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How to Create Your Dream Love Story: Consistent Steps to Heartfelt Success!

by heartsdesireintl | Jul 5, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

Are you ready to revolutionize your love life and create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Imagine a life filled with passion, deep connection, and a partner who cherishes you every single day.

Sounds like a fairy tale, right? Well, it doesn’t have to be.

We’re here to tell you that you can manifest this reality, but it requires more than just hoping and dreaming. It demands clarity, determination, and consistent action.

So how do you create that consistency, no matter what you may be experiencing in your daily life?

1) Get Clear on What You Want

The first step to creating your love vision is to get crystal clear on what you want. Why?

Your brain is always looking for what’s familiar, even if it’s not what you want, and when you go for comfort and familiarity, you repeat the past. You go back to the same guy, or you attract a new man who reminds you of someone from your past.

Here’s the thing – Your Love Vision gets to be bigger than one guy or your past!

So how do you get clear on what you want?

Start by asking yourself some deep, introspective questions:

When I’m in the Relationship of My Dreams, what are three things you want to experience?
How do I want to feel in my relationship?
What values and interests should we share?

Take time to write these down. Be specific.

Don’t just settle for “I want someone who loves me.” Dig deeper. Get detailed!

Do you want a relationship that’s full of adventure, support, and travel?

A relationship where you both value personal growth, where you share a positive outlook on life and work together to create the life you truly want?

Clarity is power. The more precise you are, the easier it is for the universe (and your subconscious mind) to align with your desires. When you know exactly what you want, you create a clear target to aim for.

2) Move Out of What’s Blocking You

Now that you know what you want, it’s time to clear the path.

This step is all about identifying and removing the blocks that have been holding you back. These blocks can be limiting beliefs, past traumas, or even negative patterns you’ve picked up over the years.

Moving out of your blocks is like clearing the debris from a path; it allows you to walk smoothly towards your goal without tripping over old baggage.

If you’d like to identify your blocks, challenge beliefs that aren’t working, heal unresolved issues from the past that can sabotage your present and future relationships – then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

In this Masterclass, we’ll support you in recognizing the challenges you’re experiencing right now that are getting in the way of your Love Vision and heal them so you can BE the women who can walk away from the things that aren’t aligned with what you want.

So you can create your Love Vision NOW! Click HERE to Register!

3) Become the Woman You’ve Always Wanted to Be

This step is about personal transformation.

To attract the love you desire, you need to become the best version of yourself. It’s not about changing who you are, but about evolving into the person who naturally attracts and maintains a healthy, loving relationship.

Here’s how to get started:

Self-Improvement: Invest in your personal growth. This can be through reading, attending seminars, or taking courses. Focus on areas that need improvement, such as communication skills, self-esteem, or emotional intelligence.
Self-Care: Prioritize your well-being. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are non-negotiables. When you feel good, you radiate confidence and positivity.
Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities that you love. This not only makes you more interesting but also allows you to meet like-minded individuals.

Becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be is about aligning your actions, thoughts, and feelings with the person you envision yourself to be. It’s about stepping into your power and living authentically.

4) Manifest It

Manifestation is the process of bringing your vision into reality through focused intention and action. It’s about harnessing the power of your mind to attract what you desire.

And it takes consistency.

Now that sounds nice, but I probably don’t have to tell you that you can’t rely on willpower alone.

You have a finite amount of willpower, and when it runs out, you will go back to what’s comfortable and familiar. Those old patterns and ways of being that may feel good, but aren’t working.

So how do you stay consistent, when will-power runs out?

When you don’t have the resources or energy to stay consistent with your Love Vision, make sure you do something every single day that makes you happy AND is good for you. – Something that connects you to your vision.

Dedicate time each day to your love vision practices.

Whether it’s morning visualization, taking time in a gratitude journal, going for a walk or a bike-ride, whatever makes you happy and gives you back energy. Make it a absolute non-negotiable part of your day.

And remember to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Every step forward is a step closer to your goal!

Creating the love life you desire is a journey, not a sprint. It requires clarity, clearing your blocks, becoming your best self, and manifesting with intention. But most importantly, it requires consistency.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

In order to create your Love Vision, you must BE the woman who aligns with that vision AND take steps that will support you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

If you’d like even more, join us next Saturday, July 20th for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

This 3-hour exclusive training will support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

Click here to Register for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

Ready to transform your love life, {{contact.first_name}}? Start today, and watch your love vision become your reality.

