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How To Stop Self-Sabotaging and Attract the Right Man Now!

by heartsdesireintl | May 14, 2021 | breakups, Coaching, Dating, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Success

by Gladys Diaz

When it comes to attracting the right man, there are two camps that most women fall into. See if either of these sound familiar to you…

1. You keep meeting the wrong kind of men. Men that are non-committal, don’t know what they want, or just want to be friends-with-benefits.

You may even be attracting men who are abusive, narcissistic, or have another non-negotiable reason why they are not the right man for you.

OR…

2. You are attracting and meeting lots of good men, the “nice guys” that don’t have anything “wrong” with them, but it’s just not a love match for you.

Your personalities don’t match or, for some reason, you’re just not that into them.

Which situation do you find yourself in?

While you’re not to “blame”, it’s important to recognize that if you seem to keep meeting the same man in a different body and can’t seem to figure out why, you’re unconsciously creating this pattern.

We know how frustrating it is when you keep meeting men who lie or cheat or simply can’t give you what you want.

The thing is, there are things you’re not even aware of that are sabotaging you!

Recognizing this is what gives you the power to shift and start attracting the men that are 1) the type of good men you want to be attracting, and 2) the right man for YOU that you’ll fall in love with, too!

So… you may be asking yourself:

What will shift my level of magnetism so that I can attract a real relationship where there’s NO DOUBT that I’m with the man who’s right for me?

Who do I get to be in order to create a relationship that is fun, easy, low-stress, and creates joy, happiness and greater levels of strength in my life?

What will it take to attract the kind of man who will support and champion me- so that I know I no longer have to go through life alone?

Let us tell you this:

“Irritated” is not irresistible.

“Taking a break from dating” is not the answer.

Doing the same things over and over that aren’t working will never bring you the results you want.

Giving up is not a winning strategy.

Successful, driven women don’t give up.

They keep going and do whatever it takes to figure out what’s holding them back from reaching their goals and making their dreams a reality.

You probably do this in your business and with your career.

You probably do this with your health and fitness.

So why not put in the effort to discover what’s in the way of you having the type of love you desire?

A winning strategy involves three pieces:

💜 Knowing what to do

💜 Knowing when and how to do it

💜 Having someone whispering in your ear how to get the results you want faster.

Clarity and support lead to extraordinary results. Join us tomorrow so you can stop attracting the type of men and relationships you don’t want and start attracting the right man now!

If we can be straight blunt with you, It’s time to be as committed to yourself and your happiness as you want a man to be when you are in the relationship of your dreams!

If you’re ready to commit, then make sure you join us tomorrow for the Attract the RIGHT Man Webinar!

This 3-hour exclusive training is going to support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you are creating the relationship of your dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

Click here to register for the Attract the Right Man Webinar

Stop Dysfunctional Dating Patterns and Create the Love You Want Now

by heartsdesireintl | May 4, 2021 | Coaching, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Are you ready to end your dysfunctional dating patterns?

You know… those patterns that keep repeating themselves, causing heartache relationship after relationship?

Are you ready to stop tolerating less than the results you want from the relationships you keep attracting?

Are you ready to feel free, have fun in dating, and create real love?

Are you ready to be in a relationship with someone you feel completely connected to and who’s 100% in love and committed to you?

If you aren’t experiencing the results you want in your dating life, chances are you have some dysfunctional patterns that you NEED to shift before you can create the relationship of your dreams.

Not sure if you have a dysfunctional dating pattern?

Here’s a hint: If something happens 3 or more times, it’s a pattern!

Here’s another hint: Dysfunctional patterns always have a fear and a commitment behind them. They always show up because of a need that’s not being met.

Can you relate to continually attracting…

relationships that start strong and then the man ends it for another woman?
men who aren’t available?
men who say they’ll do something, then don’t?
attracting long-distance relationships that don’t go anywhere or end up being scams?
attracting men who aren’t trustworthy?

These are just a few.

What are your patterns?

So, how do you end the dysfunctional cycle these patterns create?

Identify the fear feeding the pattern.

