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Letting Go to Level-Up in Love: Creating Space for Your Extraordinary Relationship

by heartsdesireintl | Aug 14, 2025 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Self-Love, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

You’re a high-achieving, powerful woman who has built an incredible life.

You’ve built an incredible career, and you’re no stranger to putting in the work.

But when it comes to love, have you ever felt that, despite all your successes, you’re not fully open to receiving the extraordinary relationship you know you deserve?

That there’s an invisible barrier keeping it just out of reach?

I hear this from our clients all the time.

The truth is, that barrier is often the past…

Not an external force, but the lingering energy of past relationships that we unconsciously hold onto.

You see, if you want to level up your love life, you need to be able to tell yourself the truth. And the truth is, holding on is blocking your future.

The Familiarity Trap: Why Letting Go Feels So Hard

Letting go sounds simple, but it can be one of the hardest things to do.

We think we’ve moved on, but the past lives on in our energy, our heart, and our subconscious.

For many driven women, like you, you’ve been trained to push through or push down the familiar pain so you can pretend it’s not there.

But it’s still there impacting you from creating the relationship you really desire.

I remember a client, let’s call her Lisa. She was a CEO, brilliant and fiercely independent. She insisted she was over her ex, but her calendar was so packed there was no time to date.

When we dug deeper, she admitted, “I fill up my calendar so that there is no time to date, but if I told myself the truth, I would see I’m protecting myself against getting hurt.”

The familiar, painful past felt safer than an unknown future where she might get hurt again.

The pain itself isn’t what we crave.

When you hold to the pain, it’s not because you love the pain, it’s because it’s familiar.

And sometimes, the familiar and painful past feels safer than an unknown future that could be wonderful, but also holds the risk of being vulnerable.

That familiar pain, that person or the energy of waiting to be chosen, becomes a subconscious comfort zone that keeps us from truly stepping into our power.

This creates a huge barrier that gets in the way of creating an extraordinary relationship.

Creating Space for “What Could Be”

This is where the paradigm shift happens. You cannot create an extraordinary new love story when you’re still starring in the re-run of your past one.

You’re a powerful woman, and your heart and beingness have so much to give to the right person.

But if your heart and your beingness is full of what was, there’s no room for what could be.

Letting go isn’t a passive act of “moving on.” It’s a powerful, intentional act of creation.

It’s about consciously and lovingly releasing the energy of a past relationship so that you can make space for the new and right one.

I saw this with my client, Brenda. She had been in an on-again, off-again relationship for years, constantly checking his social media and getting triggered. Her energy was consumed by jealousy, which puts you on the defensive, and doesn’t open your heart to attracting real love and connection.

We worked through her fear of truly being alone, and she made the courageous choice to fully release him.

That act of letting go of the toxic emotions and the painful past didn’t only make room for her now-husband, it created space for better things in all areas of her life.

Your Invitation to Let Go and Level Up

When you release the past, the old patterns, the “what ifs,”,and the pain, you don’t just clear space for love…

You clear space for a future that’s completely in your control.

The relationships you attract will be a reflection of that clear, open, and confident energy.

It’s time to stop starring in a story that’s already over.

It’s time to level up, release what no longer serves you, and powerfully call in the love that is a true match for the incredible woman you are today.

This blog post is your guide to navigating the dating world with unshakeable confidence and crystal-clear discernment.

If you’re ready to transform these insights into your real-life love story, I invite you to book a complimentary Love Breakthrough Call with one of our expert coaches!

This is your opportunity to gain radical clarity on your unique situation, identify any lingering blocks, and map out your accelerated path to consistent, reliable, and extraordinary love. Click here to claim your breakthrough call now and step into your full power.

Beyond Ghosting: Unmask Your Hidden Patterns to Attract a Man Who Stays

by heartsdesireintl | Jun 30, 2025 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

You’re accustomed to clarity and results, right?

So when a promising connection abruptly vanishes – leaving you “ghosted” or with a man who suddenly goes cold – it’s not just frustrating; it’s baffling.

It can trigger the questions:

What the heck?
Who does he think he is?!
Was I off in how I was interpreting our connection?
What did I do wrong?

