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Break Old Patterns and Attract Real Love This Year

by heartsdesireintl | Jan 6, 2025 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Romance, Success, Successful Women

by Michelle Roza

As we step into this brand New Year, it’s natural to reflect on your goals and envision the life you want to create.

For the highly driven, successful woman, the process of setting intentions comes naturally—but when it comes to love, the path may feel less clear.

You’ve mastered the art of ambition and accomplishment, yet in matters of the heart, old patterns or unanswered questions may linger:

Am I choosing the right partners, or am I settling too soon?

Why does it sometimes feel like I’m doing all the work in relationships?

How can I align my success in life with the success I want in love?

If any of these resonate with you, you’re not alone. That’s why we’re inviting you to revisit one of our most impactful Love Chats of 2024: “Attaching Too Soon? Discover the Path to Manifesting True Love!”

This isn’t just a replay; it’s a blueprint for slowing down, recalibrating, and creating space for the extraordinary relationship you deserve in 2025.

Are You Attaching Too Soon?

Let’s talk about one of the biggest pitfalls in modern dating: attaching too soon.

As women, we often feel the pressure to make things “work” with someone who shows potential. But attaching prematurely can lead to:

Emotional Overinvestment: Giving more than you’re receiving before a true connection is established.
Clouded Judgment: Overlooking red flags because you’re focused on making it work.
Missed Opportunities: Becoming unavailable for the right partner because you’ve settled for the wrong one.

Here you’ll discover why this happens, how to recognize the signs, and—most importantly—how to shift the dynamic so you can attract a partner who truly aligns with your values, vision, and worth.

Slowing Down to Speed Up Your Results

In your career, you likely rely on planning, strategy, and calculated risks to achieve your goals. So why not apply that same intentionality to your love life? Slowing down allows you to:

Evaluate Compatibility: Are your values, visions, and goals aligned?
Build Genuine Connection: Take the time to truly understand the person in front of you.
Stay in Your Power: Keep your standards high and ensure you’re choosing from a place of clarity, not scarcity.

When you slow down, you give yourself the space to make empowered decisions—and that’s where extraordinary love begins.

The Secrets to Manifesting True Love in 2025

Here are some key strategies to implement to create the love you deserve in the New Year:

1. Get Clear on Your Love Vision

What does the relationship of your dreams look like? How do you want to feel in it? Take time to define your vision and ensure it aligns with your deepest values.

2. Let Go of Old Patterns

Are you repeating habits that no longer serve you? Whether it’s over-giving, tolerating emotional unavailability, or doubting your worth, now is the time to break free.

3. Practice Patience and Discernment

Not every connection is meant to last, and that’s okay. Give yourself permission to walk away from relationships that don’t align with your vision.

4. Stay Consistent with Your Standards

Being magnetic in love isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about owning your worth and holding firm to what you truly deserve.

While this Love Chat originally aired last summer, its lessons are more relevant than ever as we step into this new year. This is your chance to reflect on the past, recalibrate your intentions, and commit to making 2025 the year you attract and create the love you’ve been dreaming of.

💡 Click here to watch this impactful Love Chat:

Grab a notebook, tune in, and think about how you can implement these powerful insights into your own journey.

Looking Ahead to 2025

This is your time to take control of your love life, just as you’ve mastered other areas of your life. At Heart’s Desire International, we’re here to guide and support you every step of the way.

Here’s what you can expect from us in 2025:

✨ Workshops and Trainings: Learn actionable strategies to create the extraordinary relationship you deserve.
✨ Personalized Coaching: Break through barriers with one-on-one support tailored to your unique journey.
✨ More Love Chats: Join us every single Tuesday at 6pm ET for real conversations designed to empower you and inspire breakthroughs.

Your Extraordinary Love Story Awaits

The key to manifesting true love in 2025 is already within you.

By slowing down, getting clear, and taking intentional action, you’ll attract a relationship that reflects your worth, values, and vision.

