The Key to Connection: Communication Skills Every High-Value Woman Needs

The Key to Connection: Communication Skills Every High-Value Woman Needs

by | Dec 9, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Gratitude, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Marriage, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

As a high-achieving, driven woman, you’re no stranger to success. 

You’ve mastered the art of leading teams, making decisions under pressure, and reaching ambitious goals. 

Yet, when it comes to love and relationships, you might find yourself in unfamiliar territory—wondering why the skills that serve you so well in your career don’t seem to translate to the deeper, fulfilling connection you desire.

The truth is, powerful communication in love and relationships requires a different set of skills. 

It’s not about negotiation, commanding authority, or achieving outcomes; it’s about vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and authentic connection. And for many successful women, these skills are not only new—they can feel downright uncomfortable.

But here’s the good news: just like you learned to excel in your career, you can learn to master the skill of powerful communication in love and create the deep, meaningful relationship you deserve.

Why Communication Is the Foundation of Love

Communication is the heartbeat of any relationship. It’s how you express your needs, build trust, and navigate challenges. 

But here’s the catch: the way you communicate in relationships is often influenced by patterns you learned in childhood.

If you grew up in a home where your needs weren’t consistently met, you may have learned to:

  • Stay silent to avoid conflict.
  • Overachieve to feel worthy of love.
  • React defensively when you feel vulnerable.

These patterns can unconsciously shape your communication style in relationships today, leading to misunderstandings, emotional distance, or even attracting partners who reinforce these old wounds.

The Link Between Childhood Patterns and Communication Challenges

For the high-powered woman, childhood patterns often play out in subtle but impactful ways:

  • Overachieving for Validation: You might feel like you need to “earn” love by proving your worth, making it hard to ask for what you truly need.
  • Fear of Rejection: You may avoid expressing emotions, fearing they’ll make you seem “too much” or “too needy.”
  • Control as a Defense Mechanism: In an effort to protect yourself, you might try to control situations or avoid vulnerability altogether.

These patterns served a purpose in your past, helping you navigate challenging environments. 

But in your adult relationships, they can act as barriers to the connection and intimacy you truly crave.

The HeartWork™: Changing the Patterns

Changing these patterns requires what we call the HeartWork™—the deep, intentional process of uncovering your emotional triggers, healing old wounds, and learning new ways to communicate. 

Here’s how to start:

1. Reflect on Your Patterns

Take time to examine how your childhood experiences influence your communication style today. Ask yourself:

  • Do I avoid expressing my needs because I fear rejection?
  • Do I over-explain or justify myself to feel validated?
  • Do I shut down emotionally when I feel hurt?

Awareness is the first step toward change.

2. Reconnect with Your Worth

Remind yourself that your value is not tied to your achievements or how much you can “give” in a relationship. You’re worthy of love simply because you exist. 

When you approach communication from this place of confidence and worthiness, your interactions become more authentic and less defensive.

3. Practice Vulnerable Communication

Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the key to deeper connection. Start small:

  • Express how you feel instead of what you think.
  • Use “I” statements to own your emotions without blaming your partner.
  • Be open about your needs, even if it feels uncomfortable.

For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me,” instead try: “I feel unheard when I share something important, and it makes me feel disconnected. Can we talk about this?”

4. Set the Vision for Your Love Life

Imagine what you want your love life to look like in 2025. 

  • What kind of partner do you want to attract? 
  • How do you want to feel in your relationship? 

Write down your vision in detail, and include how you want communication to flow between you and your partner.

This clarity will not only guide your actions but also help you identify whether a relationship aligns with your goals.

What Mastering Communication Will Create for You

When you master the skill of powerful communication in love and relationships, you’ll experience:

  • Deeper Emotional Connection: Expressing your needs openly creates intimacy and trust.
  • Aligned Partnerships: Clear communication helps you attract a partner who matches your vision and values.
  • Confidence in Vulnerability: You’ll feel safe expressing your emotions without fear of judgment or rejection.
  • Resolution Over Reactivity: You’ll handle conflicts with grace, turning challenges into opportunities for growth.

