Why Successful Women Struggle in Love

Why Successful Women Struggle in Love

by Gladys Diaz

 

If you are a smart, successful woman who is READY to have success in your love life, then this is the one article you want to read all the way through today, because it is your LUCKY day!

While having a successful relationship has nothing to do with luck, we do believe in Divine Timing and in the power you have to manifest your dreams, and in rewarding bold and courageous actions, so we are about to help you make your dreams come true!

If you are a woman who feels like you have “The Midas Touch” in every area of your life except your love life and you are ready to prove just how committed you are to creating and living in the relationship of your dreams, give us three days and we will show you exactly how to have success in BOTH life and love!

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You’ve read books, attended workshops and webinars, bought infoproducts, listened to teleclasses, and even spoken to a few coaches, but you’restill not in the loving, intimate relationship your heart desires, which leaves you feeling frustrated, lonely, and wondering whether or not you’ll ever have the relationship of your dreams.
  • You know there are thought and behavior patterns that keep getting in the way of either attracting the right man or having a relationship work, but you can’t figure out how to stop repeating the same self-sabotaging behaviors, no matter who it is you’re dating or in a relationship with. And this has you wondering if there’s something wrong with you, men, or relationships in general.
  • You know that dating and relationships shouldn’t feel “hard,” but you dread going on yet another unsuccessful date or having another relationship end, and the thought of having your heart broken again has you either holding onto a relationship that isn’t working or avoiding opening your heart to new love.
  • You’re at the point where you are ready and willing to make the changes that will finally give you the successful results you want in your love life and you just want to know how to do it.

If you resonated with any or all of the points above, don’t worry. You’re not alone.

Most smart successful women are in a similar place.

Why?

Because what most people don’t know is that there is a very unique set of challenges that successful women face when it comes to relationships.

The main reason is because many of the skills that propel us in our careers and businesses actually repel love and intimacy in romantic relationships! But, because they work at work, we mistakenly believe that those same skills and behaviors will work when it comes to love.

Unfortunately, they don’t work, and we are unconsciously self-sabotaging ourselves out of the very happiness we want more than anything else in the world!

Now, I know that you don’t need a man to make you happy. Your happiness is 100% your responsibility.

However, if what your heart truly desires is to be in a loving, intimate, passionate relationship with a man who is absolutely right for you; who’s not threatened, but is inspired, by your success; and who is ready to spend the rest of his life letting you know just how much he loves you, then doesn’t it make sense for you to work toward that goal as diligently – if not even more passionately – as you would any one of your professional or career goals?

As a successful, powerful woman myself, I know what it almost cost me to not know the skills that led to creating a loving, peaceful, passionate relationship. In fact, it almost cost me my marriage!

It wasn’t until I learned what barriers were in the way of me having love and intimacy flow easily and abundantly; how to tap into my Irresistible, Feminine Essence; and how to use effective communication and relationship skills to connect deeply with my man that I was able to turn my relationship around. 

Now, after 18 years together, I can tell you that there is nothing I have accomplished in my career – not any award, achievement, or recognition – that holds a candle to what it feels like when my husband says that the woman I am inspires him to be the best man he can be!

If you want to learn the secrets to creating a successful, happy, loving relationship that stands the test of time with the right man for you, then join us for three days transformational heart-and-life-changing days at The Irresistible Woman LIVE!

 

The Irresistible Woman LIVE was specifically designed for the successful woman who wants to have success in her love life, too!

The Irresistible Woman LIVE is especially designed for the successful, powerful professional woman like you who wants to experience as much – if not even more – success in her love life and relationships as she does in her career!

If you are tired, frustrated, and feeling hopeless about your ability to have both a successful and fulfilling career and an extraordinary romantic relationship, then you need to be at this event!

As we said , this event is specifically for successful women – women who are used to going above and beyond to get what they want – so it’s going to be a no-holds-barred-tough-love seminar!

In this 3-day event, you will:

  • Take a deep dive into why you are not attracting or experiencing the kind of love that you want in your relationships (and learn how to stop the self-sabotage)
  • Uncover the specific thoughts, actions, and behaviors you are using to block love from coming into your life so that you can begin to experience love, happiness, and abundance in your romantic relationships
  • Identify the skills that propel you in the workplace but completely kill love and intimacy in romantic relationships (and learn the skills that magnify love and romance)
  • Create new thought patterns and behaviors that will allow you to shed the masculine energy you carry around at work so that you can embrace the feminine energy that will make you Simply Irresistible to the right man
  • Design a plan for implementing what you have learned into your life on adaily basis so that you are continuously experiencing more success in your love life!
  • And soooo much more!

