The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

by Gladys Diaz

Do you want to be in the relationship of your dreams – with the man who’s going to hold you, cherish you and enrich your life for the rest of his life?

Would you like to know the key to creating everything you want in love (and life!)? 

What we’re sharing with you today is what will empower you to show-up as the woman you truly are and make it possible for you to create and experience the life and love you want most.  

It impacts how you think, how you feel, how you interact with others, what you’re able to make a difference with and what ultimately what you create in life. 

The key to success in love (and life) is your mindset

If you’re experiencing a lack of power in a certain area of your life, it means that something’s off with your mindset. 

And if your mindset isn’t aligned with your vision or commitment, you’ll self-sabotage.

Let’s delve into the transformative power of mindset. 

Uncover Your Beliefs, Desires and the Conflict Between Them

When you uncover and replace the limiting beliefs that hold you back from dating success, you’re able to transform your mindset and the results you’re experiencing in love. 

Negative thoughts and beliefs undermine your self-worth and are what perpetuate self-sabotaging behaviors. 

So get curious

Here’s an exercise you can do to uncover your limiting beliefs and how they’re stopping you from creating what you want in life and love.

  1. Grab a piece of paper and make three columns. 
  2. At the top of the columns write these three headers… My Belief: My Mindset Around Relationships”, My Desire: My Love Vision”  and  The Conflict: What’s Not Aligned
  3. Think about the thoughts you have. Really think about the words that come to your mind and out of your mouth when you ask yourself what you think is in the way of you creating love.  – What is it for you?  – Is it your weight? Family Conflicts? Health Issues? Your financial situation? Where you live? The fact that you have kids? 
  4. After you write the belief in the first column, move over to the second column and write what it is you want to experience in this area of love.
  5. Take a step back and look at the belief and the desire and you’ll be able to clearly see what the conflict is. 

The conflict is what’s getting in the way of you creating the life you desire! 

When I was single I had a real conflict around who I was and what I wanted. I was always seeking validation which had me become a chameleon who couldn’t be authentic. 

And even though I was creating success at work, receiving promotions and accolades and money – it was never enough. 

And I attracted men into my life who were a match for that conflict. Men who were cheaters, who were lying to themselves (and me) about who they were and what they wanted and I didn’t understand why. 

Once I did the HeartWork, I replaced these old belief patterns about not being enough or deserving of what I really wanted with empowering beliefs that were aligned with my Love Vision. I attracted the most incredible man I’ve ever met, who’s now my husband! 

It came down to healing the conflict that was underneath my limiting beliefs so I could stop having the experience that I was living someone else’s life and create the full life and love I had imagined! 

Decide You Are Responsible to Shift Your Mindset

Once you uncover, see and understand the conflict, you must recognize yourself as the one responsible to shift it. 

No one else can do it for you! 

You have to be willing to do the HeartWork necessary to distinguish, dismantle and replace the limiting beliefs so you can create a winning mindset! 

These limiting beliefs usually are healed in layers, but that doesn’t mean it has to take a long time. 

Most women that work with us meet the man they end up marrying within 3-9 months of beginning their HeartWork

That’s how fast you can make these shifts! 

Creating a mindset that supports your growth and potential frees you and you become open and available for new possibilities! 

You empower yourself to embrace fulfilling relationships that lead to the Relationship of Your Dreams! 

Here’s the thing…

In just a couple of months, summer will be over and you’ll either have created the summer love that’s everything you’ve always wanted – or you won’t

But what if you could? 

What if there was a fast way to create your Love Vision?

This is what’s available to you when you grab the Irresistible Bundle that’s available now so you can join us at this year’s Irresistible Woman LIVE!

Here’s what you get inside the bundle:

💜 Ticket to the Irresistible Woman LIVE 3-Day Live Virtual Event – September 29th-October 1st, 2023 ($500 Value)

💜 Irresistible Woman Prep for Love Call ($200 Value) 

💜 Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass Recording ($300 Value)

After you grab your ticket, be ready to have a breakthrough and transform your life!

Click HERE to claim your Irresistible Bundle Now! 

You might think you have until September to get your ticket so why grab it now? 

I promise you the transformation will begin the moment you take responsibility for shifting your mindset and hit send on the form.

The key to successful dating truly lies within the power of your mindset. 

