How to Overcome Fear and Hate with Love

How to Overcome Fear and Hate with Love

by Gladys Diaz

You’ve probably heard about the tragedy that took place in Orlando this past weekend.  

I have to share that the moment I heard the news, I broke down and cried.  Not because I knew anyone who was hurt or killed.  That didn’t matter. I cried because it was clear that a certain group of people were targeted and that fear and hate were at the center of the shootings. 

For those of us living in the United States, we’re painfully aware of the recent mass shootings that have been taking place around the country. Almost every single one of them is sparked by anger, hatred of one group or another, and an unwillingness to accept people for who they are.

I’m not going to preach or go into political matters.  

Right now, I’m speaking from one heart that is breaking to another.

More than anything, my mission in life — the whole reason why Michelle and I have made Heart’s Desire our life’s work and purpose — is to bring transformation to this world through LOVE.  

Where there is love, there is peace.  Where there is peace, people are free.  And where there is freedom, there is hope and anything becomes possible!

Yes, we focus primarily on transformation through empowering women to create the relationships of their dreams.  So what does that have to do with these tragic events?  

Because, when there are women who are happy and fulfilled in and of themselves, they are able to attract and nurture happy, loving, and fulfilling relationships.  

From these relationships, many times, happy families are created and unhappy ones are healed and restored.

Where there are happy families and relationships, that love and happiness spreads to their communities.

When communities come together, states and nations are bound by love, peace, and partnership.

And when nations come together in love, peace, and partnership, this world becomes one in which we are all living to our highest potential, where the desire to come together outweighs the need to be right, and where the highest priority becomes augmenting, magnifying, and spreading that love, peace, and hope so that no one is left out or left behind!

So, for us, this vision of what the world can be begins with one woman… one heart… and one relationship at a time.

During this difficult time, my prayer and heart-felt request is that each of us does all everything we can to bring love to this world.  

Let us do what we can to conquer the hate, anger, and fear that is out there with the power we were born with: The power to love!

I’d like to leave you with the message we posted yesterday on our Facebook page:

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 May peace be the air you breathe in, and may love be the air you exhale and share with the world.

You May Not Like This… But You Need to Hear It!

You May Not Like This… But You Need to Hear It!

by Gladys Diaz

I just want to warn yo right off the bat that you might not like what you’re about to hear, but I have to say it anyway because I care entirely way too much about you to not tell you what I see is happening!

I actually had an entirely different message and video ready to send to you today, but I did some heart-and-soul searching, and I decided I needed to send this message instead.

And, like I said, you may not like it. It may upset you. And I’m aware that you may even choose to unsubscribe.

However, I’m practicing what I teach and I’m not going to allow my fear of not being liked or of you getting upset to stop me, because I know that everything I’m saying is coming from a place of pure love!

So, please watch this video and, whatever your reaction is, go ahead and send me an email. I’m a big girl and I’ll be okay! 🙂

Most of all, if it speaks to you and you are highly committed and ready to take action, I want to make sure that you’re at the top of my list!

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P.S. If this video upsets you in any way, then know that means we need to talk!  😉

 

 

 

 

 

What to Do When Your Are in Relationship Breakdown

What to Do When Your Are in Relationship Breakdown

by Gladys Diaz

If you live in the U.S., I hope you are having a wonderful Memorial Day!  If you love or know someone who gave his/her life in service of our country, please know that I am grateful beyond words and have said a prayer of thanks today in memory of your loved one!

Today I was offering support to a fellow coach, and I shared with her an exercise that I use myself and with my clients that you can use whenever you are in “relationship breakdown.”  I wanted to share it with you, too, in case you are or find yourself in some sort of relationship breakdown yourself.

A relationship breakdown is anytime that there is a breakdown, or upset, in your relationship with someone else, whether that’s in dating or in an actual committed relationship.  It usually stems from an unmet expectation and can lead to further problems in the relationship, unless you use this simple process to move from breakdown to feeling empowered in the relationship.

You can also use this 4-step process in other relationships, but, since love is my specialty, I focused this short video on what to do if you’re upset and disempowered because you feel something is missing in your romantic relationship.


This short 4-step process could lead to having a HUGE breakthrough in your love life!

Watch the video and let me know what your response to #4 is!
Send your response to gladys@heartsdesireintl.com

 

What to Say or Do When You’re Emotionally Triggered

by Gladys Diaz

Lately, we’ve been answering your questions about what to say or do when your man says or does something that leaves you, well… speechless!

In today’s video, I talk about three ineffective ways to respond to an emotional trigger and what you can do instead.

The goal?  To have a conversation where you can share and express what you want to say, where you are left feeling heard, and where the conversation leads to a win-win solution!

 

Have questions of your own?  Put them in the comments section and we’ll answer them right away! 

Or… even better… join us for the What to Say to Your Man Masterclass  on Saturday, December 19th, and jump into our Facebook group that is already live!

Being able to communicate effectively is one of the keys to having a great relationship! Watch the video and let us know what questions you’d like answered!

This Almost Cost Me My Marriage

This Almost Cost Me My Marriage

by Gladys Diaz

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I wanted to take a moment to let you know why Michelle and I are so passionate about the “What to Say to Your Man” Bundle that we’re selling for a crazy-low price as part of our Black Friday Sale.

What you need to know is that this is about A LOT MORE than just a Black Friday sale!  

The reason I’m so passionate about the “What to Say to Your Man” Program Bundle is because not knowing what to say or do when I felt emotionally triggered, confronted, or hurt almost cost me my marriage.

When I’d feel triggered, I’d say and do things that I thought were about me “just being honest,” saying how I felt or what I thought, and, in seconds would have us arguing — sometimes for days!

Not knowing what to say or do was having me push my husband further and further away.

This isn’t something that’s easy for me to talk about, but I tell you a little bit more about it in the video below.

 
Not knowing what to do or say was costing me in terms of peace, happiness, and love in my marriage.

The thing is, it’s costing you, too!

It’s costing you not being in a relationship or ruining the one you’re in now!

So, rather than pay that price, why not pay the crazy-low price of $47 now!

The Black Friday sale ends tonight, Sunday, November 29th at midnight EST. The price will be going up and we won’t offer this program at this price again!

Communication is the KEY to having a happy, peaceful relationship that WORKS.  You simply can’t afford to keep paying the price of not knowing what to say or do when you talk to your man!

Save yourself a lot of bickering, breakups, and heartache by grabbing yours now!

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