If you are seriously committed to having the life and love your heart desires, there is absolutely NO reason for you not to be there!

To make sure you know how committed WE are to helping get the loving relationship you want, we’re making this an irresistible, no-brainer decision for you!

When you register today you will save about $300 on your ticket (No, that is NOT a typo! You’ll save $300, but only for a limited time. After that, the prices jump up!)

Don’t miss out! Claim your ticket NOW!

Here’s the thing:

As a successful woman, you know that a huge part of your success is taking decisive actions that are aligned with the goals you want to accomplish.

That’s why we are only making this special offer for the next seven days. And, once it goes away, we will NOT be making it again.

And, for the first 10 women who register today, we will automatically upgrade you to VIP status!  

That’s right, as a VIP you will receive:

  • Preferred seating all 3 days so that you are up front, don’t have to worry about finding a seat, and can get up close and personal with us!
  • A special VIP-only luncheon on Day 2 where you will be able to mix and mingle with The Love Twins and the other VIPs
  • An intimate VIP-only evening reception with Michelle, Gladys, and their husbands where you will be able to get ALL of your questions about
  • And many more VIP-only perks and surprises!

The VIP ticket is normally $600,  and you get it for the Super Early Bird Price of a General Admission ticket simply for being one of the first 10 to grab your spot!

So, don’t make up excuses, don’t put this off, and don’t suffer from FOMO!

Our events sell out quickly and you WILL miss your opportunity to learn the exact steps you can take to effortlessly begin attracting the loving relationship your desire and deserve at a simply irresistible price!

This is it!  Click and grab your spot now!

Seneca said, Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”

We’re giving you the opportunity to create your own luck and learn the skills you need to have the success that you want and deserve in the lasting, loving, and fulfilling relationship your heart truly desires!

This event only happens once a year, this is a one-time offer, and you simply don’t want to miss this amazing, transformational event!

Click here to claim your ticket!

We can’t wait to meet and spend 3 life-and-love-changing days with you!

Are you fueling your dreams or your doubts when it comes to love?

Are you fueling your dreams or your doubts when it comes to love?

by Gladys Diaz

 

This weekend was one of those non-stop, every-minute-planned, busy-but-”good busy” weekends!

Usually, I hate this kind of weekend, because I love just being able to relax with my family. However, this weekend it was all about fueling my family’s dreams, and that’s what made it exciting, instead of exhausting!

It all started on Thursday morning where I rushed to get my older son tickets to go see a mechanical engineer that works with NASA and then rushed him over there in the evening so that he could watch the 2-hour lecture.  

Here’s the thing.  My idea of a fun evening is NOT listening to and watching descriptions of all of the rocks they are finding on Mars! However, my son’s dream is to be a mechanical engineer and one of the astronauts who will actually get to step on Mars, so, every time I looked over and saw the wide-eyed look of wonder on my son’s face, and I just knew he was envisioning himself standing there, I had to smile, and that made it worth it!  (And, I’ll admit, the rovers are pretty cool, too!)

Then, on Saturday morning, we rushed him over to a magnet high school that specializes in Pre-Engineering coursework so that his four years of high school are focused on what he really dreams of and wants to do.  

Here’s the thing: This school is over 30 minutes away from our home and we’ll have to wake up at 5:30am to get him there on time, and there is a perfectly good school  only 10 minutes away from our house!  However, it doesn’t specialize in engineering.  So, while it’s not convenient, we’ll be getting up at the crack of dawn (literally) for the next four years to make sure he gets a head start on making his dream come true.

After that, we rushed him to his campout (he also dreams of being an Eagle Scout) and then it was time to fuel our little one’s dream of being a race car driver!

Here’s the thing: I don’t like racing. It’s not my “thing.” But he dreams of driving race cars for NASCAR, and there was an exhibition race in town (the first-ever of it’s kind in the U.S.), so we surprised him as one of his early birthday presents.  

Was it worth it? Well, you tell me.

