Marriage Isn’t the Real Goal – Here’s What Is.
by Gladys Diaz
Do you know what is the biggest mistake women make when it comes to dating?
Do you want to know the answer to why 50% of marriages in the United States fail?
Do you want to have a real conversation about what you can do to make sure you don’t become part of that statistic?
We’ve got you.
The biggest mistake women make while dating is being solely focused on finding the right man and not thinking about the lifetime that will follow.
Shortly after we started our coaching we noticed women getting amazing results – they were attracting really awesome men (which was no surprise to us!)
The problem was that then they would self-sabotage.
They would start doing the same things they did with the wrong men. The old patterns would resurface with the new, great guy, and there’d be a breakdown in the relationship.
That’s why we’re passionate about teaching women how to break through old patterns that are continuing to follow them around!
Because the real goal isn’t marriage.
The REAL goal is creating a life-time love.
Research has found that the most common reasons people give for their marriage ending are lack of commitment, too much arguing, infidelity, marrying too young, unrealistic expectations, lack of equality in the relationship, lack of preparation for marriage, and abuse.
We understand this first hand because Michelle’s 1st marriage ended in divorce and after my first husband passed away and I found Ric, my marriage almost ended also.
When I was first married to Ric things were so incredible!
I would lay in bed at night with tears of gratitude streaming down my face because I was so in awe that I’d found Ric. I was in love again and with an incredibly good man!
It was incredible because there’d been a time when I didn’t think that was possible.
But then, 6 years later, we started to fall apart.
I didn’t have the skills to create a life-long love.
I didn’t have the communication skills that work.
I thought I always had to be right.
I thought I was being honest and encouraging when I would tell him what he should be doing and how good he’d be at it.
I almost lost that beautiful marriage.
But then I became super committed to learning about how to create a lasting relationship.
I learned that being right wasn’t that important.
I learned how to say things in a way that Ric could hear.
I learned how to respect his thoughts, ideas and opinions – even if I didn’t agree with them!
I learned that doing the Heartwork that we now teach along with learning the skills I didn’t have naturally was the key to not only maintaining the beautiful relationship I had found with Ric – but make it stronger and stronger year after year!
And here we are 23 years later and happier than ever.
So how do you break through your love barriers that are having you sabotage your relationships?
- Get Curious
What are the patterns you’re seeing?
What isn’t working?
What are the things that keep showing up in your relationships that have them break down?
- Dive into where the sabotaging patterns came from.
Why does this pattern exist for you?
What is the fear or belief behind the behavior?
When did you first experience this?
- Learn what to do to replace the sabotaging pattern.
This is the part that most people miss! The only way to really break through a barrier in your life is to learn what to replace the old pattern with.
You have the ability to create a strong foundation for your relationship that you can keep growing and growing forever when you break through your love barriers and learn the skills that will have that relationship continue to grow in love, passion and respect for a life-time.
If you’re single and you’d like to attract the right man or if you’re in a relationship that you want to last forever, book a call with one of our coaches so you can have a breakthrough!
Schedule your Love Breakthrough Session
Come to the call knowing the pattern that you’re seeing and what you’re interested in creating so you can have a breakthrough!
You don’t need to be part of the 50% whose marriage will end in divorce. You can attract the right man and create a relationship together that will last a life-time – all you have to do is learn how.
