiness in a woman. He loves knowing that the woman he’s with doesn’t depend on him for her happiness, but that he gets to come to the relationship and bring even more happiness into her life.
What a confident, high-quality man doesn’t like is being with a woman who tries to control him, change him, or show and tell him how he should do things. What he doesn’t like is when the woman constantly tries to take the lead.
That’s a total turn off.
There’s a big difference between the woman who is strong, successful, and capable and a woman who is intimidating, forceful, demanding or overbearing.
If you have a tendency to show up in the more forceful ways of being, you may have a pattern of control that you get to look at.
What’s going has me switch into “control mode??
Why is that showing up for me?
What am I afraid will or won’t happen if I’m not in control of a person or situation?
Fear wears many masks, and control is a big one.
Do you fear he’ll leave?
Do you fear you won’t be enough and, therefore, you’re always trying to prove something to yourself, him, and others?
Do you fear things won’t go the way you want them to if you don’t control the situation?
Let me tell you as a former control freak: It’s exhausting to try to be in control of everyone and everything!
It’s absolutely draining to be constantly trying to control your man, or the whole universe, for that matter!
Life is so much better when you let go and learn to allow and go with the flow.
I can tell you from my experience as a love coach that the best and most fulfilling way to have the most wonderful experience in a relationship is to do less.
Now… If the thought of not controlling anything scares you to your core, not to worry. There are still several thing you have 100% control over:
You get to be in control of your thoughts.
You get to be in control of your words.
You get to be in control of your behavior.
Everything else? Just let it go!
High-quality men, the kind I know you’re looking for, want to be with a woman who’s passionate, is up to big things in her life, and is the kind of woman who makes amazing things happen.
High-quality men have passions of their own and are up to big things, too.
The only men who aren’t turned off by a woman that tries to control everything are men who aren’t doing things with their own lives and want someone who will tell them what to do.
And we know you aren’t looking for a man like that!
It’s a practice of learning how to let go showing your partner that you trust him, and then letting things be.
It’s a practice because it takes effort – but it’s so worth it!
If you’re wanting to experience even more trust, openness and joy in dating and relationships, then you absolutely want to make sure that you join us at the Irresistible Woman LIVE Virtual Live Event!
This 3-day, highly interactive, and transformational live virtual event is for strong, successful, powerful women who want SUCCESS in love now! This event is one of the fastest and most effective ways to uncover what’s been getting in the way of you having the happy, loving, deeply connected relationship your heart desires!
The regular ticket price is $497 – but right now it’s only $97 and that price ends TONIGHT at Midnight EST!
So if you know you want to attend and grab a seat for this super-low price, grab your ticket now!
The other reason you don’t want to wait is because this year we’ll be sending you a special “LOVE Box” filled with gifts and materials you’ll be using during the event, and we only ordered a certain number of them. Once they’re gone, they’re GONE
So again, if you already know you want to attend and have a life-changing experience where you and your love life will never be the same, grab your ticket and your LOVE Box now!
Whether you’ve come to the Irresistible Woman Live event in the past or not, this year is going to be very special, because there are things we can virtually that we couldn’t do before.
PLUS, there are people who would not normally be able to fly across the country, or across the world, who can come this year – so we know it’s going to be extra amazing!
This is a really special opportunity to share a powerful weekend together and have the transformation of a lifetime, and we can’t wait to see you there!
Lots of love,
Gladys & Michelle
The Love Twins