What is the fear that’s beneath your pattern?

What’s the limiting belief underneath the fear?

The fear you have fuels the limiting belief, which then creates the pattern.

The result you get confirms the fear and belief and continues the pattern.

It’s a vicious cycle!!

2. Get to the source of where the fear started for you.

What experience or situation first created this experience?

What are you getting out of continuing this pattern?

How does it strengthen your fears and limiting beliefs?

Once you have uncovered the fear and the source of the fear, then you can break through the pattern so that you no longer carry the energy that keeps attracting it to you.

When you’ve transformed these fears and limiting beliefs, then you get that you can be 100% in love with YOU, and you come into your irresistible essence!

You have a deep feeling of worthiness, you know that you are loveable, you’re alluring, authentic, and so much more!

The fact is, low-quality men will not be attracted to you when you’re in your high-vibe Irresistible Essence.

They simply won’t.

When you master the process of healing and disappearing the fears and limiting beliefs you have, then, and only then, can you actually transform your experience and create the results you want.

If you want to have a massive breakthrough and shift your dating experience FAST then you NEED to join us at the Unleash Your Irresistible Essence Retreat!

This three-day, immersive experience is designed to create a radical shift in your dating life.

After attending the retreat, you will:

have the confidence and clarity you need to create the results you desire NOW
have dismantled and replaced your dysfunctional patterns
have unleashed the power to create the extraordinary love your heart desires

We have very few seats left, so don’t think or second-guess yourself out of this incredible opportunity.

Take action now.

Claim your spot for the Unleash Your Irresistible Essence Retreat

Once you break these patterns, you’ll stop attracting the wrong kind of men and have these dysfunctional experiences once and for all.

Imagine how amazing THAT will be!

Register to join us now.

Stop the Dysfunction and Have Fun Dating Today!

by heartsdesireintl | Apr 19, 2021 | Coaching, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship Advice, Self-Love, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Do you feel blocked, stopped, stuck or frustrated about dating?

Do you feel like you want to meet a wonderful man, but the dating process isn’t worth it?

Does it seem like dating just isn’t working for you?

The thing is, as human beings, we don’t like to play games we’re not winning.

So, why would you want to continue to date if you’re not getting the results — the kind of dates, the amazing relationship, and the experience you’re looking for?

Guess what?

Dating doesn’t have to be so hard.

Dating can be fun, exciting and easy!

When you’re experiencing joy, happiness and excitement, your energy shows it and you attract more of that into your life.

The opposite is true when you’re not.

If you’re experiencing frustration, anxiety and disappointment, then your energy shows that, and you’ll attract more frustrating, anxiety-producing and disappointing experiences in dating.

If your goal is to find the right man and create a beautiful, intimate, passionate, honest, supportive relationship, why not enjoy the process of getting there?

Because, that’s really the only way you’re going to create success, anyway.

So, how do you break the dysfunctional dating patterns that are sabotaging your attempts at creating the relationship of your dreams?

Be honest with yourself and get 100% clear on what you want.

Do you want to create a loving, supportive, honest relationship? Say so.

Do you want to get married again? Say so.

Do you simply want to create a long-term relating relationship so you can stop dating? Say so. 🙂

If you’re not being honest about what you really want, you know it. And underneath that knowing is a fear of NOT getting what you want that has you ignore what you’re really feeling. And you’ll hear, see, and interpret everything you experience in dating through that fear.

When you’re 100% honest with yourself and get clear on what you really want, then, and only then, will you be able to start attracting that into your life.

Trust yourself.

Just because you had a bad experience or didn’t listen to your gut in the past, doesn’t mean your intuition is broken.

When you don’t trust yourself to do the right thing and make the best decisions, then you’ll look for clarity and validation outside yourself.

That leaves you powerless and simply doesn’t work.

When you do the HeartWork to replace the fears that have you not trust yourself, you take back your power. You’re able to clearly hear and see the bells, signals and red flags and take the steps you need to take so that you’re not wasting your time with the wrong person..

Have faith that what you want can actually happen.