I hear you.

I’ve coached countless brilliant, high-achieving women, like you, who find themselves in this exact scenario.

You’re amazing on paper, you’re vibrant, you’re ready for love, yet you keep encountering men who disappear, become unavailable, or simply don’t commit.

You’re tired of being the one left wondering, always feeling like you’re pushing the relationship forward, only to hit an invisible wall.

This isn’t about blaming you. It’s about uncovering a deeper truth…

The patterns that play out in your love life are often a reflection of unhealed wounds, subconscious beliefs, and energetic signals you might not even realize you’re sending.

The Unseen Hand: How Your Past Dictates Your Present Love Story

Let’s get real.

If you have a deep-seated fear of being abandoned, that very fear, unconsciously, can create a reaction in your relationships.

It’s a cruel irony of the Universe: what you fear most, you often inadvertently draw to you. This isn’t about fault; it’s about energetic attraction.

Think about it: have you ever felt an inexplicable pull towards someone who, on a logical level, you knew wasn’t quite right?

There’s a reason for that.

As I often say, “We are drawn to those who activate our unhealed wounds.”

Our subconscious, in its misguided attempt to “solve” old pain, will often seek out situations that feel familiar, even if they’re ultimately detrimental. It’s like your brain is trying to re-run an old program, hoping for a different outcome this time.

This leads to the second powerful pattern: The energy that creates self-sabotaging incidents and attracts this person to you, will also cause you to energetically repel the person.

You might find yourself unconsciously testing a man, pushing him away, or creating scenarios that reaffirm your deepest fears. It’s not intentional, but the energetic signal is clear.

And here’s the kicker: You’re going to have a SUBCONSCIOUS attraction to someone who is unreliable so your brain can reaffirm it was right about the pattern.

Your brain, in its efficiency, loves to prove itself right.

If it’s been programmed to expect abandonment or unreliability, it will subconsciously seek out partners who validate that belief, even if your conscious mind is screaming for something different.

So what do you do? How do you shift so you can stop having this experience!

The Power Shift: You Can’t Fix Him, But You Can Transform YOU

This is a tough pill for high-achievers to swallow, because you’re used to fixing problems, optimizing processes, and making things happen.

But in love, you can not create a shift in another person.

You cannot force commitment, emotional availability, or presence from someone who isn’t ready or willing. Trying to do so is a massive drain on your precious energy and self-worth.

The true power lies in shifting your internal beliefs and patterns.

When you begin to build inner trust—trust in your intuition, trust in your worth, trust in your ability to discern—you start to build the ability to see if someone is worthy of your attention.

You stop chasing, you stop over-functioning, and you start to observe with clarity.

This is where your discernment becomes your superpower!

You’re no longer desperate for any connection; you’re powerfully CHOOSING the right connection for you.

You’re taking out what doesn’t work, and replacing the pattern with something that DOES work.

It’s not about more effort. It’s about a re-alignment.

It’s about identifying the subtle ways you might be contributing to these patterns and replacing them with magnetic, empowering behaviors.

Ghosting: Not Personal, But the Breakthrough Is

Let’s be clear about ghosting itself: Ghosting is not personal.

It is a reflection of the other person’s inability to communicate, their immaturity, or their own unhealed patterns. It rarely has anything to do with your inherent worth or desirability.

However, the work to breakthrough why you’re attracting that type of person is personal.

It’s the courageous, internal work of:

Healing those old wounds of abandonment.
Rewiring your subconscious attraction patterns.
Cultivating an unshakeable inner security that radiates confidence and draws in consistent, reliable partners.
Learning to trust your gut and walk away from what doesn’t serve you, without fear of being “rude” or “missing out.”

Ready to finally break free from the ghosting cycle and attract a man who stays?

This blog post is just the beginning!

If you’re ready to transform these hidden patterns with personalized, expert guidance, I invite you to book a complimentary Love Breakthrough Call with one of our expert coaches!

This is your opportunity to get radical clarity on your unique situation and map out your accelerated path to consistent, reliable, and extraordinary love.

