Few things can be more detrimental to relationships than dysfunctional patterns. Repeating the same painful experiences over and over again can be exhausting and can make you believe that perhaps there’s nothing you can do to change the results you keep producing!
Learning how to end dysfunctional patterns is one of the first things Michelle and I teach women because, until you address the underlying issues, thoughts, actions, and behaviors that have harmed your relationships in the past, you will continue to repeat them, no matter who your partner is!
So, ask yourself these questions:
Do you keep attracting the same type of man?
Do you keep having the same argument with your partner?
Do you keep having the same outcome, no matter who you are dating?
Do you keep experiencing heartache after heartache and wondering why the same thing keeps happening to you
In today’s video, I teach you the first step in “short-circuiting” a dysfunctional relationship pattern so that you can begin to experience fun, peace and LOVE in your relationships!
Click the image below to watch now!
This is just the first step in learning how break a dysfunctional behavior pattern once and for all. If you want to discuss your next steps, click below to schedule time to talk with me!
I’m keeping this post short and sweet because we are on vacation and my kids are waiting for me to go do something fun!
However, I just had to take a few minutes to write because I wanted to tell you about two things!
First, we just heard that we have another new bride! That’s right, another one of our clients just got married this past weekend! (It’s getting so that it’s hard to keep count!)
It’s so amazing to see her dreams coming true after all the years she questioned and wondered whether that day would ever come for her!
THIS is why Michelle and I do what we do. THIS is why we are so incredibly committed to you moving beyond all of your fears and excuses and just breaking through the BS that has you feeling like you are stuck where you are. Because THIS is what’s possible for YOU when you do!
I want you to get really honest with yourself as you ask yourself these questions:
Is itreallypossible that there are “no good men” out there?
Or is it more likely that you haven’t attracted the good man who is right for youyet?
Is itreally truethat you can’t get over your ex?
Or is it that you are so afraid of having your heart broken again that you’ll just stay stuck on him to avoid having to get out there, meet people, and open your heart to loving someone again?
Is itreallythat you are just so busy with your career or business, your travel schedule, going out with your friends, etc.?
Or is it that you are so terrified of failing at love that you’d rather tell yourself that you’re “okay,” your life is already great, and there’s no need or desire for you to share it with someone else?
Look, my job is not to make you feel badly about where you are in your life, because I do believe that you need to be happy on your own before you can attract someone who will add to that happiness.
But here’s the deal. It’s NOT that there aren’t any good guys, it’s NOT that you can’t get over your ex, and it’s NOT that your life is already so busy and fulfilled that you feel you don’t need a man with whom to share it.
All that stuff is NOT what is keeping you stuck!
What’s keeping you stuck where you are is all the stuff you keep telling yourself so that you don’t have to take the steps you need to take to have the love you really want.
I get it. I’m a successful woman, too, and I don’t like failing any more than you do.
However, I’d much rather take a risk than be a victim of my circumstances and cheat myself out of the possibility of having everything my heart desires.
Because failing sucks, but it doesn’t suck nearlyas much as regret, which is what you feel when you look back and see that the only thing that really stood in the way of having the love and life you wanted was YOU!
So, just in case one of your “reasons” for not having the love you want is that you can’t seem to move on from your past breakup, I wanted to share with you the recording of a radio show we did a few weeks ago with our very good friend, Simone Kelly, of Own Your Power Radio. The show was about “Starting Over When It’s Over,” and you’ll hear some great advice on the things you can do to move on after a breakup, divorce, or losing your partner.
Here’s my invitation:
Answer the questions above (be honest with yourself).
If you’re ready to start over, listen to our discussion and see which step you’re ready to take!
P.S. Michelle only has a few spots left on her calendar this week while I’m vacation!If you haven’t had the chance to be coached by Michelle, this is an opportunity you don’t want to miss!
She’s one of the most powerful coaches I’ve ever worked with and was MY coach when Ric and I were having issues in our marriage! Don’t miss out and sign up to speak with her now!
Are you tired of feeling lonely, frustrated, and hopeless about love and relationships?
What if you could learn the skills to attracting and creating the kind of love and romance your heart truly desires?
If you are ready to break through your love barriers and finally experience the happiness and love you have always dreamed of, click below to listen to how you can end the struggle and suffering around dating and relationships and get ready to love again!
How can I break through my love barriers and attract new and extraordinary love? (Very Special Offer!)
Are there patterns that keep showing up in your relationships?
Dating unfaithful or unavailable men?
Short-lived romances that end after a few dates?
Getting emotionally attached too quickly to a man?
Having sex too early in a relationship?
Knowing that there is a pattern is only the first step in possibly breaking through it. To truly break through a pattern, you need to know how to distinguish and dismantle the pattern!
In the recording below, you can go through an exercise to identify one of your patterns and listen in on a live coaching session with a participant on our “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call. You’ll also learn the steps you can take to break through your own self-sabotaging patterns once and for all!
How can I break the patterns that keep sabotaging my relationships? (Exercise and Live Coaching Session)
Not knowing how to feel confident when flirting and dating men can send the signal, “I’m not approachable” or “I’m not interested.” Click below to hear how we answered one of our reader’s questions about how to relax when a man who she finds attractive approaches her.
How can I relax when a man who is attracted to me approaches me?
The weekend is upon us and we know it can be a tough time when you’re single or unhappy in love.
We also know that being single is just temporary when you have the skills that can help you break through your love barriers and begin attracting the kind of man, love, and relationship you truly want!
We can hear you asking, Okay, so how do I do that?
We thought you’d ask! It’s why we hosted a “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call on Tuesday!
We received tons of questions from women all of the world in different stages of life and love, and we loved that we got to coach some of them LIVE on the call!
If you missed out, we wanted to give you the opportunity to hear some of the discussions, questions and answers that took place on the call.
More importantly, we want you to hear the answers that most relate to where you are in your love life, so we’re making it easy for you!
When you click on a question below, you’ll be able to click on a question or topic that you’re interested in and listen to Michelle and I address it!
You’ll also be able to:
Listen to 2 live coaching sessions
Go through an exercise to identify your dysfunctional love patterns
And take advantage of a really special opportunity to work talk with me and Michelle to get your questions answered personally!
Talk about having it your way!
We’re all about giving you the tools and the answers you need to have the love your heart desires!
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