When you uncover the beliefs and conflicts keeping you stuck and commit to shifting your mindset you will cultivate self-confidence, embrace optimism, and ban limiting beliefs. 

You’ll heal your body, feel great, have financial security and freedom, live in a home that represents who you are and be able to celebrate the life you’ve created for yourself every single day with the man who will be your greatest champion.

With a transformed mindset, you’ll venture into the world of dating with renewed purpose, ready to unlock the door to truly experiencing the relationship of your dreams NOW!

 

How to Unlock the FUN, EASE and JOY of Dating:The Power of Dating with Purpose

How to Unlock the FUN, EASE and JOY of Dating:The Power of Dating with Purpose

by Gladys Diaz

Are you dating just to date? 

Or are you dating to meet your future husband

Most of the ladies in our community are tired of wasting their time and are ready to meet their husband now

And it’s possible! You can meet your husband THIS SUMMER!

How do I know? Because it happened to me!

One summer day I was stood up…

And that night I met my husband! If you would have told me that was going to happen – I would have said you were crazy! 

But I went out to a reggae club and before I walked in, I set an intention that I was going to have fun…

And man, I did! 

When people ask Ric what attracted him to me that night, he says it’s because I stood out because I was glowing and having so much fun.

Dating with Purpose

Now, in a world filled with swipe culture and fleeting encounters, dating with purpose is imperative to building meaningful connections. 

It involves a conscious decision to embark on a journey of self-discovery and genuine exploration, seeking relationships that align with your values and long-term goals. 

Dating with purpose emphasizes intentionality, personal growth, and the pursuit of connections that have the potential to flourish into fulfilling partnerships. 

It’s about being intentional about your dating choices and focusing on quality over quantity

Is it okay to go on lots of dates? 

Of course! 

But be willing to take the time to really get to know the men you’re dating so you can see beyond surface-level attractions.

When you date with purpose, you’re actively seeking relationships that align with your values, goals, and vision for the future. 

Clarifying Your Values and Goals

In order to date with purpose, it’s crucial to gain clarity about your values and goals and what you want to experience inside the relationship of your dreams. 

Take time to reflect on your personal values, what matters most to you, and what you’re looking for in a partner and relationship.  

  • What do you want to feel when you’re together? 
  • How do you want to feel when you’re apart? 
  • What do you enjoy doing together?
  • Who are you when you’re in his presence? 
  • Who is he? 

This self-reflection will serve as a compass, guiding you towards relationships that have the potential for long-term fulfillment.

Embrace Personal Growth

Dating with purpose goes beyond the pursuit of finding a partner; it’s also about personal growth and self-improvement. 

Dating is an opportunity to learn more about yourself, your preferences, and your boundaries. As you engage in meaningful connections, you’ll gain even more insights into your own desires and aspirations. 

Every interaction and relationship can serve as a valuable learning experience, enabling you to grow and evolve as an Irresistible Woman.

Intentional Dating and Patience

Dating with purpose requires investing time and energy into building genuine connections.

It’s not about having a timeline, which can make you feel anxious and frustrated.

Remember that dating with purpose isn’t about rushing into a relationship but rather about allowing connections to unfold naturally and authentically.

It involves actively engaging in conversations, asking meaningful questions, and truly listening when you’re on dates. Have conversations that go beyond the superficial small-talk, and delve into values, interests, and long-term compatibility. 

As you get to know men on a deeper level, you’re able to see if he’s a man who inspires you, challenges you intellectually, and supports your personal growth.

Practice vulnerability by expressing your desires, fears, and aspirations with potential partners. Allow yourself to be seen and understood, creating a foundation of trust and authenticity.

Navigating Setbacks and Rejections

Along the journey of dating with purpose, setbacks and rejections are inevitable, right?

Not every date and connection will be a perfect match, and that’s okay

Embrace these challenges as opportunities for growth and refinement. See them as stepping stones towards finding your perfect match! 

Remember, each experience teaches you something about yourself and what you truly desire in a relationship.

Now listen, there’s a lot of information out there about how to date, how not to date and how to find your husband! 

And if you feel like you keep attracting men that aren’t aligned with what you’re looking for, men that only want to “hang out” or aren’t looking for a committed relationship…

Or if there’s anything that you’ve been bumping up against that’s taking you off of your purpose, confusing you, or having you self-sabotage your ability to easily attract the man that you want to marry –  schedule a complimentary Love Breakthrough Session with one of our coaches.

