The Key to Connection: Communication Skills Every High-Value Woman Needs

The Key to Connection: Communication Skills Every High-Value Woman Needs

by | Dec 9, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Gratitude, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Marriage, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

As a high-achieving, driven woman, you’re no stranger to success. 

You’ve mastered the art of leading teams, making decisions under pressure, and reaching ambitious goals. 

Yet, when it comes to love and relationships, you might find yourself in unfamiliar territory—wondering why the skills that serve you so well in your career don’t seem to translate to the deeper, fulfilling connection you desire.

The truth is, powerful communication in love and relationships requires a different set of skills. 

It’s not about negotiation, commanding authority, or achieving outcomes; it’s about vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and authentic connection. And for many successful women, these skills are not only new—they can feel downright uncomfortable.

But here’s the good news: just like you learned to excel in your career, you can learn to master the skill of powerful communication in love and create the deep, meaningful relationship you deserve.

Why Communication Is the Foundation of Love

Communication is the heartbeat of any relationship. It’s how you express your needs, build trust, and navigate challenges. 

But here’s the catch: the way you communicate in relationships is often influenced by patterns you learned in childhood.

If you grew up in a home where your needs weren’t consistently met, you may have learned to:

  • Stay silent to avoid conflict.
  • Overachieve to feel worthy of love.
  • React defensively when you feel vulnerable.

These patterns can unconsciously shape your communication style in relationships today, leading to misunderstandings, emotional distance, or even attracting partners who reinforce these old wounds.

The Link Between Childhood Patterns and Communication Challenges

For the high-powered woman, childhood patterns often play out in subtle but impactful ways:

  • Overachieving for Validation: You might feel like you need to “earn” love by proving your worth, making it hard to ask for what you truly need.
  • Fear of Rejection: You may avoid expressing emotions, fearing they’ll make you seem “too much” or “too needy.”
  • Control as a Defense Mechanism: In an effort to protect yourself, you might try to control situations or avoid vulnerability altogether.

These patterns served a purpose in your past, helping you navigate challenging environments. 

But in your adult relationships, they can act as barriers to the connection and intimacy you truly crave.

The HeartWork™: Changing the Patterns

Changing these patterns requires what we call the HeartWork™—the deep, intentional process of uncovering your emotional triggers, healing old wounds, and learning new ways to communicate. 

Here’s how to start:

1. Reflect on Your Patterns

Take time to examine how your childhood experiences influence your communication style today. Ask yourself:

  • Do I avoid expressing my needs because I fear rejection?
  • Do I over-explain or justify myself to feel validated?
  • Do I shut down emotionally when I feel hurt?

Awareness is the first step toward change.

2. Reconnect with Your Worth

Remind yourself that your value is not tied to your achievements or how much you can “give” in a relationship. You’re worthy of love simply because you exist. 

When you approach communication from this place of confidence and worthiness, your interactions become more authentic and less defensive.

3. Practice Vulnerable Communication

Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the key to deeper connection. Start small:

  • Express how you feel instead of what you think.
  • Use “I” statements to own your emotions without blaming your partner.
  • Be open about your needs, even if it feels uncomfortable.

For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me,” instead try: “I feel unheard when I share something important, and it makes me feel disconnected. Can we talk about this?”

4. Set the Vision for Your Love Life

Imagine what you want your love life to look like in 2025. 

  • What kind of partner do you want to attract? 
  • How do you want to feel in your relationship? 

Write down your vision in detail, and include how you want communication to flow between you and your partner.

This clarity will not only guide your actions but also help you identify whether a relationship aligns with your goals.

What Mastering Communication Will Create for You

When you master the skill of powerful communication in love and relationships, you’ll experience:

  • Deeper Emotional Connection: Expressing your needs openly creates intimacy and trust.
  • Aligned Partnerships: Clear communication helps you attract a partner who matches your vision and values.
  • Confidence in Vulnerability: You’ll feel safe expressing your emotions without fear of judgment or rejection.
  • Resolution Over Reactivity: You’ll handle conflicts with grace, turning challenges into opportunities for growth.

Your Next Step: Taking Action

The love life you desire—a relationship where you feel seen, supported, and celebrated—isn’t out of reach. 

It starts with you. 

By mastering communication, breaking old patterns, and stepping into your worth, you create the space for the love and connection you’ve been craving.

Ask yourself:

  • What am I willing to let go of to create the relationship I deserve?
  • How can I prioritize doing the HeartWork™ to change my patterns?
  • What will my love life look like in 2025 if I start this work today?