Your Next Step: Taking Action

The love life you desire—a relationship where you feel seen, supported, and celebrated—isn’t out of reach. 

It starts with you. 

By mastering communication, breaking old patterns, and stepping into your worth, you create the space for the love and connection you’ve been craving.

Ask yourself:

  • What am I willing to let go of to create the relationship I deserve?
  • How can I prioritize doing the HeartWork™ to change my patterns?
  • What will my love life look like in 2025 if I start this work today?

Your Love Vision Starts Now

You’ve already proven that you can succeed in life. Now, it’s time to bring that same focus, intention, and confidence into your love life. 

Mastering the skill of powerful communication isn’t only about attracting a partner—it’s about creating a relationship that elevates every aspect of your life.

So, let this be the moment you decide: 2025 will be the year of Extraordinary Love.

As crazy as it may seem, this year is coming to a close. If you want to step into the New Year clear about your Love Vision and what to do to create it, then join us for the Unlimited Love Vision Workshop, next Tuesday, December 17th!

Click here to register! 

Your love story starts with the conversation you’re willing to have with yourself today. 💖

 

The Secret to Effortless Attraction: Activate Your Magnetic Essence

The Secret to Effortless Attraction: Activate Your Magnetic Essence

by | Nov 22, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Romance, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

As a high-achieving, successful woman, you’ve mastered the art of getting things done. 

Your ambition, focus, and drive have propelled you forward in your career, and you’re used to navigating life with purpose and determination. 

But when it comes to love, things might feel a little…different.

You’ve likely asked yourself, “Why doesn’t the same confidence and power I bring to my professional life translate to my love life?” 

The truth is, attracting extraordinary love requires a different kind of power—magnetic irresistibility.

The good news? 

Magnetic irresistibility isn’t something you’re born with; it’s a skill you can cultivate. And when you activate this powerful energy, you naturally attract the right kind of attention, connection, and partnership into your life.

What Is Magnetic Irresistibility?

Magnetic irresistibility is the ability to exude confidence, authenticity, and openness in a way that draws people toward you effortlessly. It’s not about playing games or pretending to be someone you’re not. Instead, it’s about:

  • Embracing your true self
  • Owning your worth unapologetically
  • Balancing your strength with vulnerability

When you embody these qualities, you create a natural pull that high-quality partners can’t resist. 

And the best part? You don’t have to chase love—it finds you.

Why Magnetic Irresistibility Matters

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of “doing” rather than “being.” As a successful woman, you’re used to setting goals, checking off tasks, and pushing forward. 

But in love, attraction isn’t about effort; it’s about energy.

Think of it this way:

  • Are you presenting yourself as someone open and inviting, or are you giving off the vibe that you’re too busy or too guarded?
  • Are you showing up authentically, or are you trying to fit into someone else’s expectations?

Magnetic irresistibility shifts the dynamic. It allows you to step into your power, not as a force of control, but as a presence of openness, confidence, and self-worth.

How to Activate Your Magnetic Irresistibility

The principles of magnetic irresistibility were beautifully outlined in a recent Love Chat with the Love Twins. Here are the steps you can take today to start activating this powerful energy:

1. Recognize Your Patterns

Many of us are operating on autopilot, playing out patterns we learned in childhood or past relationships. These might include:

  • Avoiding vulnerability out of fear of rejection.
  • Trying to “earn” love by over-giving or overachieving.
  • Building walls to protect yourself from potential hurt.

The first step in activating your magnetic irresistibility is to identify these patterns and begin to shift them.

2. Own Your Unique Essence

What makes you extraordinary? Your strength, intelligence, humor, kindness—these are the qualities that make you irresistible. 

When you fully embrace who you are, you radiate confidence that attracts the right kind of partner.