This isn’t so much about who or what you believe in as much as it is about having faith and hope in a future that contains everything that you want.

The only way to create the relationship of your dreams is to believe — really believe — that it can happen and that you will be able to create it.

If you’re struggling with any of these things, or simply feel like the dating game isn’t bringing you the results that you want, then we have something for you!

(Drumroll….)

Join us this week for the Dating Detox 7-Day Challenge, we’re starting on Monday, April 19th!!

During these 7 days we’re going to share with you the most effective, clear and proven steps that we have personally used and have shared with hundreds of women around the world that have allowed them to shift from being single and lonely to being successful in love!

Join the Dating Detox Challenge Now!

Things really can change in 7 days or less!

If you’re feeling blocked, stopped, stuck or frustrated with dating and your love life, then you want to click right now and join us for this detox!

Get clear on what you want, trust yourself, and believe that you can create the relationship of your dreams now.

We’re going to show you exactly how to do that!

Join the Dating Detox Challenge Now!

Online Dating Profiles to Attract the Right Man

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 17, 2020 | Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, heartache, keeping the love alive, Love, Relationship Advice, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Does this ever happen to you?

You sit down to relax and watch your favorite television show. During the commercial break, you open up your favorite online dating app and start scrolling or swiping left and right.

You notice you have an alert at the top saying that you’ve got unread messages, so you look into your inbox and find a dozen messages from men.

You feel excited, but as you start going through them, you start to feel disappointed, and the disappointment leads to straight up frustration, and these thoughts start swarming through your head…

Why am I not attracting the kind of men I’m looking for?

How come I keep wasting my time on this app?

Do I need to change my profile? What would I even change?

Is online dating ever going to work for me?!

Sound familiar?

This is a scenario we know plays out for women all the time, and we know that after months of swiping and going through profiles and messages and nothing coming from it, you can start to get discouraged and frustrated.

We want you to know that you can have a fun, exciting and successful experience dating online! It’s the number one way people are meeting each other (especially right now, as we continue being at the effect of the pandemic)… and it works!

The truth is, you’re not frustrated with online dating. You’re frustrated with the results you’re getting.

If you were matching with, talking to and meeting 10 guys a week that were all saying and doing the things that you want to hear and enjoy, would you be frustrated?

Of course not!

It’s frustrating meeting a whole bunch of guys you don’t want to meet. No one, especially successful and attractive women like you likes wasting her time.

So what if it was different?

We want to share with you how your “How come I keep wasting time on this app?” can change to “I can’t wait to see who I’m going to meet next!”

Tip number one is that your profile matters. It’s the first impression a stranger has of you, and it’s what men go off of to make the decision of whether or not they want to get to know you further.

Research shows that you have 3-6 seconds to capture someone’s attention before they scroll or swipe, so you want to make sure that it immediately captures who you really are.

You want to make sure that potential men that would be right for you will swipe for you based on what they see, what they read, and how they feel while viewing your profile.

It’s about making sure that who you’re being and what you’re saying and doing are aligned.

It’s about knowing what to share (and how much to share) to attract the right men to you.

It’s about being in the energy and having the skills and knowledge to put together the profile that will give you the experience and results you want!

So, if you’re ready to shift your experience of online dating, join us Saturday for the Ultimate Attraction Online Dating Profile Workshop!

We’re going to be teaching you exactly what you need to know to have clarity around what to do before, during and after you create your online dating profile so that you attract the high-quality, commitment-minded, ready-for-love men who will are ready to partner with you in creating the relationship of your dreams!

We’ll be answering your questions, giving you coaching and having hands-on activities so that you walk away with a profile that starts giving you the results you’ve been waiting for.

Have Online Dating Work for you Now!

In this hands-on, interactive workshop on how to attract the RIGHT man online, you’ll discover:

what to do before you ever type the first word or post the first picture on your profile that will make the difference between whether you attract the right man or not
what to put in your profile to make sure you’re attracting a man who is a perfect match for you
how to make sure your profile gets noticed by the right guys, not the ones who want to play games or be pen pals
and more!

