Yesterday was the first day of school for my kids, and I took the opportunity to pamper myself and get a deep-tissue Swedish massage, courtesy of my wonderful hubby!
As I was lying on the table, enjoying the soft meditation music, the candles, and looking forward to a nice, relaxing massage, all of a sudden, all I could feel was PAIN! And lots of it!
I actually found myself holding my breath a few times because of the pain I could feel under the masseuse’s expert hands!
At one point, I thought I would tell her to stop, and then I noticed something…
I began to notice how my muscles were responding to her touch.
I became aware of how, while I wasn’t stressed out or feeling pain when I first laid down on the table, there were parts of my body that were obviously story pain and stress, based on the “knots” she was finding and deeply massaging.
And, I noticed how she would dig really deep into a muscle, work there for a while, go somewhere else, and then come back to it and work on it some more.
That’s when I thought of you! (Yes, even while getting a massage, you are on my mind! Can’t help it!)
Here’s why:
I started thinking about how, sometimes, we have some “deep-tissue” pain stored in our memories, our hearts, and our bodies that are related to the past.
Maybe it has to do with a relationship that ended painfully.
Maybe you’re in a relationship right now, where you’re feeling some pain.
Or perhaps you’re feeling stuck in your life and you keep wondering, “I’ve prayed, meditated, read all these books, watched videos, attended courses, and worked with different coaches! When am I finally going to break through this?”
I get it! I’ve been there myself! And, here’s the deal:
Sometimes, you just need to go back and dig a little deeper to truly release the pain so that you can move forward with joy, peace, and the love you desire and deserve!
It’s during those times of release that you are able to put the past back in the past where it belongs so that you can move toward the present and future that are waiting for you!
Well, I was so inspired by all of the thoughts and insights I had during that massage, that, when I finished, I went to Facebook and shot a live video (Well, two, actually, because I lost connection during the first one, but I just had to share this with you!)
I know it can be tempting to feel like the “deep-tissue” inner work you’ve done isn’t working, but… what if…?
What if you’re just inches away from your next breakthrough?
What if you can dig a little deeper and finally have the happiness and love you want?
What would that make possible for you?
Check out the video and let me know what opens up for you!
Don’t forget to comment below! We love hearing from you!
I’ll admit it. Today’s video took a little bit of courage to make, because I’m sharing something I’m not very proud of that happened between my husband and me.
The moment I said it, I regretted it!
I felt it was important to share it, however, because any relationship, no matter how good it is, has it’s ups and downs. The key is knowing what to do when you slip!
So, as uncomfortable as this was to share, if it helps you to create more love and intimacy in your relationship – even after an argument – it’s worth it!
Remember: While our relationships aren’t “perfect,” they can still be great!
And, by the way, I’d love to hear from YOU!
If you have a question about love and communication that you’d like answered, send me an email (gladys@heartsdesireintl.com) or leave me a comment below, and I’ll make sure I personally respond to you!
Today Ric and I are celebrating our 16th Wedding Anniversary, and we’re about to leave for a 4-day getaway, but I wanted to share a short message of hope and love with you first, because, as usual, you are on my mind.
I know that you may be feeling afraid and hopeless when it comes to your love life. You might be wondering if you will ever have the loving, happy, passionate relationship you want with a man who is loving, faithful, supportive, and whose mission in life is to see you happy.
While it’s been 17 years since I felt that way, I don’t ever for a moment forget that pain and it’s why I’ve dedicated my life to helping women move past that pain and toward the love that I know is waiting for them.
I got a little emotional in the video below. I won’t apologize for it. I feel your pain and I KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that you CAN have the love and happiness your heart desires.
So receive this message of hope and love and know that, if you’re willing to be courageous enough to move past your pain and fear, there is more love, happiness, and peace than you can begin to imagine waiting for you on the other side!
17 years ago today, I was feeling afraid, alone, and pretty hopeless. It seemed like everything in my life was going wrong and I just could not see how I would ever feel happy again, let alone find true love.
And then, I made a decision, and when I least expected it, everything changed!
I had no idea that my life would change that day.
I just knew that I didn’t want to feel the way I’d been feeling anymore, and I opened up to the possibility that maybe – just maybe – I could have the happiness and love my heart desired! I tell you the story in this quick video so make sure you watch it!
And, because I’m feeling so much joy, love and gratitude, I’m also feeling very generous! So, I’m giving something away at the end of the video that I know can make a difference for you!
Watch the video, follow the 3 simple steps at the end of it, and believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that you CAN have the love and happiness your heart desires.
The truth is that, while you and I are both special and unique, I’m no different from you. So, if I can experience true love twice in a lifetime, I KNOW I can help you attract true love into your life. Follow the directions in the video, click on the link below, and let me show you how!
I know you’ve probably heard (and possibly even believed) that men are intimidated by powerful, successful women.
This is a very popular and completely FALSE misconception that many successful women have.
I used to feel the same way, too.
I thought that if I was more successful or educated or making more money than the man I was with, he would feel threatened by me in some way.
I thought that if I was further ahead in my career, he would feel like I was out of his league and either resent me or try to hold me back. I remember trying to avoid talking about my promotions, accomplishments, and accolades thinking that it would somehow make my man feel more comfortable with himself…and me. Or, I thought that maybe I should just focus on my career, because that was easier for me. I felt accomplished, success came easily to me, and I did not have to depend on anything or anyone else to have the results I wanted. And, as much as I pride myself in being a smart and successful woman, I am so glad I was wrong!
Instead, I attracted a man who is and has been my biggest fan for almost 17 years!
He is proud of me and brags about me, but not just as a successful businesswoman.
He brags about me as his WIFE!
And I’ll tell you right now:
No amount of degrees, recognition, or high-paying positions can ever compare to the feeling I get when my husband tells someone, “She makes it easy for me to love her and inspires me to be the best man I can be.”
So, what did I do to create that kind of relationship?
I figured out the way to have BOTH the successful business and career I want AND the loving, passionate relationship my heart desires!
I learned that I didn’t have to choose between one or the other! I could have it ALL! So, I get to have a 6-figure business where I have the privilege of serving and supporting amazing, successful women from all over the world AND be loved by a man who supports me in life and in my business.
Just the other week, he was away on a very important business trip, where his days went from morning until late into the evening. While he was gone, my website went down and, since he’s my hot and sexy webmaster, I reached out, knowing he might not see the text for a while.
Just a few minutes later, he sent me a text message saying he’d get to it as soon as he had a break.
I thanked him and got this back:
Not bad, after 17 years together, huh? 🙂
And, in less than an hour, my website was up and running again!
That’s true partnership.
That’s what feeling supported in every area of your life looks like!
And that’s what having it ALL can feel like!
The truth is that you don’t have to “dumb down,” downplay your accomplishments, or pretend you’re not as capable as you are.
AND you don’t have to pretend that you don’t want to share your life with a man who loves, supports, and WANTS you to succeed!
During this interactive masterclass, you’ll learn:
How to avoid the common mistakes successful women make that propel them in business but repel love and intimacy
How to shift from being unstoppable and invincible at work to being simply irresistible in your love life
How to create a life where you have time for your career, your love life and yourself
Learning the secrets to having the life, success and love your heart desires is the KEY to having it all! Join us for this two-part masterclass and let’s get you started on the path to living the life and love of your dreams!
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