Let this Love Chat With The Love Twins inspire and empower you to make bold moves in your love life this year.

Click here to watch “Attaching Too Soon? Discover the Path to Manifesting True Love!”

Here’s to making 2025 your most extraordinary year yet. We can’t wait to see all the love, joy, and connection you’ll create!

How to Create Your Dream Love Story: Consistent Steps to Heartfelt Success!

by heartsdesireintl | Jul 5, 2024 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, Getting engaged, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

Are you ready to revolutionize your love life and create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Imagine a life filled with passion, deep connection, and a partner who cherishes you every single day.

Sounds like a fairy tale, right? Well, it doesn’t have to be.

We’re here to tell you that you can manifest this reality, but it requires more than just hoping and dreaming. It demands clarity, determination, and consistent action.

So how do you create that consistency, no matter what you may be experiencing in your daily life?

1) Get Clear on What You Want

The first step to creating your love vision is to get crystal clear on what you want. Why?

Your brain is always looking for what’s familiar, even if it’s not what you want, and when you go for comfort and familiarity, you repeat the past. You go back to the same guy, or you attract a new man who reminds you of someone from your past.

Here’s the thing – Your Love Vision gets to be bigger than one guy or your past!

So how do you get clear on what you want?

Start by asking yourself some deep, introspective questions:

When I’m in the Relationship of My Dreams, what are three things you want to experience?
How do I want to feel in my relationship?
What values and interests should we share?

Take time to write these down. Be specific.

Don’t just settle for “I want someone who loves me.” Dig deeper. Get detailed!

Do you want a relationship that’s full of adventure, support, and travel?

A relationship where you both value personal growth, where you share a positive outlook on life and work together to create the life you truly want?

Clarity is power. The more precise you are, the easier it is for the universe (and your subconscious mind) to align with your desires. When you know exactly what you want, you create a clear target to aim for.

2) Move Out of What’s Blocking You

Now that you know what you want, it’s time to clear the path.

This step is all about identifying and removing the blocks that have been holding you back. These blocks can be limiting beliefs, past traumas, or even negative patterns you’ve picked up over the years.

Moving out of your blocks is like clearing the debris from a path; it allows you to walk smoothly towards your goal without tripping over old baggage.

If you’d like to identify your blocks, challenge beliefs that aren’t working, heal unresolved issues from the past that can sabotage your present and future relationships – then join us for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

In this Masterclass, we’ll support you in recognizing the challenges you’re experiencing right now that are getting in the way of your Love Vision and heal them so you can BE the women who can walk away from the things that aren’t aligned with what you want.

So you can create your Love Vision NOW! Click HERE to Register!

3) Become the Woman You’ve Always Wanted to Be

This step is about personal transformation.

To attract the love you desire, you need to become the best version of yourself. It’s not about changing who you are, but about evolving into the person who naturally attracts and maintains a healthy, loving relationship.

Here’s how to get started:

Self-Improvement: Invest in your personal growth. This can be through reading, attending seminars, or taking courses. Focus on areas that need improvement, such as communication skills, self-esteem, or emotional intelligence.
Self-Care: Prioritize your well-being. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are non-negotiables. When you feel good, you radiate confidence and positivity.
Hobbies and Interests: Engage in activities that you love. This not only makes you more interesting but also allows you to meet like-minded individuals.

Becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be is about aligning your actions, thoughts, and feelings with the person you envision yourself to be. It’s about stepping into your power and living authentically.

4) Manifest It

Manifestation is the process of bringing your vision into reality through focused intention and action. It’s about harnessing the power of your mind to attract what you desire.

And it takes consistency.

Now that sounds nice, but I probably don’t have to tell you that you can’t rely on willpower alone.

You have a finite amount of willpower, and when it runs out, you will go back to what’s comfortable and familiar. Those old patterns and ways of being that may feel good, but aren’t working.

