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It’s Not Too Good to Be True… How to Have it All!

by heartsdesireintl | Nov 22, 2021 | Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever feel like you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop?

Things are going really well in a relationship – you’re having fun and things are feeling easy and flowy…

… but somewhere in the back of your mind there’s a little voice that’s saying, “Is this too good to be true?”

If that ever happens to you – listen up.

You have a fear or a limiting belief that when things are good, eventually they’re going to fall apart or go wrong.

Sound familiar?

We see this all the time with our clients – and we’ve experienced it many times ourselves!

You’re just about have your breakthrough – and you’ll self-sabotage.

Or things are going better than ever, in your job, your relationship, financially – and then you start to doubt yourself and it all falls apart.

Here’s the thing…

If you find yourself in what we like to call “the swirl”, you know that feeling of uncertainty, confusion or like you don’t know what to do, there’s one thing that’s happening under all of it.

You’re having a worthiness conversation.

You’re wondering…

“Can I really have this?”

“Can I trust myself to be able to create this?”

“Can I actually handle all of this goodness?!”

That’s all it is!

So how do you pull yourself out of “the swirl”?

Ask yourself these three questions:

What am I afraid of?
What scares me about that?
What scares me most about that?
Make a choice

You see, our brains sometimes think they’re keeping us “safe” by keeping us in the swirl. By keeping you stuck in a place that feels familiar, you save yourself from the unknown.

However, you also keep yourself from having and experiencing all that’s meant for you on the other side of those fears and limiting beliefs!

Staying stuck in fear is a choice.

Making a step in faith is also a choice.

And they take about the same amount of energy, either way!

The important thing to remember is that staying stuck leads to feeling disempowered, and taking a step in faith leads you to feeling empowered.

You get to choose.

Every single moment of every single day is an opportunity to have a breakthrough and transform an area of your life.

That’s why we’re so excited to be offering you our final challenge of 2021!!

Join us for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge, starting next Monday, November 29th!

The love you deserve is waiting for YOU!

Over seven days, we’ll share with you the same steps that we’ve used to help hundreds of women across the globe attract and create Extraordinary Love using the same skills we used to create the deeply loving, lasting marriages we’ve always wanted with our husbands!

In just seven days, your love life can be transformed into the happy, fulfilling experience your heart desires!

Join us for the BE–YOU-tifully YOU 7-Day Challenge!

When you step out of your comfort zone and decide to trust yourself, you become empowered.

When you see yourself for the incredible, successful, lovable woman that you are – you know that you can handle all of the goodness!

And that’s what we want for you.

I’m ready for all of the goodness!

See you soon!

(photo credit: https://onlineforlove.com/)

Three Steps to Attracting the Man of Your Dreams

by heartsdesireintl | Nov 5, 2021 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Romance, Self-Love, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever wonder why the men that are showing up in your life aren’t the kind of men you want?

If what you’re doing is working and you’re meeting lots of incredible men into your life – that’s great!! Don’t fix what’s not broken!

However –

If you ever catch yourself thinking (or even saying out loud) something like…

”All men are cheaters.”

”There’s absolutely no men out there for me!”

“Every man will end up hurting me.”

“All the men on the apps want it sex.”

… Or any other variation of that – We have some news for you!

You’re wrong!

We say that with love, but it’s simply the truth.

There are many women out there who are meeting incredible men on the apps, who are creating extraordinary relationships with high quality men, and who are getting married to men that are willing to wait for marriage.

You can be one of them!!

There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken. But if the type of men that are showing up for you aren’t the type of men you want – then there’s a shift that gets to be made.

The questions to ask yourself are: “What can I shift?” and “What am I in control of?”

The only thing you’re 100% in control of is your thoughts and your actions. You get to shift your mindset so you can stop attracting what you don’t want and start attracting the men that will lead you to creating the relationship of your dreams with the man that’s 100% right for you!

So how do you create that shift?

1 – Get clear on what your current beliefs are.

Tell yourself the truth about what you currently believe about dating and men. If you’re telling your girlfriends there’s no good men on the app, chances are, that’s limiting belief for you.

You must be honest with yourself and get to the bottom of these beliefs.

Until you do – no matter how much you pretend they’re not there – they will show up in your profile, out on a date at dinner and in any relationship.