On the call you’ll gain clarity, see what’s getting in your way and work through the setbacks so you can enjoy the journey of dating!

Our purpose and intention as your coaches is to provide you with coaching, training and support that will make the path to you attracting, meeting and marrying the man that you’re going to spend your life with easier, fun, and fulfilling! 

Because dating gets to be easy and fun! 

And you absolutely CAN meet your husband this summer

 

Swipe Right on Love: Dating Strategies for Busy Women

Swipe Right on Love: Dating Strategies for Busy Women

by Gladys Diaz

Do you struggle making time for your love life?

You may be a single mom and have a hard time finding a babysitter. 

Maybe you travel a lot for work and find it hard to make time for dating or your partner. 

Finding time for dating can feel challenging. 

Juggling work commitments, household responsibilities, and parenting duties can make it seem that there’s little room for personal endeavors. 

We get it. 

Both Gladys and I are entrepreneurs running multiple businesses, wives, mothers, and dog-moms. We have clients, team members and family to take care of – on top of making time for our own work-outs, self-care and rest.

I remember when I was a single mom trying to make it all work and wondering if it was possible to have it all… 

The thing to remember is that carving out time for romance is essential for self-care and building meaningful connections. 

In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and mindset shifts to help busy professionals and single moms make time for dating in their demanding lives.

#1:  Make Your Love Life and Dating a Top Priority in Your Life

The first thing you must do is make dating a top priority. Right up there with taking care of yourself.

If you don’t make your love life a priority then another summer goes by and you’re still alone. Another birthday comes and goes and you aren’t spending it with the one you love.

Let’s get rid of regret and start creating your dreams NOW!

Dating isn’t just another thing you have to do and until you start relating to it as self-care and not an item to be checked off your list – only then will you start enjoying it and start creating the results you want! 

#2: Prioritize Self-Care

As a single mom and professional, it’s crucial to prioritize self-care. When you don’t, you slowly begin to resent the people in your life that need you and want to spend time with you.

This puts you in low energy and makes it impossible to attract the things you want into your life! 

When you prioritize taking care of yourself, you boost your well-being AND enhance your ability to be present and engaged in dating. 

Set aside dedicated time each day and week for activities that rejuvenate you, such as exercise, meditating, praying, reading, pursuing a hobby (or sitting and doing nothing if that’s what you want to do)!

By nurturing your own happiness, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the complexities of dating while managing your all of your other responsibilities.

#3: Create Opportunities in Your Schedule to Date and Spend Time With Your Partner

Sometimes you get to be creative when you have a lot of priorities and are short on time. 

Remember how I said we get it? We do! 

Sometimes spending time together looks like long walks, movies and going to bed together.

And sometimes we get to be creative! 

If Arnie and I have a particularly full day, we’ll wake up 15  minutes early so we can sit on the porch and have our coffee together. 

Gladys and Ric go to lunch together every single Friday, which they’ve been doing for years! 

Why? 

Because prioritizing our relationships is important to us and it’s imperative to keeping the love alive!

If you’re looking at opportunities to meet men as something you dread or as a time-waster – it’s time to shift your mindset and embrace meeting men as something that is fun and worth it! 

#4: Create a Structure for Your Time and Manage Your Time Well

You’re precious, your time is precious and you get to manage it well. 

Prioritize your tasks, set realistic deadlines, plan dating into your calendar and create a structured schedule.

Look for pockets of time in your routine where you can squeeze in a date or a brief phone call with a potential partner. 

TIP: You don’t need to be juggling 15 dating apps and chatting with 100 men at a time – now that might feel overwhelming! 

You need to be on three dating apps with a profile that will attract the men who are a match for you! 

If you don’t have that or you need support with your mindset or time management – Schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with a Coach! 

As a busy professional and/or single mom, making time for dating can feel like an uphill battle. However, by shifting your mindset and making it a priority, prioritizing self-care, creating creative opportunities to date, creating a structure for it and managing your time well, you can successfully integrate dating into your busy life. 

Remember, finding love and nurturing relationships is a vital aspect of personal growth and happiness! 

And you get to have it ALL! 

