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How to Make the Perfect Love Connection: 5 Secrets to Online Dating SuccessHow to Make the Perfect Love Connection:

by heartsdesireintl | Jun 2, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Romance, Success

by Gladys Diaz

In this age of technological wonders, finding love and companionship is just a click away!

Online dating is one of the most effective ways to date because studies show that more couples are meeting online than any other way!

If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate the virtual world and maximize your chances of success, you’re in the right place. Join us as we uncover the secrets to success in the realm of online dating and how to unlock the key to creating the Extraordinary Love you’re looking for!

We’re committed to taking the struggle and the suffering out of dating so let’s set you up to win online!

Where to Begin:

One of the top things we hear from women when it comes to online dating is that they’re on 5, 10, sometimes even 15 different dating apps.

This is a recipe for getting frustrated and burnt out from wasting your time swiping!

We recommend you get on two, maximum three dating apps, create an Irresistible Profile (keep reading for more on that) and see which one gets the best response.

Right now in our community, we’re finding that ladies are having the best results on Match, and we’re also seeing great feedback about Hinge and Tinder.

When you’re considering what apps would work best for you, check reviews (not the reviews on the app but on third party sites) and see what’s working!

Crafting an Irresistible Profile:

Your online dating profile is your digital calling card, the gateway to making a lasting impression. To stand out from the crowd, it’s crucial to create a profile that showcases your authentic self.

Remember, the key is to be genuine and highlight your unique qualities – not just what you like to do.

It feels more vulnerable to share who you are as a woman – but this is what will attract the type of men you want!

It also helps to share exactly what you’re looking for.

Not a laundry list of what you’re looking for in a man (this is a sure-fire way to send men running!) but a paragraph on how you want to feel inside the relationship of your dreams. Also, if you’re wanting to create a committed relationship that leads to marriage – say so!

For example, you could write something like: “I want to be in a committed relationship where we laugh til our sides hurt, talk about everything important and also nothing at all and that when we look in each other’s eyes we know there’s no one else in the world for us. I want to create a committed relationship that leads to a life-long marriage.”

Now that’s a different type of profile.

And that’s what will have the type of men you’re looking for be attracted to you on the apps!

You don’t need to be snappy and snazzy. Be creative, add a splash of humor, and let your personality shine through!

🌟 BONUS HACK: Change your profile up often. Add different pictures and change things up in your writing now and then. Doing this moves you up in the system and adjusts the algorithm so you have more success finding men who are a match.

Captivating Conversation Starters:

Congratulations, you’ve matched with someone intriguing! Now it’s time to spark a conversation that keeps the momentum going.

Engage in thoughtful and personalized messages that demonstrate your interest in the other person.

Acknowledge what the man said, ask open-ended questions that invite him to share his thoughts and experiences. A little curiosity can go a long way in establishing a connection.

If you’re a woman who has a hard time staying in her feminine energy, remember to allow the men to pursue and let them initiate conversation. You get to feel what it’s like to be desired and pursued!

Having a Successful Mindset:

Online dating is fun and exciting filled with endless possibilities and it has to come from a mindset of being ready to receive!

If you’re still angry at your ex, still hung up on the last guy that stopped responding or have a belief that all men online are scammers – you will not attract the experience you want.

On the other hand, when you’re excited about the process and believe you will find what you’re looking for – you will!

We’ve seen it time and time again with clients and in our community – there are so many incredible men online!

Embrace the journey with an open mind and a positive outlook and don’t be discouraged by setbacks or rejections along the way. Each encounter is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

Keep exploring, keep learning, and most importantly, keep believing that your perfect match is just around the corner.

Conclusion:

When it comes to online dating, success is all about knowing how. You’ve got to have different skills when you’re dating online than when you’re dating in person. That’s just the truth.

By creating an irresistible profile, sparking engaging conversations, and embracing the journey with a positive mindset, you’re on the path to finding love and companionship.

If you’re ready to create the Relationship of Your Dreams this summer and would love support breaking through any limiting beliefs that are holding you back and know exactly how to create success in love now – join us June 12th-16th for the Summer of Love Challenge!

Over the course of 5 days we’ll give you exactly that – HOW to create success in love NOW!

Yes! Sign me up for the Summer of Love Challenge!

Remember, each connection holds the potential for something beautiful, and the online world is brimming with opportunities.

Happy swiping!

Swipe Right on Love: Dating Strategies for Busy Women

by heartsdesireintl | May 22, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Parenting, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Romance, Self-Love, Single Mother, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you struggle making time for your love life?

You may be a single mom and have a hard time finding a babysitter.

Maybe you travel a lot for work and find it hard to make time for dating or your partner.

Finding time for dating can feel challenging.