Click right here to claim your breakthrough call and step into your power now.

You’re a woman accustomed to achieving extraordinary results.

It’s time to apply that same level of intentionality and power to your love life!

By understanding and transforming these hidden patterns, you’ll stop attracting men who disappear and powerfully magnetize the RIGHT man who’ll stay, cherish you, and build the extraordinary love story you truly deserve.

Situationships Unmasked: Why It’s Time to Stop Settling for Almost-Love

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 21, 2025 | breakups, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Relationship, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

For the Woman Who’s Ready to Stop Guessing and Start Creating Extraordinary Love—Now

You’ve got the degrees, the title, the bank account, and the life that others admire…

So why are you still left questioning where you stand with him?

Let’s get real.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering,

“Are we together… or not?”

“Why does he act like a boyfriend but disappear when it matters?”

…then you may be stuck in a situationship—that murky middle space between casual and committed, where nothing is clearly defined, and yet somehow all of your energy is being poured in.

This is for you—the strong, high-achieving, heart-centered woman who knows she’s made for more than breadcrumbs and uncertainty.

Because the truth is, “almost love” isn’t love.

And you? You weren’t made for maybe.

So, What Is a Situationship, Really?

A situationship is a “relationship” that lacks clear boundaries, intentionality, and direction.

It feels like something, but it’s never defined. You’re left with mixed signals, unmet expectations, and the overwhelming sense that you’re investing more than you’re receiving.

You’re almost a couple.
You kind of talk about the future.
You sometimes get your emotional needs met… until he pulls away again.

And here’s the kicker: these connections can feel intoxicating in the short term.

The chemistry is strong. The unpredictability creates a rush. And the lack of clarity feeds your “fix-it” instinct.

But what’s really happening?

You’re settling.
You’re shrinking.
You’re wasting your precious time on a relationship that’s not even real.

Why Smart, Successful Women Fall Into Situationships

This isn’t about being naïve.

In fact, the more successful and self-reliant you are, the more likely you’ve been conditioned to “figure it out,” “be understanding,” or “see the potential” in someone.

And let’s not ignore the societal messaging that says strong women should be flexible, low-maintenance, and “go with the flow” in dating.

The result? You end up:

✔️ Rationalizing red flags
✔️ Silencing your intuition
✔️ Making excuses for inconsistency
✔️ Holding space for a man who won’t hold space for you

One of our clients—let’s call her Jessica—is a powerhouse executive who came to us emotionally exhausted. She’d been seeing a man for nearly a year and he’d text her daily, plan spontaneous dates, and talk about “someday.”

But he never introduced her to his friends or made a clear commitment.

Every time she asked where things were going, he’d say, “Why ruin a good thing? Let’s just enjoy what we have.”

Sound familiar?

After just one coaching session, Jessica had a breakthrough.

She realized that what she had wasn’t love—it was anxiety, dressed up as connection.

And within weeks of doing the deeper HeartWork™, she released that relationship, aligned with her Love Vision, and within three months, began dating a man who was intentional, emotionally available, and ready.

The Emotional Cost of “Almost-Love”

A situationship doesn’t just waste your time—it costs you clarity, confidence, and self-trust.

💔 It robs you of your voice as you tiptoe around your truth.
💔 It dims your light while you wait for crumbs of affection.
💔 It depletes your energy, leaving you too drained to open your heart to someone who’s actually aligned.

According to a 2022 study by Psychology Today, nearly 62% of single women reported experiencing “relational ambiguity” as their biggest source of dating stress.

That ambiguity is not an accident. It’s a strategy some men use to keep you close enough to benefit from your energy—but far enough to avoid real commitment.

And sis, your heart, your time, and your future are too valuable for that game.

Why You Need a Love Vision (Now More Than Ever)

When you don’t have a clear Love Vision, it’s easy to fall for potential. You end up reacting to what’s being offered instead of intentionally creating what you desire.

But when you’re crystal clear on what kind of relationship you’re creating, settling becomes impossible.

Because the woman with a Love Vision doesn’t:

❌ Chase clarity—she creates it.
❌ Entertain confusion—she requires communication.
❌ Dim her light—she shines unapologetically.

