I have to admit that I’ve been thinking about you, a lot, lately.
I can’t help it. I keep thinking about how important your love life is and how much you want to have a happy, loving relationship with a man who loves you as much as you love him.
As you know, we our Ready for Love Jump-Start Program starts on Tuesday.
The reason I keep thinking about you is that I don’t want you to miss out on this opportunity to work with us so that you can finally remove and replace the Love Barriers that have been stopping you from experiencing the love you desire and deserve!
I’ve received a lot of questions about the program and, since I haven’t had a chance to speak with each person individually, I thought I would record a video answering some of the most frequently asked questions I’ve been getting from women who want to, “What can I do to attract the love I want NOW?
In this video, I answer questions like:
How do I stop repeating the same patterns in dating and relationships?
How do I know if theReady for Love Jump-Start Programwill work for me?
I’ve done a lot of other programs. How is this program different?
Why are you offering this program AND free tickets to your live event for such a low price?
Now, I realize that you may have a question that is not answeredin this video, so, if that’s the case, you can simplyemail meand I will personally respond to your email.
But don’t wait, because the program closes at midnight on Monday, March 27th, and I have a few special bonuses for the next 5 women who jump in now!
Watch the video now and I look forward to hearing from you!
TheReady for Love Jump-Start Programis a 4-week accelerated learning program where you will get live coaching and mentoring from Michelle and myself as we guide you through the steps to:
Break free from your past, including past relationships
Break through the Love Barriers that have been blocking you from experiencing the true love your heart desires
Tap into your Irresistible Essence to BEing irresistibly attractive to high-quality, relationship-ready men
Learn the skills to create a happy, loving, intimate relationship that lasts for a lifetime!
And, to make this opportunity even more irresistible for you, we are gifting you a FREE ticket to The Irresistible Woman Live Event! (That’s a $500 GIFT!)
This 3-day LIVE event is offered only once a year, and is an immersive, deep-dive training ion how to overcome the unique challenges that highly successful and powerful women face when it comes to love and relationships, so that you can begin to attract and experience the kind of love your heart truly desires!
The doors to the Ready for Love Jump-Start Program close on Monday, May 27th, and so will the offer for your FREE ticket to The Irresistible Woman LIVE Event. So, don’t wait, reserve your spot NOW!
I was just sitting here, sipping my coffee, smiling as I read through the comments that the women in The Self-Love Secret Mission are posting on our private Facebook group. It is simply amazing what these women have begun to create in their lives in just 11 days!
There are women who:
walked away from dead-end and toxic relationships they have been in for years
received unexpected checks in the mail and promotions at work
began dating again and have several men asking them out on dates
have more confidence, which is allowing them to have what would have been scary or difficult conversations, and they are getting the results that they want
recommitted to their health and fitness goals and have more energy
are feeling more irresistible, love-able, and alive!
How in the world can all of this happen in just 12 days?
Well, first of all, these are powerful women who are deeply committed to themselves and their happiness!
Another reason is that the “secret” lies inside of each of the secret missions the women receive and carry out each day. On the surface, these seem like fun, “easy” missions to complete in just a few minutes per day. However, there is a deeper, more essential purpose and intention behind each of the missions.
Each mission is specifically designed to deepen the woman’s level of self-love, confidence, and irresistibility. By making the time to focus on herself each and every day while completing the missions, she is making herself, her happiness, and her heart’s desires a priority every single day. That’s not a gift most women give themselves on a daily basis.
As the women continue doing the missions during the last week of The Self-Love Secret Mission, I know we will be hearing about more miracles, breakthroughs, and even the start of some new romances.
How do I know?
Well… first, because it’s what happens each time we do this 21-day mission!
Second, because many of the women are choosing to continue working with us by joining the Ready to Love Again program, so they will have the tools and guidance to create the happy, loving relationships of their dreams with men who love, honor and adore them! I know this because, a truly deep level of love with yourself is the secret ingredient to creating lasting romantic love with another person.
See, you simply cannot share with someone else what you don’t have with or within yourself. So, the deeper and more loving a relationship you have with yourself, the more intimate and loving a relationship you can create with someone who also wants to love, honor, and adore you for the amazing woman you are!