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90 Days to True Love: Step-by-Step Guide to Manifest Your Dream Relationship This Summer!

by heartsdesireintl | Jun 7, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Gratitude, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again

by Gladys Diaz

Are you tired of spending another summer single, watching couples enjoy the warm weather while you sit on the sidelines?

Imagine what it would feel like to finally manifest the love you’ve always dreamed of in just 90 days. Yes, it’s possible, and we’re here to show you how.

Welcome to the ultimate guide on manifesting your Love Vision – THIS Summer. By following these steps, you’ll be on your way to manifesting a love that aligns perfectly with your vision and values.

This isn’t about wishful thinking or waiting for fate to intervene. It’s about taking control, making deliberate choices, and attracting the partner who aligns with your deepest values and desires.

Step 1: Crystalize Your Love Vision

The first step in manifesting your true love is to get crystal clear about what you want. This isn’t a vague list of qualities like “kind” or “funny.” I mean a detailed, vivid picture of your ideal relationship.

Visualize your Love Vision – What you want to experience inside the Relationship of Your Dreams:

What values does your ideal partner hold?

How do you feel when you’re with him?

What types of activities do you like to do together?

What are your shared goals and dreams?

Write It Down. Create a vision board or a detailed journal entry that describes your ideal relationship in every detail.

The more specific you are, the better. This exercise isn’t just about dreaming – it’s about setting a clear intention for what you want to attract.

Step 2: Clear Out Emotional Clutter

You can’t attract true love if you’re carrying around emotional baggage from the past. Toxic emotions like resentment, fear, and doubt act like invisible barriers, blocking you from being able to create the love you desire.

Identify and Release Toxic Emotions:

Reflect on past relationships and identify any unresolved emotions.
Practice forgiveness – Let go of the past to make room for the future.
Replace these negative thoughts with new positive beliefs. Every morning, remind yourself that you are worthy of love and that your ideal partner is on their way to you.

Step 3: Take Inspired Action

Manifestation isn’t about sitting back and waiting for things to happen. It’s about taking inspired action that aligns with your love vision.

Put Yourself Out There:

Join social clubs, attend events, and put yourself in situations where you can meet new people.
Update your online dating profile to reflect your true self and what you’re looking for.
Let people in your life who you know well, that you’re ready to create an incredible relationship if they know anyone that may be a fit for you.

No matter where you meet, be genuine in your interactions. Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to attract a partner. Authenticity attracts authenticity.

Step 4: Cultivate an Abundance Mindset

Love is abundant, and there’s more than enough for everyone – including you. An abundance mindset is crucial for attracting the right partner.

Complaining is one of the most toxic love barriers because it keeps you focused on what you don’t want. When you complain you’re creating more energy of what you don’t want.

Instead of focusing on what you lack, focus on what you have to offer. Celebrate the love you see around you instead of feeling envious.

Incorporate a practice of gratitude. Every day, write down three things you’re grateful for. This practice will help you focus on the positive aspects of your life and attract more of the same.

Step 5: Trust the Process

It’s possible to manifest your Love Vision in the next 90 days! So many of the women in our community who have created real love and are now happily married and in love!

Trust that the universe is working in your favor, even if you can’t see the results right away.

Keep your thoughts and actions aligned with your love vision, resist the urge to settle for less than what you truly want, and be open to unexpected opportunities. Sometimes, love comes in unexpected ways. Be open to new experiences and people who might not fit your original idea of “the one.”

Success Stories: Proof That It Works

Let’s look at some real-life examples of women who followed this process and found true love:

Jada’s Story

Jada was a successful professional who struggled to find a partner who matched her values. By following these steps, she met Billy, a man who shared her passion for travel and personal growth. Within just a few short months, they were inseparable and just recently got engaged! They just bought a house and are creating a home and family together.

Emma’s Journey

Emma had almost given up on love after a divorce and series of bad relationships. By clearing out her emotional clutter and taking inspired action, she met Ryan at the gym, they started dating, and just a couple months later knew she’d found the relationship she’d been yearning for. Through working through her self-sabotaging patterns, knowing what she wanted and standing in her Love Vision, she attracted and has created her dream relationship and life.

YOUR Summer of Love Awaits

This summer doesn’t have to be another season of disappointment and loneliness. By following these steps, you can manifest your true love in just 90 days!

Remember, it’s about clarity, action, and trust. Your ideal partner is out there, looking for you too.

You have the opportunity to go even deeper with this in the Manifest Your Love Vision NOW Challenge!