When your little one looks at you, all wide-eyed and emotional and says, “Best. Birthday. Ever!” and then hugs you as he says, “Thank you, Mommy.” What do you think? 

(I think “Yes! Soooo worth it!”)

And then Sunday was all about fueling my dreams!  

Michelle and I are rebranding Heart’s Desire International, and we wanted pictures that are aligned with our message, our mission, and our vision for women around the world having both the life and the love their hearts truly desire!

 

We had the opportunity to work with an amazing photographer who is a colleague of mine, and we got to have our hair and makeup done, wear beautiful clothes our stylist helped us pick out, and take amazing photos in Downtown Miami!

(These pics are just selfies taken by us. Professional photos to come soon!)

It was a long day!  Lots of changing, walking, driving, changing again, and smiling until our cheeks hurt, but again, so worth it!

My favorite parts were spending time with my twin (always fun!), especially when we were just being our silly selves, and when our husbands and my sons joined us for photos, since they are such a huge part of our mission!

And the entire time we were taking our pictures, YOU were on our minds!

Why?

Because one of the best parts of our business is that our dreams can only come true when we help you make your dreams come true! 

Look, I know that “making dreams come true” can sound a bit “woo-woo” or cliche, but that really is what we are all about: Helping you take the steps you need to take so that you can have both the life and love your heart desires. 

It’s what we’ve dedicated our lives to doing!

So, for just a minute, I want you to think about your relationship dreams.

What is it that you truly want to experience in the relationship of your dreams?

When you look at the thoughts you have about that dream and the actions you are taking every day, are your thoughts and actions fueling your dreams, or your doubts?

Are you spending more time thinking about and really taking the action steps that will lead you to having the kind of relationship you say you want, or are you giving fuel to the fears and doubts that have you thinking that that vision is possible for others, but not you?

And do you have the skills that you need to distinguish, dismantle, and replace those fears and doubts so that you can consistently take inspired action that is directly aligned with making your dreams come true?

If so, then you know you are because you’re already living in a happy, loving relationship that fuels your dreams every day.

If not, then it’s simply time to begin fueling your dreams by getting clear around what it is you truly want and what thoughts and actions you need to stop and start so that you can manifest the kind of relationship you desire or deserve.

Because, here’s the thing: Every thought you have and every action you take is giving you the results you have now.

So, if you’ve been fueling your dreams, congratulations!  We’re so happy for you and love hearing success stories, so please comment below and share them with us!

And, if you’re not (YET), then let’s talk, because there is no better time to begin fueling your dreams then right now, and we’d love nothing more than to help you do just that!

You deserve to have the love of your dreams, Beautiful!  

Don’t doubt that for a single second!

 

Why FAITH Matters in Your Love Life

Why FAITH Matters in Your Love Life

by Gladys Diaz

Today we’re celebrating Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in the United States, and, aside from relishing having a day to spend with my family, I also wanted to take a few minutes to reflect and remember why this day is so important.

If I had to use just three words to describe Dr. King and his life, the words would be faith, love, and hope.  And, of course, all of these were enveloped in his dream.

As I was looking through some of his inspirational quotes, I came across this one:

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.”

As soon as I read it, I immediately thought back to my family’s vacation to Hawaii in November, and the way I felt when I stood inside the volcano crater and looked up at the tiny staircase that was miles and miles away, at the top of the mountain (see the photo below, and you’ll see the staircase at the upper left-hand corner).  

I remember thinking, “How in the world will I ever make it up there, especially with my fear of heights and the pain in my knee?”

I didn’t know how I’d make it, but I did know one thing:

I was NOT going to allow my fear to stop me from getting to the top of that mountain and witnessing the view from up there!

So, I started climbing.  

And, yes, I was scared.  I got dizzy a few times.  My feet slipped on the rocks. And the pain in my knee became almost unbearable the higher we climbed.  

But I had faith that something beautiful, something I’d never seen or experienced before, was waiting for me at the top of that mountain and on the other side of my fear.  So I climbed!

And, when I got to the top of the mountain, it was so worth it!  I’d climbed my first mountain, the view was absolutely breathtaking, and I was experiencing it all with the three guys I love most in this world!

Honestly, it was MORE than worth it!

So, why am I telling you this?

I know that love and relationships can be scary. There is so much uncertainty because there aren’t any guarantees.  