The moment you align with your Love Vision is the moment you stop entertaining anyone who doesn’t.

It’s Time to Choose YOU

If you’re reading this, it’s because your intuition already knows…

You’re not here to play games.
You’re not meant to be in limbo.
You’re ready for the real thing.

Let this be your wake-up call: Stop settling for almost-love. Love doesn’t leave you questioning.

It shows up. It aligns. It moves forward.

You’re not “too much.” You’re just finally refusing to be less than loved.

Ready to Break Free from Situationships and Step Into the Relationship You Deserve?

It starts with clarity.
It starts with courage.
It starts with you.

Book a complimentary Love Breakthrough Session with one of our expert coaches and get your personal plan to shift from confusion to commitment—fast.

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Because real love doesn’t leave you wondering. It meets you where you are—and rises to meet your worth.

Texting Anxiety is Stealing Your Power—Here’s How to Take It Back

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 9, 2025 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Ready to Love Again, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Picture this.

You’ve met a man who seems different—intriguing, charming, and actually interested in you. You’ve exchanged numbers, maybe even had a great first date. And now, the real test begins…

You send a text.

You wait.

And wait.

And then, the spiral starts.

“Did I say something wrong?”
“Why is he taking so long to respond?”
“Is he losing interest?”
“Should I send another message to ‘clarify’ what I meant?”

Your brain is working overtime, analyzing every word, every emoji (or lack thereof), and the ever-dreaded read receipt with no reply.

And before you know it, your confident, successful self has been hijacked by a flood of self-doubt, overthinking, and a sinking feeling in your gut that this is yet another dead-end situation.

Sound familiar?

If you’ve ever felt like your confidence in business, leadership, or any other area of life suddenly vanishes when it comes to texting in dating, you are NOT alone.

A staggering 75% of people report experiencing text anxiety in dating, and for high-achieving women, the stakes feel even higher. You’re used to being in control, getting results, and making things happen—but when it comes to dating, it can feel like the power is suddenly in someone else’s hands.

Let’s put an end to that today.

Why Texting Triggers Anxiety (Even for the Most Confident Women)

Let’s get something straight—you’re not crazy for overanalyzing texts. Your brain is actually wired to seek patterns, find meaning, and protect you from potential rejection. In other words, it’s trying to help you, even though it feels like it’s doing the exact opposite.

Here’s what’s really happening:

1. The Dopamine Trap

When you receive a message from someone you’re interested in, your brain releases dopamine—the same neurotransmitter linked to pleasure and reward. It makes you feel excited, validated, and eager for more. But when that dopamine hit is delayed (aka, when he doesn’t text back right away), your brain panics and starts looking for an explanation.

Enter: Overanalyzing, doubt, and the desperate urge to ‘fix’ something that isn’t even broken.

2. Fear of the Unknown

As a highly successful woman, you thrive on certainty and strategy. You know how to make things happen, close deals, and execute plans.

But dating? It’s unpredictable.

You don’t have access to the other person’s thought process, so your mind fills in the blanks—usually with worst-case scenarios.

3. Past Wounds Running the Show

Let’s be honest—if you’ve been ghosted, breadcrumbed, or strung along in the past, those experiences don’t just disappear. They shape your expectations.

So, instead of seeing a delayed text as neutral (maybe he’s busy), you might immediately assume the worst (he’s pulling away, he’s not interested, this is happening AGAIN).

But here’s the truth: The way a man texts does NOT determine his ability to be a great partner.

The Story That Changed Everything

I had a client, we’ll call her Lisa, a powerhouse CEO running a multimillion-dollar business. She could negotiate million-dollar deals without breaking a sweat—but when it came to dating, a simple “Hey, how’s your day?” text from a guy she liked could send her into full-blown analysis mode.

One night, she texted a man she’d been seeing for a few weeks. They had great chemistry, deep conversations, and a lot in common. But on this particular evening, he took hours to respond.

Cue the spiral.

“Maybe he’s losing interest.”
“Did I say something wrong?”
“Should I just ignore him now?”