 

Finding Mr. Right: Top 3 Tips to Attract the Right Kind of Man

Finding Mr. Right: Top 3 Tips to Attract the Right Kind of Man

by Gladys Diaz

In the vast sea of romantic possibilities, finding your perfect match can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack.

But it doesn’t have to feel that way!

With the right mindset and a few essential tips, you can navigate the dating world and attract the man who is the perfect match for you.

Below, we’ll share three valuable tips to support you to create the relationship that you’ve always wanted.

1. Check Your Energy

Your energy impacts your thoughts, behavior and what you do and don’t attract into your life. 

Trying to date and attract the right men to you while entertaining negative thoughts and energy is like trying to accelerate your car with the emergency brake on. 

 Low energy creates resistance and won’t allow you to attract the type of men you want.

 This resistance makes dating harder, take longer and has you wind up feeling exhausted. 

 And then you want to take a break from dating altogether! 

 On the flip side, if your energy is curious, open, receptive, present and grateful – you will attract the type of men you want and… 

 You’ll have a fun time even if the date doesn’t end up being the perfect match!

 For example – if you believe all men are cheaters… 

 You will literally repel all good men from you. They simply aren’t attracted to the energy that holds that belief.  

 Approach dating with optimism and a belief that the right person is out there for you. Surround yourself with positive influences and focus on the good in every interaction. 

 Your positive energy will be contagious and draw in those who appreciate your outlook on life.

2. Create Genuine Connections

Building meaningful connections is essential when looking for a long-lasting partnership.

Focus on quality over quantity when it comes to dating. Take the time to truly get to know someone, listen actively, and communicate openly. Authenticity and genuine connections will help you attract men who value the same things that you do.

If you find yourself trying to control the timeline or resisting any part of the dating process – get curious about why… 

Remember that finding your perfect match requires really getting to know someone – and that takes time. 

It’s important to remain patient throughout the process and as you prioritize authenticity and allow genuine connections to develop naturally – you’ll attract more of what you want!

Maybe you’re not clear on what you want…

3. Create Crystal Clarity on What you Want to Experience Inside the Relationship of Your Dreams

The third tip to creating the relationship of your dreams is to be crystal clear with yourself about what you want to experience inside the Relationship of Your Dreams.

Take some time to reflect on your values, interests, and long-term goals. Understanding your own needs and desires will guide you towards attracting someone who will be a great match for you.

If you want to spend this summer dating the man of your dreams, you get to start creating it now. 

The results you’re experiencing in dating (or any area of your life for that matter) right now are the consequences of the choices you made three months ago.

There’s nothing wrong with spending the whole summer dating.

But if you’d like to skip that, meet him and spend your summer dating him now then click below to get on our coaches calendar! 

Schedule a Love Breakthrough Call! 

When you do, our coaches will support you to gain clarity, see what’s in your blindspot and develop a plan that will work for you to create the relationship of your dreams this summer! 

Attracting the right kind of man requires a combination of high energy, a willingness to foster meaningful connections and crystal clarity on what you want. 

By following these three tips, you’ll be on your way to finding your perfect match! 

Stay true to yourself, embrace the journey, and trust that the universe has someone special in store for you. 

Rejection Hurts. Here’s How to Break Through Your Fear and Create Extraordinary Love NOW!

Rejection Hurts. Here’s How to Break Through Your Fear and Create Extraordinary Love NOW!

by Gladys Diaz

Do you have a fear of being hurt or rejected? 

If you don’t, you must be superhuman, because as human beings, we all deal with this!

And it doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, this message is for you!

It’s a common misconception that, once you get into a relationship, the fear of rejection or getting hurt goes away…

But that’s just not true. 

The fear of rejection creates barriers to feeling like yourself and feeling safe in a relationship.

It holds you back from creating deep, intimate connections – whether you’re already in a relationship or seeking to create one.

No matter the reason you have this fear or how it manifests for you, the impact it creates is the same.

Here’s how it works… 

You have a fear that something will or won’t happen in the future because of something that did or didn’t happen in the past. 

This fear then causes you to react in a certain way, which is a coping mechanism for not getting hurt. 

This may look like withdrawing from your partner or pulling back. 

It may look like being paralyzed and feeling like you can’t do or say anything because of your fear that it will go badly. 

It may look like pretending, acting as if everything is fine, when, actually, you’re feeling completely scared inside.

Here’s how it looked for me.

Because I was scared of being rejected, I was always trying to prove myself.