Stop wasting your time attracting the wrong men online and learn how to create a profile that attracts the high quality, commitment-minded man you want to meet, get to know and marry!

Register Here!

Extraordinary Success AND Extraordinary Love!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 15, 2020 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship Advice, Success, Successful Women

4by Gladys Diaz

There are many women who believe they have to choose between having a successful business or a great relationship. They truly don’t believe it’s possible to have both.

What do you believe?

Here’s the deal: if you believe that you can’t have both, you are living in a scarcity conversation, and you’re actually blocking the success you could be experiencing in BOTH!

This week on Love Chat with the Love Twins, we featured some incredible women, colleagues and dear friends of ours, who are rocking it in their business as well as their love lives. Through these conversations, we really highlighted how not only is it possible for you to have both – but it actually makes all of it even better!

In one of the interviews, we got to hear from Amy Yamada’s partner, Ken, who shared his experience as a man being in partnership with such an incredible and successful woman!

High-quality men want to support, be in contribution to, and pour into a high-quality woman. Ken shared how much more attracted he was to Amy knowing that she was an entrepreneur and motivational speaker.

For her, at first, she felt uneasy sharing about her business with him for fear of being in here “masculine” energy. But when she decided to lean into being her authentic self, which includes being an entrepreneur , it allowed him to really see her, and it ended up being one of the things that most attracted him to her.

He said he simply wouldn’t have been attracted to her if she had not led with that.

NOT the fact that she was a business woman, but that she was AUTHENTIC.

What more proof do you need, ladies?!

Men want to support us.

I’ll never forget, years back, when I was crying – sitting in a restaurant with tears flowing down my face because I’d just been on off the phone with my business coach. I was feeling so defeated that I didn’t know what all of the tech terms meant or what all of this software I needed was, and didn’t know how I was ever going to be successful in my business.

Ric saw the opportunity, and he literally learned how to create funnels, build websites and do all-things-tech related to our business, simply as a result of wanting to support me and my dream. All these years later and I can’t even imagine where I, or Hearts Desire International for that matter, would be without him. (And now he has a great business of his own doing this for other people, too! Talk about a win-win!)

The other reason why men love being with high-quality, successful, driven women is because it inspires them to be more.

I’ll also never forget the day when I heard Ric, my very soft-spoken husband, stand on one of our stages at an event and said, “Seeing how committed Gladys is to her own transformation inspires me to become a better man.”

Definitely another tearful moment for me!

Until then I knew he admired the things I did, my career, and professional accomplishments But that day, he was talking about what he admired about ME and the woman I am! No award,degree, or certificate can hold a candle to that!

The absolutely beautiful thing about creating a partnership with someone who loves and admires you for your determination and commitment in the world is what you can create together.

It also gives you the opportunity to lean on one another and lift each other up when you have days where you’re having a hard time seeing it in yourself.

Supportive partners see you, experience you and hear you in a way that you sometimes fail to see, and they can share your life, your success, and all of the ordinary-extraordinary moments with you as you continue to strive for success in business and love.

If you have a limiting belief that you need to choose between business and love then we have something very important to share with you.

In just two weeks we’ll be hostingThe Irresistible Woman LIVE virtual live event, and you won’t want to miss it!!

This 3-day, highly interactive, and transformational live virtual event for smart, successful women who want to stop wasting time and want to start having SUCCESS in love!

This is one of the fastest and most effective ways to uncover what’s been getting in the way of you having the happy, loving, deeply connected relationship your heart desires!

The event is happening on October 23rd-25th, and we can’t wait to have you there!

In fact, we’re so committed to having you there, that, for Birthday Week, we’re lowering the price of the ticket to just $47!!! (It’s our birthday, and will give you gifts if we want to!!!)

Click HERE to grab your ticket NOW!

When you know that you are a loveable woman, then you can attract someone who believes that, too.

When you’re honest and authentic about who you are, business success and all, that’s when you’ll find the man who will love you completely.

When you trust yourself, love yourself, and know that you’re capable of creating an amazing relationship in your life, you WILL!

Join us to discover this for yourself!

