by Gladys Diaz
Is your relationship or relationship status something you think about every day?
Not from a place of “desperation,” but from a place of commitment to having what you want?
Are your daily actions and choices aligned with creating the relationship of your dreams?
Being in committed action about the things that are important to you creates confidence and is the path to manifesting what you want.
So what choices can you make every day that will get you closer to creating the relationship your heart desires?
Here are five choices you can make everyday to get you closer to creating the passionate, loving, fun relationship you really want.
- Be Crystal-Clear About What You Want.
Without crystal-clarity, you get blurriness. In relationships, this looks like having bits and pieces of the kind of relationship you want to experience, but not quite having it ALL. Each and every day, declare what the relationship of your dreams looks like and feels like. Don’t focus on the qualities the man will possess or what he needs to have but what the two of you will create and experience together.
If you want to experience happiness in the relationship, what does that look and feel like for you?
Do you want to laugh and smile together?
Are you going to be spontaneous and adventure together?
Get clear on what you truly want and declare it daily.
2. Set Your Intention.
Everyday, set an intention of what you are going to create and who you are going to be that day. Maybe you declare you’re going to “have fun and learn something new. Then, throughout the day make sure your actions align with that intention.
BE and bring the fun! BE interested and interesting.
Whether you’re going on a date, spending time with your partner, or just going about your normal day, you have the power to create and BE the experience you want to have.
3. Start Smiling and Stop Complaining
This one isn’t just about smiling and not complaining. It’s about focusing your energy and attention on what you DO want to see and experience so that you are finding evidence of that all around you. It’s about BEing the things you would like to see in a partner and attracting them to you.
You attract who you are, so BE the love you want to see!.
Everything we see is a projection of how we see ourselves. The more we become what we want, the more we will find it outside of ourselves.
When you stand in this power you step into the power of creating, attracting and manifesting, instead of hoping, waiting or forcing things to happen.
And that’s irresistible!
4. Experience and Express Gratitude.
In each moment that you see something beautiful or experience something you feel gratitude for, stop for a moment.
Give yourself a few seconds to really feel the gratitude and love you’re experiencing.
This is one of the most transformational practices you can begin implementing in your life!
Simply try it and see if you don’t start calling more goodness into your life!
5. Choose your words wisely.
The words you say, both out loud and in your head, are very important, because your subconscious becomes a detective for the words you think and say.
As soon as you say the words, “Dating is hard” or “I’m really trying in my relationship, but it’s just not working” your brain starts to look for evidence that you’re right.
So… what do you want to be right about?
Change those words to “Dating is fun!” and “My relationship is growing stronger everyday,” and see how you and your love life begin to transform!
If you’d like some support in raising your self-awareness so that you can really start to understand how you can stop patterns that aren’t working for you and choose thoughts, words and actions that are aligned with your love vision, we’d love to talk to you! Just click on the link below and schedule a Love Breakthrough Session.
This call will help you see what’s in the way, how to get it out of the way, and what your next best steps are for moving in the direction of life and love your heart desires.
It’s so easy to become apathetic in your life when things aren’t working out the way you would like, or if they are taking longer to become reality then you’d like them to.
When you choose to take daily actions that are aligned with what you want, then God and the universe can’t help but start to deliver it to you!
So, who are you going to BE today? What are you going to CHOOSE?