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The Key to True Love

by heartsdesireintl | Nov 18, 2022 | Uncategorized

by Gladys Diaz

What’s the key to true love?

Many women think it lies in finding the right person or having a perfected list of qualities you’re looking for in a partner.

Some think it’s about where or how you meet the person, while others think the key is in “divine timing.”

What we’ve found from working with women of every age, from many countries, and all backgrounds is that there is one thing that truly separates the women that create the loving, intimate, long term relationship they desire and those who don’t.

The key to creating true love with another person is creating true love within yourself first.

Now, we’re not talking about self-care, though we do encourage doing all the things that fill you up and nourish your soul.

Self-love is deeper.

Self-love is about the relationship you have with yourself.

It’s the things you say about and to yourself.

It’s feeling comfortable with the most intimate parts of who you are.

It’s the beliefs you hold about yourself.

It’s the way you trust who you are and how you feel.

It’s loving and accepting every part of you, even the parts of you you’re afraid others may not like.

It’s bringing forgiveness and acceptance to your past.

True self-love creates confidence, trust and the ability to create the things you most deeply desire.

This is important whether you’re single, in a relationship, or in a relationship that isn’t everything you hoped it would be.

The relationship you have with yourself will be reflected in the relationships you create with other people.

We know that knowing exactly what to do and how to do it brings incredible amounts of confidence, joy, and empowerment, because the relationship you have with yourself is the ONE thing you have total control over.

Everything starts with you.

And that’s GREAT news!

When I was in the midst of my own journey to self-love, everything in my life looked perfect on the outside.

I had the job, I had great kids, I traveled with my girlfriends, and I was dating a lot — though none of those dating experiences ever went very far.

Men would always tell me that I had an amazing life and was an amazing woman, but that they knew they just couldn’t give me what I wanted.

I felt so confused and wondered why –

If my life was so awesome, how could I still come home at night and feel so miserable and lonely and alone?

Once I did the HeartWork I realized that all I wanted was someone to validate that I was lovable, when what I really needed was to create that love inside myself first.

Recognizing that belief, uncovering where it came from, and creating something different within myself was such a transformative experience that it’s literally why we started doing the work that we do.

We want every single woman to create the love and relationship that she deserves and desires, and we want it for you RIGHT NOW!

That’s why we put together this insane Black Friday bundle AND why we’re giving it to you early!

Imagine breaking through the things that are blocking you from creating new love and creating the opening to call in the relationship of your dreams NOW.

When women work with us they create new jobs, receive promotions, manifest new homes, and create the relationship of their dreams — all through the healing and transformation that comes through doing this HeartWork.

If you’re ready to create a deeply loving, profound, and powerful relationship with yourself that will have you create the life and love you really want, then grab this limited-time Black Friday Bundle today!

Click here to claim your New Love Bundle!

When you dive into all this bundle includes you’ll have everything you need to create everything your heart desires!

How You Could Be Kissing Your Man On New Years Eve!

by heartsdesireintl | Nov 7, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice

by Gladys Diaz

Do you like waiting for the things that you want?

If you’re like me – you don’t!

I don’t like waiting in lines. When I’m at a restaurant I want my food to come out fast…

And when I have a goal to create something that I really want – I do whatever it takes to make it happen now!

What about you?

What is a big goal you’ve had that you wish would just appear already!

I don’t know for sure, but since you’re reading this email I’m thinking that one of the desires of your heart is to be in the relationship of your dreams.

And not next year or 5 years from now…

You want it now!

Yes?

Here’s what I do know…

Sitting in complacency won’t work.

And complacency doesn’t always look like doing absolutely nothing.

Complacency could also look like:

Sitting and thinking about the goal
Planning out for the 10th time how you’re going to accomplish it
Processing why you haven’t created it yet
Talking to a friend about it.
Praying and waiting for God to make it happen.

Now, all of those things play a part in creating things that are important to you.

Thinking, planning, praying and support are all pieces to manifesting the things we want the most!

But nothing will actually be created without one thing…

ACTION!

Accomplishing goals takes ACTION.

And not just any action.

When it comes to dating, you may be doing all the things and still not be creating the results you want.

You’ve got to be taking the right actions!

What if in the next week, you could learn how to easily attract a really great man who also wants to be in a committed relationship with YOU?

What if, by December 31st, you could have met the man you’ll spend the rest of your life with?!

Miracles happen every single day so just think about how many miracles could happen in 8 weeks!

Yes – I’m ready to take action to create my miracle!

Our client Elena, met us during a challenge, came to an event and then 9 days later went on her first date with the man who’s now her husband. 9 months after the event she was married and they’re about to celebrate their one year anniversary this month!

Mary Beth came to an event last December and by December 31st had reconnected with someone she’d dated previously and now, less than a year later, she’s married too!

If your brain is saying, “That’s not possible for me” – ask yourself why?

Here’s the thing.

We’ve witnessed so many relationships be created following our events, we know it can happen for you too!

We’re on a mission to help 100 women be on the path to the relationships of their dreams by December 31st.

