The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

by Gladys Diaz

Do you want to be in the relationship of your dreams – with the man who’s going to hold you, cherish you and enrich your life for the rest of his life?

Would you like to know the key to creating everything you want in love (and life!)? 

What we’re sharing with you today is what will empower you to show-up as the woman you truly are and make it possible for you to create and experience the life and love you want most.  

It impacts how you think, how you feel, how you interact with others, what you’re able to make a difference with and what ultimately what you create in life. 

The key to success in love (and life) is your mindset

If you’re experiencing a lack of power in a certain area of your life, it means that something’s off with your mindset. 

And if your mindset isn’t aligned with your vision or commitment, you’ll self-sabotage.

Let’s delve into the transformative power of mindset. 

Uncover Your Beliefs, Desires and the Conflict Between Them

When you uncover and replace the limiting beliefs that hold you back from dating success, you’re able to transform your mindset and the results you’re experiencing in love. 

Negative thoughts and beliefs undermine your self-worth and are what perpetuate self-sabotaging behaviors. 

So get curious

Here’s an exercise you can do to uncover your limiting beliefs and how they’re stopping you from creating what you want in life and love.

  1. Grab a piece of paper and make three columns. 
  2. At the top of the columns write these three headers… My Belief: My Mindset Around Relationships”, My Desire: My Love Vision”  and  The Conflict: What’s Not Aligned
  3. Think about the thoughts you have. Really think about the words that come to your mind and out of your mouth when you ask yourself what you think is in the way of you creating love.  – What is it for you?  – Is it your weight? Family Conflicts? Health Issues? Your financial situation? Where you live? The fact that you have kids? 
  4. After you write the belief in the first column, move over to the second column and write what it is you want to experience in this area of love.
  5. Take a step back and look at the belief and the desire and you’ll be able to clearly see what the conflict is. 

The conflict is what’s getting in the way of you creating the life you desire! 

When I was single I had a real conflict around who I was and what I wanted. I was always seeking validation which had me become a chameleon who couldn’t be authentic. 

And even though I was creating success at work, receiving promotions and accolades and money – it was never enough. 

And I attracted men into my life who were a match for that conflict. Men who were cheaters, who were lying to themselves (and me) about who they were and what they wanted and I didn’t understand why. 

Once I did the HeartWork, I replaced these old belief patterns about not being enough or deserving of what I really wanted with empowering beliefs that were aligned with my Love Vision. I attracted the most incredible man I’ve ever met, who’s now my husband! 

It came down to healing the conflict that was underneath my limiting beliefs so I could stop having the experience that I was living someone else’s life and create the full life and love I had imagined! 

Decide You Are Responsible to Shift Your Mindset

Once you uncover, see and understand the conflict, you must recognize yourself as the one responsible to shift it. 

No one else can do it for you! 

You have to be willing to do the HeartWork necessary to distinguish, dismantle and replace the limiting beliefs so you can create a winning mindset! 

These limiting beliefs usually are healed in layers, but that doesn’t mean it has to take a long time. 

Most women that work with us meet the man they end up marrying within 3-9 months of beginning their HeartWork

That’s how fast you can make these shifts! 

Creating a mindset that supports your growth and potential frees you and you become open and available for new possibilities! 

You empower yourself to embrace fulfilling relationships that lead to the Relationship of Your Dreams! 

Here’s the thing…

In just a couple of months, summer will be over and you’ll either have created the summer love that’s everything you’ve always wanted – or you won’t

But what if you could? 

What if there was a fast way to create your Love Vision?

This is what’s available to you when you grab the Irresistible Bundle that’s available now so you can join us at this year’s Irresistible Woman LIVE!

Here’s what you get inside the bundle:

💜 Ticket to the Irresistible Woman LIVE 3-Day Live Virtual Event – September 29th-October 1st, 2023 ($500 Value)

💜 Irresistible Woman Prep for Love Call ($200 Value) 

💜 Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass Recording ($300 Value)

After you grab your ticket, be ready to have a breakthrough and transform your life!

Click HERE to claim your Irresistible Bundle Now! 

You might think you have until September to get your ticket so why grab it now? 

I promise you the transformation will begin the moment you take responsibility for shifting your mindset and hit send on the form.

The key to successful dating truly lies within the power of your mindset. 

When you uncover the beliefs and conflicts keeping you stuck and commit to shifting your mindset you will cultivate self-confidence, embrace optimism, and ban limiting beliefs. 

You’ll heal your body, feel great, have financial security and freedom, live in a home that represents who you are and be able to celebrate the life you’ve created for yourself every single day with the man who will be your greatest champion.