So how do you stay consistent, when will-power runs out?

When you don’t have the resources or energy to stay consistent with your Love Vision, make sure you do something every single day that makes you happy AND is good for you. – Something that connects you to your vision.

Dedicate time each day to your love vision practices.

Whether it’s morning visualization, taking time in a gratitude journal, going for a walk or a bike-ride, whatever makes you happy and gives you back energy. Make it a absolute non-negotiable part of your day.

And remember to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Every step forward is a step closer to your goal!

Creating the love life you desire is a journey, not a sprint. It requires clarity, clearing your blocks, becoming your best self, and manifesting with intention. But most importantly, it requires consistency.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

In order to create your Love Vision, you must BE the woman who aligns with that vision AND take steps that will support you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you’ll be well on your way to unlocking the love of your life.

If you’d like even more, join us next Saturday, July 20th for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

This 3-hour exclusive training will support you in getting crystal-clear on who you are and the kind of experience you want to have in a loving relationship so that you attract and create the Relationship of Your Dreams with the man who is going to love you for the rest of your life!

Click here to Register for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

Ready to transform your love life, {{contact.first_name}}? Start today, and watch your love vision become your reality.

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How to Trust Men so you Can Experience Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Feb 12, 2024 | Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, heartache, Infidelity, Loss of a Spouse, Love, Marriage, Ready to Love Again, Self-Love, Success

by Michelle Roza

One of the top things we hear from successful, driven, passionate women like you, is that they have a hard time trusting men.

Can you relate?

Have you been hurt, lied to or had your dreams shattered by someone you thought loved you?

Perhaps your parents got divorced or someone betrayed you as a child – and you’ve struggled trusting others ever since.

Then there’s all the Tinder Swindler and Dirty John reality shows and documentaries about the men who are scamming, lying, and cheating and when all of that’s out there – how can you feel that you can really trust a man?

We know this is all there for you and we also know that if you desire a relationship where you feel safe, trust must be present.

Trustworthy men are out there and you deserve to be loved by one of them – now!

So where does trust begin?

Real trust comes first, from truly trusting yourself to make the choices in your life that will lead you to where you want to go.

You can only trust others to the extent that you trust yourself. It starts from within.

Lack of self-trust leaves you feeling disempowered and afraid.
It impacts your ability to be vulnerable and truly connect.
It makes true intimacy impossible.
And when you can’t trust yourself, life becomes a lot more scary than it actually is!

Whether you’re looking for a love that will take you around the world, bring you children and an expanded family or simply love and support you in your already amazing life…

You want extraordinary love with a wonderful man who’ll be the best match for you and all of your hopes and dreams.

If this is what you want – Join us this Thursday for an Encore Presentation of the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

The truth is – when you don’t trust yourself, what chooses for you isn’t really you.

What chooses instead, are your fears.

Your thoughts that you’re not good enough…

The fear of ending up alone forever…

Remembering all the “wrong” men you’ve attracted in the past and disbelief that anything will ever be any different.

Thinking you’ll be taken advantage of like you were before…

When these are the thoughts swirling around in your mind it’s debilitating and life and love feel scary.

So how do you break through these fears and begin to trust you again?

Acceptance. First you get to accept yourself and everything about your past.

If you allow your past to determine your future you’ll always feel like you have something to prove, like there’s something to overcome, like you have to work to not become your mother or make the same mistakes you’ve already made.

Your past doesn’t have to define you, tell you who you are or let you know what you can expect of your future.
Forgiveness. Second, you get to forgive the version of you that chose the painful experiences of the past so you can heal and move forward.

You get to remove the emotional charge behind the memories so that they no longer have power to influence your present and future.
Clarity. After you’ve healed your past you can stand powerfully in who you are in the present. Then, and only then, can you be clear about what you want for your future.

Once you have crystal clarity around what it is that you want to experience in a relationship, you’ll be able to stand for the man and relationship you want instead of settling for whatever’s there.