2 – Have clarity around your intention and vision.

What’s your intention for dating?

What’s your intention for being on the dating app?

What’s your vision for the experience you want to have inside the relationship of your dreams?

You have the power to attract and create exactly what you want and you have to know exactly what that is first.

3 – BE the woman that’s aligned with your vision.

Showing up in a way that’s aligned with the intention you have is what gives it power!

When you’re aligned in who you are BEing, your actions will automatically be aligned to bring you the results you desire.

Energy attracts energy and when who you are being and what you are doing are aligned with what you want to experience – the people and experiences you don’t want simply won’t be attracted to you.

You can be 100% in your power around your actions, beliefs and mindset and the rest will follow!

If you’re ready to stop wasting time and find clarity around what you want and what beliefs are stopping you from creating it, book a call with one of our coaches now!

Book a Love Breakthrough Session Now.

Our coaches are trained to be able to listen to you and then tell you what fears, patterns and limiting beliefs they hear. Then they will give you the steps you can take so you can leave the call with a plan of action to move forward in creating the relationship of your dreams!

Let us say it again, there are so many women who are meeting their incredible partners – and you can be one of them!

If you want to do that quickly and easily, then book your love breakthrough call now.

Discover the Secret to Manifesting Extraordinary Success in Your Life!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 15, 2021 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you want to have extraordinary success in every area of your life?

Do you have success at work and wonder why you can’t seem to create success in love?

Do you have beautiful relationships with other women, but can’t keep a man around longer than 5 minutes?

If you’re not creating what you want in any area of your life, there’s something out of alignment for you.

What does that mean?

Being out of alignment means something in your thoughts, words or behavior are not aligned with what you say you want.

The biggest problem with that is when you live like that long enough – you start to be okay with it.

You normalize mediocrity.

You make it okay that you don’t have everything you want. Even though underneath, there’s a deep stirring for more.

You keep thinking it’s going to change. You keep waiting for it to get better.

And before you know it, two years (or two decades!) have passed and you’re still in the same place, doing the same things, and wondering why it’s not working for you.

Here’s what we know for sure.

You must be 100% crystal-clear about what you want. The clearer you are about what you want, the greater the possibility there is to create it.

In order for you to create that crystal clarity you have to be able to see what’s in the way of you creating what you dream of, know how to break it down, and move past it!

We know there are some traumatic experiences that have happened in your life that have left you feeling powerless.

But you know what?

All of that can change for you.

All of the waiting and wondering can be over and you can claim the extraordinary life AND love you imagine!

You can have it all!!

Join us next weekend for the Irresistible Woman LIVE Virtual Event! It’s happening October 22nd-24th and we want you there with us!!

Yesterday was our 51st birthday and even though these tickets normally sell for $500+ dollars, we decided to give you a ticket for only $51!!

Why would we do that?

Because we’re 100% committed to women experiencing the relationship of their dreams!!

Grab your birthday flash sale ticket here!

After the 3 days at Irresistible Woman LIVE, you will feel:

⭐ Aligned

⭐ Enlightened

⭐ In complete representation of who you really are!

⭐ Clear about what you want and know how to go and create it

⭐ Excited about your future

⭐ And so much more!

On Sunday you’ll realize that coming was one of the best decisions you’ve ever made for your life.

Here’s what others have said about their experience at Irresistible Woman LIVE:

“This event will empower you to be the best version of you and develop life long sisterhood as you continue to reach new levels of greatness in your life. I Highly recommend every woman to attend the Irresistible Women Live event!!” ~Candy Davies

“During the seminar I was going through a very tough time. I was struggling with the decision of leaving a relationship where I felt disrespected, unsupported, and diminished, and I was angry with myself for not honoring myself. I realized at the seminar that I had to stop.

I chose to see myself beyond what I was going through and regain my power by focusing on me and my happiness.

Once I let go of the relationship and regained my self-love and self-respect, I allowed myself to dream again.The result was the fulfillment of everything my heart desires! I got a scholarship, found the job of my dreams, and I found the Prince Charming I wanted since childhood. All because I chose me! Trust the process, trust yourself, and have faith because nothing is impossible!” ~ Diana (Now happily married!)

Creating extraordinary success in every area of your life starts with you!