If you chose not to join the mission, or you missed it for whatever reason, here are a few things you can do to begin creating a deeper, more loving relationship with yourself so that you can attract and keep the love of your life:
1. Make time for yourself every day.
Look, we’re all busy, successful women and our days are FULL of doing, accomplishing, and focusing on others. Taking just 10-15 minutes for yourself at least once a day goes a long way toward getting yourself into the habit of prioritizing yourself and your happiness. Remember, you can’t expect a man to commit years and years of his life to loving you, if you continue to say that you don’t have the time to dedicate at least 15 minutes to yourself each day!
Make a list of things you can do to replenish your body, soul, and spirit everyday. Do you like to journal? Does listening to uplifting music and podcasts lift your spirit? What makes you feel peaceful and happy? Make your list and do one thing a day. See how that begins to not only change and deepen your relationship with yourself, but attract more love and your other heart’s desires into your life!
2. Get support and guidance from a mentor who already has the results you want.
Self-love involves a lot more than doing a few nice things for yourself every day. There is a lot of mind-shifting and heart-shifting work involved in creating the kind of relationship with yourself that empowers you to create and attract the love, happiness, health, and wealth your heart desires.
Most of the changes that need to be made in order to break through thought and behavior patterns and habits that are keeping you from having the things you most desire are in your blind spots – the areas of your subconscious that you are not aware of. Distinguishing and dismantling those thoughts and patterns that are not giving you the results you want requires working with someone who not only has already done that kind of work and can easily guide you through it, but who also has the results that you want. The last thing you want or need is to have someone who isn’t able to produce the results you want in his or her own life telling you what it is you need to do!
I often say that every single breakthrough I’ve ever had has come as a result of working with a coach, and that is the absolute truth. I’m highly selective of who I allow to whisper in my ear and guide me toward my dream life, business, and relationship. Being a coach is a huge responsibility and privilege, so, when a woman makes the choice to work with us, Michelle and I give our hearts and souls to her because we are committed to helping her do whatever it takes to have the life and love she desires and deserves!
So, be very selective about who you choose to mentor and guide you. This will make your journey to your heart’s desires a lot faster and easier!
3. Join a group of like-minded women who will support and encourage you and not allow you to slip into old habits or behavior and thought patterns.
There is so much that can be said about the power of surrounding yourself with women who, while they are on their own individual paths, are on the same journey toward creating the life and love their hearts desire. And it’s important that the women in this group are receiving the same high-level mentorship I mentioned above so that you know that they are taking the right steps and providing you with the kind of support you need to manifest the results you want.
Another invaluable piece of coaching I give my clients is to make sure that the women who surround you are lifting you up, not commiserating or bringing negative energy into your space. When you have a setback or you’re not being loving with yourself or reflecting the best version of you, you want women who will empathize, yes, but not add to any feelings of self-doubt or self-pity. Instead, they empathize and then help you see that you are bigger than the challenge or setback and that you can lift yourself up. And, better yet, they will help you up and stand shoulder-to-shoulder with you because they believe in you and your dreams!
We see this happening in The Self-Love Secret Mission group and we definitely see the evolution of a strong and true sisterhood in our Ready to Love Again program. When you finally get that you are not in this alone and, better yet, that you don’t have to try to make it alone, you get to build on and harness the collective energy of the women who are committed mind, body, and soul to making their dreams and your dreams come true!
If you have questions about how you can harness the power of self-love, the right guidance and a powerful community to help you reach your relationship and have the kind of loving relationship that last for a lifetime, then simply leave a comment below or send me an emailand let me know what your question is, and I promise to give you what I believe are the next best steps for you to take in the direction of creating the life and love your heart truly desires!
Whatever you choose to do, don’t give into the lie of thinking that getting the right guidance and support questions how powerful and capable you are of realizing the kind of relationship you want. Some of my biggest heroes and sheroes have mentors because a truly powerful person knows that associating yourself with the people who have the results you want is the fastest and surest way to realize your biggest dreams and deepest desires.
So, go ahead, send me an emailand ask me a question, and I promise to get right back to you with your next best steps!
I have to admit that this is my favorite time of year! Although it doesn’t feel like winter at all in Florida, there are signs of the holidays everywhere you look (including lit up snowflakes, which is the closest we’ll get to snow here)!
I feel love and hope and joy in the air, and that fills my heart up so much!
