Your Guide to Creating Extraordinary Love in the Next 90 Days

Your Guide to Creating Extraordinary Love in the Next 90 Days

by | Jun 8, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Success

by Michelle Roza

As the radiant warmth of summer envelops us, it’s the perfect time to embark on a journey of extraordinary love and connection. 

Imagine the next 90 days filled with bliss-filled moments, heartfelt conversations, and the potential to create the relationship of your dreams with the man who’s a perfect match for you!  

If that’s what you want – make sure to claim your seat now for the Summer of Love 5-Day Challenge that kicks off next Monday! 

Most of the clients who work with us meet their forever love within 3-9 months of working with us! Every single week we hear of new women in our community that have transformed what was holding them back and created the love they’ve always dreamed of!

Here’s a few examples of what’s possible:

💗 There’s Mari, who after just 3 months of dating, met the man she wanted to spend the rest of her life with and 2 months later was in a committed relationship! 

💗 Candi, who met her now husband 3 months after beginning her work with us, dated him for another 3 months and soon after that was engaged and then married! 

💗 And Clarissa who met her husband Alex just one week after declaring her love vision, was in a committed relationship just weeks after beginning dating him, was engaged 3 months later and married 2 months after that! 

If it’s possible for them (and so many others!) it’s possible for you too! You really can meet the man you’re going to marry in the next 90 days!  

Keep reading for tips and insights on how to create love in the next 90 days this summer. 

 Get ready to open your heart to possibilities, embrace new experiences along the way and get into action so you can create extraordinary, life-long love.

Get Curious – What Patterns Are Sabotaging Your Success? 

Love is one of the most important things in life. 

The most successful people in the world will tell you how big of an impact their partner in love has influenced their success in every other area.

If you haven’t created the relationship you want yet – look at your results. Step back and think about the last 3 men you attracted/dated. 

What stands out? Do you see any patterns?  

There’s nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about! Doing this exercise supports you to recognize what’s in the way so you can deal with what’s real and start getting different results. 

TIP: This is what we’ll be supporting you with next week during the Summer of Love Challenge! Register HERE. 

Believe You Can Have It – Mindset and Emotional Intelligence 

Do you want to be in a relationship where you’re seen, heard and understood? 

Learning how to manage your emotional state not only is key to successful dating, but also in creating a life-long love. 

I had to learn this the hard way.

I would say I wanted to be in a great relationship, but I was constantly criticizing myself, everyone around me and not showing up as a match for the woman I wanted to be.

And my results showed it. My drama and negativity was a literal magnet for men with unfinished business, addictions and unavailability and I spent 5 years wasting my time in dead-end relationships and heartbreak. 

It was so frustrating until I discovered the HeartWork that we now teach and everything changed. 

🌟 I was finally able to express when I was hurt without hurting other people.
🌟 I could be angry without attacking the person I was angry with. 
🌟 I was able to share what I wanted without being demanding.
🌟 And so much more was transformed inside me! 

Arnie says the #1 reason he was attracted to me is because he saw a lighthearted, free, sassy woman who was always looking for the good and possibilities in every situation. 

Still to this day he calls me his “Possibility Queen!” 

Don’t you want to be with someone who calls you their (insert your greatest strength) Queen?!   

Take Action to Get The Results You Want 

When your energy, patterns and mindset shift you’ll begin to experience abundant results in your love life. 

But you have to take action to make it possible! 

Join us next week for the Summer of Love Challenge where we’ll support you in creating your Extraordinary Love this summer! 

And if a little voice inside your head just said, “Yeah right, that can’t happen!” – that’s why you need to be there! 

That’s the voice that talks you out of everything you would do if you had the steps, knowledge, coaching and training to do it differently. 

And that’s what we’ll be giving you next week! 

Allow yourself to dream big. Don’t allow your fears and doubts to block what you can have.  

Remember, love begins within and radiates outward. By embodying love and believing you can have it, you become a magnet for profound connections and lasting relationships!

Embrace this summer as a transformative journey, and open your heart to the Extraordinary Love that awaits you.

Get ready to create a summer filled with love, connection, and unforgettable moments that will shape the rest of your life.

 

Finding Mr. Right: Top 3 Tips to Attract the Right Kind of Man

Finding Mr. Right: Top 3 Tips to Attract the Right Kind of Man

by | May 15, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Relationship

by Gladys Diaz

In the vast sea of romantic possibilities, finding your perfect match can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack.

But it doesn’t have to feel that way!