Juggling work commitments, household responsibilities, and parenting duties can make it seem that there’s little room for personal endeavors.

We get it.

Both Gladys and I are entrepreneurs running multiple businesses, wives, mothers, and dog-moms. We have clients, team members and family to take care of – on top of making time for our own work-outs, self-care and rest.

I remember when I was a single mom trying to make it all work and wondering if it was possible to have it all…

The thing to remember is that carving out time for romance is essential for self-care and building meaningful connections.

In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and mindset shifts to help busy professionals and single moms make time for dating in their demanding lives.

#1: Make Your Love Life and Dating a Top Priority in Your Life

The first thing you must do is make dating a top priority. Right up there with taking care of yourself.

If you don’t make your love life a priority then another summer goes by and you’re still alone. Another birthday comes and goes and you aren’t spending it with the one you love.

Let’s get rid of regret and start creating your dreams NOW!

Dating isn’t just another thing you have to do and until you start relating to it as self-care and not an item to be checked off your list – only then will you start enjoying it and start creating the results you want!

#2: Prioritize Self-Care

As a single mom and professional, it’s crucial to prioritize self-care. When you don’t, you slowly begin to resent the people in your life that need you and want to spend time with you.

This puts you in low energy and makes it impossible to attract the things you want into your life!

When you prioritize taking care of yourself, you boost your well-being AND enhance your ability to be present and engaged in dating.

Set aside dedicated time each day and week for activities that rejuvenate you, such as exercise, meditating, praying, reading, pursuing a hobby (or sitting and doing nothing if that’s what you want to do)!

By nurturing your own happiness, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the complexities of dating while managing your all of your other responsibilities.

#3: Create Opportunities in Your Schedule to Date and Spend Time With Your Partner

Sometimes you get to be creative when you have a lot of priorities and are short on time.

Remember how I said we get it? We do!

Sometimes spending time together looks like long walks, movies and going to bed together.

And sometimes we get to be creative!

If Arnie and I have a particularly full day, we’ll wake up 15 minutes early so we can sit on the porch and have our coffee together.

Gladys and Ric go to lunch together every single Friday, which they’ve been doing for years!

Why?

Because prioritizing our relationships is important to us and it’s imperative to keeping the love alive!

If you’re looking at opportunities to meet men as something you dread or as a time-waster – it’s time to shift your mindset and embrace meeting men as something that is fun and worth it!

#4: Create a Structure for Your Time and Manage Your Time Well

You’re precious, your time is precious and you get to manage it well.

Prioritize your tasks, set realistic deadlines, plan dating into your calendar and create a structured schedule.

Look for pockets of time in your routine where you can squeeze in a date or a brief phone call with a potential partner.

TIP: You don’t need to be juggling 15 dating apps and chatting with 100 men at a time – now that might feel overwhelming!

You need to be on three dating apps with a profile that will attract the men who are a match for you!

If you don’t have that or you need support with your mindset or time management – Schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with a Coach!

As a busy professional and/or single mom, making time for dating can feel like an uphill battle. However, by shifting your mindset and making it a priority, prioritizing self-care, creating creative opportunities to date, creating a structure for it and managing your time well, you can successfully integrate dating into your busy life.

Remember, finding love and nurturing relationships is a vital aspect of personal growth and happiness!

And you get to have it ALL!

THIS is what it feels like to experience Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Apr 21, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Take a moment and imagine what it will be and feel like…

To look beside you and see him there, smiling because he was watching you sleep…

To know he’s got your back when it feels like the rest of the world is falling apart…

Imagine what it feels like to know that you KNOW that you’re LOVED!

We know you don’t need a man to make you happy.

You’re smart, successful, and know how to set goals and do what it takes to achieve them.

And that has served you well in life and your career.

But… we know you want more!

If you also want to experience that kind of success when it comes to love and relationships – the kind of success that has you living in the relationship you imagine when you close your eyes to dream – then that’s deeper and bigger than just “a goal.”

We call that your heart’s desire.
We believe that every woman deserves to have and experience this kind of love every day of her life!

That’s why we’re excited to be offering our Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass next Wednesday, April 26th, from 6pm – 8pm EST!

This masterclass is an interactive, deep-dive training where we’ll be teaching you the exact steps we teach our clients, which has them create the loving relationships they’ve always dreamed of.

And you can attend at NO COST!

Many of the women who recently attended this training are now having FUN dating truly high-quality men, and several are already in relationships (one just got married!)!

If you’re ready to learn how to make dating and relationships EASY & FUN, we want to give you a chance to join us!

When you click on the link below and claim your complimentary seat, you’ll be on your way to discovering how to create a loving, happy, lasting relationship with a high-quality man who knows how to love and cherish you for the rest of his life.