Your Love Vision Starts Now

You’ve already proven that you can succeed in life. Now, it’s time to bring that same focus, intention, and confidence into your love life. 

Mastering the skill of powerful communication isn’t only about attracting a partner—it’s about creating a relationship that elevates every aspect of your life.

So, let this be the moment you decide: 2025 will be the year of Extraordinary Love.

As crazy as it may seem, this year is coming to a close. If you want to step into the New Year clear about your Love Vision and what to do to create it, then join us for the Unlimited Love Vision Workshop, next Tuesday, December 17th!

Click here to register! 

Your love story starts with the conversation you’re willing to have with yourself today. 💖

 

The Secret to Effortless Attraction: Activate Your Magnetic Essence

The Secret to Effortless Attraction: Activate Your Magnetic Essence

by | Nov 22, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Romance, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

As a high-achieving, successful woman, you’ve mastered the art of getting things done. 

Your ambition, focus, and drive have propelled you forward in your career, and you’re used to navigating life with purpose and determination. 

But when it comes to love, things might feel a little…different.

You’ve likely asked yourself, “Why doesn’t the same confidence and power I bring to my professional life translate to my love life?” 

The truth is, attracting extraordinary love requires a different kind of power—magnetic irresistibility.

The good news? 

Magnetic irresistibility isn’t something you’re born with; it’s a skill you can cultivate. And when you activate this powerful energy, you naturally attract the right kind of attention, connection, and partnership into your life.

What Is Magnetic Irresistibility?

Magnetic irresistibility is the ability to exude confidence, authenticity, and openness in a way that draws people toward you effortlessly. It’s not about playing games or pretending to be someone you’re not. Instead, it’s about:

  • Embracing your true self
  • Owning your worth unapologetically
  • Balancing your strength with vulnerability

When you embody these qualities, you create a natural pull that high-quality partners can’t resist. 

And the best part? You don’t have to chase love—it finds you.

Why Magnetic Irresistibility Matters

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of “doing” rather than “being.” As a successful woman, you’re used to setting goals, checking off tasks, and pushing forward. 

But in love, attraction isn’t about effort; it’s about energy.

Think of it this way:

  • Are you presenting yourself as someone open and inviting, or are you giving off the vibe that you’re too busy or too guarded?
  • Are you showing up authentically, or are you trying to fit into someone else’s expectations?

Magnetic irresistibility shifts the dynamic. It allows you to step into your power, not as a force of control, but as a presence of openness, confidence, and self-worth.

How to Activate Your Magnetic Irresistibility

The principles of magnetic irresistibility were beautifully outlined in a recent Love Chat with the Love Twins. Here are the steps you can take today to start activating this powerful energy:

1. Recognize Your Patterns

Many of us are operating on autopilot, playing out patterns we learned in childhood or past relationships. These might include:

  • Avoiding vulnerability out of fear of rejection.
  • Trying to “earn” love by over-giving or overachieving.
  • Building walls to protect yourself from potential hurt.

The first step in activating your magnetic irresistibility is to identify these patterns and begin to shift them.

2. Own Your Unique Essence

What makes you extraordinary? Your strength, intelligence, humor, kindness—these are the qualities that make you irresistible. 

When you fully embrace who you are, you radiate confidence that attracts the right kind of partner.

3. Balance Strength and Softness

High-achieving women often feel they need to be strong at all times, but true connection requires vulnerability. Magnetic irresistibility is about balancing your power with your ability to let someone in.

Ask yourself:

  • Where can I let my guard down a little?
  • How can I invite connection instead of control?

4. Show Up Authentically

Authenticity is magnetic. When you let go of trying to be perfect or impress others, you give people permission to see the real you—and the right partner will love you for exactly who you are.

5. Project an Energy of Openness

Your energy speaks louder than words. If you’re closed off or guarded, it can push potential partners away. Practice projecting an energy of openness by:

  • Smiling more.
  • Making eye contact.
  • Engaging in conversations with curiosity and interest.

The Secret to Lasting Connection

Magnetic irresistibility isn’t just about attracting someone—it’s about creating a connection that lasts. Here’s what makes the difference:

  • Clarity in Your Vision: Know what kind of relationship you want and don’t settle for anything less.
  • Healthy Boundaries: Attracting love doesn’t mean accepting behavior that doesn’t align with your values.
  • Consistency: Continue showing up as your authentic self, even after the initial excitement fades.

