How to Overcome Fear and Hate with Love

How to Overcome Fear and Hate with Love

by Gladys Diaz

You’ve probably heard about the tragedy that took place in Orlando this past weekend.  

I have to share that the moment I heard the news, I broke down and cried.  Not because I knew anyone who was hurt or killed.  That didn’t matter. I cried because it was clear that a certain group of people were targeted and that fear and hate were at the center of the shootings. 

For those of us living in the United States, we’re painfully aware of the recent mass shootings that have been taking place around the country. Almost every single one of them is sparked by anger, hatred of one group or another, and an unwillingness to accept people for who they are.

I’m not going to preach or go into political matters.  

Right now, I’m speaking from one heart that is breaking to another.

More than anything, my mission in life — the whole reason why Michelle and I have made Heart’s Desire our life’s work and purpose — is to bring transformation to this world through LOVE.  

Where there is love, there is peace.  Where there is peace, people are free.  And where there is freedom, there is hope and anything becomes possible!

Yes, we focus primarily on transformation through empowering women to create the relationships of their dreams.  So what does that have to do with these tragic events?  

Because, when there are women who are happy and fulfilled in and of themselves, they are able to attract and nurture happy, loving, and fulfilling relationships.  

From these relationships, many times, happy families are created and unhappy ones are healed and restored.

Where there are happy families and relationships, that love and happiness spreads to their communities.

When communities come together, states and nations are bound by love, peace, and partnership.

And when nations come together in love, peace, and partnership, this world becomes one in which we are all living to our highest potential, where the desire to come together outweighs the need to be right, and where the highest priority becomes augmenting, magnifying, and spreading that love, peace, and hope so that no one is left out or left behind!

So, for us, this vision of what the world can be begins with one woman… one heart… and one relationship at a time.

During this difficult time, my prayer and heart-felt request is that each of us does all everything we can to bring love to this world.  

Let us do what we can to conquer the hate, anger, and fear that is out there with the power we were born with: The power to love!

I’d like to leave you with the message we posted yesterday on our Facebook page:

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 May peace be the air you breathe in, and may love be the air you exhale and share with the world.

You May Not Like This… But You Need to Hear It!

You May Not Like This… But You Need to Hear It!

by Gladys Diaz

I just want to warn yo right off the bat that you might not like what you’re about to hear, but I have to say it anyway because I care entirely way too much about you to not tell you what I see is happening!

I actually had an entirely different message and video ready to send to you today, but I did some heart-and-soul searching, and I decided I needed to send this message instead.

And, like I said, you may not like it. It may upset you. And I’m aware that you may even choose to unsubscribe.

However, I’m practicing what I teach and I’m not going to allow my fear of not being liked or of you getting upset to stop me, because I know that everything I’m saying is coming from a place of pure love!

So, please watch this video and, whatever your reaction is, go ahead and send me an email. I’m a big girl and I’ll be okay! 🙂

Most of all, if it speaks to you and you are highly committed and ready to take action, I want to make sure that you’re at the top of my list!

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P.S. If this video upsets you in any way, then know that means we need to talk!  😉

 

 

 

 

 

What to Do When Your Are in Relationship Breakdown

What to Do When Your Are in Relationship Breakdown

by Gladys Diaz

If you live in the U.S., I hope you are having a wonderful Memorial Day!  If you love or know someone who gave his/her life in service of our country, please know that I am grateful beyond words and have said a prayer of thanks today in memory of your loved one!

Today I was offering support to a fellow coach, and I shared with her an exercise that I use myself and with my clients that you can use whenever you are in “relationship breakdown.”  I wanted to share it with you, too, in case you are or find yourself in some sort of relationship breakdown yourself.

A relationship breakdown is anytime that there is a breakdown, or upset, in your relationship with someone else, whether that’s in dating or in an actual committed relationship.  It usually stems from an unmet expectation and can lead to further problems in the relationship, unless you use this simple process to move from breakdown to feeling empowered in the relationship.

You can also use this 4-step process in other relationships, but, since love is my specialty, I focused this short video on what to do if you’re upset and disempowered because you feel something is missing in your romantic relationship.


This short 4-step process could lead to having a HUGE breakthrough in your love life!

Watch the video and let me know what your response to #4 is!
Send your response to gladys@heartsdesireintl.com

 

She Discovered the “Magic” to Finding Love! Will You?