During this impactful, interactive training, you’ll learn three of the most important steps for:

easily attracting a strong confident man who is inspired and NOT intimidated by a successful woman like you
naturally being the kind of woman a man can’t help but fall in love with (without having to change who you really are)
creating a lifelong relationship that grows and deepens over time

Join us for this training, and we’ll teach you how to create the loving, supportive, and fulfilling relationship you want, just as so many of our clients have done.

The Key to Transform Your Love Life: Overcoming Fear and Finding Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 20, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Romance, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Are you ready to break through your deepest fears when it comes to love?

Even if you’ve done “all the work” and your brain is saying:

“I’ve already dealt with it.”

“I’ve done all there is to do!”

“I’ve worked through my fears.”

– If you’re not in the relationship of your dreams yet, there’s still a hidden fear or limiting belief available for you to uncover!

That’s why it’s so important that you work with a strong mentor who can help you see the piece (your blindspot) you’re not seeing yet so you can have a real breakthrough!

The type of heart-changing experience that rises above and beyond what’s ordinary and creates an energetic shift that transforms you and the way you’re showing up in your life.

That’s powerful and it’s what we’ll be teaching you this weekend at the Detox Your Love Life Masterclass!!!

Since a breakthrough is an experience above and beyond the ordinary – it’s usually not something you can create for yourself. A real breakthrough requires the support of someone who can see what you can’t see AND support you in transforming it.

Creating a breakthrough in your life requires the assistance of a coach.

On top of having a coach, you must be:

1) Committed to having a breakthrough and declaring what you want.

2) Willing to move past what’s comfortable

3) Ready and excited to apply the coaching

Let’s dive deeper.

1) Committed to Having a Breakthrough and Declaring What You Want.

A declaration is not a list of things you don’t want or what you’re tired of creating.

A declaration is a powerful statement with crystal clarity of what you do want.

If you can’t articulate what you want, you’re not going to get it.

So what do you want?

What’s the ONE thing that if it was no longer in your way would accelerate your experience and have you create the relationship of your dreams?

Once you know that – that’s the first step to creating a breakthrough!

2) Willing to Move Past What’s Comfortable

Doing what you’ve always done will get you the same results you’ve always gotten. The relationship you’ve always dreamt of is outside your comfort zone!

You must prime your brain to stop the repetitive and sabotaging patterns that keep breaking your heart and are keeping you from reaching your goals in love.

In order to create the right relationship with the right man, you must take the right steps given to you by the right coach!

3) Be Ready and Excited to Apply the Coaching

Again, since a breakthrough is something above and beyond the ordinary, it’s going to take doing something above and beyond what you’ve always done.

The coaching you receive might not make perfect sense because it’s going to be something different. But if you’ll trust your coach and apply the coaching we give – you’ll have an extraordinary transformation!

You get to have a breakthrough so that you don’t keep doing the same patterns over and over forever and never create the results you want.

And the best news of all is that this weekend we’ve got the perfect opportunity for you at the Detox Your Love Life Masterclass!

Register for the FREE Masterclass NOW!

If you’re tired of not having the relationship of your dreams and can’t figure out what’s still in the way…

If you want to attract more love and are frustrated that you’re doing all the things and still not getting the results you want.

If you’ve been waiting a long time to start enjoying life with the RIGHT partner, but the clock keeps ticking and nothing is changing.

If you’re ready to have the loving, supportive, connected, safe love you desire – then you get to have a breakthrough NOW!

Join us Saturday (and be open and willing to receive) and we promise you’ll walk away with a breakthrough.

How long has it been since you’ve been in a safe, strong, beautiful, inspiring relationship?

How long have you been waiting to create the relationship of your dreams?

This really can be the moment everything changes for you.

Click HERE to register. We’ll see you there!

3 Steps to Stop Doubting Yourself and Attract the RIGHT Man NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 7, 2023 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever doubt yourself?

Do you ever question whether or not you’ve made the right decision about a career move, whether or not to keep dating someone you’ve grown to care about, or where to live?

What does it feel like to not be able to trust yourself to make the best decisions for your future?

One of the top things we hear from women, successful, driven, passionate women like you, is that they have a hard time trusting themselves.

And that lack of self-trust leaves them feeling disempowered and afraid.

When you can’t trust yourself life becomes a lot more scary than it actually is!

Whether you’re looking for a love that will take you around the world, bring you children and an expanded family or simply love and support in your already amazing life, we’re certain that you want your intuition to guide you to a good man who’ll be a good match for you and all of your hopes and dreams.

So what if you don’t trust yourself to find him?

What if you worry that your “picker” is broken or that you always choose the “wrong” men?

When you don’t trust yourself then what chooses for you isn’t you.

What chooses instead are your fears.