With the right mindset and a few essential tips, you can navigate the dating world and attract the man who is the perfect match for you.

Below, we’ll share three valuable tips to support you to create the relationship that you’ve always wanted.

1. Check Your Energy

Your energy impacts your thoughts, behavior and what you do and don’t attract into your life. 

Trying to date and attract the right men to you while entertaining negative thoughts and energy is like trying to accelerate your car with the emergency brake on. 

 Low energy creates resistance and won’t allow you to attract the type of men you want.

 This resistance makes dating harder, take longer and has you wind up feeling exhausted. 

 And then you want to take a break from dating altogether! 

 On the flip side, if your energy is curious, open, receptive, present and grateful – you will attract the type of men you want and… 

 You’ll have a fun time even if the date doesn’t end up being the perfect match!

 For example – if you believe all men are cheaters… 

 You will literally repel all good men from you. They simply aren’t attracted to the energy that holds that belief.  

 Approach dating with optimism and a belief that the right person is out there for you. Surround yourself with positive influences and focus on the good in every interaction. 

 Your positive energy will be contagious and draw in those who appreciate your outlook on life.

2. Create Genuine Connections

Building meaningful connections is essential when looking for a long-lasting partnership.

Focus on quality over quantity when it comes to dating. Take the time to truly get to know someone, listen actively, and communicate openly. Authenticity and genuine connections will help you attract men who value the same things that you do.

If you find yourself trying to control the timeline or resisting any part of the dating process – get curious about why… 

Remember that finding your perfect match requires really getting to know someone – and that takes time. 

It’s important to remain patient throughout the process and as you prioritize authenticity and allow genuine connections to develop naturally – you’ll attract more of what you want!

Maybe you’re not clear on what you want…

3. Create Crystal Clarity on What you Want to Experience Inside the Relationship of Your Dreams

The third tip to creating the relationship of your dreams is to be crystal clear with yourself about what you want to experience inside the Relationship of Your Dreams.

Take some time to reflect on your values, interests, and long-term goals. Understanding your own needs and desires will guide you towards attracting someone who will be a great match for you.

If you want to spend this summer dating the man of your dreams, you get to start creating it now. 

The results you’re experiencing in dating (or any area of your life for that matter) right now are the consequences of the choices you made three months ago.

There’s nothing wrong with spending the whole summer dating.

But if you’d like to skip that, meet him and spend your summer dating him now then click below to get on our coaches calendar! 

Schedule a Love Breakthrough Call! 

When you do, our coaches will support you to gain clarity, see what’s in your blindspot and develop a plan that will work for you to create the relationship of your dreams this summer! 

Attracting the right kind of man requires a combination of high energy, a willingness to foster meaningful connections and crystal clarity on what you want. 

By following these three tips, you’ll be on your way to finding your perfect match! 

Stay true to yourself, embrace the journey, and trust that the universe has someone special in store for you. 

How to Have Extraordinary Love NOW!

How to Have Extraordinary Love NOW!

by | Mar 30, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Relationship

by Gladys Diaz

Do you wonder why you haven’t been able to attract the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Does it not make sense why a strong, successful, smart woman like you, can’t seem to create that same success in love?

It’s not that there aren’t men out there. 

And it’s not that there aren’t GREAT men out there. 

It’s about learning how to attract those types of men to you so that you can experience the love, passion, fun, companionship and joy that you’re worthy and deserving of!

The question is then… 

Are you curious enough to look at what’s possibly in the way? 

If you’re having the experience of not creating what you want in love, there’s a “love barrier” blocking you. This is a fear, limiting belief or pattern that’s not working – and you may not even realize it! 

Have you ever had that “aha moment” experience where you all of the sudden see something that you weren’t seeing before? 

We call that a “distinguishing moment” where you suddenly see the love barrier that’s in your blind spot and once you see it – there’s no going back!

The trajectory of your life changes FOREVER! 

These types of experiences are so incredible because they change the trajectory of your life.

And guess what?

You can experience that “aha-moment” this weekend at the Extraordinary Love Intensive!

This 3-day event is designed to have you break through your Love Barriers, transform your love life, and attract and create the extraordinary, loving relationship of your dreams!

You’ll come out of this incredible weekend having more clarity about who you are and the patterns that are holding you back. 

You’ll do some of the deep and transformational Heartwork that’s necessary to break these patterns and you’ll be so much closer to creating the relationship of your dreams. 

