I’m keeping this post short and sweet because we are on vacation and my kids are waiting for me to go do something fun!
However, I just had to take a few minutes to write because I wanted to tell you about two things!
First, we just heard that we have another new bride! That’s right, another one of our clients just got married this past weekend! (It’s getting so that it’s hard to keep count!)
It’s so amazing to see her dreams coming true after all the years she questioned and wondered whether that day would ever come for her!
THIS is why Michelle and I do what we do. THIS is why we are so incredibly committed to you moving beyond all of your fears and excuses and just breaking through the BS that has you feeling like you are stuck where you are. Because THIS is what’s possible for YOU when you do!
I want you to get really honest with yourself as you ask yourself these questions:
Is itreallypossible that there are “no good men” out there?
Or is it more likely that you haven’t attracted the good man who is right for youyet?
Is itreally truethat you can’t get over your ex?
Or is it that you are so afraid of having your heart broken again that you’ll just stay stuck on him to avoid having to get out there, meet people, and open your heart to loving someone again?
Is itreallythat you are just so busy with your career or business, your travel schedule, going out with your friends, etc.?
Or is it that you are so terrified of failing at love that you’d rather tell yourself that you’re “okay,” your life is already great, and there’s no need or desire for you to share it with someone else?
Look, my job is not to make you feel badly about where you are in your life, because I do believe that you need to be happy on your own before you can attract someone who will add to that happiness.
But here’s the deal. It’s NOT that there aren’t any good guys, it’s NOT that you can’t get over your ex, and it’s NOT that your life is already so busy and fulfilled that you feel you don’t need a man with whom to share it.
All that stuff is NOT what is keeping you stuck!
What’s keeping you stuck where you are is all the stuff you keep telling yourself so that you don’t have to take the steps you need to take to have the love you really want.
I get it. I’m a successful woman, too, and I don’t like failing any more than you do.
However, I’d much rather take a risk than be a victim of my circumstances and cheat myself out of the possibility of having everything my heart desires.
Because failing sucks, but it doesn’t suck nearlyas much as regret, which is what you feel when you look back and see that the only thing that really stood in the way of having the love and life you wanted was YOU!
So, just in case one of your “reasons” for not having the love you want is that you can’t seem to move on from your past breakup, I wanted to share with you the recording of a radio show we did a few weeks ago with our very good friend, Simone Kelly, of Own Your Power Radio. The show was about “Starting Over When It’s Over,” and you’ll hear some great advice on the things you can do to move on after a breakup, divorce, or losing your partner.
Here’s my invitation:
Answer the questions above (be honest with yourself).
If you’re ready to start over, listen to our discussion and see which step you’re ready to take!
P.S. Michelle only has a few spots left on her calendar this week while I’m vacation!If you haven’t had the chance to be coached by Michelle, this is an opportunity you don’t want to miss!
She’s one of the most powerful coaches I’ve ever worked with and was MY coach when Ric and I were having issues in our marriage! Don’t miss out and sign up to speak with her now!
I just finished doing a wonderful meditation that was has really inspired me to take a step I’ve been resisting taking for a while.
It’s not that I didn’t know what step to take. It’s not that I felt I couldn’t or wasn’t capable of taking the step.
The truth is, I was just afraid of taking it.
So, what did I do? I did the fear exercise that we teach in the Ready to Love Again program! I went through it, step by step, and, in just a few minutes, I was in a space where I felt empowered to take the step that had been stopping me!
This exercise is so powerful!
In fact, I just received a testimonial from one of our Ready to Love Again graduates, Kristin, who is now in a very happy, loving relationship after being single for many years and sharing with me on more than one occasion how she questioned if she would ever be able to attract love into her life.
Here’s what Kristin wrote to me:
“Before the program, my dating life was frustrating. I had been doing online dating and no matter how many rewrites I had of my profile, I wasn’t attracting what I wanted. I found myself wanting to cut the guy out of my life the first sign there was a problem. I knew that this would not be appropriate behavior being married, as that’s a very big commitment. I thought that I was definitely ready for love, though.
The fear exercise was huge for me. This is where I saw a lot of my breakthroughs in the program. I actually found out that with the “story” I was telling myself all about my “failures,” I was making myself the victim. (Poor me, poor me.) Instead of looking at the situation and staying in the present: This is what it is. It’s nothing else.
There were several times fears came up, and I did the fear exercise. That would help me stay “present” and be able to let go of my fear. Sometimes I’ve had to do the exercise more than once. Sometimes I had to go deeper and learn what my true triggers are so I can work on that specific trigger.
How am I and this relationship different? For starters, this is the longest relationship I have had in my entire life!