By the End of the Challenge, You’ll Be Empowered to:

🌟 Break through the fears, limiting beliefs, and self-sabotaging patterns that have stopped you from having the loving relationship you want

🌟 Create a crystal-clear vision of the loving relationship you want so that you can manifest it with power, grace, and ease

🌟 Develop a step-by-step plan that will enable you to live in the relationship of your dreams this summer and beyond

Don’t wait for another summer to pass you by! In 90 days you can find out what’s in your way, learn how to transform it and manifest your dream man and relationship!

Register for the Challenge and make this the summer the time you finally manifest your love vision.

Here’s to a summer of true love and lasting happiness!

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From Playful Banter to Lasting Connection: Tips for Fun & Successful Dating

by heartsdesireintl | Mar 15, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Romance, Self-Love, Success

by Gladys Diaz

Flirting.

What comes to mind when you hear that word?

Is it fun? Does it feel uncomfortable? Can it be confusing?

Whether you’re flirting in person, over the phone, or through text, this will support you to know what flirting is – and isn’t – and how to flirt with authenticity, confidence and magnetism!

After-all – those are the keys to a man’s attention and heart!

Flirting lets a man know you’re interested and is a powerful tool in dating. It’s the subtle art of communication that can ignite sparks, create interest, and open the door for deeper connection.

But in today’s world, where the digital space is where a lot of interactions begin, has the art of flirting lost its charm? Let’s talk about flirting and its significance in modern dating.

Flirting, at its core, is about playful communication. It’s light and fun non-verbal and verbal exchange that conveys interest, attraction, and availability. From a coy smile to a witty remark, flirting is the language of romantic interest, and mastering it can significantly enhance your dating experiences.

One of the key aspects of flirting is body language. A subtle touch, maintaining eye contact, smiling, or leaning in during a conversation lets a man know you’re interested and are enjoying his company. Body language often speaks louder than words, and being attuned to these cues can help you gauge interest and respond accordingly.

Although body language is important, expressing yourself authentically with confidence and grace is important to let a man know you’re enjoying getting to know him. Men don’t like to feel rejected any more than women do and if he’s at all unsure that you want to see him again, chances are, he won’t ask.

If you’re having fun and enjoying being with him during a conversation or on a date, say so. Say things like:

“I’m having fun!”

“I’m enjoying getting to know you, I’d love to chat with you on the phone.”

“That was a great choice of a restaurant!”

“Thank you for planning such a fun date.”

“I’d love to see you again!”

Relax into your feminine receptive energy and allow him to lead the conversation, but be authentic and let him know if you’re enjoying yourself. Humor is also a powerful tool in flirting, as it shows confidence and a lighthearted attitude, both of which are attractive qualities.

Flirting isn’t just about being playful; it’s also about being attentive. Listening attentively, asking thoughtful questions, and showing genuine interest go a long way in creating a connection.

Flirting isn’t about following rules or playing games – it’s simply about being yourself, showing interest and having fun.

Flirting can sometimes feel confusing because of mixed signals and misinterpretations. It’s essential to be mindful of the other person’s boundaries and comfort levels, and also not be afraid to share your own. What may be playful banter to one person may be seen as intrusive or inappropriate to another.

If the flirting becomes sexual in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it’s important to say so. Without lashing out or becoming defensive, you can say something like, “I get that you’re trying to be funny, but that type of talk makes me feel uncomfortable when I’m simply trying to get to know you.”

If it doesn’t stop, you can clearly say, “Thank you, this isn’t a match for me.” And next.

In conclusion, flirting enhances your dating experience and creates memorable connections. Whether you’re exchanging playful banter over a coffee, sending witty texts late into the night, or engaging in flirtatious body language, flirting is about creating moments of connection, fun, and shared laughter.

It’s about being light, fun, free, confident and your authentic Self!

If you’d like to be able to show up this way in all of your interactions in life – confident, authentic, and magnetic – then join us next week for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU 5-Day Challenge!

The Love You Deserve Is Waiting for YOU!

Over these five days, we’ll share with you the same steps we’ve used to help thousands of women across the globe attract and create Extraordinary Love using the same skills we used to create the deeply loving, lasting marriages we’ve always wanted with our husbands!

In just five days, your love life can be transformed into the happy, fulfilling experience your heart desires!

Click HERE to Register for the BE-YOU-tifully YOU Challenge that begins on March 18th, 2024!

Next time you’re out on a date, remember to embrace the art of flirting – you never know where it might lead.

How to Trust Men so you Can Experience Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Feb 12, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, heartache, Infidelity, Loss of a Spouse, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

One of the top things we hear from successful, driven, passionate women like you, is that they have a hard time trusting men.