This is the work we usually only do with our clients, but we want to share it with YOU so that you can stop pretending and start BEing the authentic, vulnerable, irresistible version of yourself that is going to have you attract an amazing man with whom you get to create Extraordinary Love!

 Life doesn’t stop. Time will keep going by, no matter what choices you make.

Why not make a choice that’s going to lead to more joy, love, happiness and freedom in your life…

And the kind of love you’ve always wanted?!

 You don’t have to wait another year, month or even day to begin creating the happy, loving, beautiful relationship you want. 

You can have it now.

How to BOOST Your Confidence to a Level TEN!

How to BOOST Your Confidence to a Level TEN!

by | Dec 16, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Are you hard on yourself about things that have happened in the past? 

Do you wonder why you keep attracting the wrong type of men into your life? 

 Do you wish you could stop making the same mistakes when it comes to relationships and love?


When the results you continue to experience in love and relationships are less than what you want – your confidence gets shaken. 

 And when you don’t do the work to get to the root of what has you continuing to create these experiences, there’s a chain of consequences that follow… 

 We call this chain the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle.

 When something less than ideal happens and you say things to yourself like:

 “How could I be so dumb?”

“When am I going to stop attracting liars?”

“When am I ever going to get it right?” 

 You create fears and love barriers which then has you create more of the same and your confidence and trust in yourself (and your ability to create the love you want) disintegrates. 

 Here’s what the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle looks like:

  • Event
  • You Make a Decision/Judgment About What Happened
  • Love Barrier (Fear) is Created
  • Dysfunctional Pattern is Created (Actions)
  • You Get Results that You Don’t Want
  • You Make Another Decision/Judgment About Yourself (Trust and Confidence is Eroded)
  •  Another Limiting Belief (Fear) is Created

 And the cycle repeats itself over and over! 

 Being in this cycle is what has you doubt yourself, not trust others, feel the need to “take a break” from dating and more. 

 So how do you shift this cycle and uplevel your confidence in yourself and others?


In order to stop the dysfunctional dating cycle and begin to experience yourself as the type of woman who can create what she wants in life and love, you must do the HeartWork! 

 When you get the results you want – your confidence and trust in yourself goes up! 

 1. See It – Acknowledge what’s not working. Get to the root of what is having you continue to create the results you don’t want.

2. Shift It – Do the HeartWork and learn how to replace the broken pieces with the RIGHT one.

This isn’t about tips and tricks.

This is about healing the pieces of your past that created those limiting beliefs that aren’t allowing you to create what you really want.

3.  Experience It – When you free yourself from the fears you hold, you allow yourself to create new thoughts and behaviors, which creates different results and a new healthy pattern unfolds! 

 When you transform the dysfunctional patterns you have in love – you transform YOU. 

 Would you like to create this shift for yourself?

GOOD NEWS!

We’re dedicating 3 days in February to teach you how to do exactly this! 

 At the Love Vision Intensive 3-Day Event, you’ll experience a new level of healing that will allow you to truly move forward in confidence and trust to create the results in love that you want! 

 If you want…

  • 2023 to be the year you’re in the relationship of your dreams
  • To know how to STOP the dysfunctional patterns
  • Your confidence to soar as you experience incredible results. 

Then you NEED to join us for the Love Vision Intensive! 

Yes – Claim my seat now! 

If you want to be married next year – the next 3-6 months are critical. 

Make a choice today to have 2023 be the year you create everything you’ve dreamed of! 

The Secret To Stop Getting “Triggered”!

The Secret To Stop Getting “Triggered”!

by | Jul 15, 2022 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Would you like to be able to feel confident in any situation or conversation you encounter that you’ll be able to handle it with grace and ease? 

How would it feel to experience less reactivity or emotional meltdown and experience more happiness and joy? 

Imagine what it would mean for your life if you were able to maintain peace inside of you no matter what happens around you? 

Tomorrow in the Girl, It’s Not Personal! Workshop we’re going to be showing you how to create just that!

See if this scenario sounds familiar: 

Something happens…

… your boyfriend says something in a “tone”

… a guy you’ve been texting stops responding

… your boss calls you in for an unscheduled meeting

… a co-worker doesn’t do something they promised they’d do

… someone cuts you off on the highway
 

And all of the sudden you feel disrespected, rejected, worried or angry. 

You’re “triggered.” 

A memory, fear or limiting belief was opened up and like a domino effect sets off a series of other thoughts and associated behaviors.