During the program, I was able to make a list of what I wanted to experience during courtship with a man. I will tell you this: I have seen every one of those things I listed with this man!”
Kristin got clear about what her fears were and used the tools in the Ready to Love Again program to help her break through them and attract the relationship she thought she’d never find!
I don’t know what your fears are or what has been stopping you from attracting the love that you want.
What I do know is that Michelle and I can help you break through those fears so that you can have the love that you want and deserve! We’ve helped women around the world do this and we can help you, too!
But you have to let us!
So, here’s the deal:
The Ready to Love Again Webinar replayis only available until Midnight Easter Time tonight, so you only have a few more hours to listen to the incredible information we share about how to let go of the past, break through your fears (like Kristin did), and allow love to enter your life!
I only have 6 more slots available tomorrow (Thursday) to speak with women who are interested in learning about the Ready to Love Again program, and Michelle only has 1 spot left!
You have a choice. You can stay stuck in fear, or you can take a step in the direction of having the love you say you want.
CLICK HEREor on the button you’ll see on the Webinar screen to schedule time to speak with one of us before the spots are all taken! (I’m leaving on vacation on Friday and would hate for you to have to wait to start making your dreams come true!)
I’m telling you, there is nothingmore empowering than knowing that you are no longer allowing fear to stop you and that you’re taking responsibility for creating your happiness into your own hands!
We know you’re scared. What youneed to know is that we’re here for you and we’ll be there for you every step of the way!
Watch the replay, schedule time to speak with one of us, and let’s make your dreams come true!
Nothing makes us happier than when we see one of our clients in a happy, loving relationship – especially when her belief when she started working with was that it would never happen for her!
This is what happened for our client, Melisa! Those of you who were on our list last year may have heard Melisa’s incredible coaching conversation with Michelle. Melisa had gotten out of a painful breakup with her boyfriend who had cheated on her and, a week later, was already with someone else. She was feeling hurt and wondered if anyone would ever really love and accept her fully.
Melisa shared how she had a pattern of ignoring the red flags she saw early in relationships and attracting men who were liars, cheaters, and unavailable to be in a relationship with her, leading her to repeatedly experience heartache and pain.
What Melisa discovered during her session with Michelle was that she was playing a very real and active role in perpetuating this vicious cycle. She uncovered the limiting beliefs that were having her attract men who would not love and accept her, and it all began with the way she saw and was relating to herself because of her physical disability.
During the session, Michelle said the words to Melisa, “The good news is that, if you created all of that, you can create something else… Something authentic, true, and bigger than the disability you were born with, because you are so much more than that!”
Well, we’re happy to say that Melisa listened, not only to Michelle, but to her heart, and, after working with us last year, she is now in a very happy and loving relationship!
Join us on Monday night to hear the steps Melisa took to break free from her old familiar patterns and attract a man who is not only available but loves and accepts her exactly the way she is!
Today is such a happy day! Ric and I are celebrating our 15th Wedding Anniversary!
This morning, he called me over to the stairs so that we could watch our boys playing together. I looked over at him and said, “We made that!” It was such an intimate moment!
He hugged me, and, when we finished hugging, I noticed we were standing in front of our wedding photo.
Looking at how happy we looked in that picture had so many memories start floating through my head!
I remember asking myself that night, “Is this really happening? Is this dream really coming true?”
See, before meeting Ric, I was flat out heartbroken. The pain I felt after losing my first husband was so deep and so overwhelming that I could physicallyfeel it at time.
I was so lost in the heartache that I seriously wondered whether I would ever be able to laugh or smile again.
And I honestly believed that I would never be able to stop loving my first husband and open my heart to loving someone again.
To me, he had been my “The One,” and, with him gone, I felt like all of my hopes and dreams, as well as my chances at having a lifetime love had died with him.
I was terrified that I’d feel that pain and loneliness for the rest of my life, and I simply could not bear it!
I was convinced that I would be alone for the rest of my life.
As a smart and intelligent woman, I pride myself on being right a lot of the time, but I have to tell you that I’mso glad I was wrong!
Once I began doing my inner work, dealing powerfully with my fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs, I was able to break through them and attract the most loving, amazing, generous man into my life!
Had I held on to those fears and doubts, I would have stayed stuck in my misery, holding on to my heartache and pain, and cheated myself out of having more love and happiness in my life than I could have ever dreamed was possible!
And, I want the same level of love and heartache-free joy for you, too!
If I hadn’t let go of my heartache, it would have robbed me of the happiness I feel today as I celebrate 15 years of loving, being loved, and being blissfully married to Ric.