She Discovered the “Magic” to Finding Love! Will You?

by Gladys Diaz

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If you’re getting to the point in your love life where you are feeling like you want to give up on having the love you want, please take a moment to read this!

I just received the most wonderful email from Cecilia, one of the women in our Ready to Love Again Program and I just had to share it with you!

Like you, there were times that Cecilia  wondered when it would finally be her turn to find true love. After having her marriage of 13 years end, followed by a painful breakup to the man she thought was her “The One,” only to discover that he – like the men she had dated throughout her life – was emotionally unavailable, Cecilia heard that all-to-familiar, nagging voice in her head telling her that there must be something “wrong” with her.

Unwilling to give up on her dream of sharing her life with a loving, supportive, emotionally available man, she reached out to us for a “Ready to Love Again” Session and immediately decided to join our Ready to Love Again Program.

In the program she discovered how she had subconsciously been putting all of her focus on a man providing her with the love, protection, and security she was not creating for herself. In other words, she was looking outside of herself for a man to fill her own feelings of unworthiness. And, inside of the belief that she could not have the kind of love she really wanted, she continued to attract men that proved her right – men who would not love, cherish, and make her a priority in their lives.

Through the transformational work we do in the Ready to Love Again program, Cecila was able to break through and release her Love Barriers – her fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs about love. She was willing to do the inner work so that she could finally have the love that she always desired!

“I was putting all my focus on how that other person was going give me the love, protection and security that I was not giving or creating for myself. It didn’t matter how much I said I wanted True Love. I was keeping myself safe and unconsciously attracting those men that were not available. I was asking someone to bring something to me, that I was not giving myself, due to my own fears.

This program has been life-transforming! The most helpful skill I have learned in this process has been to Love My Self deeply, wholeheartedly and openly.  Both Michele and Gladys supported and encouraged with compassion, care, and lots of guidance and understanding. The reflective exercises all aided in my recognizing, tracking, and truly releasing patterns of Fears and Limiting Beliefs about Love and how they get in the way of having all that I want.”

And the willingness to do her inner work has paid off!

Now, Cecilia is dating an amazing man! 

“Since January, I have been dating a wonderful man who continues to inspire, surprise me, and whom I have laughed with the most in my life! The best part is knowing that I am fully myself with him and I’m having so much fun being Me! It’s been so amazing and a little bit like ‘magic’ to find how much we ‘get each other.’”

I wanted to share Cecilia’s story with you, because, if you are in that same space she was in – where you are beginning to wonder if there is something “wrong with you” that is having you continue repeating the same painful patterns with different men, relationship after relationship, and you’re ready to break those patterns and begin to love and be loved, then you need to know that the doors to the Ready to Love Again program are closing soon.

We only offer this program once a year and it has sold out every year, so we have no reason to think it won’t sell out again!

And we don’t want you to miss  out!

There’s simply no reason for you not to have the love you want.

Let’s figure out what’s standing in your way, get it out of the way, and have you begin attracting the man who is going to love, adore, and make you laugh for the rest of your life!

To learn more about how whether the Ready to Love Again Program is a good fit for you, click here.

You are no different than Cecilia!  You deserve the same kind of love and you can have it if you’re ready to do the inner work to move past your Love Barriers and into the arms of a man who is ready to love you for a lifetime!

 

We want YOU to be our next success story!
Click here to learn more about whether the Ready to Love Again Program is right for you!
I’m a little confused…

I’m a little confused…

by Gladys Diaz

I was looking at my calendar, and I I’m a little confused…

I’m confused because I didn’t see you on my calendar for your Love Breakthrough Session!

I shot a quick video for you about this that I invite you to watch. In it, I point out another possible Love Barrier that may be standing in your way of having the loving relationship you want!

Watch the video and then take your next steps!

 CLICK HERE TO SCHEDULE YOUR LOVE BREAKTHROUGH SESSION NOW!

I realize you may not be used to someone really standing for you.
Most people in life will give you agreement as to why you can’t have what you truly want.

I’m just not one of them!

Remember: The only thing standing between you and your dream relationship is the fear that you might not get it.  And the only reason you believe that is because you’ve been gathering evidence for that for so long.  It’s time to begin creating a different result!  Here’s how!

It’s time to take a step in the direction of your dreams!

Click here to schedule your Love Breakthrough Session now!