With a transformed mindset, you’ll venture into the world of dating with renewed purpose, ready to unlock the door to truly experiencing the relationship of your dreams NOW!

 

Rejection Hurts. Here’s How to Break Through Your Fear and Create Extraordinary Love NOW!

Rejection Hurts. Here’s How to Break Through Your Fear and Create Extraordinary Love NOW!

by Gladys Diaz

Do you have a fear of being hurt or rejected? 

If you don’t, you must be superhuman, because as human beings, we all deal with this!

And it doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, this message is for you!

It’s a common misconception that, once you get into a relationship, the fear of rejection or getting hurt goes away…

But that’s just not true. 

The fear of rejection creates barriers to feeling like yourself and feeling safe in a relationship.

It holds you back from creating deep, intimate connections – whether you’re already in a relationship or seeking to create one.

No matter the reason you have this fear or how it manifests for you, the impact it creates is the same.

Here’s how it works… 

You have a fear that something will or won’t happen in the future because of something that did or didn’t happen in the past. 

This fear then causes you to react in a certain way, which is a coping mechanism for not getting hurt. 

This may look like withdrawing from your partner or pulling back. 

It may look like being paralyzed and feeling like you can’t do or say anything because of your fear that it will go badly. 

It may look like pretending, acting as if everything is fine, when, actually, you’re feeling completely scared inside.

Here’s how it looked for me.

Because I was scared of being rejected, I was always trying to prove myself.

And it showed up in work, in my relationships, as a mother, everywhere.

My previous marriage was not a happy one. 

I remember how I would feel every time I’d come home and put the key up to the door to open it. 

Each time, I would stop and feel my chest tighten as I wondered what I was about to encounter on the other side of the door – and hoping that today might be a good day. 

My fear of being alone and needing to be accepted caused me to stay in that unhappy relationship where I was treated in ways that are now absolutely unimaginable to me.  

I would stay quiet and pretend that everything was fine, and then I couldn’t really understand what was real and what I really wanted. 

So why does this matter for you

Do you accept behavior or communication that isn’t aligned with what you want because you’re afraid of being rejected? 

Do you feel like your feelings won’t be validated because you fear you’ll be used or get hurt.

When fear is running the show you feel powerless, and that’s not the way we want you to feel!!

So how do you overcome these fears? 

The first thing you need to do is – recognize and acknowledge the fear

When you recognize yourself in the space where the fear is coming to the surface, ask yourself these two questions. 

  • What is it that you’re afraid of that’s stopping you from having the relationship you want to have? 
  • If I didn’t have this fear and was standing inside my power, who would I be that would allow me to make a different choice? 

When you acknowledge your fear, get curious about it and own it – you allow yourself to step into your power and know that you get to choose how you feel and behave. 

 The truth is…

You can either be run by your fears or run by your ability to choose a different experience. 

 When you don’t break through your fear, the fear chooses for you!

 When you transform yourself – YOU get to choose.

You get to create the Extraordinary Love that you imagine!

If you’d like to overcome your fear of rejection so you can get into the relationship of your dreams by this summer – yes, you read that right, THIS SUMMER… 

Then click HERE to schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with one of our fabulous Love Coaches.

Once you transform something, you don’t go back to it. 

 Take this opportunity for yourself to overcome the fears that are holding you back in love and relationships!

Three Steps to Create Your Big Goals NOW!

Three Steps to Create Your Big Goals NOW!

by Gladys Diaz

What were the goals you set in January?

Where did you want to be in your relationship?

We’ve entered the final three months of the year – Woah what?!

When you hear that… Do you feel confronted? Triggered? Excited? Ready?

One of the most important decisions you’ll ever make in your life is regarding your life partner and most of the women in our community have the desire to be married.

Is that a desire you have?

If you answered yes, then how do you stop putting off the dreams that you have? 

How do you not make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past? 

How do you stop thinking about how much time you’ve wasted and move forward to create the relationship of your dreams now?

Three Steps to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams NOW

1) Bring Acceptance to What Has Happened and Where You Are 

Continuing to spend time thinking of what you’ve done in the past is the #1 thing that keeps women stuck.

The only way to move forward and create something you desire for your future is to let go of energy from the past! Let go of who you were before you knew better, what you’ve always attracted, what you’ve put up with or what you thought was what you wanted or deserved. 

When you step out of regret your vibration and energy rises so you can attract a man from the energy of the woman you are now!

2) Have the Courage to Believe and Declare You Can Have it NOW

Sometimes when we have a big goal we continue to feel like the little girl in the pool with floaties on. We hang on to what we have always done or known in the past and it gives us a false sense of safety or security.