This is what I know was true for me and, it is true for you, too.

True or False? Men are Intimidated by Strong and Successful Women

by heartsdesireintl | Sep 11, 2020 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Relationship, Relationship Advice, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

True or False?

Men are intimidated and turned off by strong and successful women.

False!

It is a myth and limiting belief that men are intimidated by strong women.

The truth that we have discovered through working with hundreds of women is that you can be a strong, powerful and successful woman and create the loving, connected passionate relationship that you desire.

The key is creating an interdependent relationship and developing the Irresistible Essences in yourself that are attractive to a man.

A man admires and appreciates confidence and happiness in a woman. He loves knowing that the woman he’s with doesn’t depend on him for her happiness, but that he gets to come to the relationship and bring even more happiness into her life.

What a confident, high-quality man doesn’t like is being with a woman who tries to control him, change him, or show and tell him how he should do things. What he doesn’t like is when the woman constantly tries to take the lead.

That’s a total turn off.

There’s a big difference between the woman who is strong, successful, and capable and a woman who is intimidating, forceful, demanding or overbearing.

If you have a tendency to show up in the more forceful ways of being, you may have a pattern of control that you get to look at.

Ask yourself:
What’s going has me switch into “control mode??
Why is that showing up for me?
What am I afraid will or won’t happen if I’m not in control of a person or situation?

Fear wears many masks, and control is a big one.

Do you fear he’ll leave?

Do you fear you won’t be enough and, therefore, you’re always trying to prove something to yourself, him, and others?

Do you fear things won’t go the way you want them to if you don’t control the situation?

Let me tell you as a former control freak: It’s exhausting to try to be in control of everyone and everything!
It’s absolutely draining to be constantly trying to control your man, or the whole universe, for that matter!

Life is so much better when you let go and learn to allow and go with the flow.

I can tell you from my experience as a love coach that the best and most fulfilling way to have the most wonderful experience in a relationship is to do less.

That’s right!

Now… If the thought of not controlling anything scares you to your core, not to worry. There are still several thing you have 100% control over:

You get to be in control of your thoughts.

You get to be in control of your words.

You get to be in control of your behavior.

Everything else? Just let it go!

High-quality men, the kind I know you’re looking for, want to be with a woman who’s passionate, is up to big things in her life, and is the kind of woman who makes amazing things happen.

High-quality men have passions of their own and are up to big things, too.

The only men who aren’t turned off by a woman that tries to control everything are men who aren’t doing things with their own lives and want someone who will tell them what to do.

And we know you aren’t looking for a man like that!

It’s a practice of learning how to let go showing your partner that you trust him, and then letting things be.

It’s a practice because it takes effort – but it’s so worth it!

If you’re wanting to experience even more trust, openness and joy in dating and relationships, then you absolutely want to make sure that you join us at the Irresistible Woman LIVE Virtual Live Event!

This 3-day, highly interactive, and transformational live virtual event is for strong, successful, powerful women who want SUCCESS in love now! This event is one of the fastest and most effective ways to uncover what’s been getting in the way of you having the happy, loving, deeply connected relationship your heart desires!

The regular ticket price is $497 – but right now it’s only $97 and that price ends TONIGHT at Midnight EST!

So if you know you want to attend and grab a seat for this super-low price, grab your ticket now!

Click HERE to grab your ticket NOW!

The other reason you don’t want to wait is because this year we’ll be sending you a special “LOVE Box” filled with gifts and materials you’ll be using during the event, and we only ordered a certain number of them. Once they’re gone, they’re GONE

So again, if you already know you want to attend and have a life-changing experience where you and your love life will never be the same, grab your ticket and your LOVE Box now!

Click HERE to grab your ticket NOW!

Whether you’ve come to the Irresistible Woman Live event in the past or not, this year is going to be very special, because there are things we can virtually that we couldn’t do before.

PLUS, there are people who would not normally be able to fly across the country, or across the world, who can come this year – so we know it’s going to be extra amazing!

This is a really special opportunity to share a powerful weekend together and have the transformation of a lifetime, and we can’t wait to see you there!

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