3. Balance Strength and Softness

High-achieving women often feel they need to be strong at all times, but true connection requires vulnerability. Magnetic irresistibility is about balancing your power with your ability to let someone in.

Ask yourself:

  • Where can I let my guard down a little?
  • How can I invite connection instead of control?

4. Show Up Authentically

Authenticity is magnetic. When you let go of trying to be perfect or impress others, you give people permission to see the real you—and the right partner will love you for exactly who you are.

5. Project an Energy of Openness

Your energy speaks louder than words. If you’re closed off or guarded, it can push potential partners away. Practice projecting an energy of openness by:

  • Smiling more.
  • Making eye contact.
  • Engaging in conversations with curiosity and interest.

The Secret to Lasting Connection

Magnetic irresistibility isn’t just about attracting someone—it’s about creating a connection that lasts. Here’s what makes the difference:

  • Clarity in Your Vision: Know what kind of relationship you want and don’t settle for anything less.
  • Healthy Boundaries: Attracting love doesn’t mean accepting behavior that doesn’t align with your values.
  • Consistency: Continue showing up as your authentic self, even after the initial excitement fades.

When you embody these principles, you don’t just attract love—you create a relationship that reflects the extraordinary woman you are.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

The skills and mindset shifts we’ve outlined here are just the beginning. Imagine what’s possible when you have the tools, support, and guidance to fully step into your magnetic irresistibility.

If you’re ready to take charge of your love life and make 2025 the year you create the relationship you’ve been dreaming of, we invite you to join us for more personal and transformational session.

💖 Your next step: Schedule a Love Breakthrough Session

This exclusive session is designed to help you:

  • Get clear on your next steps to your love vision.
  • Break through the patterns holding you back.
  • Activate your magnetic irresistibility to attract and create the extraordinary love you deserve.

Click here to schedule your call. 

Your Love Story Awaits

You’ve already proven that you can achieve great things in life. Now, it’s time to apply that same determination to your love life. The extraordinary relationship you desire isn’t just possible—it’s waiting for you to step into it.

By activating your magnetic irresistibility, you’ll create a powerful shift that draws the right partner into your life and sets the foundation for a love story that matches your ambition and vision.

Let’s make 2025 the year your love life transforms!

You’ve got this, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

 

Don’t Settle in Love: The Secret to Getting the Relationship You Truly Want

Don’t Settle in Love: The Secret to Getting the Relationship You Truly Want

by | Aug 20, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, heartache, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship Advice, Self-Love

by Gladys Diaz

Have you ever settled for less than what your heart truly desires?

Compromising your values, or worse, convincing yourself that what you’re getting is as good as it gets? 

Settling is the silent killer of dreams and desires. 

This is such an important topic because, let’s be real – it’s not just about romantic love; it’s about self-worth, self-respect, and ultimately, the quality of life you’re creating for yourself.

Why You Settle: The Fear That You Can’t Have What You Really Want

At the root of settling is a deep-seated fear: the fear that you can’t have the fullness that your heart desires. 

  • You may have been burned in the past. 
  • Maybe you’ve faced rejection, heartache, or betrayal. 

These fears try to convince you that this is as good as it gets, that there’s nothing you can do about it, and that you’re alone. 

Over time, these experiences chip away at your belief in what’s possible, creating a nagging voice in your head that says, “Maybe this is as good as it gets” or “This must be all I deserve.”

It’s that fear whispering in your ear that you should lower your expectations, make compromises, and stop asking for too much.

But here’s the truth: When you settle in love, you’re not just settling in relationships… 

You’re settling in life. 

You’re telling yourself that your dreams don’t matter, that your desires are too grand, too unrealistic. And that, my friend, is a lie.

The Vicious Cycle: How Settling Creates More Disappointment

When you settle, you set off a vicious cycle. 

You accept less than what you truly want, which leads to a string of disappointing experiences. These experiences then reinforce the very fears and limiting beliefs that caused you to settle in the first place.