But nothing extraordinary ever came from staying safe!

In order to create the big goals you have for your life you must declare it!

Admit what you want! 

Be free to say it out loud so you will attract the life, adventure and love you desire!

Own what you want, believe you can have it, and declare it boldly through your words and actions!

3) Do What it Takes to Have It

The thing that makes the biggest difference when you’re working towards any dream or goal is consistent guided support and coaching.

You don’t know what you don’t know, so having someone there who knows exactly how to create your heart’s desires telling you exactly what you need to do next makes all the difference in the world!

Having someone there when you hit a wall of disappointment, resistance or fear to pick you up and give you your very next best step – that’s what’s going to have you create the relationship of your dreams!

If you haven’t had a call with one of our Love Breakthrough Coaches yet – click here to schedule a call now!

Our coaches are there for this very purpose – to give you your next best step and support you in taking action towards the extraordinary love that you dream of! They know the HeartWork inside and out and they’re here so you can move forward!

Give yourself this gift and know that you’re on your way.

Don’t hesitate. Don’t overthink it.

Simply click here to book a Love Breakthrough Call! 

The Secret to Stop Getting “Triggered”!

The Secret to Stop Getting “Triggered”!

by Gladys Diaz 

Would you like to be able to feel confident in any situation or conversation you encounter that you’ll be able to handle it with grace and ease? 

How would it feel to experience less reactivity or emotional meltdown and experience more happiness and joy? 

Imagine what it would mean for your life if you were able to maintain peace inside of you no matter what happens around you? 

See if this scenario sounds familiar: 

Something happens…

… your boyfriend says something in a “tone”

… a guy you’ve been texting stops responding 

… your boss calls you in for an unscheduled meeting

… a co-worker doesn’t do something they promised they’d do

… someone cuts you off on the highway

And all of the sudden you feel disrespected, rejected, worried or angry. 

You get “triggered.” 

A memory, fear or limiting belief was opened up and like a domino effect sets off a series of other thoughts and associated behaviors.

The switch has been flipped and you have an emotional reaction that has you say or do things you later regret. Your mind and mouth take on a mind of their own and it’s not until after the dust has settled that you regret your behavior and see the line of carnage in your wake. 

We’ve all been there. 

There was a time when Ric and I couldn’t even talk about some things for longer than 5 minutes because one of us would explode.

Sometimes the fall-out you create from these emotional reactions is short-lived. 

But sometimes, the result is a complete loss of a relationship, future relationship, or opportunity. 

The result is always a loss of personal peace and confidence and the impact on you and those around you is loss of time, energy, intimacy, connection, happiness and joy.

What if you didn’t have to experience things that way? 

What if you could turn off the “trigger” in an instant before it spiraled out of control? 

What if you could have mastery over your emotions instead of being a reaction waiting to happen? 

That’s what we teach you in the Girl, It’s Not Personal! Workshop. 

You’ll learn how to: 

  • Identify the emotional triggers that have you react, strike back, or shut down in conversations and relationships.
  • Break through the automatic and limiting thought patterns that are negatively impacting your communication and relationships, so that you can attract and keep the love your heart desires
  • Increase your level of self awareness and master managing your emotions , so that you are able to have empowering conversations and build a strong, happy, and loving relationship

The reason why marriages aren’t working right now is because most people don’t have the skills to not have a reaction to what others say and do. 

Ric and I almost lost our marriage because of this. 

But we didn’t because we up-leveled our emotional intelligence by learning the tools and skills that work in communicating and relationships. Now we can discuss anything for as long as we want to and maintain connection, love and peace in the space. 

And that’s what we want for you too. 

Click HERE to grab a recording of the Girl, It’s Not Personal! Workshop

Learn how to stop getting emotionally triggered by taking things personally and how to start experiencing more fun and joy in life, dating, and relationships!

Grab your copy now!

The Secret to a Man’s Heart.

The Secret to a Man’s Heart.

by Gladys Diaz 

What’s your initial reaction when a girlfriend offers to pay for your lunch? 

What do you respond with when someone offers you a compliment? 

What do you say when a man offers to help you out with something? 

As we’re in this holiday season of love, sharing and connecting we wanted to shed some light on a topic that most women don’t think of as something that’s holding them back in love, but that is key to creating the relationship of your dreams. 

In our work with thousands of women, we’ve found that for many of us, it’s hard to receive

We work with so many women who want to create a loving, connected relationship with an incredible partner, but then can’t accept a compliment when given, don’t feel comfortable allowing a man to pay for dinner on a date, or don’t know how to graciously receive a gift. 