When you embody these principles, you don’t just attract love—you create a relationship that reflects the extraordinary woman you are.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

The skills and mindset shifts we’ve outlined here are just the beginning. Imagine what’s possible when you have the tools, support, and guidance to fully step into your magnetic irresistibility.

If you’re ready to take charge of your love life and make 2025 the year you create the relationship you’ve been dreaming of, we invite you to join us for more personal and transformational session.

💖 Your next step: Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session

This exclusive session is designed to help you:

  • Get clear on your next steps to your love vision.
  • Break through the patterns holding you back.
  • Activate your magnetic irresistibility to attract and create the extraordinary love you deserve.

Click here to schedule your call. 

Your Love Story Awaits

You’ve already proven that you can achieve great things in life. Now, it’s time to apply that same determination to your love life. The extraordinary relationship you desire isn’t just possible—it’s waiting for you to step into it.

By activating your magnetic irresistibility, you’ll create a powerful shift that draws the right partner into your life and sets the foundation for a love story that matches your ambition and vision.

Let’s make 2025 the year your love life transforms!

You’ve got this, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

 

Mythbusters! How to Build a Relationship Without Losing Who You Are

Mythbusters! How to Build a Relationship Without Losing Who You Are

by | Sep 27, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

Do you have a fear of losing yourself in a relationship? 

You’re not alone. It’s one of the biggest fears many women have when it comes to love.

You’ve heard the stories, seen it happen to friends, and maybe even lived it yourself: 

You start off strong, confident, and vibrant, and then somewhere along the way, you find yourself bending, compromising, and shrinking just to keep the relationship going. Before you know it, you’re playing the role of someone else—someone who’s not the real you. 

It’s a story as old as time, but here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to be YOUR story.

This week, we debunked the myth that being in a relationship means losing yourself. (If you missed this week’s LIVE Love Chat With The Love Twins, click HERE to Watch the Replay!)

Because the truth is, real love doesn’t ask you to give up who you are. In fact, it allows you to become even MORE of who you are.

The Myth: Losing Yourself in Love

There’s a lot of nonsense out there about what it means to be in a relationship. 

You might have heard that being in love means sacrificing who you are, giving up your dreams, or becoming half of a whole. 

Well, we’re here to tell you it’s a total myth. 

You don’t have to give up who you are to find love; in fact, holding on to your values, your quirks, and your dreams is what creates a magnetic pull for the right kind of love.

The Truth: The Right Relationship EXPANDS You

Research shows that the right relationship is one where both partners grow and expand. 

A study from Carnegie Mellon University found that people in supportive, loving relationships are more likely to take on new challenges, pursue their personal goals, and grow as individuals. 

They’re healthier, happier, and more confident. And yes, this applies to both men and women!

When you’re with the right partner, you don’t lose your identity; you enhance it. 

You become more of who you are. In the right relationship, you don’t have to hide parts of yourself or settle for less. Instead, you and your partner grow together, enriching each other’s lives.

Healing the Patterns That Created This Fear

But we get it: there’s a reason this fear exists. 

Maybe you’ve been in relationships in the past where you did lose yourself. You might have changed your appearance, put your dreams on the back burner, or even let go of your core values just to keep the peace. 

That’s not your fault; it’s a pattern that many women fall into, often without realizing it.

The key to breaking this pattern is to heal the wounds that created it. You see, when we don’t fully love and accept who we are, we look for validation in our partners. We let their opinions and desires dictate our actions, and slowly but surely, we lose sight of ourselves. 

To break free, you need to do the inner work: recognize where these fears come from and choose to let them go.

At the Irresistible Woman LIVE 3-Day Event, we dive deep into uncovering these patterns and fears that have kept you from showing up as the woman you truly are. Because when you understand where these fears originated, you can rewrite your story and step into a new chapter—one where you create a relationship that honors YOU.

The Difference Between Independent, Co-dependent, and Interdependent Relationships

Now, let’s break down the different types of relationships, so you know what to aim for and what to avoid.

  • Independent Relationships: In these relationships, each partner operates in their own bubble. There’s little sharing, support, or deep connection. While independence is important, when taken to an extreme, it can lead to loneliness and emotional distance.
  • Co-dependent Relationships: This is where you lose yourself. You become overly reliant on your partner for validation, support, and even your sense of identity. You bend over backward to meet their needs, often at the expense of your own. It’s an unhealthy dynamic that can feel suffocating and draining.
  • Interdependent Relationships: Ah, this is the sweet spot! Interdependence means that you and your partner are strong individuals who choose to support, love, and grow with each other. You don’t need each other to be whole, but you choose to share your lives and lift each other higher. You maintain your individuality while building a life together.