It’s incredible what opens up when you’re able to accept and love yourself fully!

When you know what you want and can be yourself without reservation you feel happier and more comfortable with yourself because the real you is showing up!

Your intuition becomes stronger and you’re more and more able to be powerful in life and love making the decisions that are right for you quickly and without reservation or doubt.

You’re able to attract the type of men that you WANT to be with, who will be deserving of your trust and commitment and that want to be with the real you too!

If that’s something you want, then join us Thursday for the Extraordinary Love NOW Masterclass!

In this special, encore presentation of the fun, interactive workshop, you’ll:

Break through the patterns that have been sabotaging your love life and relationships
Tap into your Irresistible Essence so you can easily attract and keep the man for YOU!
Discover how to manifest the life and love your heart desires so you can create the happy, loving relationship you want NOW

Join us this week in commemorating the LAST Valentine’s Day you’ll spend without the love of your life! Click HERE register for this free event!

Once you register, you’ll receive love coaching messages so you can be on the road to experiencing Extraordinary Love NOW!

The Ultimate Guide to Creating a Winning Dating Mindset

by heartsdesireintl | Jul 20, 2023 | Coaching, Communication, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Intimacy, keeping the love alive, Love, Ready to Love Again

by Gladys Diaz

Do you want to be in the relationship of your dreams – with the man who’s going to hold you, cherish you and enrich your life for the rest of his life?

Would you like to know the key to creating everything you want in love (and life!)?

What we’re sharing with you today is what will empower you to show-up as the woman you truly are and make it possible for you to create and experience the life and love you want most.

It impacts how you think, how you feel, how you interact with others, what you’re able to make a difference with and what ultimately what you create in life.

The key to success in love (and life) is your mindset.

If you’re experiencing a lack of power in a certain area of your life, it means that something’s off with your mindset.

And if your mindset isn’t aligned with your vision or commitment, you’ll self-sabotage.

Let’s delve into the transformative power of mindset.

Uncover Your Beliefs, Desires and the Conflict Between Them

When you uncover and replace the limiting beliefs that hold you back from dating success, you’re able to transform your mindset and the results you’re experiencing in love.

Negative thoughts and beliefs undermine your self-worth and are what perpetuate self-sabotaging behaviors.

So get curious.

Here’s an exercise you can do to uncover your limiting beliefs and how they’re stopping you from creating what you want in life and love.

Grab a piece of paper and make three columns.
At the top of the columns write these three headers… “My Belief: My Mindset Around Relationships”, “My Desire: My Love Vision” and “The Conflict: What’s Not Aligned”
Think about the thoughts you have. Really think about the words that come to your mind and out of your mouth when you ask yourself what you think is in the way of you creating love. – What is it for you? – Is it your weight? Family Conflicts? Health Issues? Your financial situation? Where you live? The fact that you have kids?
After you write the belief in the first column, move over to the second column and write what it is you want to experience in this area of love.
Take a step back and look at the belief and the desire and you’ll be able to clearly see what the conflict is.

The conflict is what’s getting in the way of you creating the life you desire!

When I was single I had a real conflict around who I was and what I wanted. I was always seeking validation which had me become a chameleon who couldn’t be authentic.

And even though I was creating success at work, receiving promotions and accolades and money – it was never enough.

And I attracted men into my life who were a match for that conflict. Men who were cheaters, who were lying to themselves (and me) about who they were and what they wanted and I didn’t understand why.

Once I did the HeartWork, I replaced these old belief patterns about not being enough or deserving of what I really wanted with empowering beliefs that were aligned with my Love Vision. I attracted the most incredible man I’ve ever met, who’s now my husband!

It came down to healing the conflict that was underneath my limiting beliefs so I could stop having the experience that I was living someone else’s life and create the full life and love I had imagined!

Decide You Are Responsible to Shift Your Mindset

Once you uncover, see and understand the conflict, you must recognize yourself as the one responsible to shift it.