Can you relate? 

Why does it feel uncomfortable to accept things from others? 

There’s vulnerability to receiving. 

You can only experience love and intimacy to the level that you’re willing to be vulnerable, which is why it’s so important to be able to receive well. 

The three things that are the most important to men are being able to:

1) Please

2) Protect 

3) Provide 

If you’re unable to receive from a man, it’s impossible for him to feel connected to you. He will either feel unappreciated and stop trying or he will interpret your behavior to mean you’re not interested. 

So… if you notice that you feel uncomfortable receiving, the next couple of weeks are the perfect time to practice! 

First, get curious about why receiving makes you uncomfortable. 

In most cases, it’s a worthiness conversation.

You may have a belief that you have to “do” something in order to “earn” love” 

You may think that you don’t deserve certain things. 

You may believe you’re simply not good enough. 

Whatever the underlying reason, get clear on where that feeling comes from for you so that you can break through it. 

Then, take the opportunity this holiday season to stretch into allowing others to contribute to you, give to you and receive with grace and gratitude. 

Being able to receive with grace and gratitude is the way to a man’s heart. It’s the key to turning on your feminine energy and attracting everything you desire to you. 

If you’d like support in clearing up what causes you discomfort in receiving, book a Love Breakthrough Session with one of our coaches! 

The first step in creating the relationship of your dreams is getting clear on what’s holding you back so you can clear the way. Like we said before, receiving with grace is something that many women struggle with, but don’t see as a problem. 

Take the first step in becoming a gracious and grateful receiver by booking your Love Breakthrough Session now. 

If you don’t see any times available when you click above, please click the words, “contact us” and submit a request with some days and times and our coaches will get back to you. 

Remember, you can only create love and connection to the degree you’re willing to be vulnerable. Get vulnerable this holiday season and receive the love you so freely deserve!

How to Break Through and Create the Love Your Heart Desires!

How to Break Through and Create the Love Your Heart Desires!

by Gladys Diaz 

Are you being a “victim” in your dating life? 

Do you feel like you can’t trust yourself to make the best decisions? 

Are you afraid that you’ll make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past, which led you to being hurt or taken advantage of?

If you answered yes to any of the following – or if you have that tingly feeling in your gut that’s telling you this is something you should listen tohere’s what you need to know. 

If your goals aren’t coming to fruition there is something stopping you from creating the results you want. Something from the past is holding you back. 

The thing is – the past is not a predictor of your future, it’s simply an informer

The problem is – most women hold onto what happened in the past so tightly that they then create strategies to make sure whatever happened doesn’t happen again. 

This doesn’t work. 

The only thing that does work is to get to the root of WHY the thing happened in the first place and then heal ALL of it. 

Whatever it is from your past that is still standing in the way is a love barrier and if you don’t find a way to break it and have a breakthrough around it, do you know what’s going to happen? 

The next year will look just like the past year, or the past two years, or maybe even the last 10!

Not because that’s all that’s meant for you. But because that’s what you’ve been creating and will continue to create until you break through it. 

So how do you break through? 

First, you get to accept that the past doesn’t define you. The decisions you made or the circumstances that found you, aren’t who you are. 

You get to forgive yourself and others for the experience you had and then you get to let it go. 

Second, you get to recreate the story. 

Do you know who you’d be without that story or suffering? 

Most women stay stuck for this very reason. They don’t. And not knowing who they are is scarier than staying stuck.

Does this sound familiar? 

If you want to transform and break out of the love barriers standing in your way, you have to break through the story that’s keeping you from creating the results that you want, from creating the relationship of your dreams!

If this is something you want then join us next week for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge

If you want to have a break through in: 

⭐ dating high quality men

⭐ creating abundance in every area of your life

⭐ settling the past and moving forward

⭐ finding your feminine energy and flow

⭐ forgiving and trusting yourself again

⭐ believing that you can trust men and have fun again

⭐ finding freedom

⭐ not taking things personally

⭐ anything else that may be holding you back

… then this is the challenge for you! 

In this 5-Day Real Love Breakthrough Challenge, we’re going to guide you through the same effective, clear and proven steps of our HeartWork™️ process, we’ve personally used and have shared with thousands of women around the world, which is what has empowered them to shift from being frustrated, disappointed, and lonely to being happy and successful in love!

It’s FREE to join and it starts on Monday, so don’t delay. 

Click here to register for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge! 

If 2021 looks too similar to 2020 – or the year before that – there is a barrier in your way. 

You get to be the source of the breakthrough to create everything your heart desires! 

Join us on Monday!