Let’s break it down:

  1. You Settle: You accept a relationship that doesn’t truly fulfill you because you believe it’s the best you can get.
  2. You Experience Disappointment: Because you’ve settled, the relationship doesn’t meet your needs, and you feel unfulfilled, frustrated, and maybe even resentful.
  3. Your Beliefs Harden: The disappointment reinforces your belief that you can’t have what you truly want, which makes you more likely to settle again in the future.

And so the cycle continues, keeping you trapped in a loop of dissatisfaction and despair.

Breaking the Cycle: Get 100% Clear on What You Want

The first step to breaking this cycle is to get crystal clear on what you do want and why you’re settling for less. 

I’m not talking about some vague notion of “happiness” or “a good partner.” I’m talking about getting down to the nitty-gritty details of what your heart truly desires in a relationship.

  • What are your non-negotiables? 
  • What do you value most? 
  • What kind of love do you dream about when you’re lying in bed at night? 

Be specific. Be unapologetic. And most importantly, don’t let fear or past disappointments color your vision.

This clarity is crucial because it serves as your compass. Without it, you’re wandering aimlessly, easily swayed by fear, doubt, or the shiny distractions of relationships that seem “good enough” or “just for now.” 

But with it, you become unstoppable. You can confidently reject anything that doesn’t align with your vision because you know exactly what you’re aiming for.

The Difference Between Unrealistic Expectations and High Standards

Now, let’s clear up a common misconception: the difference between unrealistic expectations and high standards.

Unrealistic expectations are demands you place on a partner that are either impossible to meet or based on fantasy. They might involve expecting someone to always make you happy, never have flaws, or fulfill all your needs. 

Expectations often leave you waiting, hoping someone will rise to the occasion, and they’re a recipe for disappointment because no one is going to always say or do exactly what you want them to.

High standards, on the other hand, are non-negotiables that align with your core values and desires. They’re based on what you know you deserve and what you’re willing to give in return. High standards are about maintaining the integrity of your Love Vision and not compromising on what truly matters to you.

Having high standards doesn’t mean you’re being picky or difficult; it means you’re protecting your happiness, your future, and your heart. It means you know what you want and that you deserve the kind of relationship that will bring you joy, growth, and fulfillment.

Aligning Your Standards with What You Want to Experience

To stop settling in love, you need to align your standards with what you want to experience in dating and relationships. This means living in accordance with your values and being clear about the kind of love you want to create.

  1. Identify Your Core Values: What are the principles that matter most to you in a relationship? Honesty? Respect? Growth? 
  2. Set Non-Negotiables: These are the deal-breakers—the things you absolutely must have in a relationship. Don’t compromise on these, no matter what.
  3. Be Willing to Walk Away: If a relationship doesn’t meet your standards, have the courage to walk away. It’s better to be alone than to be in a relationship that isn’t what you truly want.
  4. Stay True to Your Vision: Don’t let fear or doubt cloud your judgment. Hold onto the vision of the love you want, and don’t settle for anything less.

Conclusion: Claim the Love You Deserve

Settling in love is a choice. 

It’s a choice to give in to fear, to compromise on your dreams, and to accept less than what you truly want. But it’s also a choice that you can stop making today.

By getting clear on what you want, distinguishing between unrealistic expectations and high standards, and aligning your standards with your core values, you can break the cycle of disappointment and create the love you deserve.

If you’d like support in getting clear on your values, what you want in a relationship, or how to walk away from something that you know in your heart isn’t what you want – book a call with our coaches.

On this Love Breakthrough Call, our team will work with you to create a step-by-step plan with you so you can stop settling and start creating exactly what you want and more!

Click HERE to Book Your Love Breakthrough Call Now!

Stand for the love that aligns with your heart’s desires, and don’t settle for anything less. Your future self will thank you.