She was about to send a follow-up text—the kind that sounds casual but is secretly fishing for reassurance—when she stopped and asked herself:

“What if his lack of response has nothing to do with me?”

And that moment changed everything.

Instead of spiraling, Lisa redirected her focus back to her own life.

She went for a run. She meditated. She reminded herself that a high-value woman does not chase, overthink, or settle for less than she deserves.

Hours later, her phone pinged.

“Hey Lisa, crazy day at work. Just getting a chance to breathe—how was your day?”

And just like that, all the worry had been for nothing.

How to Break Free from the Overanalyzing Spiral

So, how do you stop letting one little text message (or lack of one) hijack your emotions and your peace of mind?

It starts with shifting your love vision—because when you have clarity on what you truly want, you stop chasing validation and start attracting alignment.

Here’s how to do it:

1. Set a Standard, Not a Timeline

If you find yourself watching the clock and feeling anxious about how long it takes for him to respond, shift your focus.

High-quality relationships are built on consistent energy, not immediate replies.

If he’s aligned with you, his actions will show it over time—not just in his text response time.

2. Reframe the Narrative

Instead of making assumptions, ask yourself: “What else could be true?”

Maybe he’s in a meeting. Maybe he’s out with friends. Maybe he’s simply not glued to his phone 24/7 (which, let’s be real, is actually a good thing).

Your mind will naturally jump to the worst-case scenario—train it to consider the best-case one, too.

3. Step into Your Love Vision

A woman who’s clear on her vision for love doesn’t let a text message shake her confidence. She knows that the right man for her will show up, communicate, and match her energy consistently.

So instead of waiting by the phone, shift your energy back to YOU. Focus on living your life, creating joy, and trusting that the right connection will unfold naturally.

4. Stop Texting Like It’s a Job Interview

If you feel like every text needs to be perfectly crafted, witty, or “cool enough” to keep his interest, pause.

The goal isn’t to win him over—it’s to connect genuinely. If he’s the right man for you, your texts won’t make or break the relationship.

The Bottom Line: You Deserve More Than Text-Induced Anxiety

The more you chase certainty, instant validation, and over-perfection in texting, the more you give away your power.

Your worth is not measured in response times, emojis, or the number of texts exchanged.

When you have a clear love vision, you don’t settle for breadcrumbing, inconsistency, or emotional rollercoasters.

You attract a man who makes his interest known—not just in texts, but in his actions, his effort, and the way he shows up for you.

If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want to attract the kind of love that feels steady, aligned, and effortless, let’s create your personal plan for it.

Click below to book a Love Breakthrough Call, and let’s get you out of the text anxiety trap—and into a relationship that actually fuels your confidence and happiness.

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Don’t Settle in Love: The Secret to Getting the Relationship You Truly Want

by heartsdesireintl | Aug 20, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, heartache, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship Advice, Self-Love

by Gladys Diaz

Have you ever settled for less than what your heart truly desires?

Compromising your values, or worse, convincing yourself that what you’re getting is as good as it gets?

Settling is the silent killer of dreams and desires.

This is such an important topic because, let’s be real – it’s not just about romantic love; it’s about self-worth, self-respect, and ultimately, the quality of life you’re creating for yourself.

Why You Settle: The Fear That You Can’t Have What You Really Want

At the root of settling is a deep-seated fear: the fear that you can’t have the fullness that your heart desires.

You may have been burned in the past.
Maybe you’ve faced rejection, heartache, or betrayal.

These fears try to convince you that this is as good as it gets, that there’s nothing you can do about it, and that you’re alone.

Over time, these experiences chip away at your belief in what’s possible, creating a nagging voice in your head that says, “Maybe this is as good as it gets” or “This must be all I deserve.”

It’s that fear whispering in your ear that you should lower your expectations, make compromises, and stop asking for too much.

But here’s the truth: When you settle in love, you’re not just settling in relationships…

You’re settling in life.

You’re telling yourself that your dreams don’t matter, that your desires are too grand, too unrealistic. And that, my friend, is a lie.

The Vicious Cycle: How Settling Creates More Disappointment

When you settle, you set off a vicious cycle.