You don’t know if it’s going to work out with the guy you are seeing.

You’re afraid of having your heart broken again.

It feels safer to stay where you are, even though it’s not where you want to be.

I get it.

However, staying where you are — whether you are single or in a relationship that is stagnant or not working — is the surefire way to NOT get to where you truly desire to be: The place where you feel loved and adored.  That amazing place where you know that you know that you are loved!

Maybe it’s been a long journey for you.

Maybe you feel like the pain is more than you can take.  

Or maybe you’re just tired of trying.

Whatever your “mountain” is, I promise you that if you will have your faith be stronger than your fear, if you are willing to focus on your desire more than your doubt, and if you are courageous enough to take that first step in the direction of your dreams, with the right guidance and support, you WILL get to the place where you are in the relationship your heart desires with the man who is absolutely right for you.

If you’re ready to take that first step and you want to know exactly how to do that, then it’s time for you to have a Love Breakthrough!  Simply use the link below to schedule time for us to talk and together we will take a look at what your personal love goals are, distinguish what has been stopping you from attracting that loving relationship to you, and what your best first step is for getting the happy, loving relationship your heart desires.

CLICK HERE to have your Love Breakthrough!

Having the love you want isn’t about learning a bunch of generic tips, tricks or strategies. Your personal love goals are yours to achieve, and knowing the right steps for you to take is critical in order for you to have the love you want!  Take that first step of FAITH, and I’ll be waiting to help guide you to the other side!

CLICK HERE and take your first step in FAITH!

“Cheers!” to 10 Extraordinary Years! (How to Make Great Wine and Great Love!)

“Cheers!” to 10 Extraordinary Years! (How to Make Great Wine and Great Love!)

by Gladys Diaz & Michelle Roza

If you’ve ever had a great glass of wine – you know… the kind that you just have to close your eyes and savor as you sip it – then you know what an amazing experience it can be!

And, if you know anything about wine, you know that great wine doesn’t “just happen.” An amazing glass of wine begins with selecting premium grapes and a very intricate process of aging the wine that results in a succulent, savory experience that you hope won’t end with just one glass!

In today’s video, Michelle comes to you from a vineyard in wine country as she celebrates 10 years of LOVE with her honey, Arnie, and she shares the top 3 ingredients for extraordinary love!

So… Grab a glass of your favorite wine or beverage, sip away, and let’s raise our glasses to creating the kind of love that lasts forever!

 

 

Please join me in congratulating Michelle and Arnie on celebrating their 10 years of extraordinary love by going to our Facebook page, so that we can surprise her with the happy wishes! 🙂

Cheers! Enjoy the video!

 

What to Do if You’re Feeling “Stuck” in Your Relationship

What to Do if You’re Feeling “Stuck” in Your Relationship

by Gladys Diaz

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I remember just four years ago, how hopelessly stuck I felt in my job.

Yes, I was making great money, but I was miserable! I honestly felt like part of me was dying inside every time I sat at my computer.

See, I have been a coach, speaker, teacher, and trainer since I was 17 years old.

My heart beats to connect with and help people go from wherever they are to levels they can’t even begin to imagine.

But, due to downsizing and restructuring, my boss, in an effort to avoid letting me go, had put me in a department where all I did for 8-12 hours (or more) per day was type up questions for online courses.

As I said, I could feel my soul cringing and a little bit of life escaping me every time I was up until 2:00am, crying at my computer, wondering why the heck I was so afraid to let go of that paycheck!

It wasn’t until I received the call that my position was being eliminated that everything changed.

See, even though I was being told that I was being laid off, they offered me another job, making the same amount of money, but it would require me traveling 80% of the time. I thought about my husband and kids, and, as afraid as I was of losing 60% of our income in one full swoop, I refused to spend my life on a plane away from the three people I love most in this world.

So, I walked away.

And it was both the scariest and most liberating moment of my life, because, thanks to walking away from that position, I now have the opportunity to do what I love and was born to do as a relationship coach!

There is NOTHING more rewarding than knowing that I am living my purpose and helping women’s dreams come true! And now I also get to help relationship coaches build successful coaching practices so that they can help other women’s dreams come true, too!  The love just keeps on spreading!

Oh! And I’m making more money than I ever did in my old job!

So, what does this have to do with you and your love life?

Are you in a relationship right now that you KNOW is not the right one for you?