Can you relate?

Have you been hurt, lied to or had your dreams shattered by someone you thought loved you?

Perhaps your parents got divorced or someone betrayed you as a child – and you’ve struggled trusting others ever since.

Then there’s all the Tinder Swindler and Dirty John reality shows and documentaries about the men who are scamming, lying, and cheating and when all of that’s out there – how can you feel that you can really trust a man?

We know this is all there for you and we also know that if you desire a relationship where you feel safe, trust must be present.

Trustworthy men are out there and you deserve to be loved by one of them – now!

So where does trust begin?

Real trust comes first, from truly trusting yourself to make the choices in your life that will lead you to where you want to go.

You can only trust others to the extent that you trust yourself. It starts from within.

Lack of self-trust leaves you feeling disempowered and afraid.
It impacts your ability to be vulnerable and truly connect.
It makes true intimacy impossible.
And when you can’t trust yourself, life becomes a lot more scary than it actually is!

Whether you’re looking for a love that will take you around the world, bring you children and an expanded family or simply love and support you in your already amazing life…

You want extraordinary love with a wonderful man who’ll be the best match for you and all of your hopes and dreams.

If this is what you want – Join us this Thursday for an Encore Presentation of the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

The truth is – when you don’t trust yourself, what chooses for you isn’t really you.

What chooses instead, are your fears.

Your thoughts that you’re not good enough…

The fear of ending up alone forever…

Remembering all the “wrong” men you’ve attracted in the past and disbelief that anything will ever be any different.

Thinking you’ll be taken advantage of like you were before…

When these are the thoughts swirling around in your mind it’s debilitating and life and love feel scary.

So how do you break through these fears and begin to trust you again?

Acceptance. First you get to accept yourself and everything about your past.

If you allow your past to determine your future you’ll always feel like you have something to prove, like there’s something to overcome, like you have to work to not become your mother or make the same mistakes you’ve already made.

Your past doesn’t have to define you, tell you who you are or let you know what you can expect of your future.
Forgiveness. Second, you get to forgive the version of you that chose the painful experiences of the past so you can heal and move forward.

You get to remove the emotional charge behind the memories so that they no longer have power to influence your present and future.
Clarity. After you’ve healed your past you can stand powerfully in who you are in the present. Then, and only then, can you be clear about what you want for your future.

Once you have crystal clarity around what it is that you want to experience in a relationship, you’ll be able to stand for the man and relationship you want instead of settling for whatever’s there.

It’s incredible what opens up when you’re able to accept and love yourself fully!

When you know what you want and can be yourself without reservation you feel happier and more comfortable with yourself because the real you is showing up!

Your intuition becomes stronger and you’re more and more able to be powerful in life and love making the decisions that are right for you quickly and without reservation or doubt.

You’re able to attract the type of men that you WANT to be with, who will be deserving of your trust and commitment and that want to be with the real you too!

If that’s something you want, then join us Thursday for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

In this special, encore presentation of the fun, interactive workshop, you’ll:

Break through the patterns that have been sabotaging your love life and relationships
Tap into your Irresistible Essence so you can easily attract and keep the man for YOU!
Discover how to manifest the life and love your heart desires so you can create the happy, loving relationship you want NOW

Join us this week in commemorating the LAST Valentine’s Day you’ll spend without the love of your life! Click HERE register for this free event!

Once you register, you’ll receive love coaching messages so you can be on the road to experiencing Extraordinary Love NOW!

From Sabotage to Success: How to Believe You Can Have It ALL!

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 20, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

“What happens when it all goes to (you know where)?!”

Do you ever have the feeling that something bad is inevitably going to happen, even when things are going great?

Things are going really well…

… but somewhere in the back of your mind there’s a little voice that’s saying, “Is this too good to be true?”

If that ever happens to you – listen up.

You have a fear or a limiting belief that when things are good, eventually they’re going to fall apart or go wrong.

Sound familiar?

We see this all the time with our clients – and we’ve experienced it many times ourselves!

You’re just about to have your breakthrough – and you’ll self-sabotage.

Or things are going better than ever, in your job, your relationship, financially – and then you start to doubt and it all falls apart.

Here’s the thing…

If you find yourself feeling uncertain, confused or like you don’t know what to do, there’s one thing that’s happening under all of it.

You’re having a worthiness conversation.

You’re wondering…

“Can I really have this?”

“Can I trust myself to be able to create this?”

“Can I actually handle all of this goodness?!”