As happy as this season makes me, I know that it can be a bitter-sweet and not-so-happy time for others for a variety of reasons.
Maybe you’re feeling a little more lonely than usual.
Perhaps you’re wondering why this year isn’t very different from this time last year.
Or maybe you’ve had a big life change — whether it’s a change in your career, home, lifestyle, health, or relationship.
Whatever the reason, if you’re feeling less than cheerful this season, here are a few things you can do that can help you shift your heart-and-mindset so that you can welcome a little love and cheer in.
Focus on gratitude. I know it sounds “simple,” or perhaps it feels impossible when you’re not feeling very happy with the way things are. However, gratitude is one of the most powerful tools for shifting your perspective and attitude so that you can shift the way you are feeling. This is because gratitude automatically has you focusing on what you do have, rather than on what you don’t have or what is missing. It puts you in a state of abundance, and, if you allow yourself to truly feel the feelings of gratefulness, you can experience a complete shift in, not only your feelings, but in the solutions and possibilities that are available to you, but impossible to see when you are not focused on all of the people, things, and situations around for which you can feel and express gratitude.
Accept invitations, even if you don’t feel like going out.One of the tricky things about the way our subconscious works is that, if we don’t bring awareness to something, it’s impossible to change it! So, even though you may be feeling lonely during this time, if you don’t bring awareness to the fact that you are not alone, that there are people around you — family, friends, people at work, those in your place of worship, or even in social groups you may or may not belong to — you can actually perpetuate the feeling of being alone by not looking for opportunities to meet and be with other people, declining invitations, and isolating yourself from others. So, make it a point to accept as many invitations as possible so that you can enjoy talking, dancing, and laughing, meeting and getting to know people.
Make a difference in someone else’s life. When we put our attention and energy on what we don’t have, what we wish was different, and what others have that we don’t, it can add to feelings of sadness and loneliness. One of the most effective ways to shift that energy is to turn our attention outside of ourselves and make a difference for others. This time of year can be difficult for those who are sick, homeless, unable to get presents for their family, and people who have far less to be thankful for. Spend some time doing charity work, or choose to be a “Silent Angel” and make an anonymous donation or random act of kindness that benefits someone else. There really can be as much joy in giving as in receiving!
Practice self-care and self-love. You may be running around planning and hosting events, getting presents for others, and attending several social gatherings. While many of these activities can be fun, they can also be exhausting! Make sure you are taking time each day to do something nice for yourself. Whether it’s reading a book; taking a nice, long bath; talking to a girlfriend, getting extra sleep, buying yourself a special gift, or booking a massage, it’s important that you take time to replenish, nurture and restore your mind, body, and spirit. It’s impossible to feel truly happy, peaceful and irresistible when you’re walking around like a depleted ball of nerves, so do yourself a favor and put caring for and loving yourself at the top of your list of priorities.
If you’re in a romantic relationship, there can be additional stressors to add to the ones I mentioned above. Dealing with multiple family obligations, as well as family dynamics; having expectations regarding what should happen, and trying to make everyone happy can take a toll on your relationship. Here are some things you can do to avoid arguments before they start and enjoy the holidays with your love.
Remember that your partner has wants and needs, too. If both you and your partner want to (or are expected to) spend time with your families, determining whose family will be visited, how much time will be spent with each family, and when and where visits will take place can potentially trigger arguments. Keep in mind that there is another person in the relationship with you and that he has his own feelings and desires relating to his family and how he would like to spend the holidays with them. Seek to create a way to honor both of your desires so that neither one of you has to “sacrifice” or “settle for” anything. Instead, the two of you can come together and create a win-win-win situation for your partner, your families, and you.
If a “hot-button” topic comes up, commit to communicating respectfully, no matter what. 99% of all arguments result from miscommunication. This includes both the speaking and listening that takes place during a conversation. To avoid having a conversation turn into an argument, make sure that you are clearly understanding what your partners is saying. You can do this by ensuring that you are actually hearing your partner. For example, if your partners has shared something and you’re unclear about what he meant, you can say, “I hear you saying ______. Am I hearing you correctly?” By saying this, you let your partner know that you heard him (which has him feel heard) and you are clarifying whether that is what he said, which helps ensure that the two of you are having the same conversation and will help you come to a faster resolution.