No one else can do it for you!

You have to be willing to do the HeartWork necessary to distinguish, dismantle and replace the limiting beliefs so you can create a winning mindset!

These limiting beliefs usually are healed in layers, but that doesn’t mean it has to take a long time.

Most women that work with us meet the man they end up marrying within 3-9 months of beginning their HeartWork.

That’s how fast you can make these shifts!

Creating a mindset that supports your growth and potential frees you and you become open and available for new possibilities!

You empower yourself to embrace fulfilling relationships that lead to the Relationship of Your Dreams!

Here’s the thing…

In just a couple of months, summer will be over and you’ll either have created the summer love that’s everything you’ve always wanted – or you won’t.

But what if you could?

What if there was a fast way to create your Love Vision?

This is what’s available to you when you grab the Irresistible Bundle that’s available now so you can join us at this year’s Irresistible Woman LIVE!

Here’s what you get inside the bundle:

💜 Ticket to the Irresistible Woman LIVE 3-Day Live Virtual Event – September 29th-October 1st, 2023 ($500 Value)

💜 Irresistible Woman Prep for Love Call ($200 Value)

💜 Attract the RIGHT Man Masterclass Recording ($300 Value)

After you grab your ticket, be ready to have a breakthrough and transform your life!

Click HERE to claim your Irresistible Bundle Now!

You might think you have until September to get your ticket so why grab it now?

I promise you the transformation will begin the moment you take responsibility for shifting your mindset and hit send on the form.

The key to successful dating truly lies within the power of your mindset.

When you uncover the beliefs and conflicts keeping you stuck and commit to shifting your mindset you will cultivate self-confidence, embrace optimism, and ban limiting beliefs.

You’ll heal your body, feel great, have financial security and freedom, live in a home that represents who you are and be able to celebrate the life you’ve created for yourself every single day with the man who will be your greatest champion.

With a transformed mindset, you’ll venture into the world of dating with renewed purpose, ready to unlock the door to truly experiencing the relationship of your dreams NOW!

Rejection Hurts. Here’s How to Break Through Your Fear and Create Extraordinary Love NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | May 7, 2023 | breakups, Coaching, Communication, Dating, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Love, Ready to Love Again, Self-Love

by Gladys Diaz

Do you have a fear of being hurt or rejected?

If you don’t, you must be superhuman, because as human beings, we all deal with this!

And it doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, this message is for you!

It’s a common misconception that, once you get into a relationship, the fear of rejection or getting hurt goes away…

But that’s just not true.

The fear of rejection creates barriers to feeling like yourself and feeling safe in a relationship.

It holds you back from creating deep, intimate connections – whether you’re already in a relationship or seeking to create one.

No matter the reason you have this fear or how it manifests for you, the impact it creates is the same.

Here’s how it works…

You have a fear that something will or won’t happen in the future because of something that did or didn’t happen in the past.

This fear then causes you to react in a certain way, which is a coping mechanism for not getting hurt.

This may look like withdrawing from your partner or pulling back.

It may look like being paralyzed and feeling like you can’t do or say anything because of your fear that it will go badly.

It may look like pretending, acting as if everything is fine, when, actually, you’re feeling completely scared inside.

Here’s how it looked for me.

Because I was scared of being rejected, I was always trying to prove myself.

And it showed up in work, in my relationships, as a mother, everywhere.

My previous marriage was not a happy one.

I remember how I would feel every time I’d come home and put the key up to the door to open it.

Each time, I would stop and feel my chest tighten as I wondered what I was about to encounter on the other side of the door – and hoping that today might be a good day.

My fear of being alone and needing to be accepted caused me to stay in that unhappy relationship where I was treated in ways that are now absolutely unimaginable to me.

I would stay quiet and pretend that everything was fine, and then I couldn’t really understand what was real and what I really wanted.

So why does this matter for you?

