Why you can’t give up on love!

Why you can’t give up on love!

by Gladys Diaz

“I’m giving up on love. It’s just too hard.”

 

That’s probably of the most heartbreaking things to hear from my clients.  This usually comes after a bad date, a break-up, or after not having the kind of success they want in dating and relationships.

The sad part is that they don’t say they are giving up on dating or on meeting the right guy… They say,“I’m giving up on having the love I want.”

If you’ve been in that place, you know just how painful it can be. 

The disappointment and disillusion become just too much to bear and the thought of being alone for the rest of your life begins to seem less painful than believing that you can have the love you want and not seeing it happen yet.

This is why, when a client makes a comment like and still trusts us to help her do the work to get to the other side of her pain and resignation, and then reaches out to let us know she just got engaged, we just have to share it with the rest of the world!

 

So, today, we get to celebrate Kristin’s engagement!

 

Kristin worked with us as both private client and the Ready to Love Again program.  She experienced the pain of heartache and the empowerment that came with removing the love barriers that were standing in her way so that she could welcome new and extraordinary love into her life!

She met a great guy who loves her as much as she loves him and who wants to spend the rest of his life showing her just that!

When I received the picture of her beautiful ring, all I could do was cry!  There I was, in the middle of my son’s Boy Scouts Car Wash, laughing and crying at the same time!  And I didn’t care!

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I remembered just how hurt she had been and how she truly believed that she would not meet the man who would make her dreams come true!  But, thankfully, Kristin was courageous enough to trust her coaches who believed in her and in her dream and weren’t ready to let her give up!  She trusted us, did the work, and attracted the man of her dreams!

 

In her own words:

During the program, I was able to make a list of what I wanted to experience during courtship with a man.  I will tell you this: I have seen every one of those things I listed with this man!”

I don’t know what comes up for you when you read and hear me say over and over again that you CAN have the love your heart desires.

I don’t know if that makes you shrug your shoulders and roll your eyes in resignation or if it inspires you to believe and step forward in faith.

Here’s what I do know. It IS absolutely true and it IS possible for YOU. It really is.

You just have to be willing to break through your fears, doubts, and resignation and begin learning and practicing the skills that are going to have you attract and create the relationship your heart truly desires. 

And the best part is: You don’t have to do it alone.

As we announced last week, the Ready to Love Again Program is sold out and the doors are closed.  It doesn’t matter why you didn’t choose to join us then. Whatever fears and doubts got in the way are just the ones that are used to winning out over your faith.

 

Today is a new day, and today you get to choose your dreams over your fears!

 

If you want to learn more about the Ready to Love Again Program and/or private coaching, just click the link below and set up a time to talk.  During our conversation we’ll listen to what your individual goals are and let you know what we feel is the best next step for you to go in the direction of making your dream a reality!

Click here and let’s talk!

 

No matter what, promise me and yourself that you won’t give up on your dream of having the loving, passionate, intimate relationship your heart desires. 

There’s a reason that dream and desire is in your heart, and there is a way to make it come true!

It came true for Kristin.  It came true for Michelle and me.  And it CAN come true for you, too!

I know you’re hurt and unsure.  I know you wonder if this is really possible for you.  It is.  Kristin is just one of the hundreds of women we have helped to create the loving relationships of their dreams.  We didn’t let them give up on themselves or their dreams and we won’t give up on you or your dreams either!

Click here and let’s talk!

 

How to Get Ready to Love Again

by Gladys Diaz

 

I have to tell you that you have been on my mind constantly lately. 

I keep thinking about how important your love life is for you and how much you want to feel the love, happiness, and intimacy your heart desires.

If you’ve been reading some of our emails lately – which you probably have, if you’re reading this one – then you know that we are about to close the doors to our Ready to Love Again Program.

I really don’t want you to miss out on the opportunity to release yourself from the past and all of the Love Barriers that have been blocking love from your life so that you can finally have the love you want and deserve,

Since I haven’t had an opportunity to speak personally with everyone who is interested in creating a radical shift in their love life, I thought that I would shoot a video asking some of the most common questions I’ve been getting during my conversations with women who are wondering, “What do I need to move beyond heartache and get ready to love again?

 

In this video, I answer questions like:

  1. How can I really let go of the past so that I can move forward in my life?
  2. How do I stop repeating the same patterns in relationships?
  3. How do I know if the Ready to Love Again Program will work for me?
  4. I’ve done a lot of other programs. How is this program different?
  5. What if I still love my ex?

Now, you may have a question that is not answered in this video, so, if you want to ask me a question, you can either send me an email and ask me your question, or you can set up a time for us to talk

But don’t wait, because the program closes at midnight on Monday and I have a few special bonuses for the next 3 women who jump in now!