Make peace a priority. When it comes to holidays, one of the most stressful aspects of it can be dealing with, not only one, but two families. Unfortunately, family gatherings can be a breeding ground for conflict if there are unresolved issues from the past lingering in the space that is supposed to be filled with laughter and love. Unfortunately, these arguments can affect and spill over into your relationship if you’re not careful to avoid that. This is why it’s so important to make peace — with yourself, you partner, and those around you a priority. If people begin to argue or you feel yourself getting upset, remove yourself from the situation as quickly as possible. There is no need to make a dramatic exit. Simply and respectfully excuse yourself as a way to create some distance between you and the drama so that you don’t get wrapped up in it. If, after some time it seems as if things aren’t getting any better, it’s probably best to leave, if possible, so that you are not drawn into the arguing, or worse, have an argument with your partner about it. You don’t have to “suffer” through the holidays to prove your love for your partner, his family or your own.
While the holidays cause sadness and stress, implement these simple and practical steps so that you can ensure that you avoid sadness, upset and regret and give yourself the gifts of love, peace, joy, and hope!
Wishing you a holiday season overflowing with all of these gifts and everything your heart desires!
Happy Thanksgiving to those of you who live in the U.S. and celebrate this wonderful holiday!
Today, my heart is overflowing with thanks!
For the past two weeks, I have been in Hawaii, enjoying more natural beauty than I even knew existed! From beautiful beaches, to majestic mountains, and breathtaking sunsets, it has been one miraculous moment after the other.
If you would have told me a few years ago that I would be spending Thanksgiving with my husband and kids on this amazing island, I probably would not have thought it would be possible.
Yet, here we are! And every moment of this trip has been a dream come true!
While some people may say that I should have come alone with my husband for a romantic getaway, I’ll tell you what I know to be true! Love and romance are a creation! We get to create as much love, passion, and romance as our hearts desire. And, while, yes, perhaps it may have been a bit more romantic to be here without the kids, that hasn’t stopped us from creating some truly romantic moments while we’ve been here.
The first one happened at the Pearl Harbor Memorial, I mentioned to my husband that I would love to have a unique souvenir that I would see and use often and that would remind me of our trip. Before we left Pearl Harbor, we saw a small kiosk selling Hawaiian pearls. As soon as I saw the pendant of “The Tree of Life,” I gasped! It was so beautiful and original, and the monument had moved me to tears. Plus, knowing that the tree symbolizes rebirth, renewal, and a reminder that we are all interconnected made it all the more special!
I kept going between wanting the ring or the pendant, because they were both so beautiful! Then, my husband surprised me by telling the saleslady, “She’ll take both of them!” I squealed with delight as my eyes watered up and I wrapped my arms around his neck and gave him a sweet, long kiss!
The saleslady’s eyes watered, too, and she said, “How cute! How long have you two been together?”
“17 years,” I
answered.
“Wow! And he is still like that with you? You are lucky!”
“Yes. I’m blessed,” I said, and gave him another hug!
Then the next day, after driving all over the island to find the perfect spot to watch the sunset, because I mentioned that I wanted to see the sun set the previous day,” there was a Hawaiian man with a dreamy voice who began to sing, “What a Wonderful World.”
That happens to be one of my favorite songs, and with the sun setting, my husband and my kids there with me, the words took on a whole new meaning, and, again, my eyes watered as I looked over at my husband and smiled.
He stood up, came around to my side of the table, and drew me into his arms so that I could dance with him! No one else was dancing, and it didn’t matter. We just stared into each other’s eyes and danced! Another moment I will never forget!
So, why am I telling you all of this?
Because THIS is the kind of love you can have!
I’m not “lucky” and this relationship didn’t “just happen.” I have spent over two decades learning about what makes love last, I practice what I teach in my marriage ever single day, and making sure that you experience the joy of KNOWING that you are loved every single day of your life is why I do the work I do!
No matter where you are in your love life, whether you are single and ready to attract the man of your dreams, or you are in a relationship and you want to continue making the love grow deeper, stronger, and more passionate with time, YOU can have the loving relationship your heart desires!
You can learn the secrets to BEing a Simply Irresistible Woman — the kind of woman a man can’t help but love, and adore, and desire!