Will you be one of those women?

If you’re ready to stop putting off and waiting to be in the relationship of your dreams and want to get into action and create the love you dream of RIGHT NOW then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Event happening this weekend – November 12th-13th!

Claim Your Spot Here!

This is THE event to put you on the path to be in the relationship of your dreams by the end of the year.

This isn’t an event where you just come and sit, learn and process.

At this powerful 2-Day Intensive, you’ll be doing the work so that you leave the weekend READY, with the plan and the support you need, to be on the way to the relationship of your dreams!

By this time next Monday, you’ll be ready to:

Date successfully
Attract a man who’s a match for your values and vision
Create the relationship of your dreams because you have crystal clarity around what you want
Use the skills you’ve learned to attract the relationship of your dreams
Plus more!

Don’t keep putting this dream on hold.

Don’t be the woman who says, “I wish I would have done this two years ago.”

You get to be a woman who knows this is possible for you and knows how to shorten the gap between where you are now and being IN the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Join us now!

How to Create Success in EVERY Area of Life, Including Love!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 28, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Relationship, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you feel like you’re successful at just about everything in your life – except one thing?

When it comes to your career, you’re moving up and progressing phenomenally…

Your relationships with your children are flourishing…

You have beautiful friendships with girlfriends who you love spending time with…

But when it comes to creating the relationship of your dreams with a man you adore – it’s just not happening.

Before I met Arnie, I remember experiencing this in my own life.

I felt like I had so much going right for me and I was really enjoying the life I had created, but I still always felt like something was missing because I wasn’t being successful at love.

And for a while I convinced myself that I didn’t really want a relationship. That maybe it simply wasn’t in the cards for me and that I could be perfectly happy alone.

I also had a fear.

For my whole life I had always needed a man. I did an exercise at one point where I realized that I’d always had a boyfriend since the time I was 6 years old! That was a lot of years to feel like I NEEDED a man in order to be happy.

And I’d allowed that fear to convince me that I didn’t need a man – and I didn’t even want one.

But that wasn’t my truth.

Everything changed when I got really honest with myself –

And realized how resigned I’d become to some of the things I really did want –

Which included being in an extraordinary relationship with an incredible man!

I realized that it’s possible to live an incredible and successful life as a single woman AND desire and be actively engaged in creating the love and relationship you truly want.

Let me tell you how:

1) Lean Into Your Desire To Have It –

You can’t create what you don’t declare that you want. A woman who knows she’s worthy will not deny herself of what she truly wants. Be honest with yourself and decide that you get to have everything that you want – especially when it comes to love!

2) Be Intentional With Dating –

Let people in your life know that you’re available
Stop talking negatively about men to yourself (you know the thoughts in your head that come up) and with your girlfriends. (And if you notice your friends talking negatively about men around you, let them know that you’d prefer not to have those conversations anymore.)
Make sure you’re having out with people who are aligned with your vision and support you in creating that.
Create an online profile that really showcases you and who you are as a woman.
Focus on what you want to experience in the relationship of your dreams.

3) Take a Whole-hearted Approach.

Make sure your heart, spirit and soul are all available to welcome in this relationship you desire. If your heart and spirit are shut down in any way to what you’re saying you want – you won’t be able to create it.

If there’s anything in the way of you being able to full-heartedly believe you can have what you want – do the HeartWork to have the breakthrough!

There’s two months left of this year and it’s going to go by in a snap.

If you want to be the woman who feels confident being single, trusts herself to see what’s really in front of her and make the decisions that are best for her, and desires to be in the relationship of her dreams then you want to join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Event happening November 12th-13th!

This is THE event to put you on the path to be in the relationship of your dreams by the end of the year.

Grab Your Ticket Here!

You get to experience the love you have always wanted NOW by learning the skills that will have you attract the relationship of your dreams.

Don’t keep putting this dream on hold. Don’t be the woman who says, “I wish I would have done this two (or 10) years ago.”

You get to be a woman who knows this is possible for you and knows how to shorten the gap between where you are now and being IN the relationship you’ve always wanted.

Join us now!

The #1 Mistake Women Make When Communicating With Men and What To Do Instead!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 21, 2022 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Infidelity, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Relationship Advice

by Gladys Diaz

Do you understand men?

Or do you find yourself asking:

What the @*!# was he thinking?

Did he really just say that?

Why doesn’t he listen to me?

If you don’t feel seen, heard and understood when you’re communicating with your partner, and you’re wondering why you feel so disconnected, there’s a reason AND a solution!

AND this is not just for romantic relationships – this is important to remember in all of your relationships with men – fathers, brothers, and male colleagues at work.

First… It’s not personal. It’s biological!

Men aren’t just hairier, more muscular versions of women. (Surprise!)

There’s a reason why women can multi-task and men need to focus on one thing at a time.

There’s a reason why men jump in, interrupt and try to solve your problem before you’ve even shared what you wanted to say.

And there’s a reason why you get home from a date where you experienced so much fun and connection and then feel confused when he doesn’t ask you out again.