 

How to Create Your Dream Love Story: Consistent Steps to Heartfelt Success!

How to Create Your Dream Love Story: Consistent Steps to Heartfelt Success!

by | Jul 5, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

Are you ready to revolutionize your love life and create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Imagine a life filled with passion, deep connection, and a partner who cherishes you every single day.

Sounds like a fairy tale, right? Well, it doesn’t have to be.

We’re here to tell you that you can manifest this reality, but it requires more than just hoping and dreaming. It demands clarity, determination, and consistent action. 

So how do you create that consistency, no matter what you may be experiencing in your daily life? 

1) Get Clear on What You Want

The first step to creating your love vision is to get crystal clear on what you want. Why? 

Your brain is always looking for what’s familiar, even if it’s not what you want, and when you go for comfort and familiarity, you repeat the past. You go back to the same guy, or you attract a new man who reminds you of someone from your past. 

Here’s the thing – Your Love Vision gets to be bigger than one guy or your past! 

So how do you get clear on what you want? 

Start by asking yourself some deep, introspective questions:

  • When I’m in the Relationship of My Dreams, what are three things you want to experience?
  • How do I want to feel in my relationship?
  • What values and interests should we share?

Take time to write these down. Be specific. 

Don’t just settle for “I want someone who loves me.” Dig deeper. Get detailed!

Do you want a relationship that’s full of adventure, support, and travel? 

A relationship where you both value personal growth, where you share a positive outlook on life and work together to create the life you truly want? 

Clarity is power. The more precise you are, the easier it is for the universe (and your subconscious mind) to align with your desires. When you know exactly what you want, you create a clear target to aim for.

2) Move Out of What’s Blocking You

Now that you know what you want, it’s time to clear the path. 

This step is all about identifying and removing the blocks that have been holding you back. These blocks can be limiting beliefs, past traumas, or even negative patterns you’ve picked up over the years.

Moving out of your blocks is like clearing the debris from a path; it allows you to walk smoothly towards your goal without tripping over old baggage.

If you’d like to identify your blocks, challenge beliefs that aren’t working, heal unresolved issues from the past that can sabotage your present and future relationships – then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass! 

In this Masterclass, we’ll support you in recognizing the challenges you’re experiencing right now that are getting in the way of your Love Vision and heal them so you can BE the women who can walk away from the things that aren’t aligned with what you want. 

So you can create your Love Vision NOW! Click HERE to Register! 

3) Become the Woman You’ve Always Wanted to Be

This step is about personal transformation. 

To attract the love you desire, you need to become the best version of yourself. It’s not about changing who you are, but about evolving into the person who naturally attracts and maintains a healthy, loving relationship.

Here’s how to get started: 

  • Self-Improvement: Invest in your personal growth. This can be through reading, attending seminars, or taking courses. Focus on areas that need improvement, such as communication skills, self-esteem, or emotional intelligence.
  • Self-Care: Prioritize your well-being. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are non-negotiables. When you feel good, you radiate confidence and positivity.
  • Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities that you love. This not only makes you more interesting but also allows you to meet like-minded individuals.

Becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be is about aligning your actions, thoughts, and feelings with the person you envision yourself to be. It’s about stepping into your power and living authentically.

4) Manifest It

Manifestation is the process of bringing your vision into reality through focused intention and action. It’s about harnessing the power of your mind to attract what you desire.

And it takes consistency. 

Now that sounds nice, but I probably don’t have to tell you that you can’t rely on willpower alone. 

You have a finite amount of willpower, and when it runs out, you will go back to what’s comfortable and familiar. Those old patterns and ways of being that may feel good, but aren’t working. 

So how do you stay consistent, when will-power runs out?  

When you don’t have the resources or energy to stay consistent with your Love Vision, make sure you do something every single day that makes you happy AND is good for you. – Something that connects you to your vision. 

Dedicate time each day to your love vision practices. 