Interdependence is where love truly thrives, and it’s where you can grow without losing yourself. It’s about being two whole people who come together to create something even more beautiful!

Living Your Values: The Key to Lasting Love

Remember the movie Runaway Bride? Julia Roberts’ character didn’t even know how she liked her eggs because she always adapted to the preferences of whichever man she was with. She’d completely lose touch with her own desires and values. Sound familiar?

When you don’t know what you stand for, you’re easily swayed by others’ opinions. And in relationships, this is a recipe for disaster. 

But when you’re confident in who you are and live your values consistently, you not only feel more empowered, but you also attract a partner who loves you for exactly who you are.

Living your values means knowing what’s important to you—whether it’s honesty, adventure, kindness, or growth—and standing by those principles, even when it’s not easy. 

When you do this, you’ll naturally attract someone who respects those values and lives their own as well. The right man won’t want you to change; he’ll love you for who you are and join you on the journey of life!

Debunking the Mirror Myth: Disagreement Is Not a Bad Thing!

There’s another myth out there that says your partner should be your mirror, someone who thinks exactly like you and agrees with everything you say. 

False! 

You and your partner are two unique individuals, which means you’ll have different perspectives. And that’s okay!

The beauty of interdependence is that it allows space for both partners to be themselves. You don’t have to agree on everything. In fact, the healthiest relationships are those where partners respect each other’s differences and find ways to grow from them. Disagreements are an opportunity to learn, expand, and deepen your connection.

You Can Have the Life and Love Your Heart Desires

So, here’s the truth: you can love without losing yourself. You can find a partner who celebrates who you are, who joins you in living a life of growth, and who stands by your side as you both pursue your dreams. 

You deserve that kind of love, and it’s 100% possible for you.

If you’re ready to break free from the fears that have held you back and learn how to show up as the woman you declare yourself to be, we invite you to join us at the Irresistible Woman LIVE event. This is your chance to uncover the patterns of the past, step into your power, and create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.

Love doesn’t mean losing yourself; it means becoming the fullest version of who you are. 

And we’re here to show you exactly how to make that happen.

Join us at Irresistible Woman LIVE and learn how to love in a way that honors your values, your desires, and the woman you’re meant to be. 

Because when you do, you’ll attract a love that celebrates you and a partner who grows with you.

Your next chapter is waiting. Are you ready to say YES to it? 💖

 

How to Transform Your Love Story: 24 years of Joy Begins Today!  

How to Transform Your Love Story: 24 years of Joy Begins Today!  

by | Jul 14, 2024 | Communication, Dating, Gratitude, Heart's Desire International, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Sex, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Today, Ric & I are celebrating our 24th Wedding Anniversary!

“24 years of marriage…”

 It feels surreal, especially when I once thought I’d never love again.

What fills my heart with joy is that we’re more in love than ever! 

Here’s what I know – reaching 24 years of marriage, 25 years together, and still being happy, best friends, with love, connection, intimacy, and adventure in our relationship isn’t something that “just happens,” no matter how “perfect” a match seems.

Do you want to know how to break through the patterns that are holding you back in love?

How to move past the fears that are keeping you from the relationship you want?
Are you willing to step outside of your comfort zone so you can create the type of relationship where you have 24, 64, 78 years together!

If you’re ready to transform your love life, then skip the reading, get all the juicy details, and claim your spot here: Join Us LIVE at No Cost this Saturday, July 20th, 2024.

Click the link above, secure your complimentary seat, and embark on your journey to creating a loving, lasting relationship with a high-quality man who will cherish you forever.

During these 3 hours together, you’ll learn how to:

💖 Easily attract a strong, confident man who is inspired and NOT intimidated by a successful woman like you

💖 Naturally become the kind of woman a man can’t help but fall in love with (without changing who you are)

💖 Create a lifelong relationship that adds joy and love to your life, and deepens over time, so you have someone to share all the wonders of life with

Join us for this transformative training and learn how to create the loving, supportive, and fulfilling relationship you want, where you get to experience everything you imagine love to be—and MORE. 🌟

If you’re ready to make your love story extraordinary – then click below to claim your spot NOW! 💖

Click HERE to Register for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

It’s your turn to meet the love of your life and start celebrating year after year of “Meet-a-Versaries,” “Kiss-a-Versaries,” and Wedding Anniversaries!