At some point you created a belief that has you believe you can’t actually have the things you want.

If you ever worry that you’ll have to “settle”…

Then you don’t actually believe you can have exactly what you want.

If you worry that even if you do meet him, it won’t last…

Then deep down you don’t believe you can have and keep the relationship that you want.

So how do you shift these sabotaging thought patterns?

Ask yourself these three questions:

What am I afraid of?
What created that belief?
Where did the belief come from?

The first step to dismantling a belief that’s not serving you is to uncover what your current beliefs are.

Once you understand what the belief is and where it came from, then you can begin to do the HeartWork to break apart the belief and dismantle it in order to create a new belief.

And not just an affirmation or nice idea…

We mean NEW neural pathways in your brain that actually transform the belief in the cells of your body so you begin to attract and manifest exactly what you want – and know that you can have it!

This is exactly what we do at the Extraordinary Love Intensive, which is coming up in February 2024!

3 full days of shifting these dysfunctional patterns so that you can create everything you want NOW!

The event is life-changing because I promise you, if this is impacting your love life, it’s impacting other areas, finances, career, family relationships, too.

If you want to start your New Year empowered to create everything you want (and more!) then click below to claim your ticket for the Extraordinary Love Intensive!

YES! I Want to Create Extraordinary Love in 2024!

Every single moment of every single day is an opportunity to have a breakthrough and transform an area of your life.

The Key to Love, Confidence and Empowerment!

by heartsdesireintl | Dec 1, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

What’s the key to true love?

Many women think it lies in finding the right person or having a perfected list of qualities you’re looking for in a partner.

Some think it’s about where or how you meet the person, while others think the key is in “divine timing.”

What we’ve found from working with women of every age, from many countries, and all backgrounds is that there is one thing that truly separates the women that create the loving, intimate, long term relationship they desire and those who don’t.

The key to creating true love with another person is creating true love within yourself first.

That’s why we created the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle! The course begins TODAY, so now is your LAST chance to claim this before it’s gone for good!

Click HERE for the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle!

Now, we’re not talking about self-care, though we do encourage doing all the things that fill you up and nourish your soul.

Self-love is deeper.

Self-love is about the relationship you have with yourself.

Real Self-Love is:

The things you say about and to yourself
Feeling comfortable with the most intimate parts of who you are
The beliefs you hold about yourself
The way you trust who you are and how you feel
Loving and accepting every part of you, even the parts of you you’re afraid others may not like
Bringing forgiveness and acceptance to your past.

True self-love creates confidence, trust and the ability to create the things you most deeply desire.

This is important whether you’re single, in a relationship, or in a relationship that isn’t everything you hoped it would be.

The relationship you have with yourself will be reflected in the relationships you create with other people.

We know that knowing exactly what to do and how to do it brings incredible amounts of confidence, joy, and empowerment, because the relationship you have with yourself is the ONE thing you have total control over.

Everything starts with you.

And that’s GREAT news!

When I was in the midst of my own journey to self-love, everything in my life looked perfect on the outside.

I had the job, I had great kids, I traveled with my girlfriends, and I was dating a lot — though none of those dating experiences ever went very far.

Men would always tell me that I had an amazing life and was an amazing woman, but that they knew they just couldn’t give me what I wanted.

I felt so confused and wondered why –

If my life was so awesome, how could I still come home at night and feel so miserable and lonely and alone?

Once I did the HeartWork I realized that all I wanted was someone to validate that I was lovable, when what I really needed was to create that love inside myself first.

Recognizing that belief, uncovering where it came from, and creating something different within myself was such a transformative experience that it’s literally why we started doing the work that we do.

We want every single woman to create the love and relationship that she deserves and desires, and we want it for you RIGHT NOW!

That’s why Gladys and I put together this insane Black Friday bundle AND why we extended the sale through TODAY (goes away FOR GOOD at midnight EST)!

Imagine breaking through the things that are blocking you from creating new love and creating the opening to call in the relationship of your dreams NOW.

When women work with us they create new jobs, receive promotions, manifest new homes, and create the relationship of their dreams — and you’re getting the opportunity to work with us for just $87!

If you’re ready to create a deeply loving, profound, and powerful relationship with yourself that will have you create the life and love you really want, then grab the Radiant and Ready for Love Bundle before it goes away TODAY!

The Radiant YOU 21 Day program begins TODAY – so now is your last chance!

CLICK HERE TO JOIN US NOW!

When you dive into all this bundle includes you’ll have exactly what you need to create everything your heart desires!

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