by Michelle Roza
For the Woman Who’s Ready to Stop Guessing and Start Creating Extraordinary Love—Now
You’ve got the degrees, the title, the bank account, and the life that others admire…
So why are you still left questioning where you stand with him?
Let’s get real.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering,
“Are we together… or not?”
“Why does he act like a boyfriend but disappear when it matters?”
…then you may be stuck in a situationship—that murky middle space between casual and committed, where nothing is clearly defined, and yet somehow all of your energy is being poured in.
This is for you—the strong, high-achieving, heart-centered woman who knows she’s made for more than breadcrumbs and uncertainty.
Because the truth is, “almost love” isn’t love.
And you? You weren’t made for maybe.
So, What Is a Situationship, Really?
A situationship is a “relationship” that lacks clear boundaries, intentionality, and direction.
It feels like something, but it’s never defined. You’re left with mixed signals, unmet expectations, and the overwhelming sense that you’re investing more than you’re receiving.
You’re almost a couple.
You kind of talk about the future.
You sometimes get your emotional needs met… until he pulls away again.
And here’s the kicker: these connections can feel intoxicating in the short term.
The chemistry is strong. The unpredictability creates a rush. And the lack of clarity feeds your “fix-it” instinct.
But what’s really happening?
You’re settling.
You’re shrinking.
You’re wasting your precious time on a relationship that’s not even real.
Why Smart, Successful Women Fall Into Situationships
This isn’t about being naïve.
In fact, the more successful and self-reliant you are, the more likely you’ve been conditioned to “figure it out,” “be understanding,” or “see the potential” in someone.
And let’s not ignore the societal messaging that says strong women should be flexible, low-maintenance, and “go with the flow” in dating.
The result? You end up:
✔️ Rationalizing red flags
✔️ Silencing your intuition
✔️ Making excuses for inconsistency
✔️ Holding space for a man who won’t hold space for you
One of our clients—let’s call her Jessica—is a powerhouse executive who came to us emotionally exhausted. She’d been seeing a man for nearly a year and he’d text her daily, plan spontaneous dates, and talk about “someday.”
But he never introduced her to his friends or made a clear commitment.
Every time she asked where things were going, he’d say, “Why ruin a good thing? Let’s just enjoy what we have.”
Sound familiar?
After just one coaching session, Jessica had a breakthrough.
She realized that what she had wasn’t love—it was anxiety, dressed up as connection.
And within weeks of doing the deeper HeartWork™, she released that relationship, aligned with her Love Vision, and within three months, began dating a man who was intentional, emotionally available, and ready.
The Emotional Cost of “Almost-Love”
A situationship doesn’t just waste your time—it costs you clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
💔 It robs you of your voice as you tiptoe around your truth.
💔 It dims your light while you wait for crumbs of affection.
💔 It depletes your energy, leaving you too drained to open your heart to someone who’s actually aligned.
According to a 2022 study by Psychology Today, nearly 62% of single women reported experiencing “relational ambiguity” as their biggest source of dating stress.
That ambiguity is not an accident. It’s a strategy some men use to keep you close enough to benefit from your energy—but far enough to avoid real commitment.
And sis, your heart, your time, and your future are too valuable for that game.
Why You Need a Love Vision (Now More Than Ever)
When you don’t have a clear Love Vision, it’s easy to fall for potential. You end up reacting to what’s being offered instead of intentionally creating what you desire.
But when you’re crystal clear on what kind of relationship you’re creating, settling becomes impossible.
Because the woman with a Love Vision doesn’t:
❌ Chase clarity—she creates it.
❌ Entertain confusion—she requires communication.
❌ Dim her light—she shines unapologetically.
The moment you align with your Love Vision is the moment you stop entertaining anyone who doesn’t.
It’s Time to Choose YOU
If you’re reading this, it’s because your intuition already knows…
- You’re not here to play games.
- You’re not meant to be in limbo.
- You’re ready for the real thing.
Let this be your wake-up call: Stop settling for almost-love. Love doesn’t leave you questioning.
It shows up. It aligns. It moves forward.
You’re not “too much.” You’re just finally refusing to be less than loved.
Ready to Break Free from Situationships and Step Into the Relationship You Deserve?
It starts with clarity.
It starts with courage.
It starts with you.
Book a complimentary Love Breakthrough Session with one of our expert coaches and get your personal plan to shift from confusion to commitment—fast.
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Because real love doesn’t leave you wondering. It meets you where you are—and rises to meet your worth.