24 years from now you could be looking back at this Saturday, remembering the transformation you experienced that led to you creating your great love story.

Register for your spot at the Masterclass, and let’s begin writing YOUR story now!

 

Swipe Smarter, Not Harder: Expert Insights & Strategies for Online Dating

Swipe Smarter, Not Harder: Expert Insights & Strategies for Online Dating

by | May 13, 2024 | Coaching, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Why do some people have an amazing experience with online dating and others feel like it stinks, sucks, or is just plain NOT fun?

In our modern world of dating and romance, online dating sites and apps are one of the main ways couples are meeting one another. They promise love, all from the convenience of your phone or laptop.

But diving into the world of online dating is less like jumping into a pool and more like stepping onto a high-speed treadmill… 

Here’s how to navigate the online dating scene, from getting your mindset in the right place, setting a powerful and inspiring intention and creating a magnetic profile that will attract the RIGHT man to you! (If you missed our last Love Chat With The Love Twins on this topic, click HERE to tune in!)

So why are some women matching with many high-quality men, getting asked out on dates, and having a ton of fun meeting and getting to know new men, while others feel like they’re matching with nothing but scammers, cat-fishers, or men who are still living in their mother’s basement? 

Let me relate to it like this:

There are some people that really love going to the gym, they love the atmosphere, the sweating, and the challenge. I’m not really one of those people – I really have to work at motivating myself to get there.

However, if I knew – without a doubt – that the results I wanted were on the other side of going – I’d probably feel differently! If I knew that strength, vitality, and health were waiting for me, just by showing up – that belief would shift my mindset and I’d be there every day!

It’s the same with online dating.

The truth is: If you’re not getting the results you want, the first place you need to look is at your mindset.

 

If you believe online dating won’t work for you, that you’ll only attract scammers, or that it will be hard, time consuming and scary – then that’s exactly what you’ll get. 

I can give you all the tips and tricks in the book to craft the perfect online profile (and I will in just a moment!), but if your mindset isn’t in the right place none of it will make a difference.

The first step in attracting Extraordinary Love through online dating is: 

Shifting Your Energy – What are some of the fears you have that are influencing what you’re experiencing in dating? 

Wouldn’t it be amazing if all you had to do is shift your mindset in order for the things you’re doing in dating to work! 

It really could be that simple! 

After you shift your energy, the 2nd thing to do is: 

Set Your Intention – What do you want to create in your online dating experience and future relationship?

Going back to the analogy of going to the gym and working out, my intention really matters in how motivated I’m going to be to do it.

If my intention is: “I want to lose the 10 pounds I haven’t been able to shed for the last 10 years.” I might not be very inspired to work for it. 

However, my intention is: “To recreate myself as a healthy woman who feels vibrant and alive so I can travel to visit my kids and live a long life with my future grandchildren.” – that’s a vision! 

Set a powerful and inspiring intention for your dating experience. For example: 

 “I’m open to meeting men who are aligned with my vision where I have fun and get to create an extraordinary relationship with one who will become my husband.”

Okay – so after you’ve made sure your mindset is in the right place and set a powerful and inspiring intention, then – and ONLY then, can you get on the apps and begin crafting the profile that will attract the RIGHT man to you! 

Craft a Magnetic Online Dating Profile

Your profile needs to reflect YOU.

Not to put the pressure on, but the fact is, you have 3-6 seconds (or in some cases, more like ½ a second) to grab the attention of a future date or partner.

Here are 5 keys to crafting the profile that will grab his attention, reflect you, and inspire the RIGHT men to swipe right!  

  1. Profile Pictures – A picture might say a thousand words, but make sure yours are saying the right ones. 

Include 4-5 photos in your profile. Make sure the first one is a headshot photo, where you’re facing forward, eyes open and smiling. NO SELFIES! 

For the remaining photos, opt for photos that show the “real” you—maybe you’re kayaking, reading in a coffee shop, or building a robot. 

*** Tips for great online dating profile pictures:

  • No group photos, or photos of other people’s heads or arms cut off. 
  • Make sure you’re the focus of the picture and if possible, include photos where you’re taking up ⅔ of the photo
  • Have at least one full-body shot
  • Include lifestyle photos showing things you enjoy doing
  • Do NOT use filters
  • SMILE 😀

2. 1st Line of Bio – Who are you? 

What’s the MOST important thing you want someone to know about you?