Whether it’s morning visualization, taking time in a gratitude journal, going for a walk or a bike-ride, whatever makes you happy and gives you back energy.  Make it a absolute non-negotiable part of your day.

And remember to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Every step forward is a step closer to your goal!

Creating the love life you desire is a journey, not a sprint. It requires clarity, clearing your blocks, becoming your best self, and manifesting with intention. But most importantly, it requires consistency. 

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

In order to create your Love Vision, you must BE the woman who aligns with that vision AND take steps that will support you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams. 

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

If you’d like even more, join us next Saturday, July 20th for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass! 

This 3-hour exclusive training will support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

Click here to Register for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

Ready to transform your love life, {{contact.first_name}}? Start today, and watch your love vision become your reality.

 

 

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Alone to Adored: How Three Women Created Extraordinary Love and How YOU can TOO! 

Alone to Adored: How Three Women Created Extraordinary Love and How YOU can TOO! 

by | Aug 21, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, keeping the love alive, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

Last week on Love Chat with The Love Twins, three successful, inspiring, beautiful women joined us to share a little about their journey to creating Extraordinary Love. 

They shared how their participation in our coaching programs impacted their relationships, career, health, and finances!

All three of them have created the Relationship of their Dreams and between them they’ve: 

  • Created clarity in their careers
  • Bought houses
  • Healed a tumor
  • Received raises and bonuses
  • Created additional friendships
  • Healed relationships with mothers and sisters
  • Are working on starting families and so much more!

If you missed it, you can watch the replay by clicking HERE! 

Jenna had a belief that men couldn’t love. For years she’d continued the pattern of rushing into relationships, becoming invested before she even really knew the man, realized he wasn’t the one and then, heartbroken, spending time getting over and moving on from the toxic relationship.

Jada had a fear of being alone which led her to get physically intimate and attached to men too soon by not communicating her boundaries and then finding out he was married, not who he said he was and that once again, this was not it!  

And Roslyn believed she wasn’t enough, which had her date unavailable men and twist herself into a pretzel to try to become whatever he wanted. This caused unnecessary drama in her life and created a spiral of continually dwindling her self-confidence.

Through the coaching they were open to and the HeartWork they did, they were able to breakthrough their sabotaging patterns and create the love they had always wanted!

They learned how to:

  • Not take things personally
  • Communicate boundaries in relationships
  • Find their voice
  • Live their values
  • Be authentic
  • Share effectively with men
  • Just to name a few!

The awesome thing is that these are all things we’ll be teaching this weekend in the Decoding Your Man Masterclass!     

Jenna, Jada and Roslyn all shared that this particular masterclass was one of the things that made a big difference for them in their journey to extraordinary love.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this masterclass will expand your knowledge AND skills so you can communicate and understand the men in your life – and create the type of relationships you want!

If you want to experience more love, connection and intimacy then click HERE to register for the Decoding Your Man Masterclass happening this Saturday, August 26th!

This masterclass is worth over $500 and this Saturday, you have the opportunity to attend – on us! 

Don’t miss it!  

 

The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

by | Jul 20, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again

by Gladys Diaz

Do you want to be in the relationship of your dreams – with the man who’s going to hold you, cherish you and enrich your life for the rest of his life?

Would you like to know the key to creating everything you want in love (and life!)? 

What we’re sharing with you today is what will empower you to show-up as the woman you truly are and make it possible for you to create and experience the life and love you want most.  

It impacts how you think, how you feel, how you interact with others, what you’re able to make a difference with and what ultimately what you create in life. 

The key to success in love (and life) is your mindset. 

If you’re experiencing a lack of power in a certain area of your life, it means that something’s off with your mindset. 

And if your mindset isn’t aligned with your vision or commitment, you’ll self-sabotage.

Let’s delve into the transformative power of mindset. 

Uncover Your Beliefs, Desires and the Conflict Between Them

When you uncover and replace the limiting beliefs that hold you back from dating success, you’re able to transform your mindset and the results you’re experiencing in love. 