Do you accept behavior or communication that isn’t aligned with what you want because you’re afraid of being rejected?

Do you feel like your feelings won’t be validated because you fear you’ll be used or get hurt.

When fear is running the show you feel powerless, and that’s not the way we want you to feel!!

So how do you overcome these fears?

The first thing you need to do is – recognize and acknowledge the fear.

When you recognize yourself in the space where the fear is coming to the surface, ask yourself these two questions.

What is it that you’re afraid of that’s stopping you from having the relationship you want to have?

If I didn’t have this fear and was standing inside my power, who would I be that would allow me to make a different choice?

When you acknowledge your fear, get curious about it and own it – you allow yourself to step into your power and know that you get to choose how you feel and behave.

The truth is…

You can either be run by your fears or run by your ability to choose a different experience.

When you don’t break through your fear, the fear chooses for you!

When you transform yourself – YOU get to choose.

You get to create the Extraordinary Love that you imagine!

If you’d like to overcome your fear of rejection so you can get into the relationship of your dreams by this summer – yes, you read that right, THIS SUMMER…

Then click HERE to schedule a Love Breakthrough Call with one of our fabulous Love Coaches.

Once you transform something, you don’t go back to it.

Take this opportunity for yourself to overcome the fears that are holding you back in love and relationships!

Three Steps to Create Your Big Goals NOW!

by heartsdesireintl | Oct 4, 2022 | Coaching, Dating, Forgiveness, HDI Blog, Heart's Desire International, Intimacy, Love, Ready to Love Again, Relationship, Self-Love, Success, Successful Women

by Gladys Diaz

What were the goals you set in January?

Where did you want to be in your relationship?

We’ve entered the final three months of the year – Woah what?!

When you hear that… Do you feel confronted? Triggered? Excited? Ready?

One of the most important decisions you’ll ever make in your life is regarding your life partner and most of the women in our community have the desire to be married.

Is that a desire you have?

If you answered yes, then how do you stop putting off the dreams that you have?

How do you not make the same mistakes you’ve made in the past?

How do you stop thinking about how much time you’ve wasted and move forward to create the relationship of your dreams now?

Three Steps to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams NOW

1) Bring Acceptance to What Has Happened and Where You Are

Continuing to spend time thinking of what you’ve done in the past is the #1 thing that keeps women stuck.

The only way to move forward and create something you desire for your future is to let go of energy from the past! Let go of who you were before you knew better, what you’ve always attracted, what you’ve put up with or what you thought was what you wanted or deserved.

When you step out of regret your vibration and energy rises so you can attract a man from the energy of the woman you are now!

2) Have the Courage to Believe and Declare You Can Have it NOW

Sometimes when we have a big goal we continue to feel like the little girl in the pool with floaties on. We hang on to what we have always done or known in the past and it gives us a false sense of safety or security.

But nothing extraordinary ever came from staying safe!

In order to create the big goals you have for your life you must declare it!

Admit what you want!

Be free to say it out loud so you will attract the life, adventure and love you desire!

Own what you want, believe you can have it, and declare it boldly through your words and actions!

3) Do What it Takes to Have It

The thing that makes the biggest difference when you’re working towards any dream or goal is consistent guided support and coaching.

You don’t know what you don’t know, so having someone there who knows exactly how to create your heart’s desires telling you exactly what you need to do next makes all the difference in the world!

Having someone there when you hit a wall of disappointment, resistance or fear to pick you up and give you your very next best step – that’s what’s going to have you create the relationship of your dreams!

If you haven’t had a call with one of our Love Breakthrough Coaches yet – click here to schedule a call now!

Our coaches are there for this very purpose – to give you your next best step and support you in taking action towards the extraordinary love that you dream of! They know the HeartWork inside and out and they’re here so you can move forward!

Give yourself this gift and know that you’re on your way.

Don’t hesitate. Don’t overthink it.

Simply click here to book a Love Breakthrough Call!

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