Not what you do for work – this isn’t LinkedIN. It’s not that you love dogs or that you’ve traveled the world.

WHO are you? What are the top three words that describe YOU? 

Example: “I am an optimistic, joyful, and spiritual woman.”

Leave out the masculine words like, determined, committed or punctual. These words are for your resume, not your dating profile. Remember your intention and that the goal here is to attract the RIGHT man. 

3. 2nd Line of Bio – Why are you here?

The next line in your online dating profile description or bio is to share what you’re looking to create. Share the top 5 words that describe what you want to create in the dating experience and relationship. (This is why it’s so important to have a clear intention and love vision!)

Examples:  

  • “I’m seeking to experience a fun, inspiring, loving relationship that leads to marriage.” 
  • “I’m looking to create a long-term loving relationship full of laughter, fun, spirituality and growth.” 

The person who’s inspired by your statement will probably be intrigued and keep reading! This is a vital key in attracting the RIGHT men to you.

4. 3rd Line of Bio – What do you enjoy doing? 

Next, share a few of the things you enjoy doing with someone else. 

Do you enjoy dancing, going on long hikes, meeting new people or learning how to cook new recipes? 

Take the opportunity to share a few of the things you’d enjoy doing on a date should someone connect with you further.

5. Invitation

The final piece of your magnetic profile is the invitation. 

 “If this sounds like an experience you’d like to share, I look forward to getting to know you.” 

 “If you have any questions, I’d love to hear from you.” 

Ultimately, online dating is an adventure, not a destination. It’s about meeting new people, learning about yourself, and maybe—just maybe—finding someone who gets your obscure movie references. 

Our mission is that the experiences you’re having are consistently moving you forward into the relationship you want to be in!

Focus on what you want and align your energy with the experiences you want to have for the rest of your life and see the results you want follow!

If you’d like even more, join us this Saturday for the Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass! 

This 3-hour exclusive training will support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

 

From Sabotage to Success: How to Believe You Can Have It ALL!

From Sabotage to Success: How to Believe You Can Have It ALL!

by | Dec 20, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

“What happens when it all goes to (you know where)?!”

Do you ever have the feeling that something bad is inevitably going to happen, even when things are going great?

Things are going really well…

… but somewhere in the back of your mind there’s a little voice that’s saying, “Is this too good to be true?” 

If that ever happens to you – listen up. 

You have a fear or a limiting belief that when things are good, eventually they’re going to fall apart or go wrong. 

Sound familiar? 

We see this all the time with our clients  – and we’ve experienced it many times ourselves! 

You’re just about to have your breakthrough – and you’ll self-sabotage. 

Or things are going better than ever, in your job, your relationship, financially – and then you start to doubt and it all falls apart.

Here’s the thing… 

If you find yourself feeling uncertain, confused or like you don’t know what to do, there’s one thing that’s happening under all of it. 

You’re having a worthiness conversation. 

You’re wondering…

“Can I really have this?”

“Can I trust myself to be able to create this?”

“Can I actually handle all of this goodness?!”

At some point you created a belief that has you believe you can’t actually have the things you want. 

If you ever worry that you’ll have to “settle”… 

Then you don’t actually believe you can have exactly what you want. 

If you worry that even if you do meet him, it won’t last… 

Then deep down you don’t believe you can have and keep the relationship that you want. 

 So how do you shift these sabotaging thought patterns?

 Ask yourself these three questions: 

  1. What am I afraid of? 
  2. What created that belief? 
  3. Where did the belief come from? 

The first step to dismantling a belief that’s not serving you is to uncover what your current beliefs are. 

Once you understand what the belief is and where it came from, then you can begin to do the HeartWork to break apart the belief and dismantle it in order to create a new belief. 

And not just an affirmation or nice idea… 

We mean NEW neural pathways in your brain that actually transform the belief in the cells of your body so you begin to attract and manifest exactly what you want – and know that you can have it! 

This is exactly what we do at the Extraordinary Love Intensive, which is coming up in February 2024!

3 full days of shifting these dysfunctional patterns so that you can create everything you want NOW! 

The event is life-changing because I promise you, if this is impacting your love life, it’s impacting other areas, finances, career, family relationships, too. 

If you want to start your New Year empowered to create everything you want (and more!) then click below to claim your ticket for the Extraordinary Love Intensive!

YES! I Want to Create Extraordinary Love in 2024! 

Every single moment of every single day is an opportunity to have a breakthrough and transform an area of your life.