That’s why you want to make sure you keep your eyes open for our Black Friday special. We have NEVER offered such a generous sale before, and, honestly, we don’t plan on doing it again.
If you’re ready to start turning your love life around and you want to be the kind of woman who can attract and create a forever kind of love, then make sure you mark your calendar for midnight (12:00am ET) Friday, because this is an once-in-a-lifetime simply irresistible offer that can help you experience and have love for a lifetime!
17 years ago today, I was feeling afraid, alone, and pretty hopeless. It seemed like everything in my life was going wrong and I just could not see how I would ever feel happy again, let alone find true love.
And then, I made a decision, and when I least expected it, everything changed!
I had no idea that my life would change that day.
I just knew that I didn’t want to feel the way I’d been feeling anymore, and I opened up to the possibility that maybe – just maybe – I could have the happiness and love my heart desired! I tell you the story in this quick video so make sure you watch it!
And, because I’m feeling so much joy, love and gratitude, I’m also feeling very generous! So, I’m giving something away at the end of the video that I know can make a difference for you!
Watch the video, follow the 3 simple steps at the end of it, and believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that you CAN have the love and happiness your heart desires.
The truth is that, while you and I are both special and unique, I’m no different from you. So, if I can experience true love twice in a lifetime, I KNOW I can help you attract true love into your life. Follow the directions in the video, click on the link below, and let me show you how!
I know you’ve probably heard (and possibly even believed) that men are intimidated by powerful, successful women.
This is a very popular and completely FALSE misconception that many successful women have.
I used to feel the same way, too.
I thought that if I was more successful or educated or making more money than the man I was with, he would feel threatened by me in some way.
I thought that if I was further ahead in my career, he would feel like I was out of his league and either resent me or try to hold me back. I remember trying to avoid talking about my promotions, accomplishments, and accolades thinking that it would somehow make my man feel more comfortable with himself…and me. Or, I thought that maybe I should just focus on my career, because that was easier for me. I felt accomplished, success came easily to me, and I did not have to depend on anything or anyone else to have the results I wanted. And, as much as I pride myself in being a smart and successful woman, I am so glad I was wrong!
Instead, I attracted a man who is and has been my biggest fan for almost 17 years!
He is proud of me and brags about me, but not just as a successful businesswoman.
He brags about me as his WIFE!
And I’ll tell you right now:
No amount of degrees, recognition, or high-paying positions can ever compare to the feeling I get when my husband tells someone, “She makes it easy for me to love her and inspires me to be the best man I can be.”
So, what did I do to create that kind of relationship?
I figured out the way to have BOTH the successful business and career I want AND the loving, passionate relationship my heart desires!
I learned that I didn’t have to choose between one or the other! I could have it ALL! So, I get to have a 6-figure business where I have the privilege of serving and supporting amazing, successful women from all over the world AND be loved by a man who supports me in life and in my business.
Just the other week, he was away on a very important business trip, where his days went from morning until late into the evening. While he was gone, my website went down and, since he’s my hot and sexy webmaster, I reached out, knowing he might not see the text for a while.
Just a few minutes later, he sent me a text message saying he’d get to it as soon as he had a break.
I thanked him and got this back:
Not bad, after 17 years together, huh? 🙂
And, in less than an hour, my website was up and running again!
That’s true partnership.
That’s what feeling supported in every area of your life looks like!
And that’s what having it ALL can feel like!
The truth is that you don’t have to “dumb down,” downplay your accomplishments, or pretend you’re not as capable as you are.
AND you don’t have to pretend that you don’t want to share your life with a man who loves, supports, and WANTS you to succeed!
During this interactive masterclass, you’ll learn:
How to avoid the common mistakes successful women make that propel them in business but repel love and intimacy
How to shift from being unstoppable and invincible at work to being simply irresistible in your love life
How to create a life where you have time for your career, your love life and yourself
Learning the secrets to having the life, success and love your heart desires is the KEY to having it all! Join us for this two-part masterclass and let’s get you started on the path to living the life and love of your dreams!
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One of the tricky things about the way our subconscious works is that, if we don’t bring awareness to something, it’s impossible to change it! So, even though you may be feeling lonely during this time, if you don’t bring awareness to the fact that 
Make peace a priority. 