Negative thoughts and beliefs undermine your self-worth and are what perpetuate self-sabotaging behaviors. 

So get curious. 

Here’s an exercise you can do to uncover your limiting beliefs and how they’re stopping you from creating what you want in life and love.

  1. Grab a piece of paper and make three columns. 
  2. At the top of the columns write these three headers… “My Belief: My Mindset Around Relationships”, “My Desire: My Love Vision”  and  “The Conflict: What’s Not Aligned”
  3. Think about the thoughts you have. Really think about the words that come to your mind and out of your mouth when you ask yourself what you think is in the way of you creating love.  – What is it for you?  – Is it your weight? Family Conflicts? Health Issues? Your financial situation? Where you live? The fact that you have kids? 
  4. After you write the belief in the first column, move over to the second column and write what it is you want to experience in this area of love.
  5. Take a step back and look at the belief and the desire and you’ll be able to clearly see what the conflict is. 

The conflict is what’s getting in the way of you creating the life you desire! 

When I was single I had a real conflict around who I was and what I wanted. I was always seeking validation which had me become a chameleon who couldn’t be authentic. 

And even though I was creating success at work, receiving promotions and accolades and money – it was never enough. 

And I attracted men into my life who were a match for that conflict. Men who were cheaters, who were lying to themselves (and me) about who they were and what they wanted and I didn’t understand why. 

Once I did the HeartWork, I replaced these old belief patterns about not being enough or deserving of what I really wanted with empowering beliefs that were aligned with my Love Vision. I attracted the most incredible man I’ve ever met, who’s now my husband! 

It came down to healing the conflict that was underneath my limiting beliefs so I could stop having the experience that I was living someone else’s life and create the full life and love I had imagined! 

Decide You Are Responsible to Shift Your Mindset

Once you uncover, see and understand the conflict, you must recognize yourself as the one responsible to shift it. 

No one else can do it for you! 

You have to be willing to do the HeartWork necessary to distinguish, dismantle and replace the limiting beliefs so you can create a winning mindset! 

These limiting beliefs usually are healed in layers, but that doesn’t mean it has to take a long time. 

Most women that work with us meet the man they end up marrying within 3-9 months of beginning their HeartWork. 

That’s how fast you can make these shifts! 

Creating a mindset that supports your growth and potential frees you and you become open and available for new possibilities! 

You empower yourself to embrace fulfilling relationships that lead to the Relationship of Your Dreams! 

Here’s the thing…

In just a couple of months, summer will be over and you’ll either have created the summer love that’s everything you’ve always wanted – or you won’t. 

But what if you could? 

What if there was a fast way to create your Love Vision?

This is what’s available to you when you grab the Irresistible Bundle that’s available now so you can join us at this year’s Irresistible Woman LIVE!

Here’s what you get inside the bundle:

💜 Ticket to the Irresistible Woman LIVE 3-Day Live Virtual Event – September 29th-October 1st, 2023 ($500 Value)

💜 Irresistible Woman Prep for Love Call ($200 Value) 

💜 Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass Recording ($300 Value)

After you grab your ticket, be ready to have a breakthrough and transform your life!

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You might think you have until September to get your ticket so why grab it now? 

I promise you the transformation will begin the moment you take responsibility for shifting your mindset and hit send on the form.

The key to successful dating truly lies within the power of your mindset. 

When you uncover the beliefs and conflicts keeping you stuck and commit to shifting your mindset you will cultivate self-confidence, embrace optimism, and ban limiting beliefs. 

You’ll heal your body, feel great, have financial security and freedom, live in a home that represents who you are and be able to celebrate the life you’ve created for yourself every single day with the man who will be your greatest champion.

With a transformed mindset, you’ll venture into the world of dating with renewed purpose, ready to unlock the door to truly experiencing the relationship of your dreams NOW!