The switch has been flipped and you have an emotional reaction that has you say or do things you later regret. Your mind and mouth take on a mind of their own and it’s not until after the dust has settled that you regret your behavior and see the line of carnage in your wake. 

We’ve all been there, . 

There was a time when Ric and I couldn’t even talk about some things for longer then 5 minutes because one of us would explode.

Sometimes the fall-out you create from these emotional reactions is short-lived. 

But sometimes, the result is a complete loss of a relationship, future relationship, or opportunity. 

The result is always a loss of personal peace and confidence and the impact on you and those around you is loss of time, energy, intimacy, connection, happiness and joy.

What if you didn’t have to experience things that way? 

What if you could turn off the “trigger” in an instant before it spiraled out of control? 

What if you could have mastery over your emotions instead of being a reaction waiting to happen? 

That’s what we’re going to be teaching you how to do tomorrow in the Girl, It’s Not Personal! Workshop. 

You’re going to learn how to: 

  • Identify the emotional triggers that have you react, strike back, or shut down in conversations and relationships.
  • Break through the automatic and limiting thought patterns that are negatively impacting your communication and relationships, so that you can attract and keep the love your heart desires
  • Increase your level of self awareness and master managing your emotions , so that you are able to have empowering conversations and build a strong, happy, and loving relationship

The reason why marriages aren’t working right now is because most people don’t have the skills to not have a reaction to what others say and do. 

Ric and I almost lost our marriage because of this. 

But we didn’t because we up-leveled our emotional intelligence by learning the tools and skills that work in communicating and relationships. Now we can discuss anything for as long as we want to and maintain connection, love and peace in the space. 

And that’s what we want for you too. 

 

 

The Secret To Making Life (a lot) Easier

The Secret To Making Life (a lot) Easier

by | Apr 22, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz 

Would you like dating to be easier?

Would you like relationships to be more fulfilling?

Would you like things in life to work out with less heartache or frustration?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, we want you to know that the answer is to increase your confidence. 

When you lack self-confidence you…

… question yourself.

… feel like you can’t trust yourself.

… make decisions that aren’t aligned with what you want to create in your life. 

One of the most important things you can know in life is that the relationship you have with YOU supercedes all the other relationships in your life. 

Why? 

Because the relationship you have with you determines how all your other relationships will be!
Real confidence is about creating an intimate relationship with you. 

It’s about answering the question: “Who am I and how am I being with ME?

If you find that you: 

– Question yourself

– stay in relationships, jobs, friendships, etc knowing that the experience you’re having is not what you want

– consistently fall in love with potential instead of reality

– make excuses for disrespectful or even abusive behavior

– hold onto something that you know is not for you

– don’t honor your values

… then it’s time to look in and reflect on the relationship you have with you!

You want to ask yourself: 

  1. What am I seeing?
    What experiences do I keep repeating?
    What is the pattern?

     

  2. What am I creating?
    What actions did I take to create this?
    What did I do that brought this result?

     

  3. What had me take those actions?
    What thoughts are behind the action? 

The thoughts behind the actions are where you uncover the limiting beliefs that are creating the patterns that are bringing you the results you don’t want!

Looking for patterns in your thoughts, words, actions and results will give you the biggest insight into what’s not working.

And when you’re open to seeing it, and you then you do, – then you have a shot at breaking through those sabotaging patterns so you can increase your confidence!

This is GOLD!

Life gets good when you have enough confidence to receive the feedback life is giving you (whether through the results you’re having or through what others are telling you) and then take action doing the HeartWork to shift these patterns!

It’s not about being perfect.

If you’re human you’re going to make mistakes (and so is he!)

When you learn to trust yourself and know that you have what it takes to do what you need to do and be who you need to be, life (and dating) get easier. 

You know that if you get it wrong (because sometimes you will) it doesn’t have to shake your confidence. You can move forward with grace and take the actions that will make it right for you.

It all comes down to your relationship with you. 

Which is why we’re so excited about the BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge that begins next Monday!

This challenge is all about falling in love with you.

In this challenge you will:

  • Remove the mask you hide behind that’s blocking you from the love you want
  • Find your voice and say what you want and feel without being afraid of pushing him away
  • Stop pretending or not honoring your boundaries in order to “get” someone to love you
  • Stop settling for less than you want and deserve in relationships
  • Stop doubting yourself and your ability to attract the right man or the relationship of your dreams

Join the BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge NOW!

These 5 days will change your life because when you create the kind of relationship with yourself that gives you the kind of confidence you want to have – your life will go to a whole new level!