Are you holding onto it because you are too afraid to let go and open your heart to loving and being loved again?

Or, are you in a relationship that you want to stay in, but you feel like it’s not going anywhere, like the love has stopped growing, and you feel stuck, frustrated and alone even though you’re “with” someone?

Whatever your version of “stuck” is, I want you to know that, as afraid as you are of letting go, that false sense of safety that continuing to hold on is giving you is robbing you of the opportunity to actually feel the love, joy, and fulfillment you can feel in a relationship that is loving, exciting, fulfilling, and fun!

But, just as when you were a kid playing on the monkey bars, in order to move forward, you’ve got to be willing to let go!

If you’re tired of feeling stuck and you want to know how to move forward, take a look at this quick video I shot for you.

In it, I explain the 3 steps you can take to begin moving forward in your relationship.

 


I know it can feel scary.

I know it feels “safer” to be stuck.

But the only thing that’s really happening is that you are cheating yourself out of the love and happiness that are waiting for you.

So, be brave…

Release that one hand from that monkey bar…

Watch the video…

And let’s move forward together!

 

 

You CAN Be Successful AND in Love!

You CAN Be Successful AND in Love!

by Gladys Diaz

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“Men are intimidated by successful women.”

I know you’ve probably heard (and possibly even believed) that men are intimidated by powerful, successful women.

This is a very popular and completely FALSE misconception that many successful women have.

I used to feel the same way, too.

I thought that if I was more successful or educated or making more money than the man I was with, he would feel threatened by me in some way.

I thought that if I was further ahead in my career, he would feel like I was out of his league and either resent me or try to hold me back.
I remember trying to avoid talking about my promotions, accomplishments, and accolades thinking that it would somehow make my man feel more comfortable with himself…and me.
Or, I thought that maybe I should just focus on my career, because that was easier for me. I felt accomplished, success came easily to me, and I did not have to depend on anything or anyone else to have the results I wanted.
And, as much as I pride myself in being a smart and successful woman, I am so glad I was wrong!

<<Click here if you want to find out how to be smart, successful, and happy in love!>>

Instead, I attracted a man who is and has been my biggest fan for almost 17 years!

He is proud of me and brags about me, but not just as a successful businesswoman.

He brags about me as his WIFE!

And I’ll tell you right now:

No amount of degrees, recognition, or high-paying positions can ever compare to the feeling I get when my husband tells someone, “She makes it easy for me to love her and inspires me to be the best man I can be.”

So, what did I do to create that kind of relationship?

I figured out the way to have BOTH the successful business and career I want AND the loving, passionate relationship my heart desires!

I learned that I didn’t have to choose between one or the other! I could have it ALL!
So, I get to have a 6-figure business where I have the privilege of serving and supporting amazing, successful women from all over the world AND be loved by a man who supports me in life and in my business.

Just the other week, he was away on a very important business trip, where his days went from morning until late into the evening. While he was gone, my website went down and, since he’s my hot and sexy webmaster, I reached out, knowing he might not see the text for a while.

Just a few minutes later, he sent me a text message saying he’d get to it as soon as he had a break.

I thanked him and got this back:

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Not bad, after 17 years together, huh? 🙂

And, in less than an hour, my website was up and running again!

That’s true partnership.

That’s what feeling supported in every area of your life looks like!

And that’s what having it ALL can feel like!

The truth is that you don’t have to “dumb down,” downplay your accomplishments, or pretend you’re not as capable as you are.

AND you don’t have to pretend that you don’t want to share your life with a man who loves, supports, and WANTS you to succeed!

You, too, get to have it ALL!

That’s why, on Wednesday, July 6th, and Thursday, July 7th, we’ll be sharing the secrets to having the success you want in life and love in a powerful new webinar: The Secrets to BEing a Simply Successful and Irresistible Woman 2-part Masterclass!

During this interactive masterclass, you’ll learn:

  • How to avoid the common mistakes successful women make that propel them in business but repel love and intimacy
  • How to shift from being unstoppable and invincible at work to being simply irresistible in your love life
  • How to create a life where you have time for your career, your love life and yourself

Learning the secrets to having the life, success and love your heart desires is the KEY to having it all! Join us for this two-part masterclass and let’s get you started on the path to living the life and love of your dreams!

Click here to reserve your spot!