And it showed up in work, in my relationships, as a mother, everywhere.

My previous marriage was not a happy one. 

I remember how I would feel every time I’d come home and put the key up to the door to open it. 

Each time, I would stop and feel my chest tighten as I wondered what I was about to encounter on the other side of the door – and hoping that today might be a good day. 

My fear of being alone and needing to be accepted caused me to stay in that unhappy relationship where I was treated in ways that are now absolutely unimaginable to me.  

I would stay quiet and pretend that everything was fine, and then I couldn’t really understand what was real and what I really wanted. 

So why does this matter for you

Do you accept behavior or communication that isn’t aligned with what you want because you’re afraid of being rejected? 

Do you feel like your feelings won’t be validated because you fear you’ll be used or get hurt.

When fear is running the show you feel powerless, and that’s not the way we want you to feel!!

So how do you overcome these fears? 

The first thing you need to do is – recognize and acknowledge the fear

When you recognize yourself in the space where the fear is coming to the surface, ask yourself these two questions. 

  • What is it that you’re afraid of that’s stopping you from having the relationship you want to have? 
  • If I didn’t have this fear and was standing inside my power, who would I be that would allow me to make a different choice? 

When you acknowledge your fear, get curious about it and own it – you allow yourself to step into your power and know that you get to choose how you feel and behave. 

 The truth is…

You can either be run by your fears or run by your ability to choose a different experience. 

 When you don’t break through your fear, the fear chooses for you!

 When you transform yourself – YOU get to choose.

You get to create the Extraordinary Love that you imagine!

If you’d like to overcome your fear of rejection so you can get into the relationship of your dreams by this summer – yes, you read that right, THIS SUMMER… 

Then click HERE to schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with one of our fabulous Love Coaches.

Once you transform something, you don’t go back to it. 

 Take this opportunity for yourself to overcome the fears that are holding you back in love and relationships!

Three Steps to Create Your Big Goals NOW!

Three Steps to Create Your Big Goals NOW!

by Gladys Diaz

What were the goals you set in January?

Where did you want to be in your relationship?

We’ve entered the final three months of the year – Woah what?!

When you hear that… Do you feel confronted? Triggered? Excited? Ready?

One of the most important decisions you’ll ever make in your life is regarding your life partner and most of the women in our community have the desire to be married.

Is that a desire you have?

If you answered yes, then how do you stop putting off the dreams that you have? 

How do you not make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past? 

How do you stop thinking about how much time you’ve wasted and move forward to create the relationship of your dreams now?

Three Steps to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams NOW

1) Bring Acceptance to What Has Happened and Where You Are 

Continuing to spend time thinking of what you’ve done in the past is the #1 thing that keeps women stuck.

The only way to move forward and create something you desire for your future is to let go of energy from the past! Let go of who you were before you knew better, what you’ve always attracted, what you’ve put up with or what you thought was what you wanted or deserved. 

When you step out of regret your vibration and energy rises so you can attract a man from the energy of the woman you are now!

2) Have the Courage to Believe and Declare You Can Have it NOW

Sometimes when we have a big goal we continue to feel like the little girl in the pool with floaties on. We hang on to what we have always done or known in the past and it gives us a false sense of safety or security.

But nothing extraordinary ever came from staying safe!

In order to create the big goals you have for your life you must declare it!

Admit what you want! 

Be free to say it out loud so you will attract the life, adventure and love you desire!

Own what you want, believe you can have it, and declare it boldly through your words and actions!

3) Do What it Takes to Have It

The thing that makes the biggest difference when you’re working towards any dream or goal is consistent guided support and coaching.

You don’t know what you don’t know, so having someone there who knows exactly how to create your heart’s desires telling you exactly what you need to do next makes all the difference in the world!

Having someone there when you hit a wall of disappointment, resistance or fear to pick you up and give you your very next best step – that’s what’s going to have you create the relationship of your dreams!

If you haven’t had a call with one of our Love Breakthrough Coaches yet – click here to schedule a call now!

Our coaches are there for this very purpose – to give you your next best step and support you in taking action towards the extraordinary love that you dream of! They know the HeartWork inside and out and they’re here so you can move forward!

Give yourself this gift and know that you’re on your way.

Don’t hesitate. Don’t overthink it.

Simply click here to book a Love Breakthrough Call!