Click HERE to Claim your Ticket and Join us at Irresistible Woman LIVE!

Marriages have been healed.

Families have been restored.

Business have been started.

Relationships have been created.

All because of one decision to spend a weekend learning how to be an irresistible woman!

You get to have it. Join us now.

Let Your Authentic Self Shine and Attract the Right Man NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 9, 2021 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Marriage, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever feel…

… like you don’t feel comfortable being yourself?

… afraid you’ll be rejected again?

… that when you show up as yourself, you’re not accepted?

… like you hold back around other people and don’t show up as you?

… that you can’t connect with others or like there’s a block between you and others?

The good news is that you can break through those barriers!

You can show up as the authentic YOU and attract those that will love and accept you to you!

Here’s the thing.

In your life, you’ve either learned you were supposed to be “fill-in-the-blank” in order to be liked.

Or you had an experience that made you believe that if you showed up that way then you would be rejected.

But here’s the truth…

The longer you pretend to be someone you’re not, the more you risk forgetting who you really are.

It’s our Heartwork that will support you in having the courage to show up as yourself and know that when you do, you will attract the man that will adore you!

When you do this Heartwork:

💜 You heal yourself and break free from the love barriers that are holding you down.

💜 You break free from your limiting beliefs that tell you something is wrong with you or that you’re “broken”

💜 You create new experiences and thought patterns for yourself

💜 You learn to believe that real confidence looks like knowing you’re going to make mistakes and that you’re not always going to have it all together, and that’s okay

💜 You get clear on what you want and who you are so that you can be crystal-clear about the kind of woman you are and the kind of love you want to experience

The absolute truth is this… you haven’t forgotten who you are.

Underneath all of the experiences, stories you’ve created in your head, junk and limiting beliefs, is your true self.

And you get to uncover her and let her shine!

That’s the kind of shift that will have you attracting the RIGHT man and manifesting the life and love your heart desires!

Clarity and certainty in who you are lead to confidence.

How to Break Through and Create the Love Your Heart Desires!

by heartsdesireintl | Sep 17, 2021 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Heart's Desire International, heartache, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Are you being a “victim” in your dating life?

Do you feel like you can’t trust yourself to make the best decisions?

Are you afraid that you’ll make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past, which led you to being hurt or taken advantage of?

If you answered yes to any of the following – or if you have that tingly feeling in your gut that’s telling you this is something you should listen to – here’s what you need to know.

If your goals aren’t coming to fruition there is something stopping you from creating the results you want. Something from the past is holding you back.

The thing is – the past is not a predictor of your future, it’s simply an informer.

The problem is – most women hold onto what happened in the past so tightly that they then create strategies to make sure whatever happened doesn’t happen again.

This doesn’t work.

The only thing that does work is to get to the root of WHY the thing happened in the first place and then heal ALL of it.

Whatever it is from your past that is still standing in the way is a love barrier and if you don’t find a way to break it and have a breakthrough around it, do you know what’s going to happen?

The next year will look just like the past year, or the past two years, or maybe even the last 10!

Not because that’s all that’s meant for you. But because that’s what you’ve been creating and will continue to create until you break through it.

So how do you break through?

First, you get to accept that the past doesn’t define you. The decisions you made or the circumstances that found you, aren’t who you are.

You get to forgive yourself and others for the experience you had and then you get to let it go.

Second, you get to recreate the story.

Do you know who you’d be without that story or suffering?

Most women stay stuck for this very reason. They don’t. And not knowing who they are is scarier than staying stuck.

Does this sound familiar?

If you want to transform and break out of the love barriers standing in your way, you have to break through the story that’s keeping you from creating the results that you want, from creating the relationship of your dreams!

If this is something you want then join us next week for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

If you want to have a break through in:

⭐ dating high quality men

⭐ creating abundance in every area of your life

⭐ settling the past and moving forward

⭐ finding your feminine energy and flow

⭐ forgiving and trusting yourself again

⭐ believing that you can trust men and have fun again

⭐ finding freedom

⭐ not taking things personally

⭐ anything else that may be holding you back

… then this is the challenge for you!

In this 5-Day Real Love Breakthrough Challenge, we’re going to guide you through the same effective, clear and proven steps of our HeartWork™️ process, we’ve personally used and have shared with thousands of women around the world, which is what has empowered them to shift from being frustrated, disappointed, and lonely to being happy and successful in love!