You deserve to be this happy, too, and this webinar could be the answer you’ve been hoping and praying for!
I had finally started getting to the place where I felt I could at least start going out to meet people. I didn’t feel ready to fall in love, but I did want to stop feeling the sadness and loneliness I’d felt since my husband had passed away.
There was one guy I knew who I’d been talking on the phone with. We’d gone out with a group once and then went out on a date, but he was very clear that he did not want to be in a relationship. I told him I felt the same way, but, as the weeks went on, I found myself calling him when he didn’t call me and leaving voicemail messages, texting him, and constantly trying to get on his radar (all the mistakes I now teach women to avoid making)!
We were supposed to go out one Friday night (I had asked him out!) and, when I hadn’t heard from him for several days, I decided on Friday morning that I’d been stood up.
All of my fears and insecurities around ever being able to love and be loved again came rushing to the surface. I cried until my eyes hurt and just kept repeating, “This is why it’s just better for me to be alone.”
Thankfully, my best friend was NOT going to leave me in that space, and she invited me to go out dancing that evening.
I decided that dancing with her was better than being in my small apartment alone, so we went out dancing.
Right before we walked in, I decided, “I’m just going to have FUN! I’m not going to think about him or about how hurt I feel. I really just want to have fun!”
And, my goodness, did I have fun!
I danced with everyone who asked me to. I probably danced with at least 12 different guys.
All except the one guy who kept staring at me from the DJ booth.
He was so cute and just kept bobbing his head to the music while holding his Corona.
We kept catching one another’s eyes, smile, and then I’d go back to dancing.
Long story short, right as I was getting ready to leave the bar, our eyes locked and he nodded his head for me to come over.
I was not about to walk across a dance floor to talk to some guy (!), so I mocked him and made the same gesture to him with my head. And he came over!
We talked for several hours and he asked me for my number (I was too scared to give him my cell phone number, so I gave him the number to my work pager number! Oy!)
I gave him a hug as he left and could not stop smiling.
I didn’t know that evening that he would call me the next day one minute after getting out of work.
I didn’t know that evening that we’d go out on our first date a couple of days later.
And I surely didn’t know that night that we’d be married a year later!
All I knew was that I was grateful that I hadn’t let the unhappiness of one moment stop me from allowing myself to experience a fun evening that, had I stayed home, could have resulted in me never having met him!
I don’t know what painful situation you’ve been through or are going through.
I don’t know why you’ve held on to a dead-end relationship or a broken heart for so long.
I don’t know why you won’t do what it takes to break through that pain and fear so that you can experience love again.
What I do know is that, unless something changes, nothing will change! You’ll keep feeling sad, hurt, and hopeless, and, meanwhile, be missing out on the opportunity to experience the love of a lifetime.
I also know that we can help you get to the other side of pain and suffering so that you can begin feeling the love and happiness you desire and deserve.
So, what can you do about it?
Be real with yourself about the fact that, right now, you are the one standing in your own way. Whatever happened in the past has already happened. It is not happening right now. The only thing happening right now is whatever choices you are making that are stopping you from releasing yourself from the past so that you can experience love NOW!
Write down a description of what it is you want to experience in a romantic relationship. And as you write it, believe it! For example: “I want a, fun, loving, passionate relationship where I feel completely loved and accepted for who I am!” Include the words that matter most to you in your description (love, trust, acceptance, honesty, etc.) and be really detailed in describing how you want to feel!
Write down three steps you can take to begin moving in the direction of creating this type of relationship.
Do you need to create and post an online profile?
Do you need to get out of your house and actually start meeting people?
Do you need to apologize to your boyfriend or husband for something you’ve been doing that has been negatively impacting your relationship so that you can begin experiencing love and intimacy again?
Be clear in the action steps you are going to take and then give yourself a deadline on your calendar by when you will take each step.
Now, I get that it’s not always easy to do this kind of work yourself. You may feel like you’re not sure what to write or what’s standing in your way. You also may need someone to help hold you accountable so that you will actually do what you say you’re going to do.
That’s where we come in!
Now, this is my anniversary weekend, so I’m taking the weekend off, but I do have some spots open on my calendar for Monday and Tuesday of next week.
If you’d like to schedule time to talk on either of those days, go ahead and click the link below and schedule a time to talk. (Act fast, my calendar fills up quickly!)
And, since you have to wait a few of days before you can speak to me, I’ll send you a little something you can use between now and our call!
I had no way of knowing 16 years ago that my life was going to change forever! There was no way I could have known that I was about to enter into my own love story of a lifetime!
I want the same for you! If you’re ready to take the first step toward your love story of a lifetime, click below, and let’s talk!
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