Your thoughts that you’re not good enough…

The fear of ending up alone forever…

Remembering all the “wrong” men you’ve attracted in the past and disbelief that anything will ever be any different.

Thinking you’ll be taken advantage of like you were before…

When these are the thoughts swirling around in your mind it’s debilitating and life and love feel scary as hell.

So how do you break through these fears and begin to trust you again?

Acceptance. First you get to accept yourself and everything about your past.

If you allow your past to determine your future you’ll always feel like you have something to prove, like there’s something to overcome, like you have to work to not become your mother or make the same mistakes you’ve already made.

Your past doesn’t have to define you, tell you who you are or let you know what you can expect of your future.
Forgiveness. Second, you get to forgive the version of you that chose the painful experiences of the past so you can heal and move forward.

You get to remove the emotional charge behind the memories so that they no longer have power to influence your present and future.
Clarity. After you’ve healed your past you can stand powerfully in who you are in the present. Then, and only then, can you be clear about what you want for your future.

Once you have crystal clarity around what it is that you want to experience in a relationship, you’ll be able to stand for the man and relationship you want instead of settling for whatever’s there.

It’s incredible what opens up when you’re able to accept and love yourself fully!

When you know what you want and can be yourself without reservation you feel happier and more comfortable with yourself because the real you is showing up!

Your intuition becomes stronger and you’re more and more able to make the decisions that are right for you quickly and without reservation or doubt.

And…

You’re able to attract the type of men that you WANT to be with and that want to be with the real you too!

If that’s something you want, then join us on Saturday for the Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass!

In this fun, interactive 3-hour workshop, you’ll:

Identify the barrier that have the fears and doubts show up instead of the right man
Gain Clarity about what you want in a relationship
Discover what men are looking for and what repels them
Manifest the life and love your heart desires for a LIFETIME

If that’s what you want – then click HERE to register for this free event!

Once you register, you’ll receive love notes throughout the rest of this week so you can receive support in love starting NOW and so you can come prepared on Saturday to meet the RIGHT man now!

We can’t wait to see you there!

How to BOOST Your Confidence to a Level TEN!

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 16, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Are you hard on yourself about things that have happened in the past?

Do you wonder why you keep attracting the wrong type of men into your life?

Do you wish you could stop making the same mistakes when it comes to relationships and love?

When the results you continue to experience in love and relationships are less than what you want – your confidence gets shaken.

And when you don’t do the work to get to the root of what has you continuing to create these experiences, there’s a chain of consequences that follow…

We call this chain the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle.

When something less than ideal happens and you say things to yourself like:

“How could I be so dumb?”

“When am I going to stop attracting liars?”

“When am I ever going to get it right?”

You create fears and love barriers which then has you create more of the same and your confidence and trust in yourself (and your ability to create the love you want) disintegrates.

Here’s what the Dysfunctional Dating Cycle looks like:

Event
You Make a Decision/Judgment About What Happened
Love Barrier (Fear) is Created
Dysfunctional Pattern is Created (Actions)
You Get Results that You Don’t Want
You Make Another Decision/Judgment About Yourself (Trust and Confidence is Eroded)
Another Limiting Belief (Fear) is Created

And the cycle repeats itself over and over!

Being in this cycle is what has you doubt yourself, not trust others, feel the need to “take a break” from dating and more.

So how do you shift this cycle and uplevel your confidence in yourself and others?

In order to stop the dysfunctional dating cycle and begin to experience yourself as the type of woman who can create what she wants in life and love, you must do the HeartWork!

When you get the results you want – your confidence and trust in yourself goes up!

1. See It – Acknowledge what’s not working. Get to the root of what is having you continue to create the results you don’t want.

2. Shift It – Do the HeartWork and learn how to replace the broken pieces with the RIGHT one.

This isn’t about tips and tricks.

This is about healing the pieces of your past that created those limiting beliefs that aren’t allowing you to create what you really want.

3. Experience It – When you free yourself from the fears you hold, you allow yourself to create new thoughts and behaviors, which creates different results and a new healthy pattern unfolds!

When you transform the dysfunctional patterns you have in love – you transform YOU.

Would you like to create this shift for yourself?

GOOD NEWS!

We’re dedicating 3 days in February to teach you how to do exactly this!

At the Love Vision Intensive 3-Day Event, you’ll experience a new level of healing that will allow you to truly move forward in confidence and trust to create the results in love that you want!

If you want…

2023 to be the year you’re in the relationship of your dreams
To know how to STOP the dysfunctional patterns
Your confidence to soar as you experience incredible results.

Then you NEED to join us for the Love Vision Intensive!

Yes – Claim my seat now!

If you want to be married next year – the next 3-6 months are critical.

Make a choice today to have 2023 be the year you create everything you’ve dreamed of!

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