It’s FREE to join and it starts on Monday, so don’t delay.

Click here to register for the Real Love Breakthrough Challenge!

If 2021 looks too similar to 2020 – or the year before that – there is a barrier in your way.

You get to be the source of the breakthrough to create everything your heart desires!

Join us on Monday!

How to Embrace Your Feminine, Authentic Self

by heartsdesireintl | Sep 3, 2021 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Self-Love, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Are you a driven, ambitious, successful woman?

Do you spend your daytime hours of your career in your masculine (“doing”) energy?

Do you find it difficult to relax into your feminine energy before a date, or when you’re with your partner?

If you answered yes, it’s perfectly natural. Being in our masculine/doing energy is called for when we’re at work and getting things done.

That said, when the work day is over, you get to take a moment and shift into your feminine energy.

If you’re getting feedback that…

You seem like you don’t need anyone else
You act like you don’t want a man in your life or that you’re fine alone
You’re intimidating
Nothing is ever good enough for you
You’re aggressive of “too direct”

…then it’s time to look at how you can shift and relax into your feminine energy!

Now, to be clear, as we said above, masculine energy isn’t “bad.”

The energy of doing, driving, managing, advising, etc. is what’s made you successful in your career and in other areas of your life!

The problem is that it simply doesn’t work when it comes to dating and romantic relationships.

Feminine Energy is NOT about being weak, not having a voice, acting like a doormat, or not having an opinion.

Being in your innate, feminine and Irresistible Essence is powerful! It’s what has you show up as vulnerable, authentic, light and joyful.

It IS the energy of BEing receptive.

It’s allowing your partner to be there with you and do things for you.

It’s allowing others to see you and deeply connect with you.

So what are the ways of BEing you can cultivate inside yourself so that your true feminine self shines through?

These ways of BEing are what we call your Irresistible Essences — your innate power of femininity that creates the magical spark that naturally draws masculine men to you.

We use the word MAGICAL to help you remember what they are:

M – Mesmerizing

A – Authentic

G – Gracious

I – Inspiring

C – Confident

A – Alluring

L – Love-able

Let’s dive in a bit deeper, shall we?

BEing Mesmerizing looks like captivating a man’s attention and drawing him into you through your Way of BEing. It’s like casting a spell that has men notice and be drawn to you.

BEing Authentic means being YOURSELF. It’s knowing that you’re more than enough and showing up that way. Remember: He can’t fall (or stay) in love with you if YOU are not even there!

BEing Gracious is allowing yourself to receive and giving him the gift of being able to give to you. Some women really struggle with this one, because they’re so used to doing for themselves. It’s important to point out that receiving is NOT about being entitled or not being able to take care of yourself.

For example, on a date, allowing the man to pay is not about “expecting” him to do something or feeling like you’re entitled to the dinner. It’s about graciously accepting that he’s invited you out and receiving that with grace and gratitude.

So, allow him to pay. Accept his compliments. And offer gratitude in return. Let him know how much you appreciated the dinner, his company, and the date. It’s highly attractive, and knowing he was able to make you smile will inspire him to want to do even more!

BEing Inspiring means being a breath of happiness, love and fun. No one wants to swim in a pool of upset. So instead of making him feel obligated to be with you or required to do anything, inspire him to show up for you by the way you are when you’re around him.

BEing Confident looks like doing your own thing and creating your own happiness. It’s knowing that you’re enough without feeling as if you have to “prove” it. Remember this: Confidence is the #1 most attractive thing to a man.

BEing Alluring is also a Way of BEing. It means being radiant, authentic, drawing people to you simply by being the amazing woman you are.

BEing Love-Able means knowing deep down, for real, that you are both able to love and be loved by another. It looks like knowing you don’t have to withhold love or be afraid to receive it.

So there you have it!

These 7 ways of BEing, the Irresistible Essences, are what will support you in relaxing into your feminine energy and attracting a man that wants to get to know you, and wants to stay with you!

If you’d like support with showing up more fully as your true, authentic, feminine self, book a call with our coaches now.

If it’s become second nature to be in your masculine energy, it’s okay! You can learn how to easily shift and feel more fully connected to you. We can show you how!

Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session here.

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