It’s not a matter of intelligence or not caring.

Men are actually wired differently.

And the differences in how they think, speak, and act can create major conflict and frustration in you and your relationship, as you feel like you can’t talk, communicate, or connect with each other.

The good news is that, even with all of these differences, it IS possible to feel completely seen, heard, understood and loved by your man (and for him to feel the same way).

This is why we created the Decoding Your Man Masterclass – which is happening Saturday, October 22nd at 12pm EST

If you haven’t registered yet, REGISTER HERE!

Our goal is for you to understand how the differences in our biology impact every level of our relationships, and how you can still feel empowered to have better communication, deeper connection, and real, lasting intimacy with the man you love.

It’s absolutely possible to share what you feel, think, and need in a way that leaves you BOTH feeling seen, heard, understood, and loved!

In this powerful masterclass, you’ll learn the Decoding Your Man Method and:

The #1 mistake women make when communicating with men, and what to do instead!
Discover the differences between the way men’s and women’s brains are wired and how that impacts communication and romance with the opposite sex
Learn the keys to avoiding arguments and misunderstandings so that you can create love and partnership in your relationship vs. working against each other
Unlock and master the secrets to knowing exactly what to say and do get the love and support you want from your partner
How to create a happy, loving, passionate relationship that lasts for a lifetime!
And so much more!

The reason why he says “I’m busy” when you try to ask him a question while he’s working is because men are wired to focus on one thing at a time.z

The reason why he jumps in and interrupts you when you’re simply wanting to be listened to is because he hears you’re in pain and wants to be your hero and solve your problem.

And the reason why you have an incredible date but then don’t see him again is because while you were thinking about and assessing the entire date in the moment (and don’t tell us you don’t do that, hehe) – he was 100% focused on making sure the date was fun and enjoyable for you and then thought out those things after.

Is your mind blown?

We’ll be explaining so many more questions like these on Saturday and you’ll smile each time you hear yourself saying, “Aha! That explains it!”

It’s not just about knowing the facts and understanding why men do what they do.

It’s also about knowing how to dance with them by having the skills and knowing how to communicate in a way that sets you both up to win.

If you want to learn how to communicate in a way so that you can be received and responded to in a healthy, supportive, loving and caring way, make sure to join us for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass by registering for FREE at the link below.

Register for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass!

From Confused to Confident: The Key to Trusting Yourself!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 7, 2022 | Uncategorized

by Gladys Diaz

Do you ever have a hard time deciding what to wear on a date, what to have for lunch or what to get a girlfriend for her birthday?

What about bigger decisions like whether or not to apply for that promotion, what car to buy, or how you invest your money?

For women who don’t trust themselves, any decision, big or small, takes the same level of emotional energy.

When you don’t trust yourself, you will exhaust yourself.

Does that sound familiar?

How do you feel about making decisions for yourself (big or small)?

Do you feel like you often feel stuck, overthink, or 2nd guess your choices?

Life becomes so much easier when you can trust yourself to make the right decision for you!

Learning to trust yourself boils down to your relationship with yourself. Strengthening your relationship with yourself will result in an easier time making decisions – decisions that work for you!

So how do you do that??

The top two things you can do to strengthen your relationship with yourself are:

Accept every part of yourself.

Ask:

Do you 100% accept yourself?
How fulfilled do you feel with your life?
What do you wish was different?

If there’s anything that you’re not 100% accepting about yourself – you get to do the HeartWork to accept it. You can’t trust someone who you don’t love – so you get to love yourself first!

Forgive Yourself.

Ask :

Is there anything you need to forgive yourself for?
Are you holding something from the past over your head?
Did a past decision not turn out the way you hoped it would that you need to let go of?

In order to make the best decisions you must weigh the choices that are in front of you and then make the decision that you think and feel will be best for you.

The reason why you must accept and forgive yourself first is so that once you make the decision you can stand by it. You’ll be able to trust that if things don’t turn out the way you wanted that you’ll make another decision in order to create the life that you want.

The next time you have a decision in front of you that’s weighing you down, ask yourself these questions:

What’s really having me sit on this decision?
What’s missing that’s causing me to not make a decision right now?
What is it costing me emotionally to stay in indecision?
What is it costing me physically?
What do I need to accept about myself?
What do I need to forgive myself for at this moment?

When you’re not making choices, you’re always going to be missing a level of fulfillment in your life.

You’ll feel like you’re missing out, you’ll regret choices you make or you’ll never feel aligned with your values and vision you have for your life.

As you transform the relationship you have with yourself and practice making strong decisions, your confidence will grow.

Confidence breeds more confidence and that creates deeper levels of trust.

And that’s really all there is to it.

If you’d like support with seeing where you may need to accept or forgive yourself, book a Love Breakthrough Call!

On this call our coaches will ask you what your goals are, ask the right questions to uncover what is really getting in the way and then give you 2-3 next best steps to take so you can step out of confusion and into clarity and confidence!

Click here to book a Love Breakthrough Call!

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