 

Watch the video now and I look forward to hearing from you!

 

 

Because time is running out and there are so many people wanting to get in before the doors close, there may not be that many sessions available.  If you don’t find a time that works for you, send me and email and we’ll figure something out!  You and your love life are way too important to put this off, so click here to schedule time to talk now!

How Your Thoughts Are Impacting More Than Your Love Life

by Gladys Diaz

 

Happy weekend!

 

I’ve been fighting off a bad cold this week, but I wanted to shoot a follow-up video to the one I sent you last week, because we got such great responses from it!

This week, we’re taking a look at how the thoughts that are stopping you from creating the amazing loving relationships you want are the same thoughts that are stopping you from moving forward in the other areas of your life, particularly your career!

 

Why is that? Watch the video and see!

 

 

The truth is that you have an amazing ability to create what it is you want in your life and, once you get to the work of transforming the doubts and limiting beliefs standing in your way, you CAN experience all of the love, happiness, and success your heart desires!

Watch the video and let me know what opens up for you!

 

Click here to watch Video 1: “What Are You Telling Yourself About Love?”

 

Click here to schedule time to “Do the Work!”

Take Your Heart Back to School!

Take Your Heart Back to School!

by Gladys Diaz

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Today is the first day of school for my kids and I’m really missing them!  The house seems so quiet, and I find myself counting down the hours to when I can go pick them up!

As much as I would have liked summer to have lasted a little longer, I’m also excited for them! They have no idea how many new and exciting lessons they are going to learn, all of the amazing things they are not even aware that they don’t know!  It’s like a whole new world is waiting just to be discovered!

I’m also excited for the ladies who are just getting started our Ready to Love Again program!  They, too, are beginning a new journey filled with thrilling lessons, awesome discoveries, and breakthroughs too big for them to even imagine!

Already, we are hearing wonderful feedback from what is opening up for them after just one call!

Here are some of the comments we’ve received!

 

“I actually feel different, just from one call…That can’t be?!?

I feel somehow empowered.  Yes, I am still chicken on many things, but today I’m somehow standing taller, like a have a back up team or something… My love twins!”

~ Dalia

 

 

“The other day I had an a-ha moment after a meditation that was life changing! Out of nowhere I recognized that the past 15 years was what it took of me to grow, evolve and accept myself without shame or judgments and have the courage to step up to the Love Twins and say, “Help me break my patterns that have kept me prisoner to my own denial.”

I thanked the 17 years, to be exact, as if they were a friend, and, in that moment, I felt like years just lifted off my shoulders. I no longer feel it’s too late for me to find my partner!

Thanks to your advice, Gladys, the other day I was open, friendly and smiled with a man in the grocery store. He said, “I hope to see you then soon now that you maybe shopping here again.”

I felt like it was a dress rehearsal or practice for opening up to love.  I won’t tell myself that I am too old to find a loving relationship anymore!
Thanks, Love Twins and sisters on this journey!”

~ Y.E.

 

Another participant who was struggling with attracting men into her life that were either (1) unavailable, or (2) she was not interested in has already met a guy who is (1) available and (2) as interested in her as she is in him!

 

While these results are fast, they are not entirely surprising to us, because we know the difference it makes to work with coaches in a program that is completely centered around YOU attracting the love and happiness your heart desires!

So, if you’re ready to take your heart back to school and learn the skills that lead to you creating the love that you want, take a moment right now to schedule a call to speak with one of us!

We are only keeping registration open for another week or two, or until the  last of the remaining 5 seats are taken – whichever comes first!

 

Our next call is this week, so make sure you schedule time to talk NOW so that you can join us!

The last thing you want is for another year (or 2, or 17) to go by with you wondering why it is that you haven’t been able to attract the love you desire and deserve. 

No one can do this work for you – it’s entirely up to you – but we are here to do the work with you and give you the support  that you need to break free from your love barriers and break through to the love and happiness that are waiting for you on the other side!

Click here now to schedule time to talk and see if this program is right for you!

No matter what you’ve been through, there is nothing standing in the way of you having the loving relationship you want except the stuff you’re holding onto from your past. Release the past and open your heart to new and extraordinary love!

Click here to schedule time to talk now!

 

How She Went from Heartbreak to Loving Again!

How She Went from Heartbreak to Loving Again!

by Gladys Diaz

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Nothing makes us happier than when we see one of our clients in a happy, loving relationship – especially when her belief when she started working with was that it would never happen for her!