You accept less than what you truly want, which leads to a string of disappointing experiences. These experiences then reinforce the very fears and limiting beliefs that caused you to settle in the first place.

Let’s break it down:

You Settle: You accept a relationship that doesn’t truly fulfill you because you believe it’s the best you can get.
You Experience Disappointment: Because you’ve settled, the relationship doesn’t meet your needs, and you feel unfulfilled, frustrated, and maybe even resentful.
Your Beliefs Harden: The disappointment reinforces your belief that you can’t have what you truly want, which makes you more likely to settle again in the future.

And so the cycle continues, keeping you trapped in a loop of dissatisfaction and despair.

Breaking the Cycle: Get 100% Clear on What You Want

The first step to breaking this cycle is to get crystal clear on what you do want and why you’re settling for less.

I’m not talking about some vague notion of “happiness” or “a good partner.” I’m talking about getting down to the nitty-gritty details of what your heart truly desires in a relationship.

What are your non-negotiables?
What do you value most?
What kind of love do you dream about when you’re lying in bed at night?

Be specific. Be unapologetic. And most importantly, don’t let fear or past disappointments color your vision.

This clarity is crucial because it serves as your compass. Without it, you’re wandering aimlessly, easily swayed by fear, doubt, or the shiny distractions of relationships that seem “good enough” or “just for now.”

But with it, you become unstoppable. You can confidently reject anything that doesn’t align with your vision because you know exactly what you’re aiming for.

The Difference Between Unrealistic Expectations and High Standards

Now, let’s clear up a common misconception: the difference between unrealistic expectations and high standards.

Unrealistic expectations are demands you place on a partner that are either impossible to meet or based on fantasy. They might involve expecting someone to always make you happy, never have flaws, or fulfill all your needs.

Expectations often leave you waiting, hoping someone will rise to the occasion, and they’re a recipe for disappointment because no one is going to always say or do exactly what you want them to.

High standards, on the other hand, are non-negotiables that align with your core values and desires. They’re based on what you know you deserve and what you’re willing to give in return. High standards are about maintaining the integrity of your Love Vision and not compromising on what truly matters to you.

Having high standards doesn’t mean you’re being picky or difficult; it means you’re protecting your happiness, your future, and your heart. It means you know what you want and that you deserve the kind of relationship that will bring you joy, growth, and fulfillment.

Aligning Your Standards with What You Want to Experience

To stop settling in love, you need to align your standards with what you want to experience in dating and relationships. This means living in accordance with your values and being clear about the kind of love you want to create.

Identify Your Core Values: What are the principles that matter most to you in a relationship? Honesty? Respect? Growth?
Set Non-Negotiables: These are the deal-breakers—the things you absolutely must have in a relationship. Don’t compromise on these, no matter what.
Be Willing to Walk Away: If a relationship doesn’t meet your standards, have the courage to walk away. It’s better to be alone than to be in a relationship that isn’t what you truly want.
Stay True to Your Vision: Don’t let fear or doubt cloud your judgment. Hold onto the vision of the love you want, and don’t settle for anything less.

Conclusion: Claim the Love You Deserve

Settling in love is a choice.

It’s a choice to give in to fear, to compromise on your dreams, and to accept less than what you truly want. But it’s also a choice that you can stop making today.

By getting clear on what you want, distinguishing between unrealistic expectations and high standards, and aligning your standards with your core values, you can break the cycle of disappointment and create the love you deserve.

If you’d like support in getting clear on your values, what you want in a relationship, or how to walk away from something that you know in your heart isn’t what you want – book a call with our coaches.

On this Love Breakthrough Call, our team will work with you to create a step-by-step plan with you so you can stop settling and start creating exactly what you want and more!

Click HERE to Book Your Love Breakthrough Call Now!

Stand for the love that aligns with your heart’s desires, and don’t settle for anything less. Your future self will thank you.

How to Create Your Dream Love Story: Consistent Steps to Heartfelt Success!

by heartsdesireintl | Jul 5, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

Are you ready to revolutionize your love life and create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Imagine a life filled with passion, deep connection, and a partner who cherishes you every single day.