This is what happened for our client, Melisa! Those of you who were on our list last year may have heard Melisa’s incredible coaching conversation with Michelle. Melisa had gotten out of a painful breakup with her boyfriend who had cheated on her and, a week later, was already with someone else.  She was feeling hurt and wondered if anyone would ever really love and accept her fully.

Melisa shared how she had a pattern of ignoring the red flags she saw early in relationships and attracting men who were liars, cheaters, and unavailable to be in a relationship with her, leading her to repeatedly experience heartache and pain.

What Melisa discovered during her session with Michelle was that she was playing a very real and active role in perpetuating this vicious cycle. She uncovered the limiting beliefs that were having her attract men who would not love and accept her, and it all began with the way she saw and was relating to herself because of her physical disability.

During the session, Michelle said the words to Melisa, “The good news is that, if you created all of that, you can create something else… Something authentic, true, and bigger than the disability you were born with, because you are so much more than that!”

Well, we’re happy to say that Melisa listened, not only to Michelle, but to her heart, and, after working with us last year, she is now in a very happy and loving relationship!

And she’ll be sharing more about the steps she took to attract new love into her life on the  “Ready to Love Again: Moving Beyond Heartache to Your Heart’s Desires” Webinar on Monday, July 20th!

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CLICK HERE to join us on Monday evening for the “Ready to Love Again” Webinar!

Join us on Monday night to hear the steps Melisa took to break free from her old familiar patterns and attract a man who is not only available but loves and accepts her exactly the way she is!

CLICK HERE to reserve your spot now!

 

Do you trust yourself when it comes to love?

Do you trust yourself when it comes to love?

by Gladys Diaz

Last night was rough.  We dropped my older son off at Church and I watched him leave on a big white bus without me – for a week!

Now, I know that there are millions of parents out there doing the same thing this summer. And I know he’ll have fun. And I know that it’s normal to miss him.

Knowing all of that simply didn’t lessen the pain and sadness of missing him last night.  It also didn’t lessen the fear I felt.

See, the truth is that, aside from missing him, I’m afraid.

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My son has Asperger’s Syndrome – a mild form of autism that affects his social skills – so it takes a lot of courage and faith for me to be able to let go and trust that he will be okay when I’m not there at his side.I’m afraid of not being there with him while he’s thousands of miles away.  I don’t like knowing that I won’t be there to protect and reassure him if something goes wrong or he makes a mistake. I won’t be there to buy him something I may have forgotten to pack.  I won’t be there if he needs or misses me.So, I cried myself to sleep last night, and I prayed a lot

As I prayed, I reminded myself that I trust myself enough to know that I made a good choice in letting him go on the trip. 

I reminded myself to trust the leaders who reassured me time and again that they would be looking out for him, would make sure he’s okay, and would keep me posted as to how he’s doing.

I reminded myself that this kid is extraordinary and never ceases to amaze me in how he does not let autism stop him – ever!  

 

His courage and willingness to try and move beyond his fears inspire me every day to trust myself and break through my own fears!

I reminded myself that I want my son to have these experiences because I want him to learn to trust himself, too. I want him to see that he is able to get through difficult times, that he’s capable of solving problems and making good choices, and that he can have fun, even if everything does not go exactly according to plan.  

So, in the end, I chose to trust!

So, what about you?

Where are you not trusting yourself or others?

Where are you allowing your fears to stop you and get in the way of experiencing the love and happiness you want and deserve?

Where are you not letting go and allowing yourself to take a risk when it comes to love?

I want to invite you to trust yourself. You may have made mistakes before, and maybe you made some choices that didn’t turn out exactly the way you thought they would, but you can learn to trust yourself again.

If you want to learn to trust yourself again but have questions about how to do that, I want to invite you to join us for a very special “Love Breakthrough” Live Q&A Call Michelle and I are hosting on Tuesday night at 9:00pm Eastern!

On this call we will be answering your questions about love, dating, and relationships.

No questions are off the table and we have a special gift for those who attend the call, so make sure you are there!

<<Click here to join us on this special call!>>

Listen, I know you’re scared.  I know that it can be scary to trust yourself enough to open your heart to someone enough to let them in.

I also know you deserve to love and be loved, and Michelle and I want to be there for you and help you break through your fears so that can begin to experience life and love on a whole new level! 

Helping you have the love you want is what we live for, so join us on Tuesday night!

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On this call, we will be answering YOUR questions about love, dating, and relationships.
  • What’s your greatest fear when it comes to love and relationships?
  • What patterns keep showing up in your relationships?
  • What’s causing you the biggest amount of pain right now in your love life?
  • Where do you feel “stuck” and unable to move forward, toward new love?