Sounds like a fairy tale, right? Well, it doesn’t have to be.

We’re here to tell you that you can manifest this reality, but it requires more than just hoping and dreaming. It demands clarity, determination, and consistent action.

So how do you create that consistency, no matter what you may be experiencing in your daily life?

1) Get Clear on What You Want

The first step to creating your love vision is to get crystal clear on what you want. Why?

Your brain is always looking for what’s familiar, even if it’s not what you want, and when you go for comfort and familiarity, you repeat the past. You go back to the same guy, or you attract a new man who reminds you of someone from your past.

Here’s the thing – Your Love Vision gets to be bigger than one guy or your past!

So how do you get clear on what you want?

Start by asking yourself some deep, introspective questions:

When I’m in the Relationship of My Dreams, what are three things you want to experience?
How do I want to feel in my relationship?
What values and interests should we share?

Take time to write these down. Be specific.

Don’t just settle for “I want someone who loves me.” Dig deeper. Get detailed!

Do you want a relationship that’s full of adventure, support, and travel?

A relationship where you both value personal growth, where you share a positive outlook on life and work together to create the life you truly want?

Clarity is power. The more precise you are, the easier it is for the universe (and your subconscious mind) to align with your desires. When you know exactly what you want, you create a clear target to aim for.

2) Move Out of What’s Blocking You

Now that you know what you want, it’s time to clear the path.

This step is all about identifying and removing the blocks that have been holding you back. These blocks can be limiting beliefs, past traumas, or even negative patterns you’ve picked up over the years.

Moving out of your blocks is like clearing the debris from a path; it allows you to walk smoothly towards your goal without tripping over old baggage.

If you’d like to identify your blocks, challenge beliefs that aren’t working, heal unresolved issues from the past that can sabotage your present and future relationships – then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

In this Masterclass, we’ll support you in recognizing the challenges you’re experiencing right now that are getting in the way of your Love Vision and heal them so you can BE the women who can walk away from the things that aren’t aligned with what you want.

So you can create your Love Vision NOW! Click HERE to Register!

3) Become the Woman You’ve Always Wanted to Be

This step is about personal transformation.

To attract the love you desire, you need to become the best version of yourself. It’s not about changing who you are, but about evolving into the person who naturally attracts and maintains a healthy, loving relationship.

Here’s how to get started:

Self-Improvement: Invest in your personal growth. This can be through reading, attending seminars, or taking courses. Focus on areas that need improvement, such as communication skills, self-esteem, or emotional intelligence.
Self-Care: Prioritize your well-being. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are non-negotiables. When you feel good, you radiate confidence and positivity.
Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities that you love. This not only makes you more interesting but also allows you to meet like-minded individuals.

Becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be is about aligning your actions, thoughts, and feelings with the person you envision yourself to be. It’s about stepping into your power and living authentically.

4) Manifest It

Manifestation is the process of bringing your vision into reality through focused intention and action. It’s about harnessing the power of your mind to attract what you desire.

And it takes consistency.

Now that sounds nice, but I probably don’t have to tell you that you can’t rely on willpower alone.

You have a finite amount of willpower, and when it runs out, you will go back to what’s comfortable and familiar. Those old patterns and ways of being that may feel good, but aren’t working.

So how do you stay consistent, when will-power runs out?

When you don’t have the resources or energy to stay consistent with your Love Vision, make sure you do something every single day that makes you happy AND is good for you. – Something that connects you to your vision.

Dedicate time each day to your love vision practices.

Whether it’s morning visualization, taking time in a gratitude journal, going for a walk or a bike-ride, whatever makes you happy and gives you back energy. Make it a absolute non-negotiable part of your day.

And remember to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Every step forward is a step closer to your goal!

Creating the love life you desire is a journey, not a sprint. It requires clarity, clearing your blocks, becoming your best self, and manifesting with intention. But most importantly, it requires consistency.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

In order to create your Love Vision, you must BE the woman who aligns with that vision AND take steps that will support you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

If you’d like even more, join us next Saturday, July 20th